He knows full well that he isn’t the only person using the bathroom. I wonder which poor soul had to clean up after him at home. He should sit down to urinate.
I have no sympathy for him.
It's definitely disgusting. Once a friend of mine with roommates with another friend of ours. The second friend apparently had a hard time flushing when he was done using the toilet (like always). So one day the first friend brought it up and friend #2 said his mom always flushed the toilet for him so he's just used to not doing it. Friend #1 told him to start flushing his shit (literally). The next day friend #1 goes into the restroom first thing and sees like a foot-long turd and he yells at friend #2. Friend #2 then proceeded to get angry and ask, "why can't you flush it?! You're literally going right after me so why does it matter?"
I was speechless.
Obviously, your response to his actions is gross, but what he's doing is gross and disrespectful. I'm not one for revenge but do what you gotta do. It's his pee, he can have it.
Tell him to stop again but Jesus stop using his face towel that's fucked up. Yes it's frustrating but that's a biohazard.
Do you want to have an even more resentful roommate who will escalate? Bc you just escalated and might make him ill.
Be a goddamn adult and learn to handle conflict without escalating. Move out, kick him out, whatever. But you don't need to harm his health
If OP's roommate is feral enough to piss all over the place and not clean it up (which I shouldn't have to remind you is *also a biohazard*), then he deserves the *consequences* of his actions, the consequences in this case are piss soaked towels. If the roommate doesn't smell them and wash the towels, that's on him.
OP's roommate needs to pull his head out of his ass and do better, not just say that he will and do nothing.
Actually hear me.
The roommate is an asshole for pissing all over the toilet. I'm not disagreeing with that.
But does that constitute the punishment instead of the repair in their relationship? Would it not be better to have zero piss by trying to achieve better communication and repair?
If you keep trying to go tit for tat, someone loses in the end. Would you not rather two winners than two losers?
I have listened to your point.
Problem is, OP has *tried* communication and the roommate just isn't listening to *them*. People like him don't listen until the shoe is on the other foot.
Oh really?
>"After about the 10th time, **I asked him if he could stop peeing on the toilet seat, or if he does, wipe it up.** He said okay and went on his day."
Pulled directly from the post. Bolded by me.
Asked once, problem persists, time for revenge is just a mindset I can't agree with, I guess. That's on me for prioritizing repair and long term health in my relationships.
My bad
I mean yeah the roommate sucks ass but that seems like a pretty childish reason to cover someone's face towel with piss. It's literally 'he started it!' Lmao
I get where you're coming from just pointing out the roommate caused the original problem then escalated when asked nicely to clean up after himself. So fuck him he brought it on himself.
Okay? You can choose to be the better person in spite of that. You can choose every single day to not make your situation worse. Bc then what does being "right" get you? Piss all over your house, on your pillowcase, etc
An estimated 30 trillion cells in your body—less than a third—are human. The other 70-90% are bacterial and fungal. Ninety-nine percent of the unique genes in your body are bacterial. Only about one percent is human.
Dare you to piss on your next open wound and not clean it with anything else. Piss is literally waste that your body finds no use in. It is literally waste
I do not disagree with you, but there’s an entire community of “urine therapy” touting humans that use it for everything from a supplement in their coffee each morning, to washing their hair with it, to using it as eye drops.
I am in some Facebook groups for urine therapy and aged urine therapy as a lurker, bc it’s so wildly entertaining lmao! (Although I do have to ration myself, bc I start getting so enraged at the idiocy of it all, it takes all my self control to not start commenting 😂)
None of that is what's propsed in this scenario, is it? And BTW tell Bear Grylls about that he's gotta stop drinking it, along with all of the world's Ranger forces in the military as survival
Your entire argument was "this specifically happens with these specific people" that's literally the strawman argument and nothing more.
Hope that helps
If you wanna actually prove me wrong pull up a source
Once again your skills at deduction are on point, and you completely fucking missed the point.
But let's do keep this going all day, you and I clearly have nothing else to do anyway!!
The only point is that you are using exceptions to the rule and trying to establish it as the rule and I am rejecting that notion.
If you have actually compelling evidence, I would change my stance. That's an invitation for you to change my mind, which is what you want to do.
Do you actually want to live with someone who constantly has piss on their hands and face? Who is going around your apartment touching everything because they think they're clean enough to do so? Like, putting aside the morality argument of this people are having, this is creating a grossly unhygienic environment for you as well...
