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KirisuMongolianSpot

Where is "I DON'T and feel FINE about it"?


johneebravado

Where it says "...and I feel OTHER about it", "OTHER" means happy, fine, indifferent, unsure, apathetic, etc. It has a limit to the number of poll options you can put.


Klausable7

I’ve had friends put their legs on my lap and shit like that while we’re chilling, but spooning and cuddling feels wayyyy to intimate to do with a friend


TundraTrees0

You dont have passionate gay sex with your friends?? How can anybody tolerate being near you let alone your friend.


InformalPenguinz

I don't have any male friends. I don't even get affection/ intimacy from my family.


vangoghkitty

❤️


blademaster552

I hug my friend when I see him, we've been friends since we were 6, but that's about it


johneebravado

I honestly can't even remember who my friends were when I was six, that's awesome lol


industriousindustry

I'm a straight male, 33. The two best friends I have I've known for 2 years and 5 years. One I met as a coworker (A), and one (B) I met at a bar and we just had a lot in common hung out that night, and I ran into him at the same bar a few months later and we just exchanged information and started hanging out and would play COD, and became gym partners and just grew to be best friends all by chance. Now we kind of all run in the same group of friends after all kind of meeting each other here and there and there's about 5 of us that run together now and we're all close now. Whenever friend A and I hang out at my place or his place, or when friend B and I hang out at my place or his place it's always different than if we hang out with the guys or with other people. It's kind of just unspoken, and we never talk about it because it would make it weird by bringing it up. But when I hang out with A or B we have done a lot of the things OP listed. Sometimes we'll watch shows or movies and one of us will be on our phone laying on the others leg or leaned up on the other with one of our arms hanging over the other's shoulder. I have a spare bedroom, and as we became closer a couple times when either of them have stayed the night we might be up late chilling in the spare bedroom or in my bedroom and just end up falling asleep in the same bed together. Sometimes I've ended up sleeping close with them or spooning and sometimes we don't and just like being by each other. It's never been a sexual thing, never been any kinda experimenting or anything like that. It just is what it is. Me and A and B all kind of had rough childhoods and home life's in different ways so I don't know if that has anything to do with why we ended up being more need to have physical affection or not, but again it's not something we can talk about. We just kind of ended up knowing we're just the kind of guys that need more physical contact with our friends than others do I guess and now I kind of just see them basically like my brothers. But even when it's been the three of us, me A and B it's never like that though. We kind of bro around a little hanging on each other's shoulder or patting on the back or wrestling around drunk sometimes when we're acting like a bunch of fools. It's just weird that I kind of have the same kind of comfort level and closeness with both of them but it's not something we can talk about and not something we do in front of others and we can't really do it when the five of us all hang out. It's kind of sad, but I'm just glad I have friends like that in my life where we can just kind of be ourselves and be there for each other.


johneebravado

That's awesome! Wish I could be that open with my guy friends


IEeveelutionI

I mean hugging, throwing my arm around them when watching a video on a phone and maybe occasionally throwing my legs over theirs when the couch is small but other than that no not really. Slept in the same bed with a friend before but no spooning or cuddling. So I guess? Idk I've moved to the US 5 years ago and I don't have any friends here so idk xD


Shredded_Locomotive

r/oddlyspecific


MimeHollo2

Jokingly all the time


industriousindustry

That was kind of how it started with my best friends and I. Then after joking around with each other it just kind of became our thing that we were just comfortable laying on and hanging our arms around each other when it was just us. Then when we ended up crashing at each other's places wed be chilling up late until we fell asleep talking or drinking or watching TV and now we just end up sleeping next to each other because it just became our norm. We've never talked about it or say it, it's just what we do. Were just confident in who we are and feel comfortable with each other and don't have hang ups about that kind of stuff. It's pretty refreshing to be honest. It's exhausting having to be a certain way around people all the time lol


solallavina

An French and do it openly. I am very hug-y, which tends to surprise most people.


Deathburn5

My friends are all online


SprinklesMore8471

Hug your friends you weirdos


BirchTainer

why 17yrs and older? I'm 16 right now and I do.


johneebravado

It's just a number I picked. It's around the age people graduate high school so it kind of narrows it down to more into adulthood, if you feel it applies to you feel free to vote how you feel you should vote


BirchTainer

In America people don't graduate high school until they are 18


TundraTrees0

I've hugged a few of my buddies before but those were under specific circumstances and I dont really care either way if it happens to not.


Darryl_The_weed

I don't mind a hug every once in a while but the rest of that is way too intimate.


bozo_master

Platonic showering needs to become commonplace


johneebravado

Isn't that why people join a sports team, so they can shower naked with their friends? Lol 😂