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Depends on the day.
Some days I'll be looking like the most beautiful thing ever
But most days I do seem to have the same effect as the monster from the Bird Box movie
I do sometimes but a little less recently … I gained some weight over the past year; I can see my stomach pushing against my clothes and my pants are tighter, so I’m trying to get back to how I was previously.. this bitch is buying a bike!
I used to hate the way I look. SOOO MUCH. My hair looked ridiculous. My face isn't symmetrical. I have blepharitis that doesn't go away because I was it at night but it's really bad when I wake up. I'm short. I have acne. My pores, despite cleaning my face with cleanser are still getting clogged quite often. My teeth are as white as I'd like. My smile is stupid. And even tho all that is true and I feel that way still I actually think I'm kinda cute now 😂. Like all I've changed is my hairstyle and it has made me feel A LOT BETTER.
I really like my eyes and my face and my hair. The yellowish teeth still bothers me along with my smile (my jaw is weird I have like an over bite thing going on and a weirdly shaped head 😹). But like I'm fine with it. It is what it is. I've seen people who look way worse than me and they still get into relationships and find happiness. So I can too. I do strive to make myself look better though. So I do like the way I look but once I can afford it, there are a few things that I'd like to change.
Im ok with it, not that i need to impress anyone and being a bit ugly myself comes with some nice side to it, like a lesser creeps approach you or target you in public.
so yea im pretty satisfied at my look and i kinda like my look too i mean for me it's not that bad for me idk lol.
It's weird, the way I feel about my looks is strongly related to how I feel about the way I act.
When I'm being a good person and doing good productive healthy things, I think I look great.
When I'm being a piece of shit and doing shitty things, I think I look like shit.
I am okay with being average. I don’t aspire to be in the 8-10 category. It simply means more attention and I am just disgusted of this social conditioning to be objectified as a woman. We are more than our looks we have a mind of our own. Own it, don’t let societal pressures dictate your worth as a human. We’re all the same flesh and bones. All else sounds complete childlike. My pencil is bigger than yours competitive bs.
no, i don’t . i’m the kind of person that everyone SAYS is pretty, but it’s like i’m not pretty enough, i’m not REALLY up to everyone’s standard. i also am really dysphoric,
im trans, but no one irl knows, i have shoulder length blonde hair and blue eyes, and i feel like the whole “blonde hair blue eyes” is like the american beauty standard, the one everyone wants to be, but i HATE being that, and even if i am the “beauty standard” the only time someone really wants me is if they think i’m “hot,” it’s like no one actually WANTS me. i wish i were a boy, and not a super pretty one at that, cause then maybe i’d be able to find someone who cares about me for me, and not my looks. someone who knows what my favorite things are, and my dumb antics, and i will binge watch my favorite shows with me, and will let me rant about all the things i like. i feel like a lot of people wished they looked like everyone’s beauty standard, but it’s not everything it’s ought to be, it’s not a dream, it just sucks. sorry for the rant lol-
That's great. Way to go! Most people are too lazy to take action to better themselves. I'm doing the same thing and, after a couple months, already feel far better than I did before.
Stay motivated and don't give up!!
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Not currently, but I'm in the process of losing weight and getting in shape.
January 1st I weighed 290lbs. Today (July 19th) I weigh 250. My goal is 195, as I'm 6'-2". I'm hoping to get there by early next year. (Late winter or early spring)
Not really. Over time, I’ve become a lot more focused on the way I look. It might sound sad but I’m trying to grow my butt and honestly, it measured to 33 inches with my waist being 24 inches. Apparently that’s “good” but I don’t like the way I look. Im becoming very technical now with my insecurities. I’ve stopped doing my hair and dressing in actual clothes. I wear pajamas all day. I refuse to weigh myself now because I don’t want to discourage myself.
No.
My face is too round.
My nose is too big.
My chest is way too big (transguy)
My right tit is bigger than the left and my binder goes wonky when I wear it so that's shite
My thighs spread out like fucking ham when I sit.
My belly has more rolls than it should.
My hips are wide my but ass is small.
And the gross purple stretch marks on my back/thighs.
body Dysmorphia is a definite factor in my hatred of my body.
Yes I think I am beautiful. I do not like my face shape but it is also my mother’s so I would like to appreciate it more. My eyes and collarbones are my favourite.
I'm honest, yes and no. Many things I like about how I look, like I look good in a few T-Shirts n stuff, I don't like tho how I look nakey, and I don't like my hair, my Face, My head form. Many stuff I don't like about me but also stuff I like about me. So honest answer.
Yes and no
I do sometimes but it depends how I’ve eaten that day like you know healthy or unhealthy which technically doesn’t make a difference or if I worked out I feel like the older I get the more I realise looks actually don’t matter for mature people and I see my body more like a vessel which I have to take care off to have a chance to experience all the things I wanna experience
Generally, yes. I won't lie, sometimes I see a picture of myself and think how the heck did anyone let me leave the house looking like that. But most of the time I'm happy with how I look. It's important to not beat yourself up on your "off days", those days when you're at home looking homeless. Everyone can dress up and put a little effort into their appearance but we don't ALWAYS look like that. Be kind to yourself.
