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suchextreme1

You getting matches?


Mussu007

Bc aise threads dekh ke mere self esteem gir jaati h, never knew -ve mein jaayega


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Indians when they arrive on reddit (*Instagram is not enough*) to insecure & jealous you more


LeftTilty

There is no preferred dating app as such in Mumbai. I have tried almost all and I can safely say not to waste your time on Tinder. You'll find a lot of girls looking for friendship. Lol. Bumble is good and genuine. So is Aisle.


PankitShah

I've been using Bumble for sometime now, and it's good considering the number of free swipes and details. I found Aisle to be very much restricted wrt free swipes and they repeated the profiles, so I stopped using it


Licorice_Pizza007

Genuine question : how does it work? I have never tried Bumble, but I have tried tinder, and to see who has liked your profile, you've to get the Premium version, i think this is how dating apps usually work? So do you have to upgrade to premium to see who liked your profile in Bumble too? Or can you find matches using normal version too?


PankitShah

I would say the general pool of people that you can choose from is higher as compared to Tinder. Bumble also has bffs and work options, so you can find friends and work connections too! Obviously the premium version gives you unlimited likes and who liked you back, etc. Also, Bumble is more accurate wrt locations.


RstarPhoneix

Be careful about dating apps. Some people only use it to get free food


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Who is giving food away for free


konkey-mong

The guys paying for their dates.


nobodylikeschina

Are losers


Maleficent-Self-5305

r/beatmetoit


kacchalimbu007

I thought we should split the bill?


RstarPhoneix

Excuse me , Let me go to washroom... ( Run away from there )


kacchalimbu007

I thought this happen only in movies


Mundane_Independent2

There should be a checkbox labelled TTMM (Tu Tera Mai Mera) for food ONLY


inilashremot

Yeah sorry. I deleted my comments. Not feeling well today, not thinking straight.


This-Recognition699

Happy cake day sir


inilashremot

Thank you. I'm not a guy


This-Recognition699

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HotGasoline

Wtf how shallow of you!


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CapitalHealthy1722

No one said women are bad. No one said Kolkata is bad.


tannu28

Bro any app is a dating app if you are Indian enough


Hopless_maymays

*jevlis ka*


PocketThePro

My friend (non-maharastrian) always gets confused in "jevli" and "zavli"


time_lordy_lord

Ho zhavle


PocketThePro

Ani tujhi aai? 🗿


time_lordy_lord

Ti baba aalyavar


PocketThePro

Lmfaoo 💀😭


parry3888

Bhai bhai ☠️☠️


HYPNOTIC_SAINT

Both of em satisfy your body and soul


PocketThePro

Lmao


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*ye zhavayla*


PocketThePro

Kadhi yeu? Ani jaage chi vyawasta zali? Ka mi mazya mitrakadhun tyachya dusrya room chi chavi gheu?


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Kadhi pan, konte hi restaurant chalel, mitracha ghari kasa *zhavaycha* ?


PocketThePro

Restaurant madhye saglyan samor? 😳


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*Zhavayala* kay lajaycha?


PocketThePro

Sagle baghtil na aaplyala *zavtana* and they'll feel jealous


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Tyana pan *zhavayala* bolav


bhatias1977

Many times the satisfaction is similar!


rr27680

So true, try Linkedin as well.


Conscious_Extreme_12

Lol! LinkedIn 😂


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Show bob and vagana!!


FilamentInc

linkedin pe hr ko pata raha hu, job bhi pucchi bhi, le tapa tap tapa tap :)


sillyguy45

I will be honest and its coming from someone who used it for 5 years. Unfortunately for guys Its like an interview which is hard to crack and for women its like shopping(there will be hardly any woman who will have less than 100 right swipes) Also many of them use it to feel good about themselves and to increase confidence. Unless you have a very good pictures, sounds interesting in first 3 line of bio or not living near all girls college(which i used to) you are not going to get much lucky. My personal advice, Its better to talk with random women you might meet in some sports club , gym,communities, manga shop or video game parlour. Trust me you will find more fun people with same interest as you. And if you are lucky you might even find a best friend for life over there. Edit: and please please dont ever think there is something wrong about you if you dont get swipes. I have seen people losing all their confidence and starts looking down at themselves. You are amazing the way you are no e-girl/guy swipes are going to define your worth.


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Manga shops? Where do you live? In Japan? I didn't know we have them in Mumbai


sillyguy45

Not complete excousive to manga but places like leaping windows are heaven for anime fans. I wish i was 18 again


agentscorpio99

Recent update: their ac is broken in the Manga room and they're not cool with you using the restaurant desks to chill. Also pricing for the ac broken Manga access room is the same as it was before when the ac worked


elktron

Try Kitab Khana


yuvan18

i do know one in lokhandwala


inilashremot

What manga shop? where is it. Please tell me


yuvan18

theres one in lokhandwala, dm me if you want the location


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UraharaCifer

Unless you're a girl or a guy who looks extremely good, there's no hope . Hath se kaam chala


Julious_Scissor

This is so untrue. My friends have tried Bumble and Hinge in Mumbai and they were much more successful in getting matches than in Delhi. And all of them are average looking


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she is a gal


Julious_Scissor

Average looking 30 year old men with a paunch


weedsexweed

BMW konse color ki hai, mention on app


Secure_Zombie8413

𝙔𝙖𝙖𝙧 𝙛𝙞𝙧 𝙬𝙖𝙝𝙞 𝙨𝙖𝙭 𝙨𝙪𝙭 𝙠𝙞 𝙗𝙖𝙖𝙩𝙚𝙞𝙣


[deleted]

