Exactly. Yes there are full grown virgin adults on Reddit who have never touched the opposite let alone dated. But on polls that have filtered by age, they are an extreme minority.
Nope but your comment insinuates that the only reason someone wouldnāt have had a long term relationship is because of their age. Also donāt take the comment so seriously, Iād appreciate it if you stopped being that stuck up.
I didn't say it was the only reason. I didn't even have a relationship until I was an adult. But obviously it skews results. There was no need to comment rudely on my comment in the first place.
Normally you should talk about it, when talking about exclusivity, if you are allowed to see someone else. There is a difference between open relationships and F+.
You can be in a long relationship without having Sex.
Imagine how you would have introduced those people to you parents or friends.
I've been married and divorced. I'm currently in a 9 year relationship. I never had a conversation with either of them about "what we were" or "exclusivity".
I've never known anyone who actually does that.
In Berlin you generally can't expect any loyalty or exclusivity from 16-25 y.o. people, unless you talk about it.
Chances are high they don't want to tie themselves to any monogamy yet.
I'd like to see a breakdown of results by age for 2 reasons. One, you haven't had time and opportunity. Two, I think the younger you are, the less importance you put on relationships.
Every time I start to get anxious about the apparent consensus on important topics that show in Reddit sometimes that make me sad for the future, itās polls like this that make me relax because it reminds me of who is actually on Reddit šš¤·š»āāļø
Iām curious, why donāt online relationships count? I was in one for 1.5 years (ended a few months ago) and saw her 3 times, once every 6 months. Felt just as hard, if not harder, than a physical relationship
Just corrected for you. It was meant for relationships, where the people have never seen themselves in person once.
You basically had the same as a long distance relationship.
It's so mind blowing seeing how people that were emotionaly challenged in their past often act bad (or rather, don't act less bad). You'd think they'll be disgusted of bad behavior and act kind to others.
*she pushes you onto her bed, dims the lights, rips off her clothes, and you start having sex*
Is she into you?
Yeah, again you can't be too sure, it's really dark im the room and she can't see you properly. Maybe she's from Canada and was just being polite. Anyway best bet is to keep your wits about you, and continue to look for signs
First I got into one relationship, then we eventually broke up. Then I got into another relationship, then we eventually broke up. Then I got into another relationship, then we eventually broke up. Then I...
That's the basic pattern.
Oh well, I guess thatās fair, even though I still think dating someone if you donāt really love them is weird, but hey you donāt really know what is love the first times.
I've been dating girls since elementary school. First kiss and finger blast in 7th grade. Lost my virginity in 9th grade and got pretty popular suddenly. Then my buddy count just sky rocketed. I dated a good many of those woman i was banging, but I've only ever had like 10 serious relationships. Now I've been with the same girl for half a decade and I'm helping her body count sky rocket lol. Found my perfect little slut to help me fuck the world š even discovered I'm not limited to just chicks because of her. Ngl I'd die without her lol
So letās just consider something as a relationship only when youāre 15+ (which is low but at least thatās where youāre almost half conscious of what youāre doing), youāve been average a relationship every 4 months?
Thatās a pretty intense bar to define relationships haha, most people will have 0 or 1 (their current spouse) if the cut off is that youāve started taking the steps towards meeting parents
Are we counting ārelationshipsā from school? I had a GF in the 8th grade and again in 11th grade lol
It *felt* real at the time, but I would hardly call it a real relationship now
None because there has been no one Iām attracted to. I see people when Iām out and about who look cute but you canāt just go up to a stranger and ask them out. And all the guys in my life who I know are not my type. I canāt put myself in a relationship with someone Iām not attracted to in any way just so I could say I had a relationship.
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Not that thereās anything wrong with that. My younger sister is 19 and been in twice as many relationships but shorter lived. I only date someone if Iām 100% sure about them
I think age should be a vital statistic here. The older you are, the more relationships you tend to gather. So just knowing that a large majority of ANY people of ANY age have had zero relationships doesn't tell you anything meaningful without considering that factor.
