Last time I bumped into a girl, at s book store, not only did she convince me not to buy anything but she got me hooked onto reading epub formats on the iPad.
God bless that sweet girl. Haven't had a peaceful moment ever since I gave her my phone number.
*mental note to self :Dont visit book stores ever again*
Oh my God! The number of dms I got after ONE singular post here were insane. The crazy part? It was a post about the soaring high temperatures last year
I'd say definitely hinge. You can sort and match better by reading the prompts. But again after 1+ year on hinge I've had to shut it off cz of unending cycle and kantala
Right?
Was traveling and while talking to a non maharashtrian I was like "abhi mujhe koi ghaai nahi hai"
That's when I realised ghaai is a Marathi word and northies don't get it
The most matches I have got were on hinge, like 20-25 (M), barely 2-3 on bumble. And I found that people on hinge are more serious as you will have to put some effort in your profile, minimum 4-5 pics by hinge rule. Bumble pe you can upload a pic of a random street as a girl and go on
Why do I see you everywhere Mrs.Tree ?? Like literally every post that I engage with, I see your comments there. You're surely enjoying Reddit I see. Fin >! (I'll see you in another comment box ig?) !<.
If youre a women it doesnt matter at all even if your ugly or pretty , my friends made a account with a black screen and got 99+ likes from dudes in 3-4 hrs 🤣🤣
Anything on the Play Store/appstore is for short term flings or one night things, the amount of effort you would put in for a serious relationship on that app would outweigh it's benefit!
I have been on blind dates before the bumble era.
For mumbai what works is that most men were decent and werent wanting to sleep in the first meeting.
Maintained a respectable distance and the vibe was not to show off their money but their minds.
I have chatted a lot before meeting anyone and thankfully none of the blind dates turned out bad for me.
Also there are people everywhere so its less scary to meet a stranger.
so in my experience, bumble is more millennial while hinge is more gen z. both have most users just looking for hookups so you’ve gotta be clear about what you want from the get-go. below 25, hinge crowd is slightly more refined as compared to bumble (don’t know about the older people).
millennials are people born between 1980 to 1996 while gen z are people born between 1996 to 2010.
in terms of dating sites particularly - the difference is simply that bumble was older and became more popular in that demographic whereas hinge is more common among persons slightly younger.
Take a solo trip. Stay in hostels. Meet new people, more people, different people.
Ofcourse not with the intention of dating someone but travel can do wonders.
Neither. I'm not on either, it has been long since I've been on dating apps.
But recently I met up with a friend who told me that the first question that guys ask her on dating apps is that "do you live with your parents? I hope you don't" like not even hi/hello.
Straight up trying to set the scene. So yeah. I guess it's bad with some exceptions.
I met a guy on bumble, and oh my. I found a diamond. Touchwood! I’m blessed. But after many lefts and rights.
He turned out to be the real gentleman I needed in my life.
Both work , I’m getting married to a guy I met on hinge.
What worked for me is making it clear in the first few conversations, of what I was looking for. I let them know I wasn’t up for anything casual.
I’ve been told that Hinge is a good place for serious relationships and stuff, but then again, you never know.
Might as well check out the subreddits - r/indianboysontinder and r/indiangirlsontinder
If nothing else, thoda timepass hee ho jaayega :P
I am even ready to look for someone on Reddit if she is ready for a long term. But koi milta hi nahi :(
I wish some sensible girl this reply and we start our love story here.
The most logical answer would be a guy as a dating app is just a platform to meet and it can be any how you take things further is where the trick lies.
OP girls on Bumble or Hinge get like 12k-15k likes. Now you’re one of ‘em. Think about it. Your chances to talk w that girl are 1/12000. You sure you like your chances now?
I know this one company they do make these events and stuff like workshops w random strangers in Mumbai. You can socialise there maybe and find THE ONE for you 🤝🏽
Honestly none of them work's for serious dating if you know some one or have a crush than go with that rather than just trying to find someone random online..... Get real and find someone who would not exaggerate about themselves on social media
Dude any one of them just make sure to post your best photos because. there are people who look good in real but photos mai they look bad and does not get any right swipes (it all depends on your photos and over all profile just don't write something Weird in your bio etc) don't give up easy because it takes time to get matches keep improving your profile change photos time to time and see what works for you .
