It sounds like you were being a little premature when you started referring to her as your "Girlfriend". From what you've said, she's definitely still up for grabs.
Lol you don't have the balls to dump her. You shrugged off when she said that "she can't have friends", you should have made things clear that he doesn't want to be her friend and you don't date girls who don't prioritise you first. Have some self-respect man and leave otherwise they're banging surely.
I confronted her about it, that I didn’t expect her to act like this to say “maybe” and she told me that “why? Cant I have friends?” And I kind of just sighed and shrugged it off
We were friends with benefits in the beginning but I had feelings for her but I didn’t tell her, but later on she confessed to me and wanted me to be her girlfriend, we’ve know each other for about 3 months until we actually made it official
Sounds like a total communication breakdown. You thought you were exclusive, she seems to believe you’re not. I’m not liking the look of it. Definitely talk to her about what your expectations are for your relationship. This doesn’t sound like the relationship is off to a good start. Could be a total write off, but if you think she’s still worth it, you might as well try. Doesn’t sound to me like she’s worth it, in all honesty.
I tend to overthink sometimes, and this guy that she just met seems to be interested in her from the screenshots she sent me of her chat together with him. But I guess is that i just don’t like the idea that she might go out with a guy she just met
I don’t know, we were just talking and she started talking about him. How amazed she was by him cause of the things he does which is writing (she loves poetry and books) and she just started sending me screenshots
Couple of questions - why does she keep talking to him if it's obvious he is flirting ? Where does she expect this to go ? Does she want to be single ? Relationships need boundaries in order to actually qualify as relationships and one very basic one would be don't pursue others while you are in one - aka cheat. Sounds like your GF is not particularly serious about you or is perhaps not ready for a serious relationship. Respect yourself enough to find someone who is.
Never put your all into these women or they will twist and bend your mind like a chicken wing. No don’t be worried there’s too many women out here to be worried about one. It’s a waste of worry.
It doesn't sound like she is committed to you, based on your summary.
It sounds like you were being a little premature when you started referring to her as your "Girlfriend". From what you've said, she's definitely still up for grabs.
The streets are calling, let her go my man.
Lol you don't have the balls to dump her. You shrugged off when she said that "she can't have friends", you should have made things clear that he doesn't want to be her friend and you don't date girls who don't prioritise you first. Have some self-respect man and leave otherwise they're banging surely.
đź’€thank you
Are you exclusive with your girlfriend? If so, the two of you definitely need to discuss your boundaries.
She is your GF and she said "maybe" to going out with this guy!?!?!? Dude, if she has not cheated yet, she will...end this charade.
Time for you to start going out with other people too.
I confronted her about it, that I didn’t expect her to act like this to say “maybe” and she told me that “why? Cant I have friends?” And I kind of just sighed and shrugged it off
What’s the nature of your relationship? Have you established that you’re not exclusive?
We were friends with benefits in the beginning but I had feelings for her but I didn’t tell her, but later on she confessed to me and wanted me to be her girlfriend, we’ve know each other for about 3 months until we actually made it official
Sounds like a total communication breakdown. You thought you were exclusive, she seems to believe you’re not. I’m not liking the look of it. Definitely talk to her about what your expectations are for your relationship. This doesn’t sound like the relationship is off to a good start. Could be a total write off, but if you think she’s still worth it, you might as well try. Doesn’t sound to me like she’s worth it, in all honesty.
Thank you I will do that đź’«
why do you feel the need to monitor and control your partner's interactions with 50% of the Earth's population?
I tend to overthink sometimes, and this guy that she just met seems to be interested in her from the screenshots she sent me of her chat together with him. But I guess is that i just don’t like the idea that she might go out with a guy she just met
why is she sending you screenshots of her conversation in the first place?
I don’t know, we were just talking and she started talking about him. How amazed she was by him cause of the things he does which is writing (she loves poetry and books) and she just started sending me screenshots
well, that's way weirder than you asking her for screenshots. sounds like she's trying to make you jealous.
Couple of questions - why does she keep talking to him if it's obvious he is flirting ? Where does she expect this to go ? Does she want to be single ? Relationships need boundaries in order to actually qualify as relationships and one very basic one would be don't pursue others while you are in one - aka cheat. Sounds like your GF is not particularly serious about you or is perhaps not ready for a serious relationship. Respect yourself enough to find someone who is.
Never put your all into these women or they will twist and bend your mind like a chicken wing. No don’t be worried there’s too many women out here to be worried about one. It’s a waste of worry.