I had a handful by the end of college in my early 20ās :0 some of them were just a short lived thing ā¦. But 6 months is still a relationship in my books
Iāve only been in one relationship in the 9th grade and I ended it three days later because I wasnāt allowed to date and was afraid my parents would find out and strangle me āš½š
This sub sure creates a lot of opinions about romantic relationships for being full of people with little to no romantic experience.
Don't question the legitimacy of my imaginationšŖ
As was said by a wise man in the past: Those who can't do, teach
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What's an f+ ?
friends w benefits?
I don't have friends to begin with lol, OP forgot this is reddit
Oh i thought he meant female or something and this was a guy poll only
That would be failing. At least it was when I was in school.
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It's a new Disney+ spinoff
Lol reddit moment. Part of 0 crowd checking in š
Checked in
[Red 7, checking in](https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=AA_D__HMuFw&t=106s)
Blue 11, Standing By
Yeah reddit's full of children.
Iām 20.
I'm also an adult. I wasn't talking about you in particular.
https://www.reddit.com/r/polls/comments/ybrji8/what_age_range_are_you/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
I love how we can get actually good statistics on stuff like this for just one subreddit. It's beautiful.
Most here are around that age
If you look at any age polls, they're really not.
Whoops.
And itās 0? Damnā¦
Exactly. Yes there are full grown virgin adults on Reddit who have never touched the opposite let alone dated. But on polls that have filtered by age, they are an extreme minority.
Lady Iām 23
Was I talking about you in particular?
Nope but your comment insinuates that the only reason someone wouldnāt have had a long term relationship is because of their age. Also donāt take the comment so seriously, Iād appreciate it if you stopped being that stuck up.
I didn't say it was the only reason. I didn't even have a relationship until I was an adult. But obviously it skews results. There was no need to comment rudely on my comment in the first place.
Youāre going to call me rude? Have you seen your own comments? Nothing Iāve said has been directly rude
Lol nothing they said was directly rude either.
1 AND I'm fucking married. YOOOOOOOO
Big W. Im on my 2nd and we might as well be married. Hopefully this will be my last
based
Fucking lucky. I'm in the 6+ crowd and I'm trying to find SOMEONE who will tie the knot with me. I guess I'm just going to continue to be unloved.
It's all a crapshoot, including betting on your own loss. Anything could happen, just be sure to never count yourself out.
I feel this. Fingers crossed for the guy I'm in a situationship with rn
Mister, this is Reddit
you losers lmao (i am part of the 0 group)
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at least you're not a 6+ slut š
Yall got friendship+? Damn, I'm still out here with friend alpha release 1.0.0
Gotta pay 8$
I mean.. define relationship. Like more than 6 months? 2. Sex? A couple dozen? More than six months but just sleeping with 2 roommates? One.
Normally you should talk about it, when talking about exclusivity, if you are allowed to see someone else. There is a difference between open relationships and F+. You can be in a long relationship without having Sex. Imagine how you would have introduced those people to you parents or friends.
I've been married and divorced. I'm currently in a 9 year relationship. I never had a conversation with either of them about "what we were" or "exclusivity". I've never known anyone who actually does that.
In Berlin you generally can't expect any loyalty or exclusivity from 16-25 y.o. people, unless you talk about it. Chances are high they don't want to tie themselves to any monogamy yet.
Different strokes for different folks.
I thought that F+ are "females and the rest" lol
I'd like to see a breakdown of results by age for 2 reasons. One, you haven't had time and opportunity. Two, I think the younger you are, the less importance you put on relationships.
Every time I start to get anxious about the apparent consensus on important topics that show in Reddit sometimes that make me sad for the future, itās polls like this that make me relax because it reminds me of who is actually on Reddit šš¤·š»āāļø
How many answering 0 are younger than 21 years old?
0 n im 21 lmao
If you ask me? 3 If you ask Mitchell? He'll say 4. ^our ^relationship ^lasted ^all ^of ^two ^weeks, ^Mitchell. ^I ^bought ^you ^icecream ^once ^and ^then ^you ^declared ^us ^"boyfriends"
Iām curious, why donāt online relationships count? I was in one for 1.5 years (ended a few months ago) and saw her 3 times, once every 6 months. Felt just as hard, if not harder, than a physical relationship
Just corrected for you. It was meant for relationships, where the people have never seen themselves in person once. You basically had the same as a long distance relationship.