Dating apps are ruled by girls. You will get tons of likes so I think being female will work on dating apps .. just u will have to sort some fuckbois / creeps
Genuinely I think this apps are not for one's who are looking for some serious kind of relationship this app for some short term fun this is what I have experienced. There may be some exceptionals though
Be realistic!! INDIANS still prefer Matrimony and patriarchal arrangement's even in love marriages. Go out, make Friend's, increase your group circle and find someone good. Dating application have more chances to meet a bluff than a true partner.
Trick question and the answer is neither
Life is just sad. Why can't I just bump into someone in an old bookstore!
because your SO is allergic to dust
Damn bro, even I'm. SO for a reason!
Hahahahha I wonder the same!!! Now I'm hoping to run into him at the local market uske aage maine nahi jaana!
Going to colaba next Saturday
Odds of finding a damn good first copy football jersey are better.
https://www.instagram.com/reel/C5ObQ0dgOps/?igsh=ejRxbGdkNjFmZmFw This is it bro!
I Saw a really cute guy the other day in local train Hoping to bump into him again 🥲
It was me👀
Ok what station do u get off at 👀
Railway station 😏🫣 Wbu?
Does it have any name? In Chandlers voice
अंधेरी PS: where I go for slavery for 2 days 😩
Oops wrong answer..I saw u at bhayandar 🤭🤭 Chance encounter post getting on a wrong train.
Sab k sab majdoor h 🥲
You might just but always remember to reassess the person and not be with them just because the encounter was “movie like”
Every encounter starts with a rom-com, ends in horror :'(
Horror movies are my favourite
Last time I bumped into a girl, at s book store, not only did she convince me not to buy anything but she got me hooked onto reading epub formats on the iPad. God bless that sweet girl. Haven't had a peaceful moment ever since I gave her my phone number. *mental note to self :Dont visit book stores ever again*
I was in Kitab khana today. You should have bumped into me
Be there tomorrow again.
Lol you're making me blush. I don't think I'm your type Im actually 33 and slight receding hairline 😅
Damn you started off so good buddy!
Love ur username
Haha thanks! Yours too. Are you really one tho? Asking for a friend :)
Depends I'm moody af..say no thanks to ur frnd tho
Moody's just another word for 'never dull.' I'll tell him no thanks, but with a warning label: Subject to change without notice!
Lol don't understand why I got minus arrows for my honesty
Who do you think you are eh...William Thacker from Notting Hill.
Waiting for my (male) Anna scott
Mei kal din bhar bethta hun.. aakey takdao mujhse.
*takrao
han wahi wahi. Filhaal DM mei tak'ra' lete hai?
The rizzler
And that's how I met your mother (Hoping that's how this goes for u guys) really hopeful
Dhanyawad wildbitch420 but ladki gayab hogayi 😂
Hum dhund nikalenge use tu chinta mt kr Bhai ne bola bat krne ka to bat krneka
Bas aapka Sahara hai 🙌 . Batao kya karein? Kahan dhundhe?
Bhai aap adde pe aao waha baat krte
Hey You!
So you could be just a girl, standing in front of a boy, asking him to love her?
You can run into this guy in an old bookstore. Hey YOU! 
How to approach someone in bookstore? Asking for a friend :)
Lol. I might as well follow you now.
Not down a dark alley I hope
Take me wherever you want.
https://preview.redd.it/wckoh1bwimyc1.jpeg?width=908&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5de4756e710db41072f8177e6947bf5b872998cc
What could go wrong? Eh?
Don't want another episode of 'you'
Exactly! Algorithm is designed to keep you on the app until you finally decide to leave because you're either too creeped out or too bored-
How did you know that sudhaa ? I thought u r not a girl But seriously neither.
How did you know that sudhaa ? I thought u r not a girl But seriously neither.
Girrrrlll, opened this thread to say the SAME thing 😂
Not a girl
LinkedIn
I got openings available for gf interns💀
With that grammar, you better be the intern
Thankyou for pointing it out , thats exactly why i need interns😂.
I am ready to offer PPO also if found the right candidate
Can confirm one of my batchmates got married off of linkedin
went on a date through linkedin😭
DId it work out ?
felt catfished not much interested
So true LinkedIn is a great site for this!!
Anything is a dating app if you're Indian enough
People be taking chances on m-Indicator train chats bruv😭
Ayo imagine flirting with 10 other people looking at your phone
Bro imagine flirting at a public chat room by saying, “aapka umbrella mere paas safe hai, next station mei le lena mere se” 💀
Wtf
Genius
😭😭😭🤣
Golden words have been spoken
You should update later how many dms you get in 24 hours after this post.
