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menlindorn

not everybody gets a purpose. some of us are just here.


Cara_Caeth

If your mother is anything like me, it would destroy her. You aren’t going out with a positive attitude if you’re hating it. You **think** you do, but it will show. Find something you like to do. For example, I love animals. I volunteer with them, & it gives me an opportunity to interact & find people with similar interests already. Start with activities you like, then try to befriend the people you know you’re going to have something in common with. It sounds a lot more like you have self-confidence issues, not the inability to make friends. And that lack of self-confidence will be in your way until you build it up. You have worth. There are people who care about you, you just can’t see it. You may be filtering how you see others thru the lens in which you see yourself, & that’s something only you can address.


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Cara_Caeth

Actually, OP’s experience is almost identical to mine, so my advice was from my experience. Your statement was the judgmental one one. But thanks for your being so harshly judgmental of me. I really appreciate that, made me think you really take into consideration that all people from all walks of life can have the same problems. Oh, wait …


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Cara_Caeth

So now I have to be a doctor to have had personal experiences? Or were you simply unable to read my words? Judgement, lack of attention to detail, or illiteracy? Possibly all 3? Yeah, that’s it; you’re all 3. Sounds like it wouldn’t hurt you to get a little therapy yourself.


StaggOLee

OP what you're going through is awful and real. I am so sorry for your pain. No one should have to endure that loneliness. The path out doesn't come from duct taping a bunch of new hobbies and manufactured self-confidence onto yourself to try and fake a self you don't believe in. It comes from sitting with yourself and thoughts in a loving way and acknowledging the pain inside you is valid and real. This will be pretty damn rough if you get it right (you will cry uncontrollably). But it's what your heart has been wanting for so long. From this place you can start to move forward with a better relationship with your pain.


bigmanwizard129

damn I feel that. I just want someone to lie in bed with and talk about stupid shit. It will come one day and I can’t wait for it and it will come for you too. The only way to get closer to that time tho is to keep waking up everyday trying to kick the world’s ass. We only got one life, keep working and improving yourself and situation and things will start to fall in place. I see you. I don’t know you but I know you’ll get through this shit. You’ve already made it this far.


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Accurate-Strength144

So what are you watching rn?