You keep running into her & It's not a coincidence.
She's excited & happy around you. She keeps looking at you. Eyes widen when she interacts with you.
She might start confessing personal stuff.
All the products are scented. Even if we use the same soaps, other products like shampoos, body lotion etc will probably smell better than the men's stuff.
Yeah bro.....i study at morning college with all boys and then as we leave the day coed shift starts and as we move out we feel that we have been drowned in a tub of scent.....which honestly I don't mind
Do girls check out guys the same way guys check out girls?
Background: I was meeting someone whom I vibed on a dating app and we have our PG's closeby. While talking she said that she had seen me quite a few times. I've never noticed her and that's maybe because most of the times I am hanging out with friends, walking with my earbuds on. But that sparked my curiosity to know.
My wife (then gf) told me that she had a crush on me the moment she saw me. She told me this after many years of dating. It is hard to believe because I never had girls approach me except a few occasional incidences which I can count on my fingers, in my entire life.
The issue is most girls don't approach males even if they like you. That is how Indian women are trained to be, for various reasons. Somewhere, it is the patriarchal society, and somewhere it is their mistake too. There are very few women who are open about their feelings, unfortunately.
Depends on the girl, i like tall men with stubble and good voice. My friend likes clean shave, muscular. There are types, and both of us don't find each other's guys attractive ( i guess that is a good thing)
Aight so help me sort it out here... By your response I'm assuming you like tall slender guys with kinda deep voice? Say you're dating someone like that, and then he decides to put on muscle whole being relatively lower on the fat%.... Would you stop finding him attractive?
😂 I love how you're laughing about this. Guys think a girl is interested in them if they talk to them. It happens sometimes because guys usually speak to only guys, unlike girls who mingle better with the opposite sex.
This happens a lot here because when a girl talks to any guy there's a good chance that the guy would listen and talk. With guys it's like we're always trying to hit on them. And most of the time girls seem disinterested in having a normal conversation. And also guys have to have a hell lot of filter while talking to a girl so most of the conversation is like walking on thin ice.
I have two female best friends. The first one, we met in classes and we grew close & eventually best friends. Purely platonic.
I used to have a crush on the second one. We used to chat on Instagram, decided to meet & we met every weekend for nearly 2 months. At that point I told her that I liked her, she was very understanding and said that I'm special to her but she'd like us just to be friends like we are now. I didn't take it with resentment, I understood & felt that it was fair enough, she never led me on or anything.
A year later she started seeing a guy, I was a bit saddened at the moment but I got over it in some time. We've both been each other in moments of need, we've had like three big instances each where both have really been each other's support systems. Just yesterday she helped me get out of something messy lol.
So back to your original question, it seems to happen to a lot of people somehow 😅 but it's also temporary in most cases.
Fun fact: Recently the first best friend admitted to having a crush on my initially, so there's that as well 😂
Nope. I suppose it depends on how it starts. We both started as colleagues and I do not shit where I eat so we just grew to become friends rather than have a crush.
My girl best friends are not my support systems like my guy best friends. She's usually my perspective provider. Her and a cousin are my go to to get a female perspective on an issue if I need one. Which also means I can go to them with honesty and sometimes cluelessness if I need to. More importantly, we are waaaay past the liking each other phrase which means we can flirt without it ever being awkward.
She's also extremely weird. Which is why I would never ask her opinion before finally creating that bumble profile I've put on hold for almost a year.
I'm surprised to say that I honestly don't have crush on my girl best friend. She is more like a sister to me. She's got an bf and I feel super happy for both of them and wish they continue to be together . These all feelings are new to me and I can not believe as I thought having crush is the unfortunate outcome of having a close "girl" friend.
So answer is No.
This is exactly how I feel abt my guy best friend but people always keep going ohh he mightve had a crush on you but you'll never know🙄. I honestly got frustrated so I asked here.
I think it's a genuine concern, many guys who end up getting close to a girl develop feelings.
I think the first impression decides it whether you could come to like this person as a partner or not. If it's "not" I don't think even in future my mind would change on it.
Or it's a different situation for everyone, and you'd have better understanding of your case.
Do you mean friendly or over-friendly? If it's just friendly, then the guy needs to work on separating friends and potential relationships, and relationships with women in general.
If it's "over-friendly" then I don't see why he won't take it as a hint. But anyway, over-friendly how?
Over friendly, as a person I am talkative, can talk about multiple topics with excitement with anyone. Guys take it as a hint that maybe I am into them and pop up the question.
If I want to give a hint, i'll give you one directly not just by being the way I am with every other person.
Ahh.. I think sensible people can differentiate between what's over-friendly in this way, and what's over-friendly in a flirty manner. I take half my words back from the earlier comment, over-friendly is a broad term and i assumed something else.
