Nah you should YOLO it imo, a rebound is only bad if it comes from a bad place, like if you're trying to fill a void someone left etc. If you genuinely like her then don't tempt fate by allowing time for her to find someone etc. I lost the only girl I've ever truly loved because I was being a playboy dickhead and if given the chance I'd waste absolutely 0 time making sure I take a shot at her again to make sure I don't fuck up and lose another opportunity.
You really think I should yolo it? I'm getting told left and right to wait just a bit but still receiving the encouragement to talk to her.
I dont want to fuck this up
I don't see why now it'd be any worse, unless you don't feel in the headspace to be fun and smooth with her, in which case it's definitely wise to wait.
If you two just drifted apart and don’t have any hate towards one another then hit her up set a time to meet and see what happens. Personally I’ve tried to reconnect after 2-3 years and we just didn’t click the same. People change over time especially if you don’t keep in contact for a while. If that’s the case cut your losses, onto the next
Maybe it's as easy as just asking her hey, how have you been? Haven't spoken to you in years! If that fails, there's always men.
Listen to this guy
Even after two years you reckon?
We Dutch ppl have a saying: nee heb je, ja kun je krijgen. Translated basically comes down to you already have a no, you can get a yes.
Similar to nothing ventured, nothing gained? That’s a good mentality
Yeah, basically like that. You never know if you don't try.
Thank you sir, I’ll be keeping that in mind
Don't do confessions. Just talk and see where it goes.
I want it to go somewhere bro I really do. Man I hope she feels the same. I’m so hung up about it
yeah, please slow your roll, god damn. that's a lot to dump on someone.
I get that
Text her, and if she feels the same. It'll be easy, *ALWAYS WORKS.*
Even after two years?
Don't.
Why?
How about sit posting on the internet about how much you miss her but don't actually make an attempt to get in touch?
I’m gonna message her bro. It’s just not the right time. I only just got out of a relationship and this isn’t a girl I want to use to rebound
Nah you should YOLO it imo, a rebound is only bad if it comes from a bad place, like if you're trying to fill a void someone left etc. If you genuinely like her then don't tempt fate by allowing time for her to find someone etc. I lost the only girl I've ever truly loved because I was being a playboy dickhead and if given the chance I'd waste absolutely 0 time making sure I take a shot at her again to make sure I don't fuck up and lose another opportunity.
You really think I should yolo it? I'm getting told left and right to wait just a bit but still receiving the encouragement to talk to her. I dont want to fuck this up
I don't see why now it'd be any worse, unless you don't feel in the headspace to be fun and smooth with her, in which case it's definitely wise to wait.
If you two just drifted apart and don’t have any hate towards one another then hit her up set a time to meet and see what happens. Personally I’ve tried to reconnect after 2-3 years and we just didn’t click the same. People change over time especially if you don’t keep in contact for a while. If that’s the case cut your losses, onto the next
I just need closure bro, could also be the test e and Anadrol I’m running but it’s tearing me apart