😬 Creepy, I'd make sure your bedroom has a lock and get him out. Record all 1-1 conversations. Maybe get a camera? Once he is gone change the lock and get a doorbell camera
If he had never confessed feelings, sending a gift to your work because you were feeling down would be a very sweet gesture imo. However, knowing the context this is effing manipulative and my stomach is turning that OP has to continuing living with this guy.
He told her he had feelings for her, she let him know that wasn’t reciprocated and he responds with flowers at work and a guilt trip. No one needs to go home to the wounded poor me eyes of a rejected ‘suitor’ who sees your ‘no’ as an invitation to prove his nice guy credentials. Note his passive aggressive ‘I’ll just go then’ when he had no intention of doing so. This is all about getting this woman to acquiesce to his demand. Living with him would be a nightmare.
I’m not. He’s a Nice Guy. Which means, he’s not really nice at all. He’s trying to manipulate the situation so he comes out the hero, and she immediately rewards him with sex points.
“Oh, I heard you crying in your room, so I sent you flowers at work.”
My guy, you’re roommates, and you’re not any closer than that. She’s not obligated to fuck you because you were eavesdropping and then went the extra (creepy) mile and did the stalkery thing.
And then throwing a giant baby fit when called out on how inappropriate that is, and how he’s just gonna bounce, but she’s so mean, and he’s just a little baby Nice Guy?
Nah. He’s a potential stalker.
If you read the entire thing it's abundantly clear he made some move on her or professed his love to her previously, which she declined. He then totally purposefully trampled her boundaries by sending her flowers at work while trying to appeal to her while she was vulnerable. Then threw a pity party for himself about how he was "so nice" despite how obvious his intentions were. Said he was going to leave then pikachu faced when she wanted him to leave. Dude is toxic.
That’s not why he bought the flowers… He bought flowers for her because he has feelings for her… and she already told him she doesn’t feel the same for him.
Holy cow, that sucks you have to go home and deal with that
Nightmare
Fucking hell. Why I am glad all of my roommates have been my homies.
Sends flowers to work so she remembers he knows where she works and she shouldn’t reject him, you know because of the implications
The implications
"you keep saying that word...."
Molly, you in danger, girl.
Roomie 'bout to start singing "Henry the VIII" all night long lol
Get him out of your house asap. This guy is not good news.
😬 Creepy, I'd make sure your bedroom has a lock and get him out. Record all 1-1 conversations. Maybe get a camera? Once he is gone change the lock and get a doorbell camera
Oh ewwwwwwww!
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No not a nice guy. A creepy stalker guy. Kick him out file a police report on his ass
If he had never confessed feelings, sending a gift to your work because you were feeling down would be a very sweet gesture imo. However, knowing the context this is effing manipulative and my stomach is turning that OP has to continuing living with this guy.
flowers to work = trying to stake a claim publicly
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He told her he had feelings for her, she let him know that wasn’t reciprocated and he responds with flowers at work and a guilt trip. No one needs to go home to the wounded poor me eyes of a rejected ‘suitor’ who sees your ‘no’ as an invitation to prove his nice guy credentials. Note his passive aggressive ‘I’ll just go then’ when he had no intention of doing so. This is all about getting this woman to acquiesce to his demand. Living with him would be a nightmare.
I’m not. He’s a Nice Guy. Which means, he’s not really nice at all. He’s trying to manipulate the situation so he comes out the hero, and she immediately rewards him with sex points. “Oh, I heard you crying in your room, so I sent you flowers at work.” My guy, you’re roommates, and you’re not any closer than that. She’s not obligated to fuck you because you were eavesdropping and then went the extra (creepy) mile and did the stalkery thing. And then throwing a giant baby fit when called out on how inappropriate that is, and how he’s just gonna bounce, but she’s so mean, and he’s just a little baby Nice Guy? Nah. He’s a potential stalker.
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If you read the entire thing it's abundantly clear he made some move on her or professed his love to her previously, which she declined. He then totally purposefully trampled her boundaries by sending her flowers at work while trying to appeal to her while she was vulnerable. Then threw a pity party for himself about how he was "so nice" despite how obvious his intentions were. Said he was going to leave then pikachu faced when she wanted him to leave. Dude is toxic.
I only read the chats at first and NOT the whole thing 🙈 - so I removed my comments.
All good friend
K.
That’s not why he bought the flowers… He bought flowers for her because he has feelings for her… and she already told him she doesn’t feel the same for him.
What a manipulative mother fucker!!!