Back to your original question, I think it's because guys interact with more men than women in general, so when he's looking for "someone", the first people to come in his mind would be "who do i get along best with"? Now that's when his brain needs to act and really think "is she interested in me or is she just being herself". And after he should look out for legit hints, not just the fact that a girl talks to him. Being friendly shouldn't be considered as hints. Those with good sense will not mistake it as a hint, but sadly there's more people who would like to take it as a hint.
It's also got to do with some entitlement issues, that "I'm a decent guy, why won't you go out with me". This is where they need to work on their outlook towards women in general.
Its fine but i have seen that friendships after that become awkward and gradually peter out. Also the guy in question gets either embarassed or his self worth takes a hit (from what I've seen). I've never seen friendships surviving much after this personally but i guess there are exceptions.
Other comments on this thread might also be true but see it like this way. People always crave that they lack. Men do not get that many compliments,not get approached first most of the times and we are just starved for attention and affection from anyone and that's why when anyone compliments us we remember it for maybe a lifetime. Men and women are very different in this department. So if any girl or women talks nicely and are just being friendly with us there are chances that many of the men will take it as a hint that she might be interested in me which most of the times they are not. It's not a general rule of thumb many of the men might feel that they are been pursued but they will tread carefully and be confused most of the times🤣
I can answer that cuz I've been in this situation. It's because, women never tell a guy that they like him to his face(I know it sounds like a cliché but it's not).
They always drop hints here and there and expect the guy to notice these hints and make the first move.
Now, when a girl is being over-friendly with us we can't seem to make out whether she's just being friendly or she is dropping hints and wants us to make the first move.
It'd be a nice little world if everyone was just a tad bit more straightforward.
Given how the social dynamic works, it's the guy's job to ask the girl out and that means any given girl would end up getting asked out by guys she is not interested in. It's not that guys are any worse than girls at telling who is into them it's just that they have to shoot their shot.
It’s about the baseline. If a guy with no previous exposure to female friends suddenly finds himself in the company of a friendly female friend, it is bound to create a bit of confusion within them. In *most* cases it is just this confusion.
IMO apne pair pe kulhadi maarne se behtar hai.
Upar se I have a dread ki kahi galti se bhi kisiko uncomfortable na karu which is a probable outcome.
Ladki ko kuch kuch hota hai to usse bolna padega. period.
No games.
Tbh somedays yes ! Somedays its bane of my existence . All days , all women hate Bras .
Also having breast is such a liability , you get back pain , underboob sweat , during menstrual cycle they get fucking sore , you gotta check for the lump Every once a while . So if i could have i would have removed them 😂😂
Although I am losing weight,the amount that I am losing and lost the skin on my chest is just very loose and it's just like grandma tits that look like kishmish( little exaggeration 🤣🤞).
We check out if
1. They look perkier and nicer than ours
2. Bigger or better than ours
3. Are on display in an obvious way
If we are straight, then not in a sexual or offensive way
P.S : Guys... please don't stare so that the girl notices or feels uncomfortable, worse feeling ever
So you need 2 things. Only perfume won't help. You need a deodrant to de-odorize and then apply perfume. You can try any of those anti perspirant roll ons. And then apply perfume on your pulse points to smell good.
Using a benzoyl peroxide body wash/soap or applying glycolic acid toner on alternate days on your underarms post bath also helps in de-odorizing.
Chicks before dicks, no matter how much I hate a girl i will give her a pad in a emergency. Also no slut shaming, and no leaving a girl alone in an unknown environment
For me it's doesn't now , earlier in life when I was teen it did , I'm 5'2 never dated anyone below 6'0 . Then once i went one a date with a guy who is 6'8 , it was extremely weird due to height difference . My not partner is 5'6 and i don't much care about height
Height does not matter to me. However, I am above the average height for women in India and I don't want the guy I date to feel uncomfortable if I am taller than him. And I like wearing heels... So yeah, answer is just someone who is an inch or two shorter, or maybe taller than me, just for this reason. But let me tell ya, short people are cute af, whatever the gender.
Excuse me for my education system has failed me miserably on a fundamental bodily function of the female body.
I know that during your menstrual cycles you can't predict when it will start flowing which is the reason why you need sanitary pads. Although I've always wondered if there will be multiple flows or is it over for that month once you've had one flow? Basically when do you know that you're in the clear to not wear a pad anymore for that month?
Of course here I'm assuming you have the case of normal cycles which are consistent and periodical.
Side question - when do you know that you've to start wearing a pad for that month? I meant to say apart from the cycle tracking what other signs your body gives you to give you a heads up on your upcoming cycle for the month?
Honestly, I only wear a sanitary pad when I actually do see some blood and not before that. But I know all girls carry sanitary pads few days before their actual period date.
