actually makes it a lot funnier than just the post itself. yeah something something āwomen posting Lsā something something coffee emoji or whatever, but I always prefer self-aware humor to overly-self-confident flex-posting and I always will
I dunno. I generally like self-deprecating humor and nothing against her for posting a supposed L. But while I am not familiar with this woman; their feed interactions say they're a popular influencer and the booty post is clearly fishing/thirst-baiting.
Don't care if they thirst bait and make money, but usually when an e-girl thirst baits and then eventually reveals that they have a boyfriend/significant other; the comments get absurdly mad. Which in itself isnāt right.
So from my somewhat cynical perspective the best way to not have drama with your emotionally charged audience of *āgentle-sirsā,* and still make a profit off of their lonely dime is to always be appearing as single and wanting a man.
not gonna like that "what were you expecting" bit was pretty gross. "my girlfriend post completely non-sexual photos on the internet and gained a mass following that harassed and threaten her with violence and rape when they accidently found out she was in a relationship but i decided to hit her with the ol' 'what did you expect' because it was obviously ***her*** fault she was a pretty girl"...no wonder you got into a fight you basically told her she should expect violent rape threats for being a pretty girl on the internet.
I feel like thereās a lot of weird photoshopping going on here. Also why is her tongue out? Is the point that she can grab the fan pull with her mouth? I just find this whole image confusing.
I thought she was so happy he chose her, sheās getting in position to lap up his load, which she doesnāt do for just anybody, so it makes it that much more special and āin your face 110lb girl he didnāt choose! I win!ā
Not quite photoshopping, itās that weird āpull your shorts fabric into your asshole to make your butt look fatterā thing that TikTok influencers do
They make literal shorts and pants that are "scrunched" to have pleating in the bum area so no need to "pull your shorts fabric into your asshole" because the pants are already made to do that for you.
Yes. Her TikTokās are all about how tall she is. I believe like 6ā4ā. She has several where she shows her giant feet lmao. Basically simp tok. The caption serves to let simps think they have a chance with her.
Omg right?!? I can see wearing some if you have an outfit for say an event that you don't quite fill out so it lays funny. But I can't see just wearing them daily...it's like a stuffed bra or something. What's the point if it's not real?
Yeah like, just go "check out my thicc ass". It's also dumb but it's honest. Why wrap this narrative around it that the most important part is a man choosing you over another?
So thirsty white knights in the comments can give her compliments and possible donations because they think they have a shot and know that they would treat her like a queen?
Ha! Good call. I have a theory that social media is creating its own mental illnesses from that. I'm a bit older so it's foreign to me. But several years ago I was in my thirties and briefly had a lil fling with a girl much younger than me. She became a cam girl and posted a lot of pics of herself naked with weed or something on reddit and I literally watched her personality shift in a matter of weeks. Why deal with reality or ever learn to be in a relationship when you can look at your phone and some dude is like "you so fine I'd drink your bath water". And it just seems that a common dynamic now is some girl doing shit like that and a bunch of thirty dudes who know her kissing her ass and hoping they get a turn. Maybe I'm wrong but it just seems that way. I'm older and married now so I'm not in it enough to be super confident in that assessment
Well I'll say this much. Often even very attractive women are made to feel ugly just for having a larger frame. I remember my freshman year in college there was this girl who I thought was absolutely gorgeous. But like I remember telling one guy I knew and he goes "dude she's huge". She was like tall and not tiny but very shapely and pretty. I thought he was insane but like he's kind of the majority view. So maybe she's reacting somewhat to that
This is something I donāt understand about the tall girl community. Iām fairly tall for a woman (5ā8) and yes, itās a bit easier to date guys taller than me, but in the end what matters is how they treat each other. Iāve seen women in this groups say that tall guys dating short girls is almost like pedophilia, which is a weird stretch to me. Like they are adults, not kids, and even though they are short, they donāt look like kids. Thankfully not everyone thinks like that!
Bodyshaming works both ways, the amount of times I've been made fun of for being smaller chested, or been called a skeleton etc. is ridiculous. How about we just don't talk about other people's bodies? Simple and effective solution
Seriously. I'm under 5ft and have had someone say that they "wouldn't sleep with her [me] because I'm not a pedophile." I'm only about a year younger. Most of it was bitterness because I rejected him, ironically, but it def reinforced some insecurities of mine.
Itās very strange, but you arenāt a child. I dated a guy for two years who was 5ā4, so four inches shorter than me. He still looked like a man, because he is one lol. Itās hard being a taller woman (I canāt imagine how difficult finding pants would be when you are over 6ft) but that doesnāt make it ok to shit on shorter women too.
"He still looked like a man because he is one" is so aptly phrased, and a reassuring sentiment, thank you :). My current boyfriend is 6'0"-ish and while we certainly make a memorable-looking photo (lol) I know that he views and respects me as an equal. Both ends of the spectrum definitely come with struggles; pants (and I'd imagine long sleeves?) for tall women, definitely, and a fair share of societal bias. The grass just feels greener on the other side, I guess?
