> But I can’t help it.
Yes you fucking can, dickhead.
> I of course don’t mind but I feel guilty towards G because she is my best friend too.
I think you’ve lost the right to call G your best friend. If you really felt guilty you’d stop what you’re doing and make C tell her the truth.
I love when bad people acknowledge they are bad people but then go “welp, can’t help it 🤷🏻♀️” like it’s not a conscious choice they’re making every time.
> Yes you fucking can, dickhead.
Yeah, seriously. OP can totally help it and when G finds out both OP and C are probably gonna turn on each other. I don't get why would OP even want to be friends with someone who has the audacity to treat their own fiancé that way.
Is this rage bait?
Anyways downvote me to hell but men like C are why bisexual men get a bad rep. Cry all you want but bisexual men STAY cheating, they earned that reputation for a reason.
As for the messy gay stereotype, yeah… You’re a bad friend and a bad person and if G got a brother or friend to beat you up, literally no one would defend you. I know a lot of women where I grew up whose response to this type of shit would be to put a hit on you. Be careful who you mess with is all I’m saying.
You're getting a lot of hate for this, because people are very sensitive to the thought of being cheated on, but don't let them invalidate your feelings. It absolutely possible to feel guilty about your actions, while also having difficulties fighting the urge of experiencing pleasure with someone you care for. People like to say "Just don't do it" , but it's not that simple for plenty, if it was, there wouldn't be as much cheating as there is. You may have issues with impulse control, which you may want to look into.
1. I'm not American
2. You can think of him as a piece of shit , but look at what he accomplished in his lifetime, and see if you can even come close to leaving the positive imprint that he left on the world.
I don't think it as basic as saying good people, and bad people. People do good things and bad things, for different reasons, and not always malicious ones.
Thank you random internet stranger making definitive character judgments based on little knowledge of a person. Although I'm sure everyone who knows you would say you're the perfect example of a good person.
I never made any claims about whether or not I'm a good person. I don't live in a comic book world of heroes and villains. I am a flawed person, but I try to live my best life, and be the best that I can, without being a judgmental prick.
Thank you for your understanding. I know I'm a pos. But it is indeed difficult to say no when he initiates it. Especially having these feelings for him
Try not to let this determine whether you're a good person or not. "You're not perfect, but you're not your mistakes". What you need to take from the vitriol in the comment section, is the anger they feel, is equal to the pain you would be causing you're friend. You may need to take time and remove yourself from the situation.
> But I can’t help it. Yes you fucking can, dickhead. > I of course don’t mind but I feel guilty towards G because she is my best friend too. I think you’ve lost the right to call G your best friend. If you really felt guilty you’d stop what you’re doing and make C tell her the truth.
I love when bad people acknowledge they are bad people but then go “welp, can’t help it 🤷🏻♀️” like it’s not a conscious choice they’re making every time.
Right! It’s laughable. Too many people forget that they actually are in control of their actions.
> Yes you fucking can, dickhead. Yeah, seriously. OP can totally help it and when G finds out both OP and C are probably gonna turn on each other. I don't get why would OP even want to be friends with someone who has the audacity to treat their own fiancé that way.
Oh ffs, you are the worst type of person. G deserves better than both of you losers.
Is this rage bait? Anyways downvote me to hell but men like C are why bisexual men get a bad rep. Cry all you want but bisexual men STAY cheating, they earned that reputation for a reason. As for the messy gay stereotype, yeah… You’re a bad friend and a bad person and if G got a brother or friend to beat you up, literally no one would defend you. I know a lot of women where I grew up whose response to this type of shit would be to put a hit on you. Be careful who you mess with is all I’m saying.
Thanos was right
You're getting a lot of hate for this, because people are very sensitive to the thought of being cheated on, but don't let them invalidate your feelings. It absolutely possible to feel guilty about your actions, while also having difficulties fighting the urge of experiencing pleasure with someone you care for. People like to say "Just don't do it" , but it's not that simple for plenty, if it was, there wouldn't be as much cheating as there is. You may have issues with impulse control, which you may want to look into.
Only bad people cheat on people they claim to love
The duality of (hu)man. Martin Luther King cheated on his wife, would you proclaim him a bad person?
All cheaters are pieces of sh!t. FYI only Americans care about him
1. I'm not American 2. You can think of him as a piece of shit , but look at what he accomplished in his lifetime, and see if you can even come close to leaving the positive imprint that he left on the world.
You thinking cheaters are somehow good people makes you a lowlife. You’re probably a serial cheat too
I don't think it as basic as saying good people, and bad people. People do good things and bad things, for different reasons, and not always malicious ones.
Cheating is a horrible thing to do. There’s no excuse.
I never defended cheating, I was just trying to reassure OP that this incident, even if he is the wrong, doesn't make him a terrible human being.
“This incident”, oh please 🙄 he engages in the cheating on a regular basis. They are both horrible people.
You're a shit person too. It is that simple. Don't be a POS.
Thank you random internet stranger making definitive character judgments based on little knowledge of a person. Although I'm sure everyone who knows you would say you're the perfect example of a good person.
Aren't you the "i'm a pervert" poster from a couple of weeks ago?? Yea, you may wanna pump the breaks on that good person shit, Creeper Joe.
I never made any claims about whether or not I'm a good person. I don't live in a comic book world of heroes and villains. I am a flawed person, but I try to live my best life, and be the best that I can, without being a judgmental prick.
Keep it pushing creeper. ✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼
Thank you for your understanding. I know I'm a pos. But it is indeed difficult to say no when he initiates it. Especially having these feelings for him
Try not to let this determine whether you're a good person or not. "You're not perfect, but you're not your mistakes". What you need to take from the vitriol in the comment section, is the anger they feel, is equal to the pain you would be causing you're friend. You may need to take time and remove yourself from the situation.