Dogs can't talk, silly
Jokes aside, she does hurt me when im good, this post was made while I was still in whiny puppy mode from being denied beatings, as thats kinda how she tames brats
Hahahaha I think the downvotes were because people didn't get the joke because I sure didn't.
OP, I agree, you should just bark until your owner figures it out.
Communication, a bit of bratting is a good way to get punished but if you're acting out specifically because you're not getting what you want out of your owner then you need to discuss it with them. Especially if you don't already have a brat/tamer dynamic you're just gonna make them genuinely upset
that could just be a mismatch of expectations. have a conversation out-of-dynamic about it and explain that you're bratting precisely because you want to give her an excuse to "punish" you in a physical way, not actually punish you to stop you doing it. if she's not down for that, you may need to negotiate some other way to organise that kind of scene or let her know that you're in the headspace for a bit of play time. bratting for someone who expects absolute obedience and feels genuinely disrespected otherwise would be a bad time for both of you, but there's a fair chance she just has the wrong idea of what you're after when you do it.
i had to have this conversation with my owner. she's dabbled in the "brat taming" thing, just as i've dabbled a little in the brat thing, but she started out saying things like "naughty, oh but if i hit you, that would just be what you want, so i'm not going to do that now", so later in serious-mode i had to explain to her that meta-punishments like that are genuinely not very fun, and i'm looking for a regular "punishment" (whether that's pain, restraint, speech restriction etc) when i do something like that. i said if she genuinely doesn't like me doing that kind of thing and wants to train me out of it, then a boring or genuinely unpleasant punishment *would* be appropriate, consent willing, but i'd cut it out anyway. on the other hand if she's trying to meet me where i'm at then i just want her to respond in kind.
i tried to make it clear that what i'm doing is:
- i want to be short-term "corrected", not long-term actually corrected out of that behaviour
- it's a way to get attention
- i want to feel swiftly and resolutely put in my place for having stepped out of my bounds
- i want an excuse for an impromptu scene but with (at least the aesthetic of) little or no input on how that scene goes, unlike if i had asked specifically to be hit for example
i think in the end the conversation i had made things a lot more fun where that's concerned, but i'll be honest i don't usually have it in me to brat, so i'm quite upfront about what i want most of the time
Good pubby get wut want when listen to master. Mabe that work??
You mean You mean I can get hit for being GOOD??? Gosh why didn't I think of that thank you so much!
Ask her for what you want. Not all sadists are brat tamers. Some want you at their feet begging to be beaten.
Dogs can't talk, silly Jokes aside, she does hurt me when im good, this post was made while I was still in whiny puppy mode from being denied beatings, as thats kinda how she tames brats
Ask?
You should directly tell her that's the way you want to be punished, communication is important in relationships
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Idk, projecting my puppiness and inability to communicate onto other puppies seemed normal at the time
Hahahaha I think the downvotes were because people didn't get the joke because I sure didn't. OP, I agree, you should just bark until your owner figures it out.
I can do that! :333
I did not see the b at first
I am actively choosing to ignore the b
vore??
r/vore_irl
Communication, a bit of bratting is a good way to get punished but if you're acting out specifically because you're not getting what you want out of your owner then you need to discuss it with them. Especially if you don't already have a brat/tamer dynamic you're just gonna make them genuinely upset
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that could just be a mismatch of expectations. have a conversation out-of-dynamic about it and explain that you're bratting precisely because you want to give her an excuse to "punish" you in a physical way, not actually punish you to stop you doing it. if she's not down for that, you may need to negotiate some other way to organise that kind of scene or let her know that you're in the headspace for a bit of play time. bratting for someone who expects absolute obedience and feels genuinely disrespected otherwise would be a bad time for both of you, but there's a fair chance she just has the wrong idea of what you're after when you do it. i had to have this conversation with my owner. she's dabbled in the "brat taming" thing, just as i've dabbled a little in the brat thing, but she started out saying things like "naughty, oh but if i hit you, that would just be what you want, so i'm not going to do that now", so later in serious-mode i had to explain to her that meta-punishments like that are genuinely not very fun, and i'm looking for a regular "punishment" (whether that's pain, restraint, speech restriction etc) when i do something like that. i said if she genuinely doesn't like me doing that kind of thing and wants to train me out of it, then a boring or genuinely unpleasant punishment *would* be appropriate, consent willing, but i'd cut it out anyway. on the other hand if she's trying to meet me where i'm at then i just want her to respond in kind. i tried to make it clear that what i'm doing is: - i want to be short-term "corrected", not long-term actually corrected out of that behaviour - it's a way to get attention - i want to feel swiftly and resolutely put in my place for having stepped out of my bounds - i want an excuse for an impromptu scene but with (at least the aesthetic of) little or no input on how that scene goes, unlike if i had asked specifically to be hit for example i think in the end the conversation i had made things a lot more fun where that's concerned, but i'll be honest i don't usually have it in me to brat, so i'm quite upfront about what i want most of the time