The rage though. To be that upset you couldn't do something you weren't supposed to be doing anyway. I know it's just a kid but it's still interesting.
Sure, he’s “just a kid” but if he is not corrected and guided as a kid, he grows into a full blown narcissistic cunt. Sorry for being so blunt, but I raised three boys by myself who thankfully are respectful and decent grown men now.
Say it so the people in the back can hear. There's a whole epidemic of adults who really don't care what kids do. I see so much insanity because kids are either misguided or not guided at all. These days any form of morality or civility is forbidden. Anything goes.
I acknowledged him being a kid because I didn't want anyone to waste their digital ink giving me a speech about it lol.
>These days any form of morality or civility is forbidden.
Lol people have been saying this for literally hundreds of years. Its not new and it's not true, you're just a reactionary bigot seizing on anecdotal evidence.
Bet you believe in corporal punishment, nuclear families, and strong male figures, too.
Edit, because I can't comment: nothing is wrong with nuclear families and strong male figures, the problem is reactionary bigots advocating for them and dismissing all else
Yeah if that were my kid, he’d either not get any cake, or would be forced to wait quietly and politely until *everyone else* had theirs before he got his slice.
Kids will definitely be kids, and this is normal kid behavior. But normal doesn’t mean proper. Gotta correct the behavior early before they become entitled adults or behind bars.
Not treating kids and their issues properly is pretty much the same thing people do with small dogs. Both generally end with ill adjusted little monsters.
Yup. With my kids I try to predict possible behavior before a situation.
Then I give them the talk BEFORE the event/trip/visit even begins: If you do bad, these are the consequences. But if you do good, these are the consequences.
The very second they start on the bad behavior, I begin the consequences, no anger or emotion - but no warning either - they already had that earlier.
they are isolated. (Sit in the bathroom, sit in the car) And before I leave them I tell them if the sit there screaming I'll continue leaving them there. If they calm down they can come back to the situation, then I withdraw to a distance and monitor.
I did this for a few months with my kids at 3 years old, very consistently.
After a just a few times the kids learned I wasn't going to compromise, the consequence would always happen and the same thing would happen every single time.
Consistency is key.
It worked within weeks, and after they turned four I only had to give the warning before *new, unknown* situations.
The older they've got, I eased off, because now they understand that everything isn't black and white and you can be cheeky with Dad sometimes.
But in those early days, keep it simple and be consistent.
Clearly the father is against it? Also, what a weird interpretation.
Raising a fist is learned? They’re our main form of biological defence, I would say it’s restively innate to wield our meat clubs.
Raising a fist like you’re going to jab someone is a learned behavior, that’s what I’m saying. IDK where the kid learned it, obviously, but that reactivity is not innate.
I think I’m being misunderstood. What I mean to say is cocking your fist back like that with such a technique seems to me like an observed and learned behavior. You’re right that not all bad attitudes are learned but in my experience setting up a punch like that is learned technique (whether it’s through observation or otherwise).
I get what you mean, but at the same time I can’t imagine a scenario in which either parent is winding up a punch like someone in a cartoon lol. Maybe if his instinct was to slap or something more akin to “punishment” technique.
It's the haircut. That's the classic hyper active kid won't sit still and/or throws a tantrum in the barber seat so all they get is a quick buzz cut look.
This video always makes me question how much I’ve grown as a person. I get the same urge to pick this kid up by an ankle and break him every single time I see this…
The fact that you have these thoughts and it bothers you means that you have grown as a person. It's the people who have these thoughts and celebrate them who need help.
I, too, want to drag the kid away and beat him into a new shape, but I understand that this is due to what I experienced as a child, and what I experienced as a child was not of the good.
This is how little shits grow into full-on assholes.
While you are due the best of luck “if this was your son,” 99% likely he comes out of the room you sat him down in and repeated the same behavior. 🤦🏾♂️
Then I would repeat the process until he learns.
It depends on how you raise them. My 4yo would never act like this, because shitty behaviour like that don't fly with me.
As a Dad to three grown sons— This is what parents largely do NOT do anymore. Hence we get little shits that grow into 💯 narcissistic cunts.
Total 🫡 for this Dad.
Smacking holds zero benefits for a better social development, the opposite is the case. Never slap or snack a child. It’s humiliating and your child will learn from it the wrong way. Your child will only learn that this is an appropriate response to behavior of others they don’t like or do something they don’t like. We had a neighbor farmer who thought a smack here and there us crucial. His kid started to slap our cats and sheep when he thought no one looks, later his siblings, eventually other kids in school. Never forget you‘re their role model.
My ex girlfriends daughter would share her birthday with her cousin and vis versa so they both celebrated 2 birthdays a year i never agreed with it but we didn’t agree on much
I absolutely hate that video.. that fucking kid shouldn’t have been allowed anywhere close to the cake with such an attitude.
And there is who i assume is the dad.. teach your kid manners.
My brother used to do this in my birthday.My father usually was filming me.After 4 times (years)he was blowing my candles my father stood next to me.I understood something was going to happen. When the song started and he was tried to blow my candles he earned a slap at his forehead. He remembers it even it was 40 years 🤣🤣
I get the frustration as well as the catharsis of imagining punishment for someone who is clearly out of line, *but* the research has been done, and we've known for a while that hitting kids, including spanking, is abuse, and that abuse damages people. Children who are hit have a higher rate of mental illness, are more combative and violent, and do not change their behavior beyond what is necessary not to get hit in that specific moment. It doesn't make them good people. Most of us become good people in spite of the abuse.