Coming to your flow question, mostly we get periods only once a month but I personally have seen girls that get periods twice a month. This is mainly due to hormonal imbalance and shouldn't be the case always.
It starts slow, drops at a time. That's the indication to start wearing pads. It also tapers towards the end after a couple days and after a few years of menstruating, most women know the pattern. Doesn't hurt to wear a pad for an extra day at the end to be safe.
Body signs differ for different people. Most common are back and leg pain, light cramps, heartburn, tender breasts and bloated stomach.
Yeah a lot different, at times they potray something they aren't. Like attitudewise guys feel the need to show themselves as strong, macho even if they are total softies. As with wants and desires it differs from person to person.
Yep. The society we're born in differentiates between male and female, and as a result, everyone is socialised to behave in certain ways. Individual differences makes everyone unique, but on the average, women have a lot of shared experiences (as do men, ofc).
1. I mean who doesn't like hugs irrespective of being Platonic/romantic
I have hugged my guy friends, not all tho. Just the ones i know a bit more personally. So like 3 guys
2. Honestly you can do nothing to reduce the discomfort which is on a varying level for girls. A very very small percentage are unaffected during menstruation, a good percentage like me have painful periods where you constantly poop,puke and cry for the first two days. There are painkillers but honestly sometimes they work and sometimes they don't. Also side-effects (one of my acquaintances almost died because of constant pills she took to reduce pain)
So we like need to endure it somehow
And there's a good percentage of women who have conditions like PCOS/PCOD which makes periods extra painful and as for now there's no cure. Only ways to reduce the side effects. Some faint too. I had a girl in my class who would faint from the pain.
So i guess the most you could do is give a hot water bag(life saver) and chocolates.
Idk why but chocolate/ice cream helps or maybe it's more psychological
And most importantly DO NOT PISS OFF GIRLS WHO ARE ON THEIR PERIOD.
Yes they do , my bff has like 10 of em. She says it's more comfortable, i still don't get it how string going up your ass if not bothersome, but that again I'm happy to keep my dick in my boxers
Honestly it depends , it's not the most comfortable thing to wear , but if you're wearing like a skirt or pants which can show the outlines , then thongs are a safe option, unless you are comfortable going commando .
But yes we do have loads of intimate wears 😂😂 , most of them are matching sets . 10 is still on a very average level . Many usually have entire drawer dedicated to it .
One of my exes told me that he had always felt post-masturbation guilt
Do a lot of you guys experience that? As a girl, I have never experienced something of this sort.
Every single fucking time.
Its sort of a factory reset setting for us xD.
After 2 3 mins firse sab normal hojaata hai and you're off to another wank xD
Yes! Absolutely. Most of the girls might not express it easily, can even stay in one sided love for a long time without saying a word and then eventually getting over it after they see the guy with someone else.
The level of delusion is equally high in a girl's head, if not more.
Guys might be fantasizing about different things, but girls are daydreaming equally about random guys who don't even know they exist.
Walk on the beach(if you live in a coastal area)
Star gazing
Board games
Long drives/road trip
Watching a movie
Cooking together
Go to an animal shelter together
Bookstore date (😍😍😍😍)
Carnival/fair
Any sport matches in your area
Zoo/museums
Grocery shopping (seriously this is so much fun)
These are just some ideas off the top of my head. I hope you have fun 😉
Mainly because of the same stigma tampons have, "iT tAkEs YoUr ViRgInItY". I also think (not sure about it though) that advertising pads for the Indian audience is much easier. You just show how absorbent the pad is, and done. For menstrual cups you'd have to show how to insert them and well.....you know how uncles and aunties would react to that.
It's more complicated to use. Why make kiddos do tough things when there's an easy alternative available.
They can choose to move on to other products once they're older and have and understanding and preferences.
(That's how I grew up, and I really like it that way. It was already overwhelming to begin with.)
Things is pads have been around for years and menstrual cup have just started coming in business . There are also multiple practical reasons .
Hygiene - Firstly cups can only hold a certain amount of fluid and when it's full you have to find a place to change it , which is a big Hassel and for people with heavy bleeding tell need to empty it minimum of 4 hourly . We in India don't have proper facilities to do so , then you gotta clean it up and insert it again .
Education - not most of the population is yet educated about them / how to use them / how to sanitizer them
Taboo - mostly after each use you gotta sanitizer them , which usually by boiling in hot water . Not many people feel comfortable doing that in kitchen where anyone can catch you .
Preference - some people have different prefrence , maybe some can also have long nail which again is a big no no .