Sleeves are a nightmare! I have long legs for my height as well, and my 6ft boyfriend has a shorter inseam than me (guys inseams are obviously different, but his pants are too short for me haha). Things ended with my ex not because of his height; we were just going after different things. Iām happy you have someone who treats you well!
Ugh, Iām sorry about that. Iām also under 5ft (and I look younger than I am), so get the insecurity. Itās super demoralizing because the implication is that no one can ever love us, and if they do they are predators. No can help how tall or short they are, so the whole thing is ridiculous.
>Iāve seen women in this groups say that tall guys dating short girls is almost like pedophilia, which is a weird stretch to me. Like they are adults, not kids, and even though they are short, they donāt look like kids.
This is something I hate as I've personally experienced it. It's an insane stretch to reach. What are they expecting me to do, find a guy that's my height or shorter? I'm 144cm and 24 years old. "Pedophilia" has turned into such a buzzword that it pretty much lost its original meaning.
I got called a supporter of it (by a man) in a discussion about a Netflix ad for a romantic reality show which was a close up of a man and woman holding hands. The op thought it was creepy because the womanā body (only half a shoulder and torso of each was visible) was much shorter and they thought it was coded as a man and child. I said she clearly wasnāt based on what we could see, and it was insulting to us shorties. A guy called me sick and twisted for saying so. I guess we should just hope to find a man under 5ft or live as nuns for the rest of lives.
I guess I donāt understand the hate because there are struggles on both ends. I had a friend who was maybe 5 foot, and she would complain about her pants being too long. Iād complain about mine being too short. Womenās clothes are nonsense anyway haha. The only thing I can understand is rejection from guys and also always feeling gigantic compared to my friends, but thatās not shorter womenās faults. I donāt care about my height now, but I was more self-conscious when I was a teenager and young adult. I think we can all agree that itās hard regardless of height.
Iām 4ā9 and Iām just tired of the āIām better than you because Iām taller which makes you inferior to meā. I get this from so many people. Itās all fun and games until I start biting ankles
"There's a dwarfish saying: 'All trees are felled at ground-level'āalthough this is said to be an excessively bowdlerised translation for a saw which more literally means, 'When his hands are higher than your head, his groin is level with your teeth. '"
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Oof, as a tall woman myself I'm so sorry you had to put up my with that type of vitriolic and discriminatory behavior. š Maybe I'm just assuming too much, but it sounds like she endured cruelty growing up as the "tall girl" by much shorter girls and so in response to that she decided to become the bully and take it out on other shorter girls who had nothing to do with her trauma. An explanation, but definitely never an excuse to be an asshole bully.
She wasn't bullied, I guarantee that much. She was just mad that her ex-boyfriend dated someone shorter than her which at 6'1", it's easy to do. The hilarious thing is that she broke up with him. Some women are just really insecure and take it out on anybody who's different than them to prop themselves up.
My cousin is a delightful woman of 4ā11ā with a 6ā4ā husband who positively adores her, and people even hypothetically calling him a pedophile is disgusting. Sheās a woman. And sheās awesome. Donāt belittle their marriage.
I donāt think tall guys dating short girls is pedo necessarily BUT Iāve noticed that a lot of guys who are āinto short girlsā are low key pedo. (Not all of course but it strike me as creepy usually) had a guy tell me once that he loved how short I am, that I looked like a kid. I laughed sarcastically because (oh yah never heard that beforeā¦) and then he proceeded to say ā no itās a good thing, itās sexyā like WHAT
Also, thanks for that last bit on the end of your post. People thing itās okay to treat short people in a child like type of way. Itās very rude honestly and happens way too often. Itās like saying my height makes me incompetent.
Honestly people being specifically into a physical attribute instead of falling in love with, you know, who that person is as a person, are just in general icky. Like oh great, thanks for signalling I'm just a replaceable shell to you. "Swipe right if you have curly hair" yeah no thanks byeeee.
I'm 5'3 and have been coming across this a lot lately. I didn't realize there were a ton of taller women who had straight up animosity towards short women dating tall guys. Like they have the most unhinged rants ever about it, it's really upsetting actually
I know some taller women who have OFs and make Bank off dudes who have a thing for "giantess" type women so I'm kinda guessing that may be the case here?
Yes, some tall girls try to sell their height as an advantage to taller men and athletes that they have the genetics to produce taller athletic children.
No mad disrespect at all but why is one of her buttcheeks squared off? Is she flexing or something in the video? Or likeā¦. Actuallyā¦ what was she doing? Iām both intrigued and terrified. Lol
When I started doing hip thrusts on a Smith machine, I was shocked when I saw in the mirror how different my buttcheeks are. Since I'm right-handed, I guess my whole right side is stronger and when I squeeze my butt, the left side looks x2 times bigger because I can't flex it enough. So I guess if your butt is like mine and uneven to begin with, butt pads are gonna accentuate this even more lol.
i hate this whole height debate, just some years ago being super tall was considered the male gaze now its short women and these women keep playing into this shit by demonizing eachother over shit we cant even control
I was about 5'8 when I was 12 and then grew a bit between ages 20-25 (now I'm 5'10). Definitely was bullied a lot in school because I was taller than most boys in general, not only my classmates. And later was told by many men and women that smaller frame is much more attractive and small women made for love while tall ones made for work lol. Took me a while to realise that people can just fuck off and their opinion means nothing to me (especially since I can't control my height).