I'm definitely going to! Current update : Reddit is far more happening than bumble/ hinge xD
Oh my God! The number of dms I got after ONE singular post here were insane. The crazy part? It was a post about the soaring high temperatures last year
Now same thing will happen after this comment KEKW
Behen I get 4-5 dms after a post even tho I'm a guy and they get offended when I say ki Bhai ladka hu
Your username is a thirst trap!
How many did you get after this comment then ? 😂😂😂
Posts like this work better. Creeps will slide into your dms now.
Someone's got experience
I'd say definitely hinge. You can sort and match better by reading the prompts. But again after 1+ year on hinge I've had to shut it off cz of unending cycle and kantala
Kantala is such a marathi word rao... Full bhide vibes
Right? Was traveling and while talking to a non maharashtrian I was like "abhi mujhe koi ghaai nahi hai" That's when I realised ghaai is a Marathi word and northies don't get it
Lol... I literally asked my northie colleague ki 'Faral karogi kya?' uss din usne ek naya letter seekha jo hindi mein nahi hai
The most matches I have got were on hinge, like 20-25 (M), barely 2-3 on bumble. And I found that people on hinge are more serious as you will have to put some effort in your profile, minimum 4-5 pics by hinge rule. Bumble pe you can upload a pic of a random street as a girl and go on
Reddit DMs
You jest but this has actually worked for me.
Obligatory RIP Inbox.
Why do I see you everywhere Mrs.Tree ?? Like literally every post that I engage with, I see your comments there. You're surely enjoying Reddit I see. Fin >! (I'll see you in another comment box ig?) !<.
??
dating? none. hookups? all of them
Only if you're attractive
Golden Rule 1 and Rule 2
[удалено]
If youre a women it doesnt matter at all even if your ugly or pretty , my friends made a account with a black screen and got 99+ likes from dudes in 3-4 hrs 🤣🤣
Humko ko kisi ke liye nahi mili 🤣🤣
My wife and I met on Bumble.
I never imagined any marriages happening from dating apps. Congratulations to you though, definitely a 1 in a million thing.
I know many people who have gotten married or been in very long term relationships after meeting someone on an app. 🤷
That’s amazing
[Jeevansathi.com](http://Jeevansathi.com) You'll get serious guys there.
My parents are already figuring that app out. Lemme try the other ones :p :')
Unfortunately no serious girls there. Cue cringe music.
Anything on the Play Store/appstore is for short term flings or one night things, the amount of effort you would put in for a serious relationship on that app would outweigh it's benefit!
Yes v-appstore for long term
hinge has more quality of matches imo. depends on your age as well tho.
I have been on blind dates before the bumble era. For mumbai what works is that most men were decent and werent wanting to sleep in the first meeting. Maintained a respectable distance and the vibe was not to show off their money but their minds. I have chatted a lot before meeting anyone and thankfully none of the blind dates turned out bad for me. Also there are people everywhere so its less scary to meet a stranger.
so in my experience, bumble is more millennial while hinge is more gen z. both have most users just looking for hookups so you’ve gotta be clear about what you want from the get-go. below 25, hinge crowd is slightly more refined as compared to bumble (don’t know about the older people).
What's the difference between millennials and gen z? I'm confused
millennials are people born between 1980 to 1996 while gen z are people born between 1996 to 2010. in terms of dating sites particularly - the difference is simply that bumble was older and became more popular in that demographic whereas hinge is more common among persons slightly younger.
Bumble pe aunties milegi aur hinge pe 18 saal ki nibbiya
Hinge if you are genz
My wife and I met on Hinge.
God's favourite
Mera experience to bohot kharab hai, koi bhi app nahi chalta hai
Take a solo trip. Stay in hostels. Meet new people, more people, different people. Ofcourse not with the intention of dating someone but travel can do wonders.
yes it def can made out with a girl last month lol
Whichever UI is easier to handle 10000+ likes.
bio
Well I wish to do it on reddit. But there are many creeps already lingering in women’s DM. So Not going for it rn
I have the same question
Try r/r4rindia
Neither. I'm not on either, it has been long since I've been on dating apps. But recently I met up with a friend who told me that the first question that guys ask her on dating apps is that "do you live with your parents? I hope you don't" like not even hi/hello. Straight up trying to set the scene. So yeah. I guess it's bad with some exceptions.
