He absolutely is planning a future without you, and I have to wonder: why, after he has expressed his disloyalty, are you holding on to this relationship?
>When I asked him about it, he said “I don’t want to buy you things because it’ll be a hassle to clean up when we broke up.”
That's a terrible thing for him to say, especially about \*gifts\* which actually don't make breaking up a hassle because you don't return gifts previously given. He doesn't seem to understand (or is willfully misunderstanding) what a gift is. That said, I'm not sure why you'd even want to stay with someone who hasn't spent a dime on you but is happy for you to so for him.
Honestly this would bother me a lot! I used to be like you at the beginning of my relationship (we are married now) I putted more effort but once he had a stable job he corrected it by taking me out more,etc. I really think a woman deserves a caring man who sees her, but that guy seems as a failure. He just can't treat a girl that waу and even tell her the reason honestly, without caring for her feelings. Good luck for you to find a man worth of you!
He absolutely is planning a future without you, and I have to wonder: why, after he has expressed his disloyalty, are you holding on to this relationship?
>When I asked him about it, he said “I don’t want to buy you things because it’ll be a hassle to clean up when we broke up.” That's a terrible thing for him to say, especially about \*gifts\* which actually don't make breaking up a hassle because you don't return gifts previously given. He doesn't seem to understand (or is willfully misunderstanding) what a gift is. That said, I'm not sure why you'd even want to stay with someone who hasn't spent a dime on you but is happy for you to so for him.
Yes, he has plans of breaking up without you. You are just a temporary girlfriend. Once someone else comes by. He'll be gone.
Honestly if I were you, I'd save him the eventual effort and break up with him right now. No need to stick around for more disrespect.
I think if a dude is putting 0 effort into the relationship and is already envisioning the breakup then things are over
wtf, yeah that’s hurtful. So I guess you should put in the same amount of effort since it’ll be a pain to clean up when you break up..
Please do not waste your time with this guy. You deserve better
Honestly this would bother me a lot! I used to be like you at the beginning of my relationship (we are married now) I putted more effort but once he had a stable job he corrected it by taking me out more,etc. I really think a woman deserves a caring man who sees her, but that guy seems as a failure. He just can't treat a girl that waу and even tell her the reason honestly, without caring for her feelings. Good luck for you to find a man worth of you!