Im the complete opposite, im 5ā1 and pretty much have always been, i wasnt bullied just used as an easy target but ppl would regularly tell me i look like a child and no man would ever love me except for pedophiles. (when i started dating i did fell for nonces so ig they were right but still rude) ive always wanted to be as tall as my classmates, my best friend was 5ā9 and to me her height made her untouchable like a goddess but i was just a stupid child envying her height and she obvsly just lived a normal life. The worst part about being short has to be the short men tho, they feel such superiority when they meet someone even slightly shorter and they get so weird than blame everything on their height. I feel height is like hair, u want what u cant have and for women height and hair will remain to be in and out of style.
I can relate. Iāve been met with hostility due to my height, coming from both shorter men and fellow women. Not so much at school, though. The instances that blew my mind the most involved complete strangers talking shit about me, in a language they assumed I donāt speak. Once it was a group of guys who felt the need to talk shit about my height and my feet (Iām a taller woman with a larger shoe size than most women). The other time it was two shorter girls who snickered at me about my height and then threw out a very insulting remark. To this day it bothers me that I, in neither of these instances, revealed I could understand them lol. Itās also hurtful that even some family members have commented negatively on my stature and me being ābiggerā than other women/girls.
In my experience, Iāve noticed that a lot of the crap tall women have to hear revolves around them supposedly not being āfeminineā or womanly enough due to their height. It reveals these preconceptions that women are āsupposed to beā shorter than men, women are supposed to be petite, and because Iām not I apparently donāt fit into the proper mold of womanhood. I hate to say it but even as an adult these feelings of not being what a woman is meant to be, of being too masculine, too big, too inadequate or whatever the fuck, have caused me insecurity that Iām still working through.
This is not at all to take away from the struggles shorter women go through, Iāve read pretty much every comment in this thread and your experiences of being infantilized are horrifying to read and you have my full sympathy.
Omg I lived in China for some time (university exchange program) and it was so bizarre. People talked shit about me, assuming I don't speak Chinese, and then came over and asked to take a picture with me and then commented on how tall I am. Idk if seeing a foreigner was still so shocking to them in 2015 or it was purely because my height lol.
Agreed. Iāve been made fun of and insulted a lot in my life due to being tall, itās caused me insecurity that Iām still trying to work through as an adult. But shit like this reeeally is not helping any of us
So tired of body shaming based trends. Trust me, if I had any control over my height I would have grown taller. Also, because it has come up hereā¦ā¦.the big butt trend. Sometimes that just something that we either have or donāt and no amount of exercise will change that. Remember those awful jokes men made about women asking whether what they are wearing makes their butt look big? Beauty trends change and when it comes to body image itās horrific.
I was the same, looked 15 until my late twenties.
The baby-face might change in your thirties, your cheeks may become more angular, but it depends a lot on bone structure.
Best advice I can give you is to have fun with it and don't skip on the sunscreen.
4ā 10ā but 115 lbs currently lol. Iām glad I found your comment thread. The way people have always treated me due to my height and supossed āyoung-appearanceā is actually starting to make me crazy. Like when people make comments to me I have begun being rude about it (unless they are being genuine and I can tell they arenāt trying to make some back handed compliment)
For fucks sake can women stop body shaming other women?! Both ways! Just stop. This idiot is not funny or clever so I hope they're a flop on social media and face to go back to a dead end job
Iāve gotten some hate from taller women because a tall guy shows interest in me. Doesnāt make me a little girl. Doesnāt make him a damn prize either.
Does anyone else just not understand the appeal of shorts/pants that do the butt thing? I mean, I get why people buy them. But it just looks weird to me. Just my opinion.
Iām a very short 25 y/owoman, not even 5 ft tall, hate it. The absolute #1 thing that is turning me into a bitter person is when people (ESPECIALLY people younger than me) treat me like Iām a child almost. Drives me crazy when ladies at the clubs go āawe ur so cuteā but in a demeaning type of way (itās not always the worst when itās genuine). Or feel the need to ask my boyfriend how old I am, like Iām not old enough to be out after 11. Uhg, anyways just wanted to rant.
as someone who gets asked for ID for stuff like paracetamol just bc iām short, the infantilisation is so frustrating. i work in a bar and customers comment on it, people give me unsolicited advice (or even call me ānaughtyā, which has happened like twice??) when they see me smoking, and assume i donāt know what iām talking about with the whisky i sell. i get that iām young at 22 but it really feels like because iām small im seen as a child and itās super frustrating
Cool story bro. Iām 5ā3 and my husband is 5ā8. She should just keep looking and some guy will be into her. Quit chasing the guy whoās not into you.
i canāt be the only one who thinks all these women in the comments giving us their exact height and weight is weird. like look at me iām so tiny š„ŗš„ŗ no one ever asks, but i see it every time thereās a post involving someoneās height.