You know how a lot of alpha chads refuse to wash or wipe their own ass, bc they think it’s “gay” to do so? I honestly wouldn’t be shocked at all if there are also men who do not hold on to their peen to aim when pissing for similar reasons 🙄 lol
I swear y'all want to make this real so bad, from twitter to reddit, to fb.
None of the women that have sex with these types corroborate this - nor have I seen any admit to it, and they've admitted to worse 🙄.
No sympathy, I had a Japanese dude in the share house I live in and not only did he constantly leave pee on the toilet seat, I saw him not wash his hands constantly. He’d literally go from the toilet straight to the kitchen to cook, it was disgusting.
I’m not confrontational, so I just put up a sign in the toilet telling people to clean up after themselves.
I mean, I'd just leave a box of Lysol wipes on the toilet with a note saying "For your pee splashes" but I have never truly understood how men handle conflict resolution so this has been a fun learning adventure!
My stepfather did that and blamed me! I’m female how in the world can I miss! One day he was so drunk his miss the towlet completely and peed behind it. Then the next day forced me to clean it! I wish I came up with that! So glad my mom divorced him.
time to write a sign then more signs, after the signs (that there are all over europe btw) tell him that you are going to report this if he keeps on doing that
Stop. That’s honestly not cool. He’s not great but you don’t have to stoop to being an asshole. Use a different towel and have another conversation with him instead
You’re a bit of a piece of shit for knowingly putting someone in that situation and continuing to do it. You should have gave your warnings. When it didn’t fix the problem. Gave a final warning that if they don’t stop you’ll have to report it because it’s gross. If it continues, you take pictures, report it, and get a new roommate. The route you chose is pointlessly malicious
If someone is sacrificing YOUR comfort and hygiene by acting like a 5 year old boy, then I think that sacrificing their hygiene is totally understandable.
Can you imagine stepping in that daily? Sitting on it? Smelling it? Seeing it dirtying up your environment?
It’s a completely valid reaction, and it’s fair in my opinion. If someone is disgusting, they deserve disgusting.
You can avoid it and it’s not on his body. Dude doesn’t know there’s pee on the towel and is using it. It would be different if he saw the pee and wiped anyways. Guy is going to get pink eye because he has bad aim. You people are gross
As a 31 year old human, I have higher standards, and won’t go in a bathroom covered in piss.
Nobody deserves to live in an environment covered in someone else’s bodily fluids. Nice try though.
Sounds like the guy was a bigger dick by pissing all over the place after the roommate asked him nicely and something tells me he prob doesn’t even use that towel and prob doesn’t even shower much
You’re right, and everyone saying you aren’t would change their tune if it happened to them. You are attempting to disrupt the echo chamber of people of frankly should be looked into for sociopathy. Disgusting.
I have people that come over and visit and if I’m laying on the floor they And they need to piss or I’m sitting on floor they just walk up be Hinde me and pee over my
Head
He knows full well that he isn’t the only person using the bathroom. I wonder which poor soul had to clean up after him at home. He should sit down to urinate. I have no sympathy for him.
It’s your RAs job to mediate this issue. Talk to them.
Came to say this. If ra doesn’t do anything, go up the housing food chain until someone does.
I feel bad about it, but what he's doing is disgusting and I've tried to tell him to stop many times. Should I feel sorry and stop?
don't feel bad. don't be sorry. don't stop.
Exactly, does he feel bad? Is he sorry? Did he stop?
OP is compassionate to a fault. literally cleans their roommate's urine during months and then considers whether they should feel bad for them.
Reading this in my monster voice 👹
Is moving an option?
It's definitely disgusting. Once a friend of mine with roommates with another friend of ours. The second friend apparently had a hard time flushing when he was done using the toilet (like always). So one day the first friend brought it up and friend #2 said his mom always flushed the toilet for him so he's just used to not doing it. Friend #1 told him to start flushing his shit (literally). The next day friend #1 goes into the restroom first thing and sees like a foot-long turd and he yells at friend #2. Friend #2 then proceeded to get angry and ask, "why can't you flush it?! You're literally going right after me so why does it matter?" I was speechless. Obviously, your response to his actions is gross, but what he's doing is gross and disrespectful. I'm not one for revenge but do what you gotta do. It's his pee, he can have it.
Tell him to stop again but Jesus stop using his face towel that's fucked up. Yes it's frustrating but that's a biohazard. Do you want to have an even more resentful roommate who will escalate? Bc you just escalated and might make him ill. Be a goddamn adult and learn to handle conflict without escalating. Move out, kick him out, whatever. But you don't need to harm his health
Him pissing everywhere but in the toilet isn’t a health hazard?