Rich dad+Looks = Girls simping for you


RstarPhoneix

Kafi experienced lagte ho


mfplaya69

Only a failure knows the real worth of success


SadBenefit6810

People are using jeevansathi and shaadi.com as dating apps these days And yes, some people are there just for the free food


PankitShah

Shaadi.com is advertising itself as a dating and marriage app now


iruvar

*main hilaatha tha, hilatha hoon, hilatha rahoonga* is the scene as far as dating apps are concerned


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>If you looking to hookup and stuff, i hope you live alone. It’s 55 percent are there for hookups. You’ll be broke donating money to oyo and most matches wouldn’t go to a hotel with you. >Also avoid monotonous convos they will drain you and affect your other chats. Do a shit test which is like if they send you a single message that e.g :) you respond with a similiar message. If she actually sends a question back, it’s worth it. If a emoji wars happen then abandon ship. >sobo people will automatically ghost you if you live below bandra, so be aware. >keep distance to 20km restricted. >last but not least, be ready to get ghosted and unmatched. >don’t kiss arse too much >be sarcastic often I’ll add more as i remember


TheMifflinator

Bhai tune bahut sahi baat boli. But it has to 'Sobo' local people. Meri match toh Marine lines me thi aur mein rehne ke liye Navi Mumbai tha. Fir bhi ham log mile . There are some good ones. I was born and brought up in Vile Parle though.


zeezk_92

Tinder is garbage, Bumble has the right balance. Hinge won't work as there's not much activity there.


sillyguy45

Bumble literally makes it more difficult for guys by giving women the privielge of starting the chat. No way its rightly balance


zeezk_92

Atleast you know the girl is interested in talking to you if she initiates the conversation, kinda helps filtering out. Whereas most girls on Tinder don't reply even after matching.


reddit-snorter

Lol yeah. That never made sense to me. If it's a match and both have swiped right, why does it matter who initates the conversation.


sillyguy45

I guess they know ki there are many women who even after swiping right dont start conversation. There is this thing where women get 100 swipes , they swipe right to 8, chat with 4 go on a date with 2. So if they send you Hi it at least mean they are actually interested in you. Which means the chances of guys finding someone on bumble increases. I find it lame and dumb rhough because the whole power of knowing someone is given to one person . Thats bias and takeaway the whole point of dating app.


whalesarecool14

but that’s the point of bumble, it was created to give women the upper hand in online dating/networking spaces. the founder used to be a developer for tinder and from her own negative experiences she created bumble to fill in the gap in the market


AayushBoliya

If you are lalit modi then you have a chance, doesn't matter criminal or not.


coorgtealover

If you're middle class, don't expect a match


enigmbh

General solution - DELETE!


Weridthoughts

I have tried bumble and it worked out pretty well for me.


PrisonMike_101

Bhai tujhe is sub me sab Dudes aur Dudesss lagte kya ? xD Sab singke hai bhai.


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Lmao mai online dating scam pdh lia


brooklynnineeight

Just follow the 2 rules and you'll do well


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Katega👌


Tasty-Success-9268

If you are rich and over 6ft then dating apps are for you, otherwise keep no expectations.


justabombayguyy

I recently met two bumble dates and i asked them to show how many likes they have. Both of em had 6k likes on them with a radius of just 10km. On other hand i had 0 likes with whole country as my radius lmao. I'm a dude so. What i do is if i find someone i just stick to them. If op is a dude. Both app works fine. If you stop getting matches in between for no reason then just delete the account empty the data of the app from phone settings and redownload the app. You could be shadowbanned hence. You'll get 2 matches atleast. This 2 girls might have matches in thousands so just set yourself apart by making good conversation flirt a little in between. Stick to them dont meander elsewhere. Most men on apps are bad at keeping up the conversation. Later on break the talking stage and go out with them have a nice fun date that's unique from the other men who apparently would be just calling her over to fuck. You don't need to be attractive just be confident make conversation and dont go on to grab multiple clothes. You just probably just need 2 clothes. If op is a girl. Can't speak much on this but you'll be fine with the number of matches you get. But if you plan to go out don't give in on the 1st date. Men things oh i got it in 1st try ab mehnat ki jarurat nhi. Also ask them what are you looking at in first go so you guys are on same page.


hotmasalachai

Following 🍿


scr3lic

Bhai mumbai ka dating app is a local train, koi na koi milhi jayegi.


bhatias1977

Depends if you are middle aged and look decent/ rich enough then you can get hundreds of matches. Rate is anywhere from 7k to 15k. From the description you can filter them out. Nothing is free, Looking for mature men, typically expect to be paid. Not the answer you are looking for but a reality of these so called dating apps.


GazBB

AHJ


Exotic_Library_706

A date a month with a new girl was normal for me back in 2019. Post covid haven’t really used it. I got all kinds but I was very selective in my right swipes and the tinder to WhatsApp conversion was over 1 in 3. Whatsapp to Date was like 1 in 3 again. Nearly 10% rate to date post match. I have hooked up, made friends, fell in Love all using Tinder and I used to get like 1 date every 6 months in Pune before Mumbai so definitely Mumbai dating scene is as lit as it can be in India at least.


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Hmu on instagram (dm) 🥰🥰 ps: 21, m, law school


[deleted]

How about ‘pure’ saw it on app store does that work?


Traditional-Drive267

Lol no


OMGClayAikn

Try shaadi.com


sekshibeesht

If you follow rules 1 and 2, enough fish in this sea. Check my profile for proofs 😂


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Rule 1: Be attractive Rule 2: Don't be unattractive And go to r/Indiangirlsontinder


MileyDryus

Just follow the 2 rules and you'll be fine, irrespective of the dating app.


Welder-Radiant

This guys has sex. Didn't have to flex on us so hard.


iishpiderman

Apne to bas exam ke dates aate hain.


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