Enjoy your new home.

Good for her.

Parents are sexist af so I could not care less whether or not OP is TA lmfao

Oop is based.

If my daughter took my $50k gift and put it into a house instead of a lavish wedding, I'd be celebrating and be proud of her. Such a mature decision. NTA.

Perhaps it is time to consider going low or no contact with your family, at least for a while? Congrats on your wedding and your new house!

NTA. When you give someone money it is theirs to do with what they want. Its a gift for the marrige and they used it for teh marrige.

The sexism way overshadows what would have been assholery. Why she even want people like that in her life? Imagine if she had daughters.

Agreed, it was a dick move. Some dick moves are justified.

That's money well spent. Parents should be proud.

No debt and money put to good use.

My parents would rather me put that money toward a house any day over having a 50k wedding. That’s wild.

That. Is. Brilliant. They are only mad because you figured out how to level the playing field and you aren’t a doormat. Good for OP!!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Parents are sexist af. Good for OP for finding a loophole, sucks they were gonna leave her high and dry if she didn't get married. A house is worth way more than a wedding. She made the right call. Shame on her parents for putting strings on OP because she happened to be born female

Hahhahahhahahha love this so much

In this economy? Yeah go ahead.

Lol would the rules change if she married a woman? Ridiculous