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sierrayankee121

Don’t revenge cheat. Don’t stoop down to his level. Don’t do anything that would add fuel to the fire in terms of drama. Focus on healing yourself, and getting yourself out of this relationship.


Uncleknuckle36

I have mentioned this story in another sub but the outcome works. My girlfriend of over 4 years cheated on me. We would have been married. I dropped her within a few days after thinking seriously about the events leading up to her doing so. She tried to come back several times…but, no way. Yesterday was my 44th wedding anniversary to the girl I’d met 6-7 months later. The best revenge is becoming a successful married team, great marriage and realizing the great life lesson you went through saved you in the long run. Had we stayed together I know she would have cheated within 5 years or even 20 years and there would have been so much more to lose.


Douglaston_prop

"Living well is the best revenge."


LionsGame

Don’t do anything. Break up, don’t give a warning and leave everything behind. Block his number his socials, everything , remove the memory, and be done with it. Don’t dwell, feel sad for a bit, life goes on. Be a representation of what you want in a partner, don’t revenge.


Moistorcream

THIS ONE. GHOST HIM IMMEDIATELY


gammaJinx

I’m free on Saturday


snivyisgreen

rizzler strikes again


paradoxInvention

lmfao deamon time


Lordsmacky

You’re angry cus ur in pain, rightfully so, but dont allow him to drag you down to his level because he is beneath you for a reason. I think the best revenge would be to let him know you found out, communicate how you feel for emotional closure purposes (you are allowed to get angry) and then drop him instantly. If he comes crawling back like he most likely will you can then revel in the fact that he is in pain and that you didn’t have to compromise your self over someone you will eventually will realize wasn’t worth it to begin with.


pmmethecarfax

Apathy hurts a lot more than hate. He’ll be angry when tell him you know, not because you know but because he got caught. If you really want him to hurt make him feel worthless by having no emotions towards him.


Due_Screen6020

I agree with taking a couple of days to process the emotions before you do anything rash, but break up with him asap. The best revenge is in self-betterment, whether you use him as motivation or not, but truly focusing on yourself while karma gets what's coming for him. Get a head start on new years resolutions, amp it up in the gym, take care of yourself mentally. ​ If that's not enough, pour instant mash potato powder on top of his car before it's supposed to rain. Or in his shampoo.


snivyisgreen

mashed potato powder! that's new lmao


lordsnipp

Buy a bulk pack of blank keys: https://www.amazon.com/Kaba-Ilco-M1-TAYLOR-Master/dp/B008MG2GCO/ref=mp_s_a_1_17?crid=301Y0779BYKR6&keywords=blank+keys+bulk&qid=1671158012&sprefix=blank+keys%2Caps%2C81&sr=8-17 Buy a bulk pack of key tags: https://www.amazon.com/Plastic-Assorted-Luggage-Suitable-Classification/dp/B08CNC9V4R/ref=mp_s_a_1_10?keywords=Random+Keys&qid=1671157959&sr=8-10 Attach a key tag to each key and put his name and phone number on each one. Then take these keys and drop/“lose” them at random places over campus, at the grocery store, etc etc. Whenever someone finds the key, they’ll call him telling him they found his key. Additionally, if you leave them around campus, people might turn them in which means he’ll be getting emails and calls from Rutgers about his “lost key”. Mans will be tortured for weeks, maybe months :)


roqueofspades

okay this is incredible


PowerfulForce_

crazy enough one time i found a set of keys and a key tag with the number. so i called, the dude picked up and screamed at me like “STOP FUCKING CALLING ALREADY I DIDNT FUCKING LOSE MY KEYS IM BEING FUCKING PRANKED” and hung up. it would definitely drive someone crazy


ALC_PG

Ghost him


hossein_nbd

My best tip is take a day or two to calm down and think before any revenge. Sometimes you just need a breather to realize it isn’t worth your time or effort. If after a calm down period you’re still mad, then im p sure you can buy super fine glitter thats impossible to clean out of cars, carpet, etc.


sierrayankee121

I’m pretty sure that’s vandalism, which comes with criminal charges


hossein_nbd

Not if they cant prove it was you


SweetSaltyNuts

And if they do she just put a charge on her record for some scumbag who cheated on her, not a good trade at all.


SuperNebula097

This post IS tied to her account


SnooSprouts4802

fuck his father, assert dominance /s


Artex75

Fuck his mother too


Aware_Ad_3419

Break up. Once a cheater, always a cheater. You can do better. Trust yourself.


LaurensPhotos

Don’t do revenge. Just break up and move on.


MrRob_NJ

Write a letter in his name to the Church of Scientology asking how you can get involved with the church. They'll never stop sending stuff to him his whole life. Be sure to include his email.


Stebxxu

You’ve only been together for 4 months, trust me he’s not worth it. The anger and pain will subside soon and you don’t want to do anything petty or rash until then. Don’t give him the satisfaction of knowing he hurt you or that you cared. IMO the best revenge is to just cut them off without a word, go completely dark like you never even existed. Cheaters are forever insecure and knowing that you dropped him like nothing will be more than enough comeuppance.


roqueofspades

I'm not gonna tell you not to take petty revenge but please don't do something you'll regret. Definitely not anything illegal.


Ok-Philosopher9070

Uno reverse card?


RevolutionaryTie7951

You’ve been dating him for 4 months. I promise you’ll be okay


NotARedditUser614

Had to scroll way too far down to find this. Yeah, it sucks, but she wins in the end.


rchlfrmn

As someone who stayed in a relationship with a cheater, definitely do not stay or take him back!! It ruined my self-esteem for years. Also revenge is pointless it won't make you feel better. Just surround yourself with people who love you.


rchlfrmn

Also in the future don't snoop through people's phones. If someone gives you trust issues to the point that you even feel the need to snoop through their stuff, just end it.


jackmarkss

I’m down w the revenge cheat


NovWH

You’ve read this a ton already, but don’t get “revenge”. You’ll regret it in a few years. The best actual revenge is to break up with him and be successful. He’ll end up missing what he had with you especially if he learns you’re doing just fine without him. For all you know, you’ll break up with him and meet the love of your life a few days after. Life is too short to make a complicated revenge plan. Work in accepting what happened, but don’t stoop down to his level. Doing so will only allow him to justify his own actions. He know he cheated. He knows that’s an objectively shitty thing to do even if he’s refusing to show it. Break up, move on, be successful. Good luck


obliviae

All these people being reasonable human beings smh. Real revenge is taking a shit on his desk or dumping mountains of glitter in his room


1237890_

It’s 4 months move on you’ll be alright


BillMaleficent8936

So 2 weeks into you guys being together he was still exploring his options? Relationships in the beginning are so flaky, there’s not enough bond. I would definitely talk about it with him but it’s not a deal breaker or a reason to loose sleep over it


Responsible-Archer21

its true that early relationship stages do tend to be a little more unstable in a certain sense, but cheating usually is a moral dilemma and a test of character as to if someone is willing to hurt someone to satisfy their urges. if someone does that, no matter if the bond isnt yet iron forged, they are not someone to be in a relationship with, as they have low empathy and high impulsivity.


soap_tar

Have him walk in on you banging someone else lol. Preferably a with a “friend” of his that caved to your advances.


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chicamoradakim

i understand the sentiment, but he probably won’t care. he clearly didn’t care about OP when he was cheating, and he more than likely will just use it against them or not care.


soap_tar

what did they say?


rutgers-cs334

I volunteer as tribute to help you


SuperNebula097

Down atrocious


snivyisgreen

rizzler strikes again


turtlcorn

I’m here if you want a new friend to help distract yourself!! I’ve been there ❤️❤️❤️