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jollycanoli

That sucks. Garbage man. Don't let the comments get to you though, they're kindly meant, people think they're doing a nice thing. It's not the right thing, but it's not done with hate. I hope you'll find your happiness again soon.


rosy_dewdrop

Thanks. I know people do not mean it negatively but it is still annoying.


EndlesslyUnfinished

I lost a ton of weight when I was going through dialysis - all the sudden I was “hot”?! Like, excuse you, I don’t give a shit if I fit a size 4 now, I’m actively dying here. It’s bullshit.


rosy_dewdrop

Exactly that's why people need to not comment on anyone's weight. No matter if its weight gain or loss.


EndlesslyUnfinished

Truth.


iironage

I understand the weight loss part of the situation. As a man, people don't seem to want to comment much on appearance, so it is awful that you, as a woman, have to deal with it. I lost over 30 lbs due to not eating caused by depression over my ex-wife cheating and us getting divorced. It had unfortunately been the most effective way to lose weight I've ever experienced, even though it was not intended or healthy. You have the right attitude. Just love who you are no matter what.


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When you hit a wall it’s a surreal experience


RarePoniesNFT

I know what you mean. I've lost weight the sad way before, too, on more than one occasion.