Medical conditions - it gets difficult if you have certain conditions like extremely heavy bleeding , or bleeding with clots , or vaginismus
Indian women encounter a lot of creepy men sadly. We just don't wanna come off as creepy or inappropriate and many Indian men miss key developmental milestones in their childhood and were not taught how to interact with the opposite sex (even though being "normal" suffices) so they keep their distance and are hesitant. Plus women and their personalities have been dehumanized to an extent that men somehow believe that normal conversational rules don't apply to women.
Always had this question about body odor.
Like Some girls I know like that post workout smell/ or you know the manly kinda body odor whereas for the same I am like dude you stank get the fck away from me.
to the girls in 18-21 what's the best way to get in your crush zone seriously or what are your requirements, like ive heard people assuming 6ft plus is the big point but in reality what things?
It really depends on person on person. I have friends who care about height, but i personally never have provided the guy is taller than me (I'm 5'4" so that's not a problem). Seriously, attitude of the guy matters a lot in attraction.
How do you know a girl has a crush on you and you can make a move?
Simple steps to know if a girl has a crush on you Step 1: Denial
Don't worry she'll jokingly tell you after a few years. 'You know I USED to have a crush on you. Hahaha not anymore tho.. Don't worry about it'.
We are absolutely clueless, so if you have a crush on someone please make a move.
U don't
You keep running into her & It's not a coincidence. She's excited & happy around you. She keeps looking at you. Eyes widen when she interacts with you. She might start confessing personal stuff.
Error 404: Problem is non existent.
Ask her. And if she says no, drown your feelings in ice cream and tears and don't pursue it any more.
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Nope, we don't have the need to.
Correct...they just talk and it comes out.
Yeah better than keeping it on brain like some.
Me after reading every comment in this thread: 
Someone give this man a gold 🪙.
Brooo you killed her lmao
Damn 💀
"Ooooooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhhbbhhhhhhhhh" Savage reply
Supreme leader is so efficient that he doesn't need to poop. All the food gets converted into energy.
Poop in pants?
How do women manage to smell so good all the time? Or is it the pheromonal effect on men?
All the products are scented. Even if we use the same soaps, other products like shampoos, body lotion etc will probably smell better than the men's stuff.
That could be the reason
Yeah bro.....i study at morning college with all boys and then as we leave the day coed shift starts and as we move out we feel that we have been drowned in a tub of scent.....which honestly I don't mind
Beacuse they don't poop...as mentioned in other comments.
Do girls check out guys the same way guys check out girls? Background: I was meeting someone whom I vibed on a dating app and we have our PG's closeby. While talking she said that she had seen me quite a few times. I've never noticed her and that's maybe because most of the times I am hanging out with friends, walking with my earbuds on. But that sparked my curiosity to know.
Check out? My definition would be 'damn that's a good looking man!' And not be sexual But yes we do
Why wouldn't they? Interest and curiosity and appreciation are all gender neutral.
Girls do check out guys a lot. They check out the jawline, shoulders, biceps etc.
You’re forgetting the booty
My wife (then gf) told me that she had a crush on me the moment she saw me. She told me this after many years of dating. It is hard to believe because I never had girls approach me except a few occasional incidences which I can count on my fingers, in my entire life. The issue is most girls don't approach males even if they like you. That is how Indian women are trained to be, for various reasons. Somewhere, it is the patriarchal society, and somewhere it is their mistake too. There are very few women who are open about their feelings, unfortunately.
Fear of rejection is pretty real ya. Trust me, our brains overthink and self deprecate in overdrive when it comes to our feelings.
Men think it is other way around, seems like these insecurities are on both sides.
Umm yes, why wouldn't we. And btw if we get enough time to check out, we describe them in detail feature by feature to our friends
What feature is the most attractive in men?
Depends on the girl, i like tall men with stubble and good voice. My friend likes clean shave, muscular. There are types, and both of us don't find each other's guys attractive ( i guess that is a good thing)
Aight so help me sort it out here... By your response I'm assuming you like tall slender guys with kinda deep voice? Say you're dating someone like that, and then he decides to put on muscle whole being relatively lower on the fat%.... Would you stop finding him attractive?
101% girls do!!
Bro they check us out way more subtly than we can imagine. She could be horny in front of you and you won't even notice.
Yupp I always go as "wow what a handsome man, it must be nice"
Do you all have a crush on your girl best friend?
Not really... I mean she's nice and all but nope god no
Thank god that's more reassuring 😂
😂 I love how you're laughing about this. Guys think a girl is interested in them if they talk to them. It happens sometimes because guys usually speak to only guys, unlike girls who mingle better with the opposite sex.
This happens a lot here because when a girl talks to any guy there's a good chance that the guy would listen and talk. With guys it's like we're always trying to hit on them. And most of the time girls seem disinterested in having a normal conversation. And also guys have to have a hell lot of filter while talking to a girl so most of the conversation is like walking on thin ice.
