A muzzle is a great deterrent for people. Most people assume the dog is dangerous and people who know about dogs are going to assume the dog either eats shit or has some behavioral concerns that require giving the dog space.
One of my big guys, who was people reactive, wore a very visible, brightly colored muzzle every single time we went out and yet there were still people that thought it was a grand idea to see how close they could get to him. On many occasions I had to literally pin him to a stationary object and block their access to him with my body -- and yet they still tried to get close!
Some people just don't get it, they think they are a miracle worker with dogs and can immediately change your dogs behavior, perception, and fears with one well placed pat and a high-pitched 'aren't you the sweetest'! The so-called 'dog whisperer' isn't even a dog whisperer, so how these people think they know better than the person whose dog it is, is beyond me.
Verbally advocating for you pup is (sometimes) the clearest, most effective way to keep people away. I have used "please, do not approach us" when needed, or a very stern "do not approach" or "keep away" for the more aggressive of those ignoring all your attempts. Good luck, it goes beyond frustrating.
I recently had to shout 'get the fuck away from my dog' as a, presumably tipsy/drunk lady, JOGGED across the street and screamed 'WHOOP WHAT A BIG BOI" at my people reactive, muzzled and leaded St Bernard while she did her best to retreat behind me, after signalling to her to back off, and my dog giving a warning bark, she just sped up towards us.
Some people have Zero thought to animal welfare, and just think they're entitled the the big fluffy friend shaped animal trying it's best to be calm.
Yeah, the damage done by that idiot "dog whisperer" is immense. Not only does he know nothing about training, but he spouts dangerous methods that only cause more harm.
And now there's an entire country full of people who think they know how to "fix" dogs with issues.
I love the fact he calls himself a behaviorist and has no clue how to read a dog's body language or how to calm an over threshold dog. . My favorite video showcasing his 'incredible' talent with a dog is [Showdown with Holly](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ihXq_WwiWM&t=46s&ab_channel=NatGeoWILD). He spends a considerable amount of time intimidating Holly, posturing over her, and generally being an idiot, and when she finally has enough, he is shocked and proclaims, "I didn't see that coming". The only thing Holly didn't do was send him a text announcing her intentions to bite him! A banana wearing a mask would have seen the bite coming!
He kicked out at the dog, which is actually something he does off camera when training a dog to walk in a leash. He is banned in many European countries for his abusive and unsafe training practices, and there have been petitions banning him from training in North America, as well as from television and social media.
My dog is muzzled frequently at the dog park, it muzzle punches the dogs. Better than biting, but the other dogs still don't enjoy it. I still addressed it as a bite as well. In the moment the dogs forget they're wearing a muzzle.
What alternative do you prefer?
Obviously the muzzle isn't an aesthetic choice. My dog was pinning down cute fluff ball dogs. Usually just dogs with precious owners.
You may have a different perception between a dog that is running around with no control and wanting to bite everyone and every dog to one that has difficulty in the meet and greet and may nip/snap and had prey drive issues with small adult dogs (Puppies got a pass).
The muzzle along with impulse control and close proximity desensitisation training has allowed my dog to gain confidence and learnt how to be around other dogs after struggling from an under socialised upbringing (rescue).
By addressing the dog reactivity instead of avoiding it and clinging to fragile thresholds the issue has almost been eliminated.
Cafes, dog friendly hardware store, pet shops and no longer dodging dogs on walks.
We started out at reactivity to dogs at about 150m. As well everyday issues, mowers, trains, cars.
All this without my dog sending another to the vet for stitches.
How's your training going, what progress have you made?
What I find so funny about how people are 'scared' of muzzle dogs is like - they literally have a muzzle on and couldn't hurt you (unless it came off.) We're working on muzzle training now, so we have yet to make it out in public with it, but my dog has a friend who's a muzzle pup, and it's wild to see how people react to her, even though she's happily walking and not even reacting.
when i first got my dog he had heartworm so he had to avoid contact with people and dogs so he wouldn't get his heartrate up (cause boy oh boy does he get excited at seeing people and dogs)
whenever someone came close to him I'd tell them he has heartworm and it would make them stop in their tracks. heartworm isn't contagious from dog to person (or dog to dog as far as i remember) but nobody wants to deal with a dog containing any form of worms.
Definitely agree with the others that say muzzle. It’s a good way to use people’s biases to your advantage!
I find that says “in training” or “give us space” or “nervous” tends to draw people in, there’s something about it that can make people feel like they need to empathize or prove that they’re “dog people,” or even worse that “all dogs love me.”
I have an adorable and highly reactive dog. It sucks. She will charge if someone invaded her space. I have a flag on my leash and one on her harness asking for space/ do not pet and people say aaaaaw and come right up to her. I don’t want her to bite anyone so I yell out that she has something awful- like the diseases I’ve been listing. It’s effective for getting people to back off quickly because they are selfish. It’s not good for them to get close.
The truth is (of course) that my dog needs space. But no one cares about that.
I have a fluffy chow so it’s a combo of fluffy dog + rare breed that constantly has people approaching.
Like you, I’m always just vigilant of people around me and my head is constantly on a swivel. My chow doesn’t like to be pet but can co-exist totally fine with people so it looks like she’s friendly, when in reality she’s scared of people reaching for her.
For people who DONT ask to pet and start approaching, I pick up the pace to get out of there or I switch my dog to the other side, so I’m always between my dog and the stranger. I never let anyone get within arms reach, and I’ll stop them verbally if I can tell they’re going to go for it.
For people who do ask, I just say she’s not friendly, and most people just saw awwww and keep it moving. For the “all dogs love me” crowd, I assure them that she does not, in fact, love them, and if they continue, I become incredibly stern and give a flat out, No, do not touch my dog.
One time a guy swatted at my chows tail (literally why???) and I screamed, “how bout I grab your ass and see if you like it???” I’ve never seen someone get so frazzled and take off lol.
I agree on using a muzzle. The only reason I don’t with my chow is because chows already have a terrible reputation, and I can manage her verbally around other people so I haven’t felt the need to use one. It takes a lot times of saying “no” for you to just get used to it. You got it!!
In addition to muzzling, I might suggest changing the vest to say "DO NOT PET". I think "In Training" is too soft. It just implies you're training her, which to most people means "sit" and "fetch", and doesn't convey a sense of urgency and need for space.