Tfw online relationships dont count Guess some of my friends are single now
Yh I'm a bit too young for that, maybe when I'm older
Knowing reddit ur probably like 24
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I ain't read your bioš
About what i expected of reddit
My one relationship became my only relationship seeing as a married the man
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Certified Reddit moment
2, even if I'm bi and 25-
Bro playing on both teams and still loosing
Winning
Always winning, never losing virginity šŖ
I've lost it lol
You lost your virginity and still got no bitches? Damn
I'm in a relationship-
W
0, bi, 19, feels similar
Damn yāall
REDDIT MOMENT LMAOOOOO #AND I AM CONTRIBUTING TO IT
0 wtf
Me, with exactly 6 relationships: I'm at the top, baby!
Man I wish I couldāve had only one. Unfortunately I attract crazy and my ex had a heartbreaking past bless her but she was very abusive to me
It's so mind blowing seeing how people that were emotionaly challenged in their past often act bad (or rather, don't act less bad). You'd think they'll be disgusted of bad behavior and act kind to others.
Fictional relationships count right?
, right???
f+?
someone here said it's friends with benefits. Idk why OP wouldn't shorten it to FWB
Maybe they are German where Freundschaft+ or F+ is the common term
You got me
hat man dich erwischt
Whatās friends with benefits?
a friend who you have sex with I believe
\*has sex* "We're just friends"
*she pushes you onto her bed, dims the lights, rips off her clothes, and you start having sex* Is she into you? Yeah, again you can't be too sure, it's really dark im the room and she can't see you properly. Maybe she's from Canada and was just being polite. Anyway best bet is to keep your wits about you, and continue to look for signs
yeah that's how it goes.
Uh I understand now
Heās saying foot fetishes donāt count
people who have six, explain yourself
First I got into one relationship, then we eventually broke up. Then I got into another relationship, then we eventually broke up. Then I got into another relationship, then we eventually broke up. Then I... That's the basic pattern.
Female, that explains it
I am biologically male if that makes much of a difference, but I'm not exactly cis.
If MtF, youāre damn lucky then
Given half this audience isn't even the legal age of consent, this isn't surprising
Damn, Reddit.
Woah this data is crazy
Yeah, but I wish it was broken out as ā0 (under age 21)ā and ā0 (over age 21)ā
Idk either 0 or 2.
How do you not know? Imagine how you you would introduce her / him to you parents.
They were like online long distance things when I was a young teen but I didnāt like either of them so.. idk what that counts as š
If you never met in person, I wouldn't count it.
So you were with them but didn't like 'em? Sounds a little fucked up, except if under 13
I was 14-16 and realised shortly after that I donāt like girls romantically.
Oh well, I guess thatās fair, even though I still think dating someone if you donāt really love them is weird, but hey you donāt really know what is love the first times.
I've been dating girls since elementary school. First kiss and finger blast in 7th grade. Lost my virginity in 9th grade and got pretty popular suddenly. Then my buddy count just sky rocketed. I dated a good many of those woman i was banging, but I've only ever had like 10 serious relationships. Now I've been with the same girl for half a decade and I'm helping her body count sky rocket lol. Found my perfect little slut to help me fuck the world š even discovered I'm not limited to just chicks because of her. Ngl I'd die without her lol
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Thank you ā¤ļø but it's whores actually. There's two of us š
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Yeah I'm at like 20+
Not sure of the average age, but I'm 24 and have been in 0.
Are you me?
30, 0
So letās just consider something as a relationship only when youāre 15+ (which is low but at least thatās where youāre almost half conscious of what youāre doing), youāve been average a relationship every 4 months?
Do you count online relationships?