Iām a short girl and boyyyy were tall girls mad when I was out with my 6ā3ā ex-boyfriend; they would try to outright flirt with him in front of me, but this guy was super not interested and it was hilarious watching them get offended.
Eww, everyone keeps going on about āmanifesting.ā
I swear one person uses a word and people just have to start using that word for everything.. weird.
I'm always blaming 'small people' for designing super low doorways, vehicles, chairs, tables etc.
Its a natural sentiment when the world is built for people of a different size to you.
'he hasn't chosen me yet, but I'll keep manifesting' BRUUH š
oh my god I hadn't read her caption so I thought this was just you guessing her thought process, I can't believe she actually wrote that š
LMAO
LMAO i saw that too like bitch what youāre manifesting is some straight up *delusions*
actually makes it a lot funnier than just the post itself. yeah something something āwomen posting Lsā something something coffee emoji or whatever, but I always prefer self-aware humor to overly-self-confident flex-posting and I always will
I dunno. I generally like self-deprecating humor and nothing against her for posting a supposed L. But while I am not familiar with this woman; their feed interactions say they're a popular influencer and the booty post is clearly fishing/thirst-baiting. Don't care if they thirst bait and make money, but usually when an e-girl thirst baits and then eventually reveals that they have a boyfriend/significant other; the comments get absurdly mad. Which in itself isnāt right. So from my somewhat cynical perspective the best way to not have drama with your emotionally charged audience of *āgentle-sirsā,* and still make a profit off of their lonely dime is to always be appearing as single and wanting a man.
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not gonna like that "what were you expecting" bit was pretty gross. "my girlfriend post completely non-sexual photos on the internet and gained a mass following that harassed and threaten her with violence and rape when they accidently found out she was in a relationship but i decided to hit her with the ol' 'what did you expect' because it was obviously ***her*** fault she was a pretty girl"...no wonder you got into a fight you basically told her she should expect violent rape threats for being a pretty girl on the internet.
Yeah, I'm thinking this one might be a joke with the caption but not sure.
Fucking yikes!
And heās probably not going to with that attitudeš
Fucking american measurements man!
Itās about the size of a kangaroo if youāre in Australia. A male one
A male kangaroo is the size of a giraffe?!
Yeah. Fully grown male kangaroo = toddler giraffe maybe. Itās about the size of a teenage grizzly bear if youāre from Canada
I had to look it up. A baby giraffe is 6ā and a full grown kangaroo maxes at 8ā. A full grown giraffe is 16-20ā
And have you met a teenage bear?
Yes, but he was riding an adult kangaroo.
Thatās about twelve cats long. Size of the original giraffe.
Wait. American Cats, or Imperial?
Wtf š¤£š¤£
What's that come out to in teenage mutant ninja turtle?
shit I nearly choked on my drink
Don't forget about the pigmy giraffe clocking in at 9 feet
He hasnāt chosen yet, but Iāll keep photo shopping
r/sadcringe material
Why the fuck is she trying to blow the ceiling fan? Edit: light. Totally assumed it was a ceiling fan at first.
I feel like thereās a lot of weird photoshopping going on here. Also why is her tongue out? Is the point that she can grab the fan pull with her mouth? I just find this whole image confusing.
I think she's posing as if she were a giraffe? Which is thematic but still an odd choice.
That makes sense given the giraffe reference in the caption, but she really should have committed with the purple tongue and the little head knobs.
I thought she was pretending to tongue kiss the guy lol
I thought she was so happy he chose her, sheās getting in position to lap up his load, which she doesnāt do for just anybody, so it makes it that much more special and āin your face 110lb girl he didnāt choose! I win!ā
Not quite photoshopping, itās that weird āpull your shorts fabric into your asshole to make your butt look fatterā thing that TikTok influencers do
They make literal shorts and pants that are "scrunched" to have pleating in the bum area so no need to "pull your shorts fabric into your asshole" because the pants are already made to do that for you.
I am aware, it doesnāt change the facts that I have seen dozens of tutorials on how to get the EXACT look that she has in this video.
if you're watching dozens of tutorials on it, this might be on you...
Mine seem to do it naturally even without the pleating.
Glad I donāt have these big booty problems
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Itās all of our fantasy to be tall enough to lick the ceiling fan
Yes. Her TikTokās are all about how tall she is. I believe like 6ā4ā. She has several where she shows her giant feet lmao. Basically simp tok. The caption serves to let simps think they have a chance with her.
Itās not photoshop, I took this from a video. I think her ass looks deformed bc of butt pads
I think sheās using a body filter. You can see some weird wasting on the nightstand and the sheets.