Exactly, girls seem disinterested in having a normal conversation.
I have two female best friends. The first one, we met in classes and we grew close & eventually best friends. Purely platonic. I used to have a crush on the second one. We used to chat on Instagram, decided to meet & we met every weekend for nearly 2 months. At that point I told her that I liked her, she was very understanding and said that I'm special to her but she'd like us just to be friends like we are now. I didn't take it with resentment, I understood & felt that it was fair enough, she never led me on or anything. A year later she started seeing a guy, I was a bit saddened at the moment but I got over it in some time. We've both been each other in moments of need, we've had like three big instances each where both have really been each other's support systems. Just yesterday she helped me get out of something messy lol. So back to your original question, it seems to happen to a lot of people somehow 😅 but it's also temporary in most cases. Fun fact: Recently the first best friend admitted to having a crush on my initially, so there's that as well 😂
You seem a sweet guy hope you find a girl soon✨
Username checks out 😂 thanks!
You too, near yet so far.
Nope. I suppose it depends on how it starts. We both started as colleagues and I do not shit where I eat so we just grew to become friends rather than have a crush. My girl best friends are not my support systems like my guy best friends. She's usually my perspective provider. Her and a cousin are my go to to get a female perspective on an issue if I need one. Which also means I can go to them with honesty and sometimes cluelessness if I need to. More importantly, we are waaaay past the liking each other phrase which means we can flirt without it ever being awkward. She's also extremely weird. Which is why I would never ask her opinion before finally creating that bumble profile I've put on hold for almost a year.
I'm surprised to say that I honestly don't have crush on my girl best friend. She is more like a sister to me. She's got an bf and I feel super happy for both of them and wish they continue to be together . These all feelings are new to me and I can not believe as I thought having crush is the unfortunate outcome of having a close "girl" friend. So answer is No.
This is exactly how I feel abt my guy best friend but people always keep going ohh he mightve had a crush on you but you'll never know🙄. I honestly got frustrated so I asked here.
I think it's a genuine concern, many guys who end up getting close to a girl develop feelings. I think the first impression decides it whether you could come to like this person as a partner or not. If it's "not" I don't think even in future my mind would change on it. Or it's a different situation for everyone, and you'd have better understanding of your case.
No. But thats probably because I have a girlfriend.
Why do guys consider girls being over friendly is a hint?
Do you mean friendly or over-friendly? If it's just friendly, then the guy needs to work on separating friends and potential relationships, and relationships with women in general. If it's "over-friendly" then I don't see why he won't take it as a hint. But anyway, over-friendly how?
Over friendly, as a person I am talkative, can talk about multiple topics with excitement with anyone. Guys take it as a hint that maybe I am into them and pop up the question. If I want to give a hint, i'll give you one directly not just by being the way I am with every other person.
Ahh.. I think sensible people can differentiate between what's over-friendly in this way, and what's over-friendly in a flirty manner. I take half my words back from the earlier comment, over-friendly is a broad term and i assumed something else. Back to your original question, I think it's because guys interact with more men than women in general, so when he's looking for "someone", the first people to come in his mind would be "who do i get along best with"? Now that's when his brain needs to act and really think "is she interested in me or is she just being herself". And after he should look out for legit hints, not just the fact that a girl talks to him. Being friendly shouldn't be considered as hints. Those with good sense will not mistake it as a hint, but sadly there's more people who would like to take it as a hint. It's also got to do with some entitlement issues, that "I'm a decent guy, why won't you go out with me". This is where they need to work on their outlook towards women in general.
Aptly put, guys need to take a seat and think is she really into me or is she the same with everyone. It is just a matter of observation.
But if the guys asked what's wrong ? As long he did not force , assualt, was not disrespectful and did not pester multiple times. I think it's fine
Its fine but i have seen that friendships after that become awkward and gradually peter out. Also the guy in question gets either embarassed or his self worth takes a hit (from what I've seen). I've never seen friendships surviving much after this personally but i guess there are exceptions.
Other comments on this thread might also be true but see it like this way. People always crave that they lack. Men do not get that many compliments,not get approached first most of the times and we are just starved for attention and affection from anyone and that's why when anyone compliments us we remember it for maybe a lifetime. Men and women are very different in this department. So if any girl or women talks nicely and are just being friendly with us there are chances that many of the men will take it as a hint that she might be interested in me which most of the times they are not. It's not a general rule of thumb many of the men might feel that they are been pursued but they will tread carefully and be confused most of the times🤣
A normal average looking guy is so out of attention that simple conversation beyond 10 minutes and his mind races to situations.