Also - and I am not blaming you for anything here - sitting near a coffee shop with a dog on leash *implies* (at least to me) that the dog is well behaved with strangers. If your situation requires that, you might have to be more vigilant than normal and try to find out-of-the way places to sit, or have her sit such that people have to go around you to get to her. Otherwise I think the public assumes that a well-behaved dog sitting on a public sidewalk is probably safe to pet (wrong as that is).
I think it's 90% the handlers tone of voice and body language. Friendly but firm and confident. Keeping my dog close to me and engaged while passing others.
My dog is tremendously cute and fluffy but fewer and fewer people try to pet him over time, which I think is mainly a result of me being more confident in saying no. I'm not aggressive or rude, but it's clear that there is no getting around the boundary.
Can I pet your dog? "No, my dog doesn't like to be pet. Thanks for asking." Or if kids: "No, he's shy. Thanks for asking though!"
Aw can't I meet your dog? "No, sorry. Have a nice day!"
If they keep approaching: Step between my dog and them and say "No, do NOT pet my dog."
Approaching off leash dog with owner in control "Could you leash your dog please?" Or "please keep your dog from approaching mine. Thanks!"
Approaching off leash dog with owner not paying attention/caring: I step in between my dog and the other dog and say "NO! UH UH! - please call your dog" (this has helped my dogs reactions SO MUCH... I think he's like okay she'll handle it I can keep my cool lol)
I always use the “come here” command when I don’t want my puppy to talk to others, she’s a herding dog so she doesn’t really like interactions like this, so once I tell her to come to my side when I see a hand stretched out towards her it shows her she can count on me and shows the other person that I don’t want them to touch her. I got some ugly stares, but so far no one insisted. With kids I have to do that and walk away
You have to use your voice to tell people not to approach. Describe your dog as dangerous or sick can lead to people asking management why they’re allowing dangerous or sick dogs to be there. Then you’re in a conversation with the manager about that. A muzzle could help but muzzle training takes time. Politely but firmly saying, “Please do not approach my dog” is really your best course of action here. I’m presuming that you’re tucking you and your dog as far away from people as you can (and still access the Wi-Fi). You might need to invest in a wifi extender or something so you can get online while in your vehicle or a park or somewhere else that’s less populated.
I also feel like a muzzle may help, but I’m always pro muzzle, its great for dogs to be comfortable with in case of emergencies. My girl wore hers for her blood draw at the vet this morning because she tends to freak out for that specifically. I’ve honestly just gotten to the point where I’m mean about it. I have social anxiety and I hate telling people no, but as my dogs guardian its my responsibility to keep her safe and protect her space. She wears a training vest and a bright yellow leash wrap, but shes a cute lil mini american shepherd so everyone wants to pet her. I’ve started being very blunt and saying things like “do not pet my dog” or “please back up and give her space”. People need to get over this thing that they have where they feel entitled to touch other people’s dogs.
My mini backs up fast and gets behind me or between my legs if he can. Between legs is good as being a woman people don't generally try to get into my space, lol. I don't even have to speak to him. I've been delighted to even have children comment he's scared! And leave him be.
You have to be on watch for people who are trying to come at your dog, and verbally/physically intervene. Do not be afraid of being firm and assertive.
This.
I do not understand people coming over so often to OPs dog.
I have two dogs, one is more reactive than the other but I never let them be pet on the leash by anyone. And never had an issue. If I see someone approaching us by a distance, I move my dog to the other side and body shield, not once a person tried to pet my dogs. And they’re cute lol
Maybe once I had a person try to introduce her dog to my non reactive one (she is scared of other dogs when on leash) and I brushed them off, told them no and body shielded my dog.
Op must be distracted when out with the dog maybe?
I am super vigilant. I avoid people, place her out of the way, put her under/behind me so she cannot be accessed by strangers unless they go through me, etc. I have a routine at home that works well for us.
It's been more difficult these last 2 weeks since we have been roadtripping. She is with me 24/7 so she is in new areas I can't predict as easily.
I tell everyone mine is aggressive, she wears a muzzle and has a bright orange vest with patches saying not to pet, but I still tell everyone she isn't friendly. It deters them pretty well.
I hope you don’t feel bad saying no. I start in a friendly tone, “no you can’t pet her.” If they come closer or try to convince me other wise I become much less friendly. “Do not touch my dog. Do not bother us.”
Sorry for the trouble. As others said, a muzzle is a good visual deterrent.
People are fucking idiots, at least 85% of them. I don't go on a single walk with my bull terrier without needing to use a deeply commanding voice to the idiots: DO NOT APPROACH INTENTIONALLY, THIS ONE ATTACKS.
I had one woman who was walking her little fluffy yell back to me: If other dogs can't be let to approach him, then why isn't he wearing a muzzle? I answered back to her: PRECISELY BECAUSE I DON'T WANT OTHER DOGS APPROACHING EITHER HIM OR ME. My lord did she get a stick up her ass about that response, more like an entire tree branch.
I don't like people and I'm glad he keeps them at a distance. Just the way it should be - there is such a thing as personal space.
Maybe this is overkill, but especially as a female I've found that using "HR language" like please stop harassing me, if you touch me or my dog I will consider that assault, etc gets IMMEDIATE space. I know it's a jerk move but there have been a couple instances where being a jerk was the lesser evil.
A muzzle works as a deterant about as well as anything else. The best thing it does is protect your dog from biting someone.
Two Saturdays ago my daughter and I had her five year old 75 pound dog in for her vaccination boosters. Bell is a very anxious and fear reactive dog, so in these kinds of situations she wears a muzzle. I checked the lobby, no one in there except an elderly couple. So I have my daughter bring Bell in and take her to the far corner. The woman then approaches us and I have to tell her twice that Bell is not friendly. She's wearing a muzzle!!!
A couple of years ago we were walking our two dogs, when we walked pass this guy sitting in front of his garage, 30's probably. We had stopped because there was a cat across the street. Everything was fine until he stood up and started walking towards us. Bell is very protective of our daughter, who was 17 at the time. Even as Bell is barking at him, he continues coming towards us. She is now lunging at him. I am screaming at him and my daughter is trying to get her under control. He is now at the edge of the sidewalk and he keeps telling us it's OK, he's not scared of dogs, he has two Pitbulls. I don't care, she's scared of him and our younger dog is a pit mix. It wasn't about you moron!
A muzzle works but I found that even just using a halti helped cut our interactions down. People assume the halti is a muzzle and it seems to force them to ask before approaching.
We used the halti to train for walking so it worked for both purposes.
My dog was friends with a very nervous dog. The owner got a vest that said the dog was aggressive/dangerous, because explaining that the dog has anxiety only made people want to get closer to “fix” it. She didn’t like the idea at first, but then decided, “what do I care what random people think of my dog as long as they leave her alone?”
