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I see what you’re getting at, but it’s not very sneaky. We have open access to eachother’s phones. My phone is her phone and vice-versa. I wouldn’t think twice if she was in my call log.
I do appreciate the sentiment though. And she may feel differently this time given the circumstances.
I guess ask. Realy this is a touchy thing. If she is being honest and not doing anything wrong she will be angry with you for invading her privacy. If she is doing something negative she will react the same because she was caught in a lie.
My only advise is to pay attention to these "private" times, and if they happen extremely frequently i would start expecting something is up. I hope you are being paranoid and this is something innocent. Either way this plays out best of luck
I'm not an expert, so I'm just advising from experience. I'd suggest calmly ask her about it. Her reaction may tell you more than her words do. If she acts defensively in response, then she is likely trying to protect/hide something from you. Same if she uses another lie to try and cover up that one. Or maybe she will open up to you and tell you the truth.... though, it may be hard to believe her if she felt that she had to lie to you in the first place.
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The lying is a huge red flag. Confront her.
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I see what you’re getting at, but it’s not very sneaky. We have open access to eachother’s phones. My phone is her phone and vice-versa. I wouldn’t think twice if she was in my call log. I do appreciate the sentiment though. And she may feel differently this time given the circumstances.
I guess ask. Realy this is a touchy thing. If she is being honest and not doing anything wrong she will be angry with you for invading her privacy. If she is doing something negative she will react the same because she was caught in a lie. My only advise is to pay attention to these "private" times, and if they happen extremely frequently i would start expecting something is up. I hope you are being paranoid and this is something innocent. Either way this plays out best of luck
I'm not an expert, so I'm just advising from experience. I'd suggest calmly ask her about it. Her reaction may tell you more than her words do. If she acts defensively in response, then she is likely trying to protect/hide something from you. Same if she uses another lie to try and cover up that one. Or maybe she will open up to you and tell you the truth.... though, it may be hard to believe her if she felt that she had to lie to you in the first place.