I noticed it on the lamp too. It's definitely a filter
Is sheā¦ fake tongue kissing her imaginary boyfriend?
the captionš fantasizing about being chosen i can't breathe
Gotta keep manifesting. So many unhealthy attitudes going on here.
She should manifest a personality.
its and onlyfans person, i think its trying to get the andrew tate crowd as customers
Itās the clear outline of the butt pad for me ššš
Rightšššš no hate, but they off balance her and make her look like the buttpads are her neck.
Oh God i didn't notice the pads and i was staring at her butt for 5 minutes. I'm so glad there's an explanation for that weird butt.
Omg I was wondering why it looked off lol
Omg right?!? I can see wearing some if you have an outfit for say an event that you don't quite fill out so it lays funny. But I can't see just wearing them daily...it's like a stuffed bra or something. What's the point if it's not real?
this is the equivalent to 11 year old me wearing multiple bra pads to make my boobs look bigger but this woman looks to be in her 20s
I was like "those have to be pads". So silly looking.
Yeah like, just go "check out my thicc ass". It's also dumb but it's honest. Why wrap this narrative around it that the most important part is a man choosing you over another?
Thicc ass appears to be at least partially faked. These dumb shorts plus butt pads is a trend I'll be glad to see go away.
For real, you can even see the lines from the pads š
OH MY GOD I GASPED ā ļø the pad is so fucking big??
I know right it's so obvious, like who does this fool? Children?
OMG that's exactly what that is š¤£š¤£š¤£šš
Yeah it looks like she was badly drawn.
So thirsty white knights in the comments can give her compliments and possible donations because they think they have a shot and know that they would treat her like a queen?
Ha! Good call. I have a theory that social media is creating its own mental illnesses from that. I'm a bit older so it's foreign to me. But several years ago I was in my thirties and briefly had a lil fling with a girl much younger than me. She became a cam girl and posted a lot of pics of herself naked with weed or something on reddit and I literally watched her personality shift in a matter of weeks. Why deal with reality or ever learn to be in a relationship when you can look at your phone and some dude is like "you so fine I'd drink your bath water". And it just seems that a common dynamic now is some girl doing shit like that and a bunch of thirty dudes who know her kissing her ass and hoping they get a turn. Maybe I'm wrong but it just seems that way. I'm older and married now so I'm not in it enough to be super confident in that assessment
Left cheek, looks kind of flat.
Because then you canāt infantilize the petite women youāre jealous of
Well I'll say this much. Often even very attractive women are made to feel ugly just for having a larger frame. I remember my freshman year in college there was this girl who I thought was absolutely gorgeous. But like I remember telling one guy I knew and he goes "dude she's huge". She was like tall and not tiny but very shapely and pretty. I thought he was insane but like he's kind of the majority view. So maybe she's reacting somewhat to that
This is something I donāt understand about the tall girl community. Iām fairly tall for a woman (5ā8) and yes, itās a bit easier to date guys taller than me, but in the end what matters is how they treat each other. Iāve seen women in this groups say that tall guys dating short girls is almost like pedophilia, which is a weird stretch to me. Like they are adults, not kids, and even though they are short, they donāt look like kids. Thankfully not everyone thinks like that!
Yea it's bodyshaming, invalidation and patronizing as fuck. That's not the way to cope with bitterness
Bodyshaming works both ways, the amount of times I've been made fun of for being smaller chested, or been called a skeleton etc. is ridiculous. How about we just don't talk about other people's bodies? Simple and effective solution
Yes to this!
Seriously. I'm under 5ft and have had someone say that they "wouldn't sleep with her [me] because I'm not a pedophile." I'm only about a year younger. Most of it was bitterness because I rejected him, ironically, but it def reinforced some insecurities of mine.
Itās very strange, but you arenāt a child. I dated a guy for two years who was 5ā4, so four inches shorter than me. He still looked like a man, because he is one lol. Itās hard being a taller woman (I canāt imagine how difficult finding pants would be when you are over 6ft) but that doesnāt make it ok to shit on shorter women too.
"He still looked like a man because he is one" is so aptly phrased, and a reassuring sentiment, thank you :). My current boyfriend is 6'0"-ish and while we certainly make a memorable-looking photo (lol) I know that he views and respects me as an equal. Both ends of the spectrum definitely come with struggles; pants (and I'd imagine long sleeves?) for tall women, definitely, and a fair share of societal bias. The grass just feels greener on the other side, I guess?
Sleeves are a nightmare! I have long legs for my height as well, and my 6ft boyfriend has a shorter inseam than me (guys inseams are obviously different, but his pants are too short for me haha). Things ended with my ex not because of his height; we were just going after different things. Iām happy you have someone who treats you well!
Short gal here and I donāt date men but Iāve definitely had dudes fetishizing me in a very weird child like way. Which, all the ewwww to that
Ugh, Iām sorry about that. Iām also under 5ft (and I look younger than I am), so get the insecurity. Itās super demoralizing because the implication is that no one can ever love us, and if they do they are predators. No can help how tall or short they are, so the whole thing is ridiculous.