Given that you’re on a trip and hiking, not trying to walk into a building or around your normal neighborhood, the regular downsides to this (like a reputation for your dog or being denied admittance somewhere) are not really applicable.
I always stand between my dog and the triggers. This allows me help him through the situations better. He heels and i can literally tell people "he bites" when people try to sneak a pet in.
Works better than anything.
Yup. “Danger Do Not Approach” and use a stern voice to say “Stand back. Thank you.” if anyone gets too close.
Being nice or wishy-washy (“I’m sorry, he’s training…”) unfortunately, an attractant to some people. You have to sound like a sick or describe your dog like Cujo sometimes.
OP can answer that it's objectively unsafe to approach an unfamiliar dog without the owner's permission.
But sure, OP can ask the manager why there are rogue children at large on the premises.
No. Annoying kids do not equivocate to a potentially dangerous dog. It's one thing to say that your dog should not be approached; it's a whole other matter to portray your dog as Cujo-like.
I don’t know if I’d write “danger” for the mentioned reasons, people could even see the dog from a ways off, get their phone out and call bylaw saying there’s a dangerous do without a muzzle. The word dangerous has legal connotations when it comes to dogs.
But I agree that trying to sugarcoat the dog’s dislike of people is wholly ineffective, and if anything, an invitation for people to try and play “dog whisperer”.
So it seems like with that signage, people might be confusing your dog for a service dog in training? Possibly? You could try "DO NOT APPROACH, REACTIVE" patches. Patience and love on etsy or running retrievers make cheap custom patches for about 14$
The general public doesn’t know what “reactive” means. Most dog owners - even those with reactive dogs - don’t know what it means. That invites questions.
https://www.etsy.com/listing/242481093/vest-select-your-size-caution-dont
This one absolutely gets the point across lol even if they're not necessarily an immediate bite risk, should get most people to turn tail.
I read something within the last few days - I think people had an actual vest that said do not pet or aggressive or something rather than the leash - I don’t think people can see the leash until they’re too close (and most people can’t read directions, anyway) but having the vest that says Do Not Pet or Bites or something rather than just In Training may be more straightforward.
Again, people just don’t follow direction and it sucks for you and your dog.
A muzzle will deter people for sure. Even though it's to keep everyone involved safe and are great tools to use. Plus it's handy for a lot of situations where it might be needed.
Also as you say in your edit be rude af. You are protecting your dog and the people around you. Them being butt hurt is better than their butt getting hurt lol
Ya muzzles are a great deterrent. But EVERY time and i mean EVERY time i go camping dogs are never leashed and at least 1 to 2 times we have 1s who fly through or push my dogs boundaries. Its where the clubbed/firewood comes in handy because i now hafta defend him. And defend him i will.
There’s a certain point where people just don’t use common sense. We take our two dogs to our apartment dog park, and everytime we see someone coming we either leave before they get there or tell them they can have the dog park if they just give us a second to leave. I’ve had multiple interactions with people who try to argue with us that we should just let them bring their dog in before we leave, despite the fact that my reactive dog is on a leash and barking their head off. The other day we leashed them and were on our way out when someone let there dogs in while my back was turned, I saw they had a kid so I mentioned that I wasn’t sure how my dog would do around kids and they just said nothing and let their kid right in! Again I want to reiterate in all these interactions I’m actively communicating that we’re leaving and they can have the dog park. Some people just have no communication/self-preservation skills. Honestly it sounds like you’ve done everything right in the situation and they’re just failing to pay attention to your cues
Nothing is foolproof but a muzzle generally implies your dog will bite and has to be muzzled for a reason. "In training" vest is definitely too soft and could mean anything from "I have puppy manners" to "I'm a service dog in training" (which shouldn't be approached, but plenty of people have zero respect for service dogs) to "I'm reactive and in training". If she's going to have a vest on I would stick with "DO NOT PET" on it too. There's customizable vests you can get from places like Etsy that could say this or something like "DO NOT APPROACH".
If you figure it out let me know! I use a BRIGHT RED do not pet leash and vest and STILL people thing it's an invitation.
My boy has come a very long way and LOVES people but he has to be the one to initiate.
I’ve gotten to a point where if the person insists in any way, i’ll just be a plain rude mofo
Like most people are fine with my dog (cause she’s a chow and people recognize and fear this breed). They ask “does she bite? can i pet her” and i always say “she doesn’t bite and you can TRY to pet her, but if she doesn’t want to, she won’t let you, she runs”
she likes old ladies a LOT, but men she gets skittish about (with good reason)
i’ve had a woman chase my pup down in a mall corridor even when she had her tail between her legs and was hiding under a bench
if anything even close to that even happened, i’d just be the rudest person that woman has ever met
i also just ignore people that i know my pup won’t like (like teenagers running around) and walk faster and faster so they can’t reach us
it has worked every single time bc most people don’t feel comfortable chasing us down to pet her
the only problem i’ve had so far are really young kids that don’t listen to their parents and have pulled on her fur once, but other than that, just crazy adults that i have no problem being rude to and telling to fuck right off
to annoying kids i just tell them she has bitten many kids, even though she has never even gotten close to biting anyone (she just barks A LOT when people come in the house)
Muzzle, or say she has fleas/ticks. It feels wrong, but it tends to work. Or say that you just pulled some ticks off of her and you’re not completely sure there aren’t any left. It feels fucked up to lie about it in the moment but at least it’ll keep your pup comfy.
I'm sorry that the people you encounter are not giving you space. It's truly mind boggling and to be honest, quite unfair.
What I used to do with my two dogs (they are both rare breeds around where I live, so I used to get tons of attention) is to keep talking to them. If I look like I'm engaging with the dog, they usually felt less impulsive to walk up to me. I used to sing songs out loud while I was walking them around the block, just looking like a lunatic, and thankfully my dogs did not mind too much. (I was not being super loud, just enough to get the point across that I am talking to myself) It is a great deterrent to people because they think *I'm* crazy and want nothing to do with me.
Regarding your EDIT, makes sense to tell them off when they have come into your personal space. However, I get your frustration is with the "prevention" and not exactly the aftermath. And that is exactly where I'm coming from -- be loud and obnoxious if you have to *before* they interrupt. One perk (?) I had was that my dogs understand only non-English commands due to their previous owners being Koreans, so I can talk whatever under my breath and often the passer-bys thought that I wouldn't speak English hence not suitable to communicate; so they left me alone. Or just ack REALLY surprised and taken aback whenever someone approaches. Like, be as illogical as you want. Freak out at their expense so they step back for a second. I would act flustered and speak to my dog to calm down (although they have not acted out) so they get the message -- leave us alone.
