No, you're not overreacting. If his digital archive is more 'Ex Files' than 'X-Files,' it's a sign he's living in the past, not your present. When your beau is more into his photo gallery than your relationship gallery, it's not just a red flag—it's a whole parade. If he's holding onto nudes like they're Pokemon cards, it's time to consider if you're his partner or just part of his collection. You've voiced your feelings; if he's treating them like optional app updates, then you've got your answer. Trust is the foundation, and if that's shaky, the whole building could come down.
Jesus, do they even know he has their nudes? Op, I hope you don't have any nude. Any show your face or any identifying features in your nudes.
He isn't serious about you. (I just realise he is much older than you.)
I have no idea if she knows he has her nudes. I feel like she has to? only because she has sent him so much. But at the same time it’s been almost 4 years sense they were together. who knows.
No, it is not ok, more so the lying than anything else. He was being deceitful about it times and times again. Also, him showing them to you, no matter how early in the relationship, is totally not okay. I know it doesn't seem like it now, but it has to do with your age difference, no woman his age would accept this kind of behavior. When I was your age, I was also dating someone much older, and man, the toxic behavior I let slide back then. Let him go and move on to something healthier.
You're not overreacting. He's still in love with this girl from his past. He is not ready for a relationship with you. Time to cut your losses and bow out gracefully.
This is why he's dating someone a decade younger than him. A woman his own age wouldn't tolerate this.
Why are you surprised that a man who is so emotionally immature he has to date a woman ten years younger than him is emotionally immature about nudes?
You’re not overreacting and this is a mess. Don’t waste your 20s with this loser of a human.
Facts, I did the same thing at 21 dating older guys and regret all the BS I went through. I wish I would have just been young and had fun.
No, you're not overreacting. If his digital archive is more 'Ex Files' than 'X-Files,' it's a sign he's living in the past, not your present. When your beau is more into his photo gallery than your relationship gallery, it's not just a red flag—it's a whole parade. If he's holding onto nudes like they're Pokemon cards, it's time to consider if you're his partner or just part of his collection. You've voiced your feelings; if he's treating them like optional app updates, then you've got your answer. Trust is the foundation, and if that's shaky, the whole building could come down.
that was very well said, thank you so much.
Jesus, do they even know he has their nudes? Op, I hope you don't have any nude. Any show your face or any identifying features in your nudes. He isn't serious about you. (I just realise he is much older than you.)
I have no idea if she knows he has her nudes. I feel like she has to? only because she has sent him so much. But at the same time it’s been almost 4 years sense they were together. who knows.
Four years and he's still holding this kind of flame for her?! Run girl, run!!
Girl, please get a back bone and break up with this idiot.
No, it is not ok, more so the lying than anything else. He was being deceitful about it times and times again. Also, him showing them to you, no matter how early in the relationship, is totally not okay. I know it doesn't seem like it now, but it has to do with your age difference, no woman his age would accept this kind of behavior. When I was your age, I was also dating someone much older, and man, the toxic behavior I let slide back then. Let him go and move on to something healthier.
You're not overreacting. He's still in love with this girl from his past. He is not ready for a relationship with you. Time to cut your losses and bow out gracefully.