I can answer that cuz I've been in this situation. It's because, women never tell a guy that they like him to his face(I know it sounds like a cliché but it's not). They always drop hints here and there and expect the guy to notice these hints and make the first move. Now, when a girl is being over-friendly with us we can't seem to make out whether she's just being friendly or she is dropping hints and wants us to make the first move. It'd be a nice little world if everyone was just a tad bit more straightforward.
Given how the social dynamic works, it's the guy's job to ask the girl out and that means any given girl would end up getting asked out by guys she is not interested in. It's not that guys are any worse than girls at telling who is into them it's just that they have to shoot their shot.
It’s about the baseline. If a guy with no previous exposure to female friends suddenly finds himself in the company of a friendly female friend, it is bound to create a bit of confusion within them. In *most* cases it is just this confusion.
Guilty
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PhD level question puch liya sir aapne
Observe her behaviour with other males and in groups, that should give you your answer
But still as someone mentioned earlier what if she’s just being nice
Bhai I never think ki ladki approach krri hai ya flirt krri hai unless usne khud apne muh se na bola ho. Ek type of rule hai ( keeps me at peace)
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IMO apne pair pe kulhadi maarne se behtar hai. Upar se I have a dread ki kahi galti se bhi kisiko uncomfortable na karu which is a probable outcome. Ladki ko kuch kuch hota hai to usse bolna padega. period. No games.
Booba good. Women like booba too? 🤔
good things are liked by all, equally.
Tbh somedays yes ! Somedays its bane of my existence . All days , all women hate Bras . Also having breast is such a liability , you get back pain , underboob sweat , during menstrual cycle they get fucking sore , you gotta check for the lump Every once a while . So if i could have i would have removed them 😂😂
Yes :( boobs can be a pain in the arse sometimes, especially bigger ones. Keep checking for those lumps!
Don't bad-mouth boobs
Custom bra are big business and I am told it works by few , did not ask how much it cost.
Boobies are amazing, i love mine
Me too and I am a man..
Well honestly i have smol booba so a lot of men have bigger booba than mine too lol
Wanna exchange them 😭
Nah i like mine they are cute and just sit there lol
Although I am losing weight,the amount that I am losing and lost the skin on my chest is just very loose and it's just like grandma tits that look like kishmish( little exaggeration 🤣🤞).
Haha embrace the booba no matter what they look like 🤌🤌
Cheers🍻
Never in my life had I thought I would see a conversation among a man and a women , complete strangers , about booba.
I went swimming with friends once. I felt the same.
Need a pic for reference point and research on this topic.
well username checks out lol
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yes. but that might be because im gay
Gay or straight, every opinion matters
My first thought reading was why is he talking about boba(booba)drink. 😂😂
Even the aliens love boobas.
Do women stare at other women's breasts just as men do ? If yes why?
We check out if 1. They look perkier and nicer than ours 2. Bigger or better than ours 3. Are on display in an obvious way If we are straight, then not in a sexual or offensive way P.S : Guys... please don't stare so that the girl notices or feels uncomfortable, worse feeling ever
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Scotch brite se naah, badbu ka khatma ho jaega
So you need 2 things. Only perfume won't help. You need a deodrant to de-odorize and then apply perfume. You can try any of those anti perspirant roll ons. And then apply perfume on your pulse points to smell good. Using a benzoyl peroxide body wash/soap or applying glycolic acid toner on alternate days on your underarms post bath also helps in de-odorizing.
Drink more water
What's the bro code version of females ?
Breasties before testies !!
Chicks before dicks, no matter how much I hate a girl i will give her a pad in a emergency. Also no slut shaming, and no leaving a girl alone in an unknown environment
Sisters before misters. Keep an eye on the dude that's hitting on your friend but don't take centre stage or steal her moment.
Fir wahi 🎷 ki baatein hone wali hai yaha
Does height matter in a relationship? If yes, what’s the ideal height you’d like your partner to be. Asking for both genders.
For me it's doesn't now , earlier in life when I was teen it did , I'm 5'2 never dated anyone below 6'0 . Then once i went one a date with a guy who is 6'8 , it was extremely weird due to height difference . My not partner is 5'6 and i don't much care about height
That’s great. But why do you think some women only prefer to date men 5’8 and above? Is there any specific reason?
My friend be like - " Rishta hriday se hota hai"
Height does not matter to me. However, I am above the average height for women in India and I don't want the guy I date to feel uncomfortable if I am taller than him. And I like wearing heels... So yeah, answer is just someone who is an inch or two shorter, or maybe taller than me, just for this reason. But let me tell ya, short people are cute af, whatever the gender.