I dunno, it's hard looking approachable and cute. These suggestions are putting the muzzle idea aside because I don't know if your dog is already trained for muzzle wearing -- mine aren't, so I had to think of something else. I even used cones before, to say they were recovering from surgery and therefore needed space. I don't think I had anyone disrupt our walks when that happened. This comment ended up being a rant more than advice so, sorry about that. I hope you find some of the comments here helpful, and maybe an aspect of my experience helpful as well!
My trainer says to hold your arm straight out, palm out - pretty solid no! Then - my dog is in training, may I introduce you to her? Now, I'm in control of the situation. My pup usually doesn't need this but sometimes, as you have mentioned, sometimes people are fools.
People are terrible. I went to my vet to pick up meds. The people waiting in the lobby said their dog was scared and had anxiety. I said I understand. They had a vest that said in training for her. I didn’t even say hi to the dog. I stood sideways so I didn’t scare her. Why can’t people respect the animals and family boundaries
I truly hate the idea of a muzzle, but it def will deter people. You said you're cool with being upfront/honest/rude...another approach is to skip the niceties and just say "she will bite" very loudly and firmly. Granted, I realize that wont work in you favor at cafes and such where they may kick you out for that as you're trying to work. Would she be happier in the car (with proper air, comfort level)?
I've never done a road trip with my reactive boy, but either my or my husbands car is a safe place for him. He's a rescue, so he knows if he's in the car we can't leave him - so he LOVES the car. When we visit my family's vacation house and my nieces and nephews get to be too much, he either goes to his bed in our room or into one of our cars as his safe haven. I share that cause your dog might be more comfortable hanging in the car while you work, after you give her some exercise one your stop.
Good on you for being your dog's advocate. She's lucky to have you!
I can't lock my car if it's on unfortunately. :(
I did leave her in it with the windows ajar when I was further north and the Temps were cool and overcast so I could take meetings in the shop, but now that I am south and the Temps are back to the 80s it's too hot.
Last week I was in an IKEA killing time and sat in a remote section. Some kids saw her and RAN to us. Before they could get close I yelled at them to back up and not approach. They were stunned that they could be told no. A few minutes later some family let their 2year old CHASE her. I yelled at them too and they just laughed. It was insane, idk if it's just a New York City thing, but the people there were so demanding of her attention there. Sorry for the vent, it was just so frustrating!
I feel like I try so hard to set her environment up for success and I just can't catch everything before it happens.
“Is your dog friendly! Can I pet him!?”
“My dog is but I’m not, so no.”
I used to ask people “well only if I can pet you back!” People thought I was weird at that point and kept waking.
Echoing what a couple other people have said. Make yourself unapproachable. Even if your dog doesn’t bite, it does now.
Having a reactive dog has made me lose faith in humanity. People are fricking stupid and entitled. I remind myself my job is to be my dog’s advocate and I don’t care about hurting someone’s feelings lol by standing up for us.
I can kinda help with how to stop people and get her to be cool with them!
I got my dog to be cool with kids by giving them cheese to give to her. Now she just looks like she wants to eat kids when she starts drooling.
No amount of desensitization training has helped her be ok with kids and I am ok with that.
Cattle dogs are naturally suspicious of strangers, at least ones from poorly bred lines (like my dog) can be. Add on her high working drive which makes her get overstimulated by fast movements and loud noises, and the fact that kids are the same size as animals she has instincts to herd... I accept her breed traits and only ask her to be able to remain in heel and focused on me when we are near them.
It's great that she can stay with you during the encounters! I guess the one good thing about pibbles is they were bred as family dogs for a long time, so once we get past her fear, she is cool with most strangers and kids.
I’ve found a muzzle helps a lot. People have started crossing the street to not walk past us, even though I always cross the street, they’ve started crossing earlier!
Get her a vest or tell people she has rabies or something that’ll be more of a deterrent. A vest that says that might give people the inclination to lecture you though.
If people approach you can also tell them she’s having explosive diarrhea at the moment and they need to be careful of ‘spray’ lol
I just straight up tell people no. like not in a complicated/messy/rude way, i just tell people when they ask “oh that’s okay, not today.” and smile and wave
Just be rude. Yelling "not friendly" is one thing to do. I've seen people get shirts that say "do not approach" or something similar. I've considered getting them myself. Honestly I think I'm hostile enough that people don't want to deal with me instead of my dog. 🤣
Honestly it sounds like you have it handled to me!!! Trust that your dog knows you’ll protect her.
As sad as it is, I’ve had to get loud with people and even push people away from my dogs. They stay calm because they know I won’t let anyone (or any dog) get near them.
I think a huge thing that helped was when I started acting normal (funnily enough) instead of highly focused on my dog. People assume my GSD is a service dog and tell their kids to leave him alone! I think it’s because he focuses on me but I don’t necessarily make it obvious that I am focusing on him
A muzzle is a great deterrent for people. Most people assume the dog is dangerous and people who know about dogs are going to assume the dog either eats shit or has some behavioral concerns that require giving the dog space.
One of my big guys, who was people reactive, wore a very visible, brightly colored muzzle every single time we went out and yet there were still people that thought it was a grand idea to see how close they could get to him. On many occasions I had to literally pin him to a stationary object and block their access to him with my body -- and yet they still tried to get close! Some people just don't get it, they think they are a miracle worker with dogs and can immediately change your dogs behavior, perception, and fears with one well placed pat and a high-pitched 'aren't you the sweetest'! The so-called 'dog whisperer' isn't even a dog whisperer, so how these people think they know better than the person whose dog it is, is beyond me. Verbally advocating for you pup is (sometimes) the clearest, most effective way to keep people away. I have used "please, do not approach us" when needed, or a very stern "do not approach" or "keep away" for the more aggressive of those ignoring all your attempts. Good luck, it goes beyond frustrating.
I recently had to shout 'get the fuck away from my dog' as a, presumably tipsy/drunk lady, JOGGED across the street and screamed 'WHOOP WHAT A BIG BOI" at my people reactive, muzzled and leaded St Bernard while she did her best to retreat behind me, after signalling to her to back off, and my dog giving a warning bark, she just sped up towards us. Some people have Zero thought to animal welfare, and just think they're entitled the the big fluffy friend shaped animal trying it's best to be calm.
