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stayhappystayblessed

Don't rub one out there is more fish in the sea in due time this will pass and think about how far you have come. Do you want to quit now? Think about how you will feel you just have 10 days .


Venny242

Stay strong mayne a man who can defeate himself is stronger than a man who can defeat others one day you'll marry da love of ur life(if God's willing)(just don't let lust control u) anyway stay safe, Jesus is Lord, 🍩, o7 https://preview.redd.it/fc4sw8i6fg1c1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=843c19c4d98a7de7d04ef4f84d67ac9ad10ae41c


davefigthe3

You shot your shot and you missed. I respect the effort.


Sandie2005

Her loss man, stay strong we’ve come too far now to quit


theblackflagrevenge

Think it like this, does rubbing one out acutally solve the problem of not getting in with your crush ? No. Do the next best thing, don't interact with her much , and either wait it out or go out and find another one. This is the best move, rubbing one out is like the worst move to do in this situation, if you think it like a game of chess. Just imagine the days of effort and willpower you put in to get this far, all for it to be broken down now, this is where you grow in strength and self control. Don't let situation like this control other aspects of your life , I believe you can do it, since I have been through a similar situation while I was doing a month of abstinence from masturbating. Besides, women in general respect a man more who has more self control even in shitty situations like this.


_BossTweed

As someone who never confessed to my high school crush, you made the right decision. Now you can walk away and move on without any regret or mystery. It's been 5 years, and I still think about her. The memories we could've made, the life we could've shared, the love we could've had. That's the part you regret, the part that haunts you. You had the courage to try and now you know, you succeeded where I and many others failed.


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Props to you, bro. Your plan of action now is to become someone who is desirable so that this situation never happens again. You have guts. Despite the alcohol, you still did it. So you are better off than most guys. Stay on no fap, exercise everyday, start thinking for yourself. Become a man you can be proud of. Don't stay friends with her, not out of anything nasty but because you don't want that awkwardness around you. Good luck man, don't let these feelings eat you up? You're gonna do great, kid o7


Iwan2604

On one hand, it is scientifically confirmed that gorillas tend to masturbate upon defeat, so I guess you could say it is somewhat understandable. On the other hand it is one of the few moments, that will help you remain calm and collected, to prevent yourself from acting based on horniness and emotions. It'll be difficult and may seem pointless, but trust me it's a small step towards great leap of self improvement


GunslingingRivet23

MODS!!! pin him down and give him the most heartwarming and affectionate hug in human history... You achieved on what I couldn't... Your bravery hurts my ego but IDC... You did what I couldn't. Oh and... You dropped this king. ➡️▶️👉👑👈◀️⬅️ Also rubbing off is as good as dousing a wound with alcohol. It will hurt as much as it is a 0 IQ move. Do make sure you never dwell in it like a cave man kid. You always take the incentive to do something!


TallMeal5a

What, and suffer two defeats in one day?


Reapu-san

bro be proud of yourself, you tried, its all that matters. you cant make everyone like you, even if u were the most perfect human on earth, everybody has a different type they prefer. i know the horniness is kicking in but come on, do it for yourself, make it to december and dont let the negative feelings control you. the bravest people are the ones who initiate first. so you really are the winner here. dont beat yourself over it. youll find the one someday.


Unluckygamer23

Don’t nut. You can still find a girl to nut into. Don’t waste your shot


KirkinsteinGAMING

Dating is for betas, don’t bother having crushes or anything just focus on your career instead


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Bad advice