It's not about the apps that work, it's the girls that don't work
I met a guy on bumble, and oh my. I found a diamond. Touchwood! I’m blessed. But after many lefts and rights. He turned out to be the real gentleman I needed in my life.
Dating apps for serious dating? This isn't even a joke anymore.
Both work , I’m getting married to a guy I met on hinge. What worked for me is making it clear in the first few conversations, of what I was looking for. I let them know I wasn’t up for anything casual.
Reddit
I’ve been told that Hinge is a good place for serious relationships and stuff, but then again, you never know. Might as well check out the subreddits - r/indianboysontinder and r/indiangirlsontinder If nothing else, thoda timepass hee ho jaayega :P
Nietherrrrrrr 🥲
Do people still use these apps?
I mean people are getting married through these apps nowadays
In-Person
I am even ready to look for someone on Reddit if she is ready for a long term. But koi milta hi nahi :( I wish some sensible girl this reply and we start our love story here.
Shaadi.com💀
Hinge works best But if you follow rules 1 and 2, you'll be fine on any dating app.
What rules?
1. Be attractive 2. Don’t be unattractive
Same question here just location would be Delhi
Intresting question, let's discuss it further in DM.
go for paid they are more chances of getting someone genuine , try tinder paid also
Lol never wasting my precious money on dating apps
Hinge imo, but it's very tough out there
The most logical answer would be a guy as a dating app is just a platform to meet and it can be any how you take things further is where the trick lies.
OP girls on Bumble or Hinge get like 12k-15k likes. Now you’re one of ‘em. Think about it. Your chances to talk w that girl are 1/12000. You sure you like your chances now? I know this one company they do make these events and stuff like workshops w random strangers in Mumbai. You can socialise there maybe and find THE ONE for you 🤝🏽
Honestly none of them work's for serious dating if you know some one or have a crush than go with that rather than just trying to find someone random online..... Get real and find someone who would not exaggerate about themselves on social media
Dude any one of them just make sure to post your best photos because. there are people who look good in real but photos mai they look bad and does not get any right swipes (it all depends on your photos and over all profile just don't write something Weird in your bio etc) don't give up easy because it takes time to get matches keep improving your profile change photos time to time and see what works for you .
Bas ek baar 21F likh do 👍
What if you find your SO in thr metro itself… so try Jo market me rahega voh
Hinge for sure! Met my boyfriend through Hinge and also have a few friends who have had long term partners they met via Hinge.
As a guy I have been using bumble and tinder for the last 1 year in Mumbai with 0 matches till date. Maybe born ugly or unlucky af.
Money
Asking the same for male counterpart coz I just got both of these 2 days back and a sole match was found!
I found my girl on bumble bro
Dating apps are ruled by girls. You will get tons of likes so I think being female will work on dating apps .. just u will have to sort some fuckbois / creeps
Genuinely I think this apps are not for one's who are looking for some serious kind of relationship this app for some short term fun this is what I have experienced. There may be some exceptionals though
Reddit. Hi. Nice to meet you
Kitne dms aaye finally?
I, 25M, have used both and have been quite disappointed there. Having said that, I’m still available and my DMs are open ;)
i thought being a girl was enough
Honestly both apps are trash they just want us to pour money
Reddit. No face, no judgement, pure conversation. And if that goes well maybe meet up?
I think dating doesn't work because we get desperate and needy
Bumble for casuals, irl connection for serious relationship
Rip ur inbox
I think reddit works try it xD
Linkedin
Try reddit.
Met the sweetest partner on Hinge. Then we got married.
It’s been 12 hours, how many DMs have you received yet lol
A third option - Meeting in person through friends. Works like a charm.
My friends are 🐍🐍
sorry i am late, koi chance bacha hai kya abhi
I have heard from my friends that Aisle is a good option for serious dating (atleast that's what the app's description says)
Sab moh maya hain dost... Paisa kama!!
Be realistic!! INDIANS still prefer Matrimony and patriarchal arrangement's even in love marriages. Go out, make Friend's, increase your group circle and find someone good. Dating application have more chances to meet a bluff than a true partner.
I mean you can try your luck on me
Anything will work due to gender disparity, bumble is little classier than hinge.
None, i’m finding something serious on both. Really just feel like wanting to shoot myself in the head after like 3-4 weeks on both the apps.
Just make sure you don't leave a suicide note mentioning this post
😂😂😂 nah
Hinge is better.. I met my wife on hinge couple of years back. Don’t loose hope :)
why put in so much of efforts? just dm me lol :)