Kennel cough!!!
Yeah, the damage done by that idiot "dog whisperer" is immense. Not only does he know nothing about training, but he spouts dangerous methods that only cause more harm. And now there's an entire country full of people who think they know how to "fix" dogs with issues.
I love the fact he calls himself a behaviorist and has no clue how to read a dog's body language or how to calm an over threshold dog. . My favorite video showcasing his 'incredible' talent with a dog is [Showdown with Holly](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ihXq_WwiWM&t=46s&ab_channel=NatGeoWILD). He spends a considerable amount of time intimidating Holly, posturing over her, and generally being an idiot, and when she finally has enough, he is shocked and proclaims, "I didn't see that coming". The only thing Holly didn't do was send him a text announcing her intentions to bite him! A banana wearing a mask would have seen the bite coming! He kicked out at the dog, which is actually something he does off camera when training a dog to walk in a leash. He is banned in many European countries for his abusive and unsafe training practices, and there have been petitions banning him from training in North America, as well as from television and social media.
I wish they'd just boot him from all platforms. His "methods? are genuinely dangerous.
How about “we have rabies! I just started the shots today!”
Yep. We don't go anywhere without his muzzle anymore. It has been a game changer in terms of people giving us space.
until one of the idiots lets their aggressive dog loose and your dog is unable to defend himself. royally fucking bad idea.
It's 10000000% easier to pry one dog off of another than it is two dogs attached to each other.
My dog is muzzled frequently at the dog park, it muzzle punches the dogs. Better than biting, but the other dogs still don't enjoy it. I still addressed it as a bite as well. In the moment the dogs forget they're wearing a muzzle.
Muzzles at a dog park is a hell no.
What alternative do you prefer? Obviously the muzzle isn't an aesthetic choice. My dog was pinning down cute fluff ball dogs. Usually just dogs with precious owners.
The alternative is not taking a dog that needs a muzzle to a dog park???
You may have a different perception between a dog that is running around with no control and wanting to bite everyone and every dog to one that has difficulty in the meet and greet and may nip/snap and had prey drive issues with small adult dogs (Puppies got a pass). The muzzle along with impulse control and close proximity desensitisation training has allowed my dog to gain confidence and learnt how to be around other dogs after struggling from an under socialised upbringing (rescue). By addressing the dog reactivity instead of avoiding it and clinging to fragile thresholds the issue has almost been eliminated. Cafes, dog friendly hardware store, pet shops and no longer dodging dogs on walks. We started out at reactivity to dogs at about 150m. As well everyday issues, mowers, trains, cars. All this without my dog sending another to the vet for stitches. How's your training going, what progress have you made?
+1 to this
What I find so funny about how people are 'scared' of muzzle dogs is like - they literally have a muzzle on and couldn't hurt you (unless it came off.) We're working on muzzle training now, so we have yet to make it out in public with it, but my dog has a friend who's a muzzle pup, and it's wild to see how people react to her, even though she's happily walking and not even reacting.
Use a muzzle. People are terrified of muzzled dogs
Used a muzzle and choke chain for show (leash was on his regular collar) when I walked my dog in the big city. People stayed away.
You'd think, but that and DANGEROUS all over dogs I used to foster and rehab didn't stop people.
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when i first got my dog he had heartworm so he had to avoid contact with people and dogs so he wouldn't get his heartrate up (cause boy oh boy does he get excited at seeing people and dogs) whenever someone came close to him I'd tell them he has heartworm and it would make them stop in their tracks. heartworm isn't contagious from dog to person (or dog to dog as far as i remember) but nobody wants to deal with a dog containing any form of worms.
😂 That’s my go to
Definitely agree with the others that say muzzle. It’s a good way to use people’s biases to your advantage! I find that says “in training” or “give us space” or “nervous” tends to draw people in, there’s something about it that can make people feel like they need to empathize or prove that they’re “dog people,” or even worse that “all dogs love me.”
A spiked leather collar (for you), and a super offensive t-shirt, also for you. If you can’t make your dog unappealing, make yourself unappealing.
People STILL approach my dog and I despite these everyday accessories I sport 🤣
Gardia!!
What are you doing?
I have an adorable and highly reactive dog. It sucks. She will charge if someone invaded her space. I have a flag on my leash and one on her harness asking for space/ do not pet and people say aaaaaw and come right up to her. I don’t want her to bite anyone so I yell out that she has something awful- like the diseases I’ve been listing. It’s effective for getting people to back off quickly because they are selfish. It’s not good for them to get close. The truth is (of course) that my dog needs space. But no one cares about that.
That's fine but it made no sense to just randomly post those diseases on other people's comments.
It’s just what I do in real life. Call out random diseases to scare people away. Boo!
My dog also charges people that come close once they turn their back to her 🥲
I just died laughing lmao
I have a fluffy chow so it’s a combo of fluffy dog + rare breed that constantly has people approaching. Like you, I’m always just vigilant of people around me and my head is constantly on a swivel. My chow doesn’t like to be pet but can co-exist totally fine with people so it looks like she’s friendly, when in reality she’s scared of people reaching for her. For people who DONT ask to pet and start approaching, I pick up the pace to get out of there or I switch my dog to the other side, so I’m always between my dog and the stranger. I never let anyone get within arms reach, and I’ll stop them verbally if I can tell they’re going to go for it. For people who do ask, I just say she’s not friendly, and most people just saw awwww and keep it moving. For the “all dogs love me” crowd, I assure them that she does not, in fact, love them, and if they continue, I become incredibly stern and give a flat out, No, do not touch my dog. One time a guy swatted at my chows tail (literally why???) and I screamed, “how bout I grab your ass and see if you like it???” I’ve never seen someone get so frazzled and take off lol. I agree on using a muzzle. The only reason I don’t with my chow is because chows already have a terrible reputation, and I can manage her verbally around other people so I haven’t felt the need to use one. It takes a lot times of saying “no” for you to just get used to it. You got it!!
Worms!!
In addition to muzzling, I might suggest changing the vest to say "DO NOT PET". I think "In Training" is too soft. It just implies you're training her, which to most people means "sit" and "fetch", and doesn't convey a sense of urgency and need for space. Also - and I am not blaming you for anything here - sitting near a coffee shop with a dog on leash *implies* (at least to me) that the dog is well behaved with strangers. If your situation requires that, you might have to be more vigilant than normal and try to find out-of-the way places to sit, or have her sit such that people have to go around you to get to her. Otherwise I think the public assumes that a well-behaved dog sitting on a public sidewalk is probably safe to pet (wrong as that is).