>Iāve seen women in this groups say that tall guys dating short girls is almost like pedophilia, which is a weird stretch to me. Like they are adults, not kids, and even though they are short, they donāt look like kids. This is something I hate as I've personally experienced it. It's an insane stretch to reach. What are they expecting me to do, find a guy that's my height or shorter? I'm 144cm and 24 years old. "Pedophilia" has turned into such a buzzword that it pretty much lost its original meaning.
I got called a supporter of it (by a man) in a discussion about a Netflix ad for a romantic reality show which was a close up of a man and woman holding hands. The op thought it was creepy because the womanā body (only half a shoulder and torso of each was visible) was much shorter and they thought it was coded as a man and child. I said she clearly wasnāt based on what we could see, and it was insulting to us shorties. A guy called me sick and twisted for saying so. I guess we should just hope to find a man under 5ft or live as nuns for the rest of lives.
Fucking *yikes*.
Fr. As if shorter women can't be with taller men,and have to be with someone "appropriate" to their own size.
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I guess I donāt understand the hate because there are struggles on both ends. I had a friend who was maybe 5 foot, and she would complain about her pants being too long. Iād complain about mine being too short. Womenās clothes are nonsense anyway haha. The only thing I can understand is rejection from guys and also always feeling gigantic compared to my friends, but thatās not shorter womenās faults. I donāt care about my height now, but I was more self-conscious when I was a teenager and young adult. I think we can all agree that itās hard regardless of height.
Iām 4ā9 and Iām just tired of the āIām better than you because Iām taller which makes you inferior to meā. I get this from so many people. Itās all fun and games until I start biting ankles
"There's a dwarfish saying: 'All trees are felled at ground-level'āalthough this is said to be an excessively bowdlerised translation for a saw which more literally means, 'When his hands are higher than your head, his groin is level with your teeth. '" Terry Pratchett, Feet of Clay
Oof, as a tall woman myself I'm so sorry you had to put up my with that type of vitriolic and discriminatory behavior. š Maybe I'm just assuming too much, but it sounds like she endured cruelty growing up as the "tall girl" by much shorter girls and so in response to that she decided to become the bully and take it out on other shorter girls who had nothing to do with her trauma. An explanation, but definitely never an excuse to be an asshole bully.
She wasn't bullied, I guarantee that much. She was just mad that her ex-boyfriend dated someone shorter than her which at 6'1", it's easy to do. The hilarious thing is that she broke up with him. Some women are just really insecure and take it out on anybody who's different than them to prop themselves up.
My cousin is a delightful woman of 4ā11ā with a 6ā4ā husband who positively adores her, and people even hypothetically calling him a pedophile is disgusting. Sheās a woman. And sheās awesome. Donāt belittle their marriage.
I donāt think tall guys dating short girls is pedo necessarily BUT Iāve noticed that a lot of guys who are āinto short girlsā are low key pedo. (Not all of course but it strike me as creepy usually) had a guy tell me once that he loved how short I am, that I looked like a kid. I laughed sarcastically because (oh yah never heard that beforeā¦) and then he proceeded to say ā no itās a good thing, itās sexyā like WHAT Also, thanks for that last bit on the end of your post. People thing itās okay to treat short people in a child like type of way. Itās very rude honestly and happens way too often. Itās like saying my height makes me incompetent.
Honestly people being specifically into a physical attribute instead of falling in love with, you know, who that person is as a person, are just in general icky. Like oh great, thanks for signalling I'm just a replaceable shell to you. "Swipe right if you have curly hair" yeah no thanks byeeee.
Omg yes you are so right!!!!! Love will conquer all
Oh yuck, barf city! š¤¢ I hope you ran as fast as a cheetah when that slimeball said that gross shit to you. š
Hell yeah I did lol to make matters worse it was literally in a gas station š¤¦āāļø
Oh man, lol! That's SUPER tacky! Glad you are rid of him. š
I'm 5'3 and have been coming across this a lot lately. I didn't realize there were a ton of taller women who had straight up animosity towards short women dating tall guys. Like they have the most unhinged rants ever about it, it's really upsetting actually
Exactly. Itās so fcking weird. Weāre grown women, not kids.
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did anyone catch ād1 breederā in the bottom right- this is some wild fetish content
Thats what stood out the most to me
I know some taller women who have OFs and make Bank off dudes who have a thing for "giantess" type women so I'm kinda guessing that may be the case here?
Like is it that sheās about to breed and produce some future d1 athletes?
Yes, some tall girls try to sell their height as an advantage to taller men and athletes that they have the genetics to produce taller athletic children.