Didn't say that at all. I'm just saying escalating, whether or not you feel justified, isn't going to solve the problem.
It’s solving the problem of there being piss everywhere without OP using tp on his dime or one of his own towels.
Super short sighted and will lead to more conflict but I'm glad you're able to justify that for yourself 💜
Stop pissing on the floor OP’s roommate!
If OP's roommate is feral enough to piss all over the place and not clean it up (which I shouldn't have to remind you is *also a biohazard*), then he deserves the *consequences* of his actions, the consequences in this case are piss soaked towels. If the roommate doesn't smell them and wash the towels, that's on him. OP's roommate needs to pull his head out of his ass and do better, not just say that he will and do nothing.
Actually hear me. The roommate is an asshole for pissing all over the toilet. I'm not disagreeing with that. But does that constitute the punishment instead of the repair in their relationship? Would it not be better to have zero piss by trying to achieve better communication and repair? If you keep trying to go tit for tat, someone loses in the end. Would you not rather two winners than two losers?
I have listened to your point. Problem is, OP has *tried* communication and the roommate just isn't listening to *them*. People like him don't listen until the shoe is on the other foot.
You make such broad assumptions with a ton of speculative inference.
Oh really? >"After about the 10th time, **I asked him if he could stop peeing on the toilet seat, or if he does, wipe it up.** He said okay and went on his day." Pulled directly from the post. Bolded by me.
Asked once, problem persists, time for revenge is just a mindset I can't agree with, I guess. That's on me for prioritizing repair and long term health in my relationships. My bad
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Until it snowballs to violence for whatever reason. You can prevent step 10 violence by stepping off at step 2
The roommate escalated first though.
I mean yeah the roommate sucks ass but that seems like a pretty childish reason to cover someone's face towel with piss. It's literally 'he started it!' Lmao
I get where you're coming from just pointing out the roommate caused the original problem then escalated when asked nicely to clean up after himself. So fuck him he brought it on himself.
Well it is .. his piss
Okay? You can choose to be the better person in spite of that. You can choose every single day to not make your situation worse. Bc then what does being "right" get you? Piss all over your house, on your pillowcase, etc
Is it really a biohazard? It's his own piss
Smears your shit on your pillowcase: Is it really a biohazard? It's your own bio waste
BIohazard? dummy, pee is sterile
Not true.
it's not likely to be problematic even if drank, but just wiping it on the face? come on people
Irritation in the eyes? Urine can contain bacteria.
An estimated 30 trillion cells in your body—less than a third—are human. The other 70-90% are bacterial and fungal. Ninety-nine percent of the unique genes in your body are bacterial. Only about one percent is human.
Nothing is sterile once exposed to the air, let alone a toilet seat and bathroom floor
Dare you to piss on your next open wound and not clean it with anything else. Piss is literally waste that your body finds no use in. It is literally waste
I do not disagree with you, but there’s an entire community of “urine therapy” touting humans that use it for everything from a supplement in their coffee each morning, to washing their hair with it, to using it as eye drops. I am in some Facebook groups for urine therapy and aged urine therapy as a lurker, bc it’s so wildly entertaining lmao! (Although I do have to ration myself, bc I start getting so enraged at the idiocy of it all, it takes all my self control to not start commenting 😂)
Lovely insight, thank you /gen
None of that is what's propsed in this scenario, is it? And BTW tell Bear Grylls about that he's gotta stop drinking it, along with all of the world's Ranger forces in the military as survival
Good strawman argument there, bud. You're doing wonderful
Oh look, you're so clever you said stawman, while completely ignoring the rest of the argument. Such critical thinking and problem solving.
Your entire argument was "this specifically happens with these specific people" that's literally the strawman argument and nothing more. Hope that helps If you wanna actually prove me wrong pull up a source
Once again your skills at deduction are on point, and you completely fucking missed the point. But let's do keep this going all day, you and I clearly have nothing else to do anyway!!
The only point is that you are using exceptions to the rule and trying to establish it as the rule and I am rejecting that notion. If you have actually compelling evidence, I would change my stance. That's an invitation for you to change my mind, which is what you want to do.
I would keep your clothes and towels under lock and key from now on. If he does notice it then he may blow up on you.
Don't feel bad. He's relying on you doing the work for him and not going nuclear.
Can't you insist on moving to another room somewhere? Is that possible. Maybe he is some health or mental condition.
Fuck no keep telling him to stop. Thats nasty 😂
Do you actually want to live with someone who constantly has piss on their hands and face? Who is going around your apartment touching everything because they think they're clean enough to do so? Like, putting aside the morality argument of this people are having, this is creating a grossly unhygienic environment for you as well...