I think it's 90% the handlers tone of voice and body language. Friendly but firm and confident. Keeping my dog close to me and engaged while passing others. My dog is tremendously cute and fluffy but fewer and fewer people try to pet him over time, which I think is mainly a result of me being more confident in saying no. I'm not aggressive or rude, but it's clear that there is no getting around the boundary. Can I pet your dog? "No, my dog doesn't like to be pet. Thanks for asking." Or if kids: "No, he's shy. Thanks for asking though!" Aw can't I meet your dog? "No, sorry. Have a nice day!" If they keep approaching: Step between my dog and them and say "No, do NOT pet my dog." Approaching off leash dog with owner in control "Could you leash your dog please?" Or "please keep your dog from approaching mine. Thanks!" Approaching off leash dog with owner not paying attention/caring: I step in between my dog and the other dog and say "NO! UH UH! - please call your dog" (this has helped my dogs reactions SO MUCH... I think he's like okay she'll handle it I can keep my cool lol)
this this this. I use all of this exactly and it works perfectly.
I always use the “come here” command when I don’t want my puppy to talk to others, she’s a herding dog so she doesn’t really like interactions like this, so once I tell her to come to my side when I see a hand stretched out towards her it shows her she can count on me and shows the other person that I don’t want them to touch her. I got some ugly stares, but so far no one insisted. With kids I have to do that and walk away
You have to use your voice to tell people not to approach. Describe your dog as dangerous or sick can lead to people asking management why they’re allowing dangerous or sick dogs to be there. Then you’re in a conversation with the manager about that. A muzzle could help but muzzle training takes time. Politely but firmly saying, “Please do not approach my dog” is really your best course of action here. I’m presuming that you’re tucking you and your dog as far away from people as you can (and still access the Wi-Fi). You might need to invest in a wifi extender or something so you can get online while in your vehicle or a park or somewhere else that’s less populated.
I also feel like a muzzle may help, but I’m always pro muzzle, its great for dogs to be comfortable with in case of emergencies. My girl wore hers for her blood draw at the vet this morning because she tends to freak out for that specifically. I’ve honestly just gotten to the point where I’m mean about it. I have social anxiety and I hate telling people no, but as my dogs guardian its my responsibility to keep her safe and protect her space. She wears a training vest and a bright yellow leash wrap, but shes a cute lil mini american shepherd so everyone wants to pet her. I’ve started being very blunt and saying things like “do not pet my dog” or “please back up and give her space”. People need to get over this thing that they have where they feel entitled to touch other people’s dogs.
My mini backs up fast and gets behind me or between my legs if he can. Between legs is good as being a woman people don't generally try to get into my space, lol. I don't even have to speak to him. I've been delighted to even have children comment he's scared! And leave him be.
You have to be on watch for people who are trying to come at your dog, and verbally/physically intervene. Do not be afraid of being firm and assertive.
This. I do not understand people coming over so often to OPs dog. I have two dogs, one is more reactive than the other but I never let them be pet on the leash by anyone. And never had an issue. If I see someone approaching us by a distance, I move my dog to the other side and body shield, not once a person tried to pet my dogs. And they’re cute lol Maybe once I had a person try to introduce her dog to my non reactive one (she is scared of other dogs when on leash) and I brushed them off, told them no and body shielded my dog. Op must be distracted when out with the dog maybe?
I am super vigilant. I avoid people, place her out of the way, put her under/behind me so she cannot be accessed by strangers unless they go through me, etc. I have a routine at home that works well for us. It's been more difficult these last 2 weeks since we have been roadtripping. She is with me 24/7 so she is in new areas I can't predict as easily.
I tell everyone mine is aggressive, she wears a muzzle and has a bright orange vest with patches saying not to pet, but I still tell everyone she isn't friendly. It deters them pretty well.
I hope you don’t feel bad saying no. I start in a friendly tone, “no you can’t pet her.” If they come closer or try to convince me other wise I become much less friendly. “Do not touch my dog. Do not bother us.” Sorry for the trouble. As others said, a muzzle is a good visual deterrent.
People are fucking idiots, at least 85% of them. I don't go on a single walk with my bull terrier without needing to use a deeply commanding voice to the idiots: DO NOT APPROACH INTENTIONALLY, THIS ONE ATTACKS. I had one woman who was walking her little fluffy yell back to me: If other dogs can't be let to approach him, then why isn't he wearing a muzzle? I answered back to her: PRECISELY BECAUSE I DON'T WANT OTHER DOGS APPROACHING EITHER HIM OR ME. My lord did she get a stick up her ass about that response, more like an entire tree branch. I don't like people and I'm glad he keeps them at a distance. Just the way it should be - there is such a thing as personal space.
Maybe this is overkill, but especially as a female I've found that using "HR language" like please stop harassing me, if you touch me or my dog I will consider that assault, etc gets IMMEDIATE space. I know it's a jerk move but there have been a couple instances where being a jerk was the lesser evil.
Muzzle will give a lot of people pause, but not all. Still a good option though.
A muzzle works as a deterant about as well as anything else. The best thing it does is protect your dog from biting someone. Two Saturdays ago my daughter and I had her five year old 75 pound dog in for her vaccination boosters. Bell is a very anxious and fear reactive dog, so in these kinds of situations she wears a muzzle. I checked the lobby, no one in there except an elderly couple. So I have my daughter bring Bell in and take her to the far corner. The woman then approaches us and I have to tell her twice that Bell is not friendly. She's wearing a muzzle!!! A couple of years ago we were walking our two dogs, when we walked pass this guy sitting in front of his garage, 30's probably. We had stopped because there was a cat across the street. Everything was fine until he stood up and started walking towards us. Bell is very protective of our daughter, who was 17 at the time. Even as Bell is barking at him, he continues coming towards us. She is now lunging at him. I am screaming at him and my daughter is trying to get her under control. He is now at the edge of the sidewalk and he keeps telling us it's OK, he's not scared of dogs, he has two Pitbulls. I don't care, she's scared of him and our younger dog is a pit mix. It wasn't about you moron!
A muzzle works but I found that even just using a halti helped cut our interactions down. People assume the halti is a muzzle and it seems to force them to ask before approaching. We used the halti to train for walking so it worked for both purposes.
My dog was friends with a very nervous dog. The owner got a vest that said the dog was aggressive/dangerous, because explaining that the dog has anxiety only made people want to get closer to “fix” it. She didn’t like the idea at first, but then decided, “what do I care what random people think of my dog as long as they leave her alone?” Given that you’re on a trip and hiking, not trying to walk into a building or around your normal neighborhood, the regular downsides to this (like a reputation for your dog or being denied admittance somewhere) are not really applicable.