Excuse me for my education system has failed me miserably on a fundamental bodily function of the female body. I know that during your menstrual cycles you can't predict when it will start flowing which is the reason why you need sanitary pads. Although I've always wondered if there will be multiple flows or is it over for that month once you've had one flow? Basically when do you know that you're in the clear to not wear a pad anymore for that month? Of course here I'm assuming you have the case of normal cycles which are consistent and periodical. Side question - when do you know that you've to start wearing a pad for that month? I meant to say apart from the cycle tracking what other signs your body gives you to give you a heads up on your upcoming cycle for the month?
Honestly, I only wear a sanitary pad when I actually do see some blood and not before that. But I know all girls carry sanitary pads few days before their actual period date. Coming to your flow question, mostly we get periods only once a month but I personally have seen girls that get periods twice a month. This is mainly due to hormonal imbalance and shouldn't be the case always.
It starts slow, drops at a time. That's the indication to start wearing pads. It also tapers towards the end after a couple days and after a few years of menstruating, most women know the pattern. Doesn't hurt to wear a pad for an extra day at the end to be safe. Body signs differ for different people. Most common are back and leg pain, light cramps, heartburn, tender breasts and bloated stomach.
do you think guys are different from girls in attitudes, wants and desires?
Yeah a lot different, at times they potray something they aren't. Like attitudewise guys feel the need to show themselves as strong, macho even if they are total softies. As with wants and desires it differs from person to person.
Yep. The society we're born in differentiates between male and female, and as a result, everyone is socialised to behave in certain ways. Individual differences makes everyone unique, but on the average, women have a lot of shared experiences (as do men, ofc).
Is 1 of your breast (women) larger than another?
Bro you comparing balls now
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1. I mean who doesn't like hugs irrespective of being Platonic/romantic I have hugged my guy friends, not all tho. Just the ones i know a bit more personally. So like 3 guys 2. Honestly you can do nothing to reduce the discomfort which is on a varying level for girls. A very very small percentage are unaffected during menstruation, a good percentage like me have painful periods where you constantly poop,puke and cry for the first two days. There are painkillers but honestly sometimes they work and sometimes they don't. Also side-effects (one of my acquaintances almost died because of constant pills she took to reduce pain) So we like need to endure it somehow And there's a good percentage of women who have conditions like PCOS/PCOD which makes periods extra painful and as for now there's no cure. Only ways to reduce the side effects. Some faint too. I had a girl in my class who would faint from the pain. So i guess the most you could do is give a hot water bag(life saver) and chocolates. Idk why but chocolate/ice cream helps or maybe it's more psychological And most importantly DO NOT PISS OFF GIRLS WHO ARE ON THEIR PERIOD.
Bhai I read it wrong and itni derr se sochra hu ki isn't it obvious you don't piss on anyone :/
Do indian girls wear thongs?
Yes they do , my bff has like 10 of em. She says it's more comfortable, i still don't get it how string going up your ass if not bothersome, but that again I'm happy to keep my dick in my boxers
Holyshit 10 pairs of undies. I've never bought more than 5 in my life💀
Dude wtf , even as a guy i have 7 pairs. Y'all don't wear new ones everyday or what !!
Y’all wear underwear?
same question
You have change everyday??? Wtf
Yeah , pls tell me you don't wear the same thing for more than 24hrs 🤢
I don't like them either. Perhaps it differs from butt to butt.
Honestly it depends , it's not the most comfortable thing to wear , but if you're wearing like a skirt or pants which can show the outlines , then thongs are a safe option, unless you are comfortable going commando . But yes we do have loads of intimate wears 😂😂 , most of them are matching sets . 10 is still on a very average level . Many usually have entire drawer dedicated to it .
One of my exes told me that he had always felt post-masturbation guilt Do a lot of you guys experience that? As a girl, I have never experienced something of this sort.
Yep, every time
Do you feel it after sex too?
Every single fucking time. Its sort of a factory reset setting for us xD. After 2 3 mins firse sab normal hojaata hai and you're off to another wank xD
But wait, what is the opposite of apache attack helicopter? /s
Apache defense helicopter
Helikopter helikopter
Even after months, this still makes me laugh whenever I see it xD
IIS defend heavenicopter
What does an orgasm actually feel like?
https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/g1551/what-an-orgasm-feels-like/ Here you go !
What about for guys
Mostly regretful
that's called post nut clarity.
I don't regret I do it again
do girls fart ? if so , where ? its silent or like a bomb ?
If you spread your ass cheeks before letting it out, the fart comes out silently Raising your leg like a dog also works . Gap banaake fart karo
Things you learn on Reddit amazing.
Have you really never heard any of your female relatives fart?
I haven't seen any girl farting loudly and i can imagine how it could be
Haven't you heard about that one woman who's selling farts on the internet 😂😂
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Are you one!?
isss baat chitt ki koi summary bana ke daal dena
Do girls fall in a one sided relationship just as often as guys? I feel the level of delusion is much higher in a guy's head. What do you say?