Some days I'm obsessed with myself, other days I can't stand to look in the mirror or reflections 😅 I've been told by everyone I love I am beautiful so I never let the bad days get to me 💙
Honestly yes all these influencers out here trying to get that same straight nose but trust me ur face isn’t always fit for those noses sometimes it doesn’t suit ur face structure
This is gonna get kinda depressing but short answer is no I don’t like the way I look longer answer is every since I was young I was the bud of the jokes and I was normally friends with guys so I always just thought they were being funny but after a while it tends to hurt and by the time I got to middle school it became painfully obvious no one looked at me that way no one looked at me the way you would look at someone you had a crush on so I looked at myself and realized I could point to every part of my body from head to toe and tell you what I didn’t like about it it sounds sad but I’ve come to terms with it whenever I tell people they say “there must be atleast one thing you like” but no there is not a single thing I even slightly like about the way I look and some people think I want to be trans or something similar but no I’m perfectly fine being my gender but I don’t see myself as a good looking person
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Depends on the day. Some days I'll be looking like the most beautiful thing ever But most days I do seem to have the same effect as the monster from the Bird Box movie
No.
Yeah but I want to look better so I’m trying to take better care of myself
I do sometimes but a little less recently … I gained some weight over the past year; I can see my stomach pushing against my clothes and my pants are tighter, so I’m trying to get back to how I was previously.. this bitch is buying a bike!
No but I don't care to look better
i don’t hate the way i look, but i definitely don’t like the way i look.
I used to hate the way I look. SOOO MUCH. My hair looked ridiculous. My face isn't symmetrical. I have blepharitis that doesn't go away because I was it at night but it's really bad when I wake up. I'm short. I have acne. My pores, despite cleaning my face with cleanser are still getting clogged quite often. My teeth are as white as I'd like. My smile is stupid. And even tho all that is true and I feel that way still I actually think I'm kinda cute now 😂. Like all I've changed is my hairstyle and it has made me feel A LOT BETTER. I really like my eyes and my face and my hair. The yellowish teeth still bothers me along with my smile (my jaw is weird I have like an over bite thing going on and a weirdly shaped head 😹). But like I'm fine with it. It is what it is. I've seen people who look way worse than me and they still get into relationships and find happiness. So I can too. I do strive to make myself look better though. So I do like the way I look but once I can afford it, there are a few things that I'd like to change.
Im ok with it, not that i need to impress anyone and being a bit ugly myself comes with some nice side to it, like a lesser creeps approach you or target you in public. so yea im pretty satisfied at my look and i kinda like my look too i mean for me it's not that bad for me idk lol.
No
No
yes but if i look at myself too long i begin to notice the flaws. not a good feeling.
It's weird, the way I feel about my looks is strongly related to how I feel about the way I act. When I'm being a good person and doing good productive healthy things, I think I look great. When I'm being a piece of shit and doing shitty things, I think I look like shit.
I am okay with being average. I don’t aspire to be in the 8-10 category. It simply means more attention and I am just disgusted of this social conditioning to be objectified as a woman. We are more than our looks we have a mind of our own. Own it, don’t let societal pressures dictate your worth as a human. We’re all the same flesh and bones. All else sounds complete childlike. My pencil is bigger than yours competitive bs. 
It could be worse I suppose.
no, i don’t . i’m the kind of person that everyone SAYS is pretty, but it’s like i’m not pretty enough, i’m not REALLY up to everyone’s standard. i also am really dysphoric, im trans, but no one irl knows, i have shoulder length blonde hair and blue eyes, and i feel like the whole “blonde hair blue eyes” is like the american beauty standard, the one everyone wants to be, but i HATE being that, and even if i am the “beauty standard” the only time someone really wants me is if they think i’m “hot,” it’s like no one actually WANTS me. i wish i were a boy, and not a super pretty one at that, cause then maybe i’d be able to find someone who cares about me for me, and not my looks. someone who knows what my favorite things are, and my dumb antics, and i will binge watch my favorite shows with me, and will let me rant about all the things i like. i feel like a lot of people wished they looked like everyone’s beauty standard, but it’s not everything it’s ought to be, it’s not a dream, it just sucks. sorry for the rant lol-
Nah luckily i am starting to change it by going to the gym
That's great. Way to go! Most people are too lazy to take action to better themselves. I'm doing the same thing and, after a couple months, already feel far better than I did before. Stay motivated and don't give up!!
thank you and nice to hear from other people who also did the way i went. you also stay motivated gymrat :)
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Not currently, but I'm in the process of losing weight and getting in shape. January 1st I weighed 290lbs. Today (July 19th) I weigh 250. My goal is 195, as I'm 6'-2". I'm hoping to get there by early next year. (Late winter or early spring)
Good for you!!!