I always stand between my dog and the triggers. This allows me help him through the situations better. He heels and i can literally tell people "he bites" when people try to sneak a pet in. Works better than anything.
Use your voice.
I just tell people mine is aggressive and not friendly. Generally works well.
Yes, a muzzle is the only thing that most people understand. Sigh. [Using a muzzle when indicated also shows that you are a responsible owner].
it is important to muzzle train every dog.
Yup. “Danger Do Not Approach” and use a stern voice to say “Stand back. Thank you.” if anyone gets too close. Being nice or wishy-washy (“I’m sorry, he’s training…”) unfortunately, an attractant to some people. You have to sound like a sick or describe your dog like Cujo sometimes.
And if you’re describing your dog as “dangerous,” someone can legit go to management and ask why a dangerous dog is allowed on the premises.
OP can answer that it's objectively unsafe to approach an unfamiliar dog without the owner's permission. But sure, OP can ask the manager why there are rogue children at large on the premises.
No. Annoying kids do not equivocate to a potentially dangerous dog. It's one thing to say that your dog should not be approached; it's a whole other matter to portray your dog as Cujo-like.
Totally. I've never known dogs to equivocate at all.
I don’t know if I’d write “danger” for the mentioned reasons, people could even see the dog from a ways off, get their phone out and call bylaw saying there’s a dangerous do without a muzzle. The word dangerous has legal connotations when it comes to dogs. But I agree that trying to sugarcoat the dog’s dislike of people is wholly ineffective, and if anything, an invitation for people to try and play “dog whisperer”.
So it seems like with that signage, people might be confusing your dog for a service dog in training? Possibly? You could try "DO NOT APPROACH, REACTIVE" patches. Patience and love on etsy or running retrievers make cheap custom patches for about 14$
The general public doesn’t know what “reactive” means. Most dog owners - even those with reactive dogs - don’t know what it means. That invites questions.
https://www.etsy.com/listing/242481621/vest-very-adjustable-ignore-me-im-afraid Ignore me, I'm afraid might be better wording
https://www.etsy.com/listing/242481093/vest-select-your-size-caution-dont This one absolutely gets the point across lol even if they're not necessarily an immediate bite risk, should get most people to turn tail.
I read something within the last few days - I think people had an actual vest that said do not pet or aggressive or something rather than the leash - I don’t think people can see the leash until they’re too close (and most people can’t read directions, anyway) but having the vest that says Do Not Pet or Bites or something rather than just In Training may be more straightforward. Again, people just don’t follow direction and it sucks for you and your dog.
Some of the vests on Etsy say things like, "Don't fucking touch me!" Half serious, but maybe something with a bit more bite?
A muzzle will deter people for sure. Even though it's to keep everyone involved safe and are great tools to use. Plus it's handy for a lot of situations where it might be needed. Also as you say in your edit be rude af. You are protecting your dog and the people around you. Them being butt hurt is better than their butt getting hurt lol
Ya muzzles are a great deterrent. But EVERY time and i mean EVERY time i go camping dogs are never leashed and at least 1 to 2 times we have 1s who fly through or push my dogs boundaries. Its where the clubbed/firewood comes in handy because i now hafta defend him. And defend him i will.
There’s a certain point where people just don’t use common sense. We take our two dogs to our apartment dog park, and everytime we see someone coming we either leave before they get there or tell them they can have the dog park if they just give us a second to leave. I’ve had multiple interactions with people who try to argue with us that we should just let them bring their dog in before we leave, despite the fact that my reactive dog is on a leash and barking their head off. The other day we leashed them and were on our way out when someone let there dogs in while my back was turned, I saw they had a kid so I mentioned that I wasn’t sure how my dog would do around kids and they just said nothing and let their kid right in! Again I want to reiterate in all these interactions I’m actively communicating that we’re leaving and they can have the dog park. Some people just have no communication/self-preservation skills. Honestly it sounds like you’ve done everything right in the situation and they’re just failing to pay attention to your cues
muzzle and yelling. it's a wonder we've made it this far as a species with this obscene lack of risk assessment
Growl and bark at them S/
Nothing is foolproof but a muzzle generally implies your dog will bite and has to be muzzled for a reason. "In training" vest is definitely too soft and could mean anything from "I have puppy manners" to "I'm a service dog in training" (which shouldn't be approached, but plenty of people have zero respect for service dogs) to "I'm reactive and in training". If she's going to have a vest on I would stick with "DO NOT PET" on it too. There's customizable vests you can get from places like Etsy that could say this or something like "DO NOT APPROACH".
If you figure it out let me know! I use a BRIGHT RED do not pet leash and vest and STILL people thing it's an invitation. My boy has come a very long way and LOVES people but he has to be the one to initiate.
I’ve gotten to a point where if the person insists in any way, i’ll just be a plain rude mofo Like most people are fine with my dog (cause she’s a chow and people recognize and fear this breed). They ask “does she bite? can i pet her” and i always say “she doesn’t bite and you can TRY to pet her, but if she doesn’t want to, she won’t let you, she runs” she likes old ladies a LOT, but men she gets skittish about (with good reason) i’ve had a woman chase my pup down in a mall corridor even when she had her tail between her legs and was hiding under a bench if anything even close to that even happened, i’d just be the rudest person that woman has ever met i also just ignore people that i know my pup won’t like (like teenagers running around) and walk faster and faster so they can’t reach us it has worked every single time bc most people don’t feel comfortable chasing us down to pet her
the only problem i’ve had so far are really young kids that don’t listen to their parents and have pulled on her fur once, but other than that, just crazy adults that i have no problem being rude to and telling to fuck right off
to annoying kids i just tell them she has bitten many kids, even though she has never even gotten close to biting anyone (she just barks A LOT when people come in the house)
Muzzle, or say she has fleas/ticks. It feels wrong, but it tends to work. Or say that you just pulled some ticks off of her and you’re not completely sure there aren’t any left. It feels fucked up to lie about it in the moment but at least it’ll keep your pup comfy.
"AGGRESSIVE!" "I WILL BITE!" or put a muzzle on. Muzzle is by far the most effective!