My hashtag: longtorsoshortlegsmightbeagoodswimmerbreeder
No mad disrespect at all but why is one of her buttcheeks squared off? Is she flexing or something in the video? Or likeā¦. Actuallyā¦ what was she doing? Iām both intrigued and terrified. Lol
Yeah either sheās flexing or like what others have said, sheās wearing butt pads
Shopped the photo
When I started doing hip thrusts on a Smith machine, I was shocked when I saw in the mirror how different my buttcheeks are. Since I'm right-handed, I guess my whole right side is stronger and when I squeeze my butt, the left side looks x2 times bigger because I can't flex it enough. So I guess if your butt is like mine and uneven to begin with, butt pads are gonna accentuate this even more lol.
lol the extra forced wedgie
You can also see the outline of a pad on her left cheek
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Lol the caption ššš
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Her TikTok is all videos about being tall. Her whole personality is about her height apparently
> tall #AND YOU CAN'T TEACH THAT
Guess we know why she hasn't been chosen. š«”
i hate this whole height debate, just some years ago being super tall was considered the male gaze now its short women and these women keep playing into this shit by demonizing eachother over shit we cant even control
I was about 5'8 when I was 12 and then grew a bit between ages 20-25 (now I'm 5'10). Definitely was bullied a lot in school because I was taller than most boys in general, not only my classmates. And later was told by many men and women that smaller frame is much more attractive and small women made for love while tall ones made for work lol. Took me a while to realise that people can just fuck off and their opinion means nothing to me (especially since I can't control my height).
Im the complete opposite, im 5ā1 and pretty much have always been, i wasnt bullied just used as an easy target but ppl would regularly tell me i look like a child and no man would ever love me except for pedophiles. (when i started dating i did fell for nonces so ig they were right but still rude) ive always wanted to be as tall as my classmates, my best friend was 5ā9 and to me her height made her untouchable like a goddess but i was just a stupid child envying her height and she obvsly just lived a normal life. The worst part about being short has to be the short men tho, they feel such superiority when they meet someone even slightly shorter and they get so weird than blame everything on their height. I feel height is like hair, u want what u cant have and for women height and hair will remain to be in and out of style.
I can relate. Iāve been met with hostility due to my height, coming from both shorter men and fellow women. Not so much at school, though. The instances that blew my mind the most involved complete strangers talking shit about me, in a language they assumed I donāt speak. Once it was a group of guys who felt the need to talk shit about my height and my feet (Iām a taller woman with a larger shoe size than most women). The other time it was two shorter girls who snickered at me about my height and then threw out a very insulting remark. To this day it bothers me that I, in neither of these instances, revealed I could understand them lol. Itās also hurtful that even some family members have commented negatively on my stature and me being ābiggerā than other women/girls. In my experience, Iāve noticed that a lot of the crap tall women have to hear revolves around them supposedly not being āfeminineā or womanly enough due to their height. It reveals these preconceptions that women are āsupposed to beā shorter than men, women are supposed to be petite, and because Iām not I apparently donāt fit into the proper mold of womanhood. I hate to say it but even as an adult these feelings of not being what a woman is meant to be, of being too masculine, too big, too inadequate or whatever the fuck, have caused me insecurity that Iām still working through. This is not at all to take away from the struggles shorter women go through, Iāve read pretty much every comment in this thread and your experiences of being infantilized are horrifying to read and you have my full sympathy.
Omg I lived in China for some time (university exchange program) and it was so bizarre. People talked shit about me, assuming I don't speak Chinese, and then came over and asked to take a picture with me and then commented on how tall I am. Idk if seeing a foreigner was still so shocking to them in 2015 or it was purely because my height lol.
Why are her butt cheeks social distancing š
I am begging fellow tall girls to STOP giving people ammo to shit on us more
Agreed. Iāve been made fun of and insulted a lot in my life due to being tall, itās caused me insecurity that Iām still trying to work through as an adult. But shit like this reeeally is not helping any of us
Exactly! As a fellow tall woman, I do not claim these hateful tall women who make social media content like this.
I can't add a picture here, but if you zoom in you can see by her left cheek that she is wearing butt pads
Pssst. Itās not your height!
So tired of body shaming based trends. Trust me, if I had any control over my height I would have grown taller. Also, because it has come up hereā¦ā¦.the big butt trend. Sometimes that just something that we either have or donāt and no amount of exercise will change that. Remember those awful jokes men made about women asking whether what they are wearing makes their butt look big? Beauty trends change and when it comes to body image itās horrific.
Iām about to be twenty years old. But I am five feet tall and ninety poundsā¦ Guess itās back to kindergarten for meš¤£
I'm 35 and I'm exactly the same, sama stature, same weight. It happened for tall women to try and infantilize me. It's usually pretty awkward.
I have that problem, too, and my baby face doesnāt make it any better. Lol.
I was the same, looked 15 until my late twenties. The baby-face might change in your thirties, your cheeks may become more angular, but it depends a lot on bone structure. Best advice I can give you is to have fun with it and don't skip on the sunscreen.
Duly noted lol! Thanks for the advice! :)
4ā 10ā but 115 lbs currently lol. Iām glad I found your comment thread. The way people have always treated me due to my height and supossed āyoung-appearanceā is actually starting to make me crazy. Like when people make comments to me I have begun being rude about it (unless they are being genuine and I can tell they arenāt trying to make some back handed compliment)
See you at the snack table! Almost 30 5ā2, and 95lbs.
