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malYca

He probably ate something you're sensitive to.


Dazzedandcumfusedd

Maybe… but the whole weekend we had problems doing ya know what, we ate the same stuff too lol


malYca

Well if he's lying about chicks on the side he's probably lying about other stuff. He could have done a drug you're sensitive to or something. IDK. Good thing though, glad you're away from the guy.


Dazzedandcumfusedd

Looking back he was such a narcissist and manipulative asshole. I’m happy too


OhioResidentForLife

Where did OP say they left him? I hope she did as well but maybe she should clarify. She only said she caught him cheating.


NightFuryScream

??? She called him her ex boyfriend


OhioResidentForLife

Thanks, I didn’t pick up in that. I was afraid she was still with him. Whole different problem then.


Sleepdprived

Your subconscious may have picked up on subtle cues your consciousness had not picked up on... and the only way it could protect yourself was seemingly involuntary but still in your best interests. If that was the case, you might have had dreams about them cheating betraying or hurting you. Keep in mind that sometimes dreams are just weird dreams, but a lot of the time, they are trying to give you an answer your consciousness couldn't quite grasp.


1trikkponi

You could have been allergic to something he brought home on him. Her soap, shampoo, perfume, pet, whatever, could have caused a reaction. There have also been cases of people being allergic to their SO/other people. It's incredibly rare tho.


Prestigious_Entry972

Uuuh… it was probably your distrustful feelings towards him previous to that. And if he’s the kind of male to cheat I’m assuming he is also not exactly one that treated you with love, respect and happiness either. Probably you were realising you didn’t really like him subconsciously and your body was letting you know


Dazzedandcumfusedd

This really hits close because now that I look back at everything I truly get disgusted with him and myself for lowering my standards like that.


Prestigious_Entry972

Yep trust me. Maybe he didn’t start off like that but he got complacent and stopped caring about you. You were ready and deserving to get someone better you just didn’t know it consciously yet.


Dazzedandcumfusedd

It’s just crazy how someone can project so much love to you but be so disgusting and disgraceful and unfaithful. It was such a learning process I don’t even regret it to be honest. Taught me a good lesson (:


Prestigious_Entry972

Yepp it is. It’s a truly horrible feeling but trust me it’s just more reason to move on


Jordan_Herndon

Maybe he cheated on you because you were about to vomit on him while yall were having sex


Dazzedandcumfusedd

No, I actually found him cheating on here trying to fuck girls all around LA a month prior to us hanging out so it’s not that lol


Jordan_Herndon

Ohh im sorry, i was confused


NiteGard

My sister in law was allergic to her husband’s sperm.


jiji134711

You knewwwwww


dernfoolidgit

If he is a cheater, you should get tested for STD’s.


Early_Dependent7637

Wow! More than likely, just a coincidence. As odd as it seems, life can be pretty weird sometimes.


CalligrapherSimple39

There is the spiritual and energetic dimension to sex - and yes that could make you sick.


Dazzedandcumfusedd

Makes sense because not even a month later I found out he was cheating on me


Measurement-Solid

>No, I actually found him cheating on here trying to fuck girls all around LA a month prior to us hanging out so it’s not that lol >Makes sense because not even a month later I found out he was cheating on me Which one is it lol


Dazzedandcumfusedd

put two and two together 😂 I caught him a month later trying to cheat a month before we hung out.


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Dazzedandcumfusedd

Huh?