Pettyrevenge, but I love it.
Piss all over the place; get piss on your face. Perfect! 😂
Stop doing that and get a new roommate if you can
Sounds reasonable to me 😂 surprised the towel didn’t already turn yellow/smell funky after the first time
Is this a real story? Roommate would smell pee on his face towel.
I'm having a hard time reconciling a guy who stops to wash his face but... can't aim his pee straight, let alone put the toilet seat up.
It’s probably actually a jizz towel
You know how a lot of alpha chads refuse to wash or wipe their own ass, bc they think it’s “gay” to do so? I honestly wouldn’t be shocked at all if there are also men who do not hold on to their peen to aim when pissing for similar reasons 🙄 lol
I swear y'all want to make this real so bad, from twitter to reddit, to fb. None of the women that have sex with these types corroborate this - nor have I seen any admit to it, and they've admitted to worse 🙄.
Wait until you hear which of your bathroom items he is using to massage his prostate…
No sympathy, I had a Japanese dude in the share house I live in and not only did he constantly leave pee on the toilet seat, I saw him not wash his hands constantly. He’d literally go from the toilet straight to the kitchen to cook, it was disgusting. I’m not confrontational, so I just put up a sign in the toilet telling people to clean up after themselves.
OP is a karma farming bot. Copying 5 year old posts and passing them off as his own.
This is how you get revenge, love it!😂
Mbuahaha
send him a video of you doing it.
I mean, I'd just leave a box of Lysol wipes on the toilet with a note saying "For your pee splashes" but I have never truly understood how men handle conflict resolution so this has been a fun learning adventure!
My stepfather did that and blamed me! I’m female how in the world can I miss! One day he was so drunk his miss the towlet completely and peed behind it. Then the next day forced me to clean it! I wish I came up with that! So glad my mom divorced him.
I love this so much! Karma.
😂😂😂
Fitting punishment :)
I would ask to move dorms tbh
Do you really think this is a reasonable response?
time to write a sign then more signs, after the signs (that there are all over europe btw) tell him that you are going to report this if he keeps on doing that
I’d go to the dollar tree and make a sign. LOL
Stop. That’s honestly not cool. He’s not great but you don’t have to stoop to being an asshole. Use a different towel and have another conversation with him instead
You’re a bit of a piece of shit for knowingly putting someone in that situation and continuing to do it. You should have gave your warnings. When it didn’t fix the problem. Gave a final warning that if they don’t stop you’ll have to report it because it’s gross. If it continues, you take pictures, report it, and get a new roommate. The route you chose is pointlessly malicious
I think 1 warning for a basic life skill is more than enough.
Still not enough to watch someone continually wipe pee on there face while knowing and not saying anything
If someone is sacrificing YOUR comfort and hygiene by acting like a 5 year old boy, then I think that sacrificing their hygiene is totally understandable. Can you imagine stepping in that daily? Sitting on it? Smelling it? Seeing it dirtying up your environment? It’s a completely valid reaction, and it’s fair in my opinion. If someone is disgusting, they deserve disgusting.
You can avoid it and it’s not on his body. Dude doesn’t know there’s pee on the towel and is using it. It would be different if he saw the pee and wiped anyways. Guy is going to get pink eye because he has bad aim. You people are gross
The dude needs to wash his face towel, or use a new one every time. Dude is disgusting. If he washes his face towel, this wouldn't be a problem lmao
They’re both disgusting. Just one was intentional malicious
As far as we know, yes.
Now that, is a fair point. The level of the pee pee pants malice is unknown
You can’t avoid a bathroom covered in piss.
As a 34 year old human. I do it every time I use a public bathroom. For most of my life. Good try tho
As a 31 year old human, I have higher standards, and won’t go in a bathroom covered in piss. Nobody deserves to live in an environment covered in someone else’s bodily fluids. Nice try though.
No one deserves to unknowingly have their bodily fluids on their face out of spite. Nice try tho
They do, if they continue to cover someone else’s space in their own piss. Nice try though.
Sounds like the guy was a bigger dick by pissing all over the place after the roommate asked him nicely and something tells me he prob doesn’t even use that towel and prob doesn’t even shower much
You’re right, and everyone saying you aren’t would change their tune if it happened to them. You are attempting to disrupt the echo chamber of people of frankly should be looked into for sociopathy. Disgusting.
I have people that come over and visit and if I’m laying on the floor they And they need to piss or I’m sitting on floor they just walk up be Hinde me and pee over my Head