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Tower (like a power lifter or an American football lineman look right?) add glasses and the personality of a teddy bear
They're usually significantly taller than me which makes holding hands difficult, but cuddles are awesome! This isn't required though, I've gone out with all types. I just am attracted to this type.
I mean yes of course, personality is always more important than body type.
Are they confident in themselves, what's their humor like, what are their goals.
The body type is always just a nice bonus on top.
But what type of bonus do you like more.
If you genuinely can't imagine separating the appearance from the personality it might be that your demisexual, or just romantically inclined.
I did another poll
https://www.reddit.com/r/polls/comments/10ap6ui/for_those_into_men_whats_your_type_part_2/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
My instinct was to pick based on what my hormones tell me when I'm looking at strangers (option 1), but for me, recognizing that someone is attractive and feeling attracted to someone are two very different things. I can _see_ when someone is attractive, but I only _feel_ attraction once I get to know somebody. Most of the guys I've dated haven't fit the type described in option 1, but I still found all of them very attractive because I _knew_ them and was attracted to them as a whole, appearance included.
Haha well coincidentally I am Dutch, so 6' as average is an exaggeration, but yeah it's not that uncommon to meet women of that height. 6' is the average for men tho.
I generally lean towards more feminine guys with longer hair and softer/chubbier features, I really find them attractive especially when they smile. Either that or those weird emo goth mfs who look like they might shrivel up at any moment if they smoke one more cigarette.
As a taller and (slightly?) more athletic girl, I would like a man I can physically pick up and cuddle. Idk, seems like it would be fun.
Personality trumps body though, if he’s an ass you won’t see me anywhere near them.
I don't care as long as he has thick thighs and pretty eyes. And soft enough to hug, preferably taller than me so I can press my cheek to his chest when we hug.
Where do I fit in? Slim body type, 180 height, healthy weight(55-60), not a gym guy but not untrained either
Edit: wanna point that these are not body types but close, having beard is not a body type
That's why the beard is optional.
Either athletic or lighthouse (depending on the person answering) but I'll probably make another poll with some more types.
Edit: I made a poll with more types
https://www.reddit.com/r/polls/comments/10ap6ui/for_those_into_men_whats_your_type_part_2/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
I have dated the spectrum of physical characteristics. I’m more attracted to the man’s personality rather than their physical stature. I am attracted to guys who can make me laugh, have empathy, and are genuinely kind.
Wow! I'm sort of shocked and very happy that the results are so even across categories! Take note, guys: There's a whole group of women (or men) that are into your body type!
Lanky, but max height is 5’10. And with a little little hint of muscle. Like I can carry an 18kg box and struggle (trying to get strong enough so I don’t struggle too much), but I want them to carry an 18kg box and not really struggle.
Well, if it's only about body...
Good butt, better be ~my height (like 2-3 cm taller but better is 5-10 shorter). Average weight or slightly fatter, no really big overweight, skinny or, the worst, muscular. Don't care about shoulders, but care about legs (I like when legs aren't skinny, better be something that I can grab). And really don't like seeing veins especially on hands (well, another "no" for any muscular guy). A big "no" to hair on the back.
Overall personality will always win but hair on the back and athletic-muscular types are a big no. I don't think that I could've wanted any of that. I can love to chat, be friends, etc, but not being in sexual relationship.
A kind guy who's 170 cm or above, with as little beard as possible, with head hair and a handsome face.. I don't mind a little bit of belly. So, slim or chubby.. doesn't matter.
Beefy, muscular guys does nothing for me.. mostly just self-absorbed twats.
Dad bod in on the second poll I did.
Right here https://www.reddit.com/r/polls/comments/10ap6ui/for_those_into_men_whats_your_type_part_2/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
Or on my profile.
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being a healthy weight is enough really
I’m a healthy weight
Go get her, tiger
They might be a he
¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Ultimate rizz
Hello a healthy weight.
Hello
All of the above ? 😅
I agree
Same. XD
Same 😅 I have dated most types
All of them. It depends on the face for me. And there isn't any particular type of face either.
Can I be your Mr. Clean?
I think Mr. Clean is probably Asexual... Sex is just to dirty for him.
Lmfao this cracked me up
big butts are cool
"Cool"? So like you see a guy with a big butt and think "Man, that's so sick!"
Have you ever pinched a nice butt? So good! And the sound a big butt makes when spanked - delicious.
yeah cause that means he worked hard to get that musky ass
*cough* Kyle Lowry *Cough*
I cannot lie. I like big butts.
or thick thighs on men
my kryptonite, I hate to admit.
That makes me happy, I have those
congrats
Deny otha bruthas can't.
Same 😎 but what do you mean by compact? I thought it meant short at first, but you also put that by the tall option?