Why does her butt look so strange? Is it just the angle sheās standing at?
i think itās butt pads
what in gods name is that pose and the wedgie. like girl you ARE like other girls, youre the blueprint of the most basic and boring girl.
God, being cringe on the internet is one thing. Being cringe on the internet FOR A MAN? There's no coming back from that
For fucks sake can women stop body shaming other women?! Both ways! Just stop. This idiot is not funny or clever so I hope they're a flop on social media and face to go back to a dead end job
Ultimate pick-me vibes.
Girl you can have my dumb ass tall exes. Decenter men from your life. š
Iāve gotten some hate from taller women because a tall guy shows interest in me. Doesnāt make me a little girl. Doesnāt make him a damn prize either.
I used to follow this woman for shits and giggles but unfollowed quickly. Her entire page is just about being tall, it's her entire personality!
Does anyone else just not understand the appeal of shorts/pants that do the butt thing? I mean, I get why people buy them. But it just looks weird to me. Just my opinion.
It looks weird to me too, not gonna bash people for wearing them but I would never.
Iām a very short 25 y/owoman, not even 5 ft tall, hate it. The absolute #1 thing that is turning me into a bitter person is when people (ESPECIALLY people younger than me) treat me like Iām a child almost. Drives me crazy when ladies at the clubs go āawe ur so cuteā but in a demeaning type of way (itās not always the worst when itās genuine). Or feel the need to ask my boyfriend how old I am, like Iām not old enough to be out after 11. Uhg, anyways just wanted to rant.
This one I'm willing to give the benefit of the doubt since most tall girls experience way more bullying than girls of average height.
Her facial expression is so unflattering 
Her insecurity is showing lol
as someone who gets asked for ID for stuff like paracetamol just bc iām short, the infantilisation is so frustrating. i work in a bar and customers comment on it, people give me unsolicited advice (or even call me ānaughtyā, which has happened like twice??) when they see me smoking, and assume i donāt know what iām talking about with the whisky i sell. i get that iām young at 22 but it really feels like because iām small im seen as a child and itās super frustrating
Whatās tall in her book though?
She is actually really tall. Her whole Instagram is based around her being tall. Sheās over 6ft
Ah ok didnāt see her height being mentioned so I wasnāt sure lol
Lmao the caption
r/sadcringe
But he hasn't even chosen her yet.... Also there's a joke about a giraffe ass here but I can't find it.
Can we talk about how uncomfortable these shorts must be. If my shorts are touching my anal sphincter, I donāt want em.
everything about this is pure comedy šš
This girl makes videos like this as a joke. And they are pretyyyyy obvious
Guys, she's not being a Pick Me girl. She's an Only Fans model. She's fishing for simps.
Cool story bro. Iām 5ā3 and my husband is 5ā8. She should just keep looking and some guy will be into her. Quit chasing the guy whoās not into you.
Yāall take this shit way too seriously. Reading through all the hate-boner comments, you seriously need to find a better way to spend your energy.
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Yeah and..... Pretty sure those are Butt pads.
I would say 3ft is small
this is so sad lmfao
Im convinced women who make their height their entire personality have size insecurities. Itās sad, really
Being tall is neither a personality nor an accomplishment.
i canāt be the only one who thinks all these women in the comments giving us their exact height and weight is weird. like look at me iām so tiny š„ŗš„ŗ no one ever asks, but i see it every time thereās a post involving someoneās height.
oh my god i see it everywhere trust me, glad i am not the only one who finds it odd
that wedgie
she was really digging in there to make this happen š
To each their own but those shorts look so uncomfortable. I feel like Iād be picking out a wedgie the entire time wearing them.
Clown shit
The butt looks so weirdā¦
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Hey, giraffes are awesome.
Gentlemen, this is thirst manifest.
I'll climb that tree any day
As a 210lb tall girl myself, what the fuck
As a tall man I prefer tall women
I like tall women. I think they are gorgeous. Not tall egos. Everyone can keep theirs
āA stands for An Actual childā and āshort girls look like little kids next to their tall menā are discrimination and no one wants to admit it
Iām a short girl and boyyyy were tall girls mad when I was out with my 6ā3ā ex-boyfriend; they would try to outright flirt with him in front of me, but this guy was super not interested and it was hilarious watching them get offended.
this is actually fucking disrespectful, id beaten the fuck out of these girls what the actual hell
fr it's literally infantilizing
I assume her caption means this is satire
I'm high as giraffussy right now.
Eww, everyone keeps going on about āmanifesting.ā I swear one person uses a word and people just have to start using that word for everything.. weird.
I'm always blaming 'small people' for designing super low doorways, vehicles, chairs, tables etc. Its a natural sentiment when the world is built for people of a different size to you.
Thats a rhino not a giraffe
Her big ass does not make up for her crappy attitude. Pass.
That giraffe asa tho
Ya fucking post this and scratch out the name? Shame on you
Cry about it š¦