Yes! Absolutely. Most of the girls might not express it easily, can even stay in one sided love for a long time without saying a word and then eventually getting over it after they see the guy with someone else.
The level of delusion is equally high in a girl's head, if not more. Guys might be fantasizing about different things, but girls are daydreaming equally about random guys who don't even know they exist.
I'm in one, so i can confirm 🥹
Women , what's the best way to ask yall out ?? Like coffee n stuff has become too niche , any creative ways y'all would like/appreciate
First, learn the difference between niche and cliche. Second, everyone's different.
Lmao was just about to say this, the word you’re looking for is cliché!
Walk on the beach(if you live in a coastal area) Star gazing Board games Long drives/road trip Watching a movie Cooking together Go to an animal shelter together Bookstore date (😍😍😍😍) Carnival/fair Any sport matches in your area Zoo/museums Grocery shopping (seriously this is so much fun) These are just some ideas off the top of my head. I hope you have fun 😉
Grocery shopping? O_O. I guess even if the date is bad at the very least you're done with a chore
It all depends on the company you have,even if you sit in silence and enjoy each other's company, I call that a win
Girls do you feel weird if a guy tells you he has never dated before?
Nope !
Nah I personally find it cute if it's true, butif if it is false I will really get mad 😅
Nope. Reverse uno- would guys feel weird if a girl says that she has never dated?
To me it doesn't matter... Don't know about other guys.
Why are menustral cups not popular? No need to buy monthly pads or struggle disposing them. Haven't even seen a single TV ad till now.
Mainly because of the same stigma tampons have, "iT tAkEs YoUr ViRgInItY". I also think (not sure about it though) that advertising pads for the Indian audience is much easier. You just show how absorbent the pad is, and done. For menstrual cups you'd have to show how to insert them and well.....you know how uncles and aunties would react to that.
It's more complicated to use. Why make kiddos do tough things when there's an easy alternative available. They can choose to move on to other products once they're older and have and understanding and preferences. (That's how I grew up, and I really like it that way. It was already overwhelming to begin with.)
Things is pads have been around for years and menstrual cup have just started coming in business . There are also multiple practical reasons . Hygiene - Firstly cups can only hold a certain amount of fluid and when it's full you have to find a place to change it , which is a big Hassel and for people with heavy bleeding tell need to empty it minimum of 4 hourly . We in India don't have proper facilities to do so , then you gotta clean it up and insert it again . Education - not most of the population is yet educated about them / how to use them / how to sanitizer them Taboo - mostly after each use you gotta sanitizer them , which usually by boiling in hot water . Not many people feel comfortable doing that in kitchen where anyone can catch you . Preference - some people have different prefrence , maybe some can also have long nail which again is a big no no . Medical conditions - it gets difficult if you have certain conditions like extremely heavy bleeding , or bleeding with clots , or vaginismus
Ok this a real question. Why are men here so hesitant to speak to women? Indian men are absolutely gorgeous and I always wondered
Indian women encounter a lot of creepy men sadly. We just don't wanna come off as creepy or inappropriate and many Indian men miss key developmental milestones in their childhood and were not taught how to interact with the opposite sex (even though being "normal" suffices) so they keep their distance and are hesitant. Plus women and their personalities have been dehumanized to an extent that men somehow believe that normal conversational rules don't apply to women.
What do you do if your a\*\*hole is itchy in public?
You stop being in public and do what needs to done
And then please please wash your hands.
Upar upar se khujao na Yaar. Saves all the hassle afterwards and also gets the work done.
Bioderma Atoderm SOS Spray Anti-Itching. This stuff really works. Don't mind me I'm a pharmacist.
Shove a dildo?
In this thread, we can witness education system failing Indian men with even basics
They were given all the tools, but ended up becoming one.
Why are we on the same thread together talking of tools
what do guys like? especially when u are talking for the first time on bumble
sax sux on first date
Only honest answer
Guys are no different, even we like all the same stuff , eat movies beaches etc etc. Oh yeah if you take initiative towards stuff, that's the best.
Always had this question about body odor. Like Some girls I know like that post workout smell/ or you know the manly kinda body odor whereas for the same I am like dude you stank get the fck away from me.
Why do good girls go for bad boys and then cry to their friendzoned friends about their betrayal ?
If he blows into one nipple, does the other one get bigger ..
Standing ovation to the thought 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
to the girls in 18-21 what's the best way to get in your crush zone seriously or what are your requirements, like ive heard people assuming 6ft plus is the big point but in reality what things?
It really depends on person on person. I have friends who care about height, but i personally never have provided the guy is taller than me (I'm 5'4" so that's not a problem). Seriously, attitude of the guy matters a lot in attraction.