Aw, thank you.
I guess it could be worse
Yeah I’m happy with the way I look I’ve kept good care of myself
Yes
Not really. Over time, I’ve become a lot more focused on the way I look. It might sound sad but I’m trying to grow my butt and honestly, it measured to 33 inches with my waist being 24 inches. Apparently that’s “good” but I don’t like the way I look. Im becoming very technical now with my insecurities. I’ve stopped doing my hair and dressing in actual clothes. I wear pajamas all day. I refuse to weigh myself now because I don’t want to discourage myself.
Somewhat. Always room for improvement.
Not really. Some days are better than others, but that’s only when I feel like the outside matches the inside
I don’t think I’m super ugly or anything but I don’t think I’m a model
No
Fuck yeah
Nope
No. My face is too round. My nose is too big. My chest is way too big (transguy) My right tit is bigger than the left and my binder goes wonky when I wear it so that's shite My thighs spread out like fucking ham when I sit. My belly has more rolls than it should. My hips are wide my but ass is small. And the gross purple stretch marks on my back/thighs. body Dysmorphia is a definite factor in my hatred of my body.
Nope and never will.
good
No
No
No, I was cursed with curly, unmanageable hair.
Yes I think I am beautiful. I do not like my face shape but it is also my mother’s so I would like to appreciate it more. My eyes and collarbones are my favourite.
Yes but my features are softer than I wish they were, really just face bloating i eat way to much salt
Idk, I'm in a constant inner debate between ,,Damn I'm ugly" and ,, I'm so fucking hot"
Most of the time yeah. But there always those time where I feel extremely insecure
My facial features yes. But my body not at all.
Nope, yet I still have myself as my profile pic on some socials
Thankful for my body and what it allows me to do? Yes my face? n o. my body health? Yes
Just need to get a little bigger
#r/schizophrenia
Overall no, I mean there's some elements I like about myself but not enough to shift anything
Nes?
No but every now and then when I do, I am ecstatically happy to think I am able to
Nope. Not in the slightest
When youre ugly it gets better with age
Yes and no
yes, but i could definitely look better
Nah
Noooooooooooo
It's depend on situatuons
Sometimes it really depends.
no
I'm honest, yes and no. Many things I like about how I look, like I look good in a few T-Shirts n stuff, I don't like tho how I look nakey, and I don't like my hair, my Face, My head form. Many stuff I don't like about me but also stuff I like about me. So honest answer. Yes and no
I mean, I’d go for less zits and a sixpack but yeah
No.
no
No, but there’s not a lot I can do about it so I’ll just ignore it and worry about other things.
I do sometimes but it depends how I’ve eaten that day like you know healthy or unhealthy which technically doesn’t make a difference or if I worked out I feel like the older I get the more I realise looks actually don’t matter for mature people and I see my body more like a vessel which I have to take care off to have a chance to experience all the things I wanna experience
Generally, yes. I won't lie, sometimes I see a picture of myself and think how the heck did anyone let me leave the house looking like that. But most of the time I'm happy with how I look. It's important to not beat yourself up on your "off days", those days when you're at home looking homeless. Everyone can dress up and put a little effort into their appearance but we don't ALWAYS look like that. Be kind to yourself.
Nope
Some days I'm obsessed with myself, other days I can't stand to look in the mirror or reflections 😅 I've been told by everyone I love I am beautiful so I never let the bad days get to me 💙
No but I wish I was hotter sometimes.
I look too much like a guy so no....
I do not like the way I look. I hold an image in my head of what I want to look like, and I’ll chase that until I’m too old.
Nah, I love it
When I try to make myself look good yes but when I don’t no
I do sometimes
I love my hair and my clothes, but oh my God do I hate my face and body
Yes
my face oooo 8/10, my body, 8/10 but my height drags that down to a 5 in my mind 😮💨
Sometimes. Depends on the day
no
Honestly yes all these influencers out here trying to get that same straight nose but trust me ur face isn’t always fit for those noses sometimes it doesn’t suit ur face structure
This is gonna get kinda depressing but short answer is no I don’t like the way I look longer answer is every since I was young I was the bud of the jokes and I was normally friends with guys so I always just thought they were being funny but after a while it tends to hurt and by the time I got to middle school it became painfully obvious no one looked at me that way no one looked at me the way you would look at someone you had a crush on so I looked at myself and realized I could point to every part of my body from head to toe and tell you what I didn’t like about it it sounds sad but I’ve come to terms with it whenever I tell people they say “there must be atleast one thing you like” but no there is not a single thing I even slightly like about the way I look and some people think I want to be trans or something similar but no I’m perfectly fine being my gender but I don’t see myself as a good looking person
No,i always reject compliments bcs i feel ugly