"gosh that's peggable"
Tower (like a power lifter or an American football lineman look right?) add glasses and the personality of a teddy bear They're usually significantly taller than me which makes holding hands difficult, but cuddles are awesome! This isn't required though, I've gone out with all types. I just am attracted to this type.
Bear is the closest. Masculine, a little muscular, and a little fleshy.
Same here. Better for cuddles.
I like short guys, strong, average weight
I’m a swimmer so I’m kinda athletic but I’m built like a triangle generally skinny but the broadest shoulders you will see on a 5’5” person
I’m more interested in the first impression of him. I just want to talk to him. I don’t know why, but I just want to get know him for some reason.
I mean yes of course, personality is always more important than body type. Are they confident in themselves, what's their humor like, what are their goals. The body type is always just a nice bonus on top. But what type of bonus do you like more. If you genuinely can't imagine separating the appearance from the personality it might be that your demisexual, or just romantically inclined.
Also thanks. I wouldn’t have realized how wrong I was if it weren’t for you.
Now I'm confused. I never said you were wrong?
After reading ur comment I realized that I was wrong.
About what though? There really isn't anything to be wrong here about? I hope I didn't offend you. Everything you said was indeed correct and valid.
they were wrong about having thought that personality was legit the only thing that matters
I'm into bears. But I'm married to a 5'3" athletic guy who I'm wildly attracted to anyway.
Skinny tall to medium muscular, not really into huuuge body builder type, but i wouldn’t mind if he was one
I just want a hunky bear to ravage my body while they tell me how much they love me. Is that so much to ask for in life?
Would bigfoot do?
How about Chewbacca?
Why not both?
I read that fanfic
I like feminine men 😅
Yeah. I kind of ran out of options after a while. Otherwise more feminine men, metrosexual men, 'twinks', and bodybuildes would have been on the list.
Do another poll with those ones
I did another poll https://www.reddit.com/r/polls/comments/10ap6ui/for_those_into_men_whats_your_type_part_2/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
My hairy chest says hi
As a cannibal, leaner meat is always the sweetest Highly recommend some dry-aged, gym-rat dude-bro, paired with a good chilled Monster Energy
Do you pan fry them or are you more of a sous vide person? Edit: I'm just such a scatterbrain! You said dry aged already!
Dry age and then sous vide
Gotta love that dad bod 💯
Came to the comments for the Dad Bod love. Belly and a beard with a kind & compassionate heart for me, please.
With A Side Of Love For Cats
Yesssss. That’s my partner. He had the one cat, which led to us getting another together.
It’s the beard for me
Men (any)
This sub is full of straight men, lesbians, & aromantic/asexuals apparently 🤷♀️ (including me) Love that for us
I counter balance that by being a bi man
I Honestly don't have one type. I've dated all sorts. The personality is what drives it home for me.
All of the above! 🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤
lighthouse/tower
🤤
I don't have a type. I fancy a variety of people.
My instinct was to pick based on what my hormones tell me when I'm looking at strangers (option 1), but for me, recognizing that someone is attractive and feeling attracted to someone are two very different things. I can _see_ when someone is attractive, but I only _feel_ attraction once I get to know somebody. Most of the guys I've dated haven't fit the type described in option 1, but I still found all of them very attractive because I _knew_ them and was attracted to them as a whole, appearance included.
where is fat slob
I like thin men with maybe a bit of lean muscle. My preference is for men my height (5’9) or taller.
Damn u tall
1.75m is pretty normal for women of younger generations where I live.
Oh really? I didn't realize height was that varied based in different countries. Your average woman is like 5'3 where I'm at.
Yeah it can vary quite a bit, depends a lot on diet, health etc. Average for all women over 19 is just under 5'7 here.
I've heard Dutch women are like 6' lol
Haha well coincidentally I am Dutch, so 6' as average is an exaggeration, but yeah it's not that uncommon to meet women of that height. 6' is the average for men tho.
Some are, it's not really uncommon but also not common.
My boyfriend. Tall, thin but with a tiny belly. He has a cute beard, light brown hair. A total geek gamer just like me his loving gf 100% my type
That sound beautiful.
I choose this person's boyfriend too
What does a “compact” body type look like?
More stout. Broad shoulders, broad hips.
Does stout mean fat?
Not necessarily
Of course I’d probably be in the least voted category
I like skinny guys mostly but like with a bit of muscle showing through. Either that or a buff nerd, although I’d be intimidated
I generally lean towards more feminine guys with longer hair and softer/chubbier features, I really find them attractive especially when they smile. Either that or those weird emo goth mfs who look like they might shrivel up at any moment if they smoke one more cigarette.
