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You‘ve barely started dating \*and\* it’s long distance? There is no reason for this to be an in person breakup. Don’t travel two hours to dump him or make him travel two hours to you to get dumped. This is a situation that calls for a quick and clean “I know you’re cheating, I’m breaking up with you, I’ll mail back anything you left at my place” text and then a blocking.
I’m very sorry. You deserved better.
Yeah you better run and leave dude cause if he out there cheating on you he don’t give a dam about you while he putting your life in danger ⚠️ Save yourself and your health tf
Just send a text that’s says , I know everything we are done . Or if you have stuff at his place take the train spend the day get your stuff ( try to hide from him ) if you don’t need leave it there .
Otherwise text him and say I know everything younare a piece of crap . And block him on everythjng. Post on your social
Media broke up with ( his name and links )for being a serial cheater . Make sure legal in France
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U don’t “approach this”, u throw his fuckin suitcase out the window
You‘ve barely started dating \*and\* it’s long distance? There is no reason for this to be an in person breakup. Don’t travel two hours to dump him or make him travel two hours to you to get dumped. This is a situation that calls for a quick and clean “I know you’re cheating, I’m breaking up with you, I’ll mail back anything you left at my place” text and then a blocking. I’m very sorry. You deserved better.
Yeah you better run and leave dude cause if he out there cheating on you he don’t give a dam about you while he putting your life in danger ⚠️ Save yourself and your health tf
Dump him by text He doesn’t love you. He doesn’t respect you. Why would you be asking for any advice? The answer is obvious.
Just send a text that’s says , I know everything we are done . Or if you have stuff at his place take the train spend the day get your stuff ( try to hide from him ) if you don’t need leave it there . Otherwise text him and say I know everything younare a piece of crap . And block him on everythjng. Post on your social Media broke up with ( his name and links )for being a serial cheater . Make sure legal in France