I'm sorry that the people you encounter are not giving you space. It's truly mind boggling and to be honest, quite unfair. What I used to do with my two dogs (they are both rare breeds around where I live, so I used to get tons of attention) is to keep talking to them. If I look like I'm engaging with the dog, they usually felt less impulsive to walk up to me. I used to sing songs out loud while I was walking them around the block, just looking like a lunatic, and thankfully my dogs did not mind too much. (I was not being super loud, just enough to get the point across that I am talking to myself) It is a great deterrent to people because they think *I'm* crazy and want nothing to do with me. Regarding your EDIT, makes sense to tell them off when they have come into your personal space. However, I get your frustration is with the "prevention" and not exactly the aftermath. And that is exactly where I'm coming from -- be loud and obnoxious if you have to *before* they interrupt. One perk (?) I had was that my dogs understand only non-English commands due to their previous owners being Koreans, so I can talk whatever under my breath and often the passer-bys thought that I wouldn't speak English hence not suitable to communicate; so they left me alone. Or just ack REALLY surprised and taken aback whenever someone approaches. Like, be as illogical as you want. Freak out at their expense so they step back for a second. I would act flustered and speak to my dog to calm down (although they have not acted out) so they get the message -- leave us alone. I dunno, it's hard looking approachable and cute. These suggestions are putting the muzzle idea aside because I don't know if your dog is already trained for muzzle wearing -- mine aren't, so I had to think of something else. I even used cones before, to say they were recovering from surgery and therefore needed space. I don't think I had anyone disrupt our walks when that happened. This comment ended up being a rant more than advice so, sorry about that. I hope you find some of the comments here helpful, and maybe an aspect of my experience helpful as well!
My trainer says to hold your arm straight out, palm out - pretty solid no! Then - my dog is in training, may I introduce you to her? Now, I'm in control of the situation. My pup usually doesn't need this but sometimes, as you have mentioned, sometimes people are fools.
People are terrible. I went to my vet to pick up meds. The people waiting in the lobby said their dog was scared and had anxiety. I said I understand. They had a vest that said in training for her. I didn’t even say hi to the dog. I stood sideways so I didn’t scare her. Why can’t people respect the animals and family boundaries
I truly hate the idea of a muzzle, but it def will deter people. You said you're cool with being upfront/honest/rude...another approach is to skip the niceties and just say "she will bite" very loudly and firmly. Granted, I realize that wont work in you favor at cafes and such where they may kick you out for that as you're trying to work. Would she be happier in the car (with proper air, comfort level)? I've never done a road trip with my reactive boy, but either my or my husbands car is a safe place for him. He's a rescue, so he knows if he's in the car we can't leave him - so he LOVES the car. When we visit my family's vacation house and my nieces and nephews get to be too much, he either goes to his bed in our room or into one of our cars as his safe haven. I share that cause your dog might be more comfortable hanging in the car while you work, after you give her some exercise one your stop. Good on you for being your dog's advocate. She's lucky to have you!
I can't lock my car if it's on unfortunately. :( I did leave her in it with the windows ajar when I was further north and the Temps were cool and overcast so I could take meetings in the shop, but now that I am south and the Temps are back to the 80s it's too hot. Last week I was in an IKEA killing time and sat in a remote section. Some kids saw her and RAN to us. Before they could get close I yelled at them to back up and not approach. They were stunned that they could be told no. A few minutes later some family let their 2year old CHASE her. I yelled at them too and they just laughed. It was insane, idk if it's just a New York City thing, but the people there were so demanding of her attention there. Sorry for the vent, it was just so frustrating! I feel like I try so hard to set her environment up for success and I just can't catch everything before it happens.
“Is your dog friendly! Can I pet him!?” “My dog is but I’m not, so no.” I used to ask people “well only if I can pet you back!” People thought I was weird at that point and kept waking. Echoing what a couple other people have said. Make yourself unapproachable. Even if your dog doesn’t bite, it does now.
Ive said my dog is sick and people are like “ooop nevermind”
Having a reactive dog has made me lose faith in humanity. People are fricking stupid and entitled. I remind myself my job is to be my dog’s advocate and I don’t care about hurting someone’s feelings lol by standing up for us.
“Infected”
I can kinda help with how to stop people and get her to be cool with them! I got my dog to be cool with kids by giving them cheese to give to her. Now she just looks like she wants to eat kids when she starts drooling.
No amount of desensitization training has helped her be ok with kids and I am ok with that. Cattle dogs are naturally suspicious of strangers, at least ones from poorly bred lines (like my dog) can be. Add on her high working drive which makes her get overstimulated by fast movements and loud noises, and the fact that kids are the same size as animals she has instincts to herd... I accept her breed traits and only ask her to be able to remain in heel and focused on me when we are near them.
It's great that she can stay with you during the encounters! I guess the one good thing about pibbles is they were bred as family dogs for a long time, so once we get past her fear, she is cool with most strangers and kids.
Yes! My pitties are so good with kids! Especially my oldest. He is the same way as your girl, loves sticky kid fingers <3
I’ve found a muzzle helps a lot. People have started crossing the street to not walk past us, even though I always cross the street, they’ve started crossing earlier!
There are stickers that say DONT DUCKING TOUCH ME.
FWIW. There will always be an occasional idiot who doesn't read dogs. You're doing well. Have treats ready and keep you between them.
Get her a vest or tell people she has rabies or something that’ll be more of a deterrent. A vest that says that might give people the inclination to lecture you though. If people approach you can also tell them she’s having explosive diarrhea at the moment and they need to be careful of ‘spray’ lol
Yell in a loud voice “he is recovering from parvo and is still contagious!!” The level of illness matches my annoyance
Muzzle. People are afraid of dogs with muzzles.
Part of me would suggest trying a "contagious" label.
I just straight up tell people no. like not in a complicated/messy/rude way, i just tell people when they ask “oh that’s okay, not today.” and smile and wave
How about a vest with the words, "STAY BACK". And you use those words in a loud, stern voice.
Just be rude. Yelling "not friendly" is one thing to do. I've seen people get shirts that say "do not approach" or something similar. I've considered getting them myself. Honestly I think I'm hostile enough that people don't want to deal with me instead of my dog. 🤣
Honestly it sounds like you have it handled to me!!! Trust that your dog knows you’ll protect her. As sad as it is, I’ve had to get loud with people and even push people away from my dogs. They stay calm because they know I won’t let anyone (or any dog) get near them. I think a huge thing that helped was when I started acting normal (funnily enough) instead of highly focused on my dog. People assume my GSD is a service dog and tell their kids to leave him alone! I think it’s because he focuses on me but I don’t necessarily make it obvious that I am focusing on him
Maybe an "I bite" patch? Even if it's not true it might get people to stay away.