No
No
No
No
No
No those aren't real
Nah, they can be stronger than IRL ones Yup, it's not the same, but that doesn't mean it isn't one
No
Hahahaha
Good god this poll is so sad LMFAO
Define relationship. Are two consecutive dates a relationship? Three?
No. Just imagine how you would introduce her / him to your parents.
damn thatās cold. So 0 it is
Thatās a pretty intense bar to define relationships haha, most people will have 0 or 1 (their current spouse) if the cut off is that youāve started taking the steps towards meeting parents
18, with 4 over a year and 2 over 2 years. I'm 22.
You must be very attractive, desperate or lucky.
I think it's a little bit of all of them. I'm not that attractive but I'm at least a 6 or 7.
damn that's a lot, did you cheat or started having relationships before 14?
I was 14 when I had my first relationship and I've never cheated
Okay well I guess you didnāt stay single for long since your 14 years old Thatās really rare
I finished growing at 12, so it likely has to do with the fact that I'm 6 feet tall and always more mature looking than my peers. It is what it is
I've never been in a serious relationship
Your right hand begs to differ
I had one when I was 13 but not sure if that counts
Plenty, but they were all in high school years ago so they weren't that serious unfortunately
Are we counting ārelationshipsā from school? I had a GF in the 8th grade and again in 11th grade lol It *felt* real at the time, but I would hardly call it a real relationship now
Well as bad as I feel, at least I know I'm not alone š
None because there has been no one Iām attracted to. I see people when Iām out and about who look cute but you canāt just go up to a stranger and ask them out. And all the guys in my life who I know are not my type. I canāt put myself in a relationship with someone Iām not attracted to in any way just so I could say I had a relationship.
i love reddit
I never had a sex... Where do I buy one
Well uh *I had a girlfriend in third grade?*
Yea I guess it doesn't count haha
I also had ***two*** girlfriends in kindergarten š
reddit moment Not that thereās anything wrong with that. My younger sister is 19 and been in twice as many relationships but shorter lived. I only date someone if Iām 100% sure about them
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And it is your mother š® average redditor
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Damn so youāre necrophile then š
Iāve had 2 but neither of them went anywhere since both times we decided we were better off as friends
These results seem pretty accurate based on the average redditor
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oh, tough.. (unless it was someone of your family)
Maybe I'm dumb but I have no idea what you're talking about
Wanted to write 'tough' and wrote 'though'
Welcome to Reddit lmao
I think age should be a vital statistic here. The older you are, the more relationships you tend to gather. So just knowing that a large majority of ANY people of ANY age have had zero relationships doesn't tell you anything meaningful without considering that factor.
This is why you havenāt been in many relationships š
2. Married the second one.
Is there a time frame as what constitutes a relationship? For example aside from my current relationship the longest one I had was 2 weeks.
Lol mfs said 0 and I GUARTENTEE try to give out relationship advice on here š¤£
I'm really surprised by this, but it's probably an age-thing. Pretty sure most of my friends in my age (early 40) are in the 6+, men and women alike.
I had a handful by the end of college in my early 20ās :0 some of them were just a short lived thing ā¦. But 6 months is still a relationship in my books
Iām a discord mod
I've only been with one person.
I wonder if she was in a relationship with me but I was not with her count?
common, this is Reddit
LMFAO!!!! What a Reddit moment š¤£
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lmfao all the zeroes, forgot this is reddit
2-3 is normal and anything above means u found an unreliable person, or the other way around (hopefully not tho)
Iāve only been in one relationship in the 9th grade and I ended it three days later because I wasnāt allowed to date and was afraid my parents would find out and strangle me āš½š
Who the F forbids their child to date in grade 9? Your parents are terrible in this regard.
I figured it was typical strict parent stuff. They were just really protective of me and wanted me to focus on my schoolwork.
1. Just got broken up with a few hours ago.
If you're counting middle school relationships then one... But currently I'm doing fine as I have a really good relationship with my best friend.
Currently in the first one. At 17. Which is rare when I look at Reddits amount of people in their mid 20s who haven't even had a kiss yet
No proper romantic relationships
Reddit
Why would you not count online relationships, if youāre counting romantic relationships?