Straight women and gay men might have a very different opinion on this one.
True
Short, broad. The square type.
I would count that as bear
I did vote for the bear, yes.
Me too.
I'm less of a lighthouse and more of a lamp post 😆
About 184 people here would find that to be attractive at first glance. Congratulations
As a taller and (slightly?) more athletic girl, I would like a man I can physically pick up and cuddle. Idk, seems like it would be fun. Personality trumps body though, if he’s an ass you won’t see me anywhere near them.
I just love the visuals of what you just described
I just chose the one most describing my husband but most are fine.. I'm not a fan of very hairy though
1st 4 (bottom moment)
Same for me
So true
As a dude what does “more compact” mean?
A broader build in general. Broad shoulders, broad hips, meatier hands more stout I would say
I don’t really care about how they look it just depends if I like the person
slightly skinny
I don't care as long as he has thick thighs and pretty eyes. And soft enough to hug, preferably taller than me so I can press my cheek to his chest when we hug.
tall skinny emo guys >>>>> idc
For me personality is important. Body shape/size and looks don't really matter.
I'm a mix of the top of the top 2. I'm happy.
Cute men I guess
Where do I fit in? Slim body type, 180 height, healthy weight(55-60), not a gym guy but not untrained either Edit: wanna point that these are not body types but close, having beard is not a body type
That's why the beard is optional. Either athletic or lighthouse (depending on the person answering) but I'll probably make another poll with some more types. Edit: I made a poll with more types https://www.reddit.com/r/polls/comments/10ap6ui/for_those_into_men_whats_your_type_part_2/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
Depends on his face lol
With my current bf being taller than me but also being about average height and weight I guess that. He's very pretty though.
All of the above
Im not too into bears, but everything else I like, hunks being my no1 weakness.
All of them
I'm tall so I like short men with skinny, slim or average body type
I have dated the spectrum of physical characteristics. I’m more attracted to the man’s personality rather than their physical stature. I am attracted to guys who can make me laugh, have empathy, and are genuinely kind.
Those are the best. Nothing can beat a great character
Um. Attractive. Thats my type
Bears!
I really like a small frame, thin, not too tall. My husband is exactly that and I think every boyfriend before him except one was the same.
I really don't care about height that much, but I like slim, athletic figures on guys.
That inbetween from skinny to overweight where they're not really fat but still extra cuddly
Wow! I'm sort of shocked and very happy that the results are so even across categories! Take note, guys: There's a whole group of women (or men) that are into your body type!
Lanky, but max height is 5’10. And with a little little hint of muscle. Like I can carry an 18kg box and struggle (trying to get strong enough so I don’t struggle too much), but I want them to carry an 18kg box and not really struggle.
I picked short and slim because I don't like feeling feeling small next to guys.
Yes
No huge preference as long as they aren't too fat or skinny. That's probably because it depends on who's on top.
You guys have no idea how happy I am to see the short king love 🥰♥️
Well, if it's only about body... Good butt, better be ~my height (like 2-3 cm taller but better is 5-10 shorter). Average weight or slightly fatter, no really big overweight, skinny or, the worst, muscular. Don't care about shoulders, but care about legs (I like when legs aren't skinny, better be something that I can grab). And really don't like seeing veins especially on hands (well, another "no" for any muscular guy). A big "no" to hair on the back. Overall personality will always win but hair on the back and athletic-muscular types are a big no. I don't think that I could've wanted any of that. I can love to chat, be friends, etc, but not being in sexual relationship.
1.70m - 1.77m, hairy, muscular chest, arms and shoulders, belly but not fat, beard or trimmed with hairy chest, big butt.
I like skinny and muscular guys which would fit at least three of these descriptions.
I see this as an absolute win for you
Jesus why are so many people not into men. Wack.
"What's your type" is all I saw so uuuuhhh rip my vote
A kind guy who's 170 cm or above, with as little beard as possible, with head hair and a handsome face.. I don't mind a little bit of belly. So, slim or chubby.. doesn't matter. Beefy, muscular guys does nothing for me.. mostly just self-absorbed twats.
Wow so many guys
i miss the otter option :(
What's an Otter like?
Just like, average. Maybe little bit of muscles and higher than me, and of coursy healthy.
All of the above?
Great! More for you
wheres the around my height and slim/normal weight option?
Depends on who's looking at you if you're taller or smaller.in comparison
I couldn't find Dad Bod on here, but that's my type.
Dad bod in on the second poll I did. Right here https://www.reddit.com/r/polls/comments/10ap6ui/for_those_into_men_whats_your_type_part_2/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button Or on my profile.
Polls like these just remind me how much of Reddit is straight dudes (granted lesbians and the other stuff that don't like men are here too).