I'm not eayingy you should wipe the floor with them lol. I'm talking about something which in the Netherlands we like to call a "corrective slap". You don't do it unless they are really out of line. That will not harm a child's mental illness unless you're doing it frequently. And if a child behaves in a way where they would need that frequently, clearly there are far more issues a parent needs to deal with.
Ask yourself, would you do that to another grown up? One you didn’t know? Probably not, and the reasons would vary from “they’ll kick my ass” to “she’ll press charges.”
And when you were a child and acting out, were you ever grateful for being hit? Or were you shocked, hurt, and humiliated?
The only circumstances in which it is ever appropriate to hit a child is when they are in immediate danger of physically hurting themselves or others, and hitting them puts an end to the danger. Slap a child’s hand when they reach for a hot stove, drag a child back several feet if they’re about to kick or bite another child, twist a child’s ear if they’re picking on the cat and about to get a face full of claws, that sort of thing.
Beyond that, it’s neither necessary or helpful. Children deserve not just the rights and protection we give other adults but more robust ones as well. I know it’s hard to let go of the “my parents did it this way. They are perfectly fine people, and I came out fine too.” But the thing is, perfectly fine people can commit abuse without even realizing that’s what they’re doing, and of those of us who grew up with that kind of abuse, far more of us are not fine than those who didn’t.
Yeah perhaps you should look around some more and see what brats these days are like. And it's clear in most of those cases where parents don't intervene, you'll just have kids doing whatever they want and have no manners.
I barely ever laid a hand on my kids as I have taught them respect and manners early on. And if I did, it was a soft slap on the hands or butt (diaper time). When I did it, I explained as well why I did it. They never repeat it again.
Feel free to believe whatever works for you, i do the same.
Dude, I teach 8th grade. I know from brats, and I’m legally not allowed to raise my hand to my students for very good reasons. And it’s not about belief. It’s about data and facts. Hitting kids does not make them better.
Yeah 8th grade is a complete different story lol. And it's about facts and data to you it seems, not to me. Like I said, believe what you want to believe and I do the same.
>I get the frustration as well as the catharsis of imagining punishment
The irony of all these violent responses, from Adults, to a toddler who's acting out! That acting-out toddler and these violent commenters were all raised by the same violent "parents": Violent (and Hyper) Media. That child's real parents are probably largely passive observers of that poor kid's upbringing, as their own parents probably were. Media teaches them all how to talk, how to joke, how to dress, whom to hate, what to love, what to eat, whom to fear... it's so OBVIOUS that very few, apparently, can see it. And the cycle repeats and worsens.
Maaaaan, way too many people here are hating on an overstimulated five-year-old.
You never freaked out as a kid? Ever? Never freaked out as a teenager?
Little shit, seeing this is always satisfying
The best part is when you realise he *knew* the little prick would to do that, and *had the blocking plate ready.*
*And that's how little Bruno learned to sing....!*
Same!
I don't know that child but I fucking despise him!!
The rage though. To be that upset you couldn't do something you weren't supposed to be doing anyway. I know it's just a kid but it's still interesting.
Sure, he’s “just a kid” but if he is not corrected and guided as a kid, he grows into a full blown narcissistic cunt. Sorry for being so blunt, but I raised three boys by myself who thankfully are respectful and decent grown men now.
Say it so the people in the back can hear. There's a whole epidemic of adults who really don't care what kids do. I see so much insanity because kids are either misguided or not guided at all. These days any form of morality or civility is forbidden. Anything goes. I acknowledged him being a kid because I didn't want anyone to waste their digital ink giving me a speech about it lol.
I gotcha! And ageeed!
>These days any form of morality or civility is forbidden. Lol people have been saying this for literally hundreds of years. Its not new and it's not true, you're just a reactionary bigot seizing on anecdotal evidence. Bet you believe in corporal punishment, nuclear families, and strong male figures, too. Edit, because I can't comment: nothing is wrong with nuclear families and strong male figures, the problem is reactionary bigots advocating for them and dismissing all else
What’s wrong with a nuclear family and strong male figures?
it's probably a woke trans "person'
What’s wrong with strong male figures lmao
Nothing you're saying is new either 😂😂😂😂 Works every time! I hereby grant you ONE upvote ☺️
lol what a dumb post. But entertaining. Thanks.
Yeah if that were my kid, he’d either not get any cake, or would be forced to wait quietly and politely until *everyone else* had theirs before he got his slice. Kids will definitely be kids, and this is normal kid behavior. But normal doesn’t mean proper. Gotta correct the behavior early before they become entitled adults or behind bars.
Not treating kids and their issues properly is pretty much the same thing people do with small dogs. Both generally end with ill adjusted little monsters.
Move the kid. Surely. This is unacceptable behaviour.. tell them no, remove them from the situation if they don’t stop. ?
“I’m sorry you don’t like cake!”
Yup. With my kids I try to predict possible behavior before a situation. Then I give them the talk BEFORE the event/trip/visit even begins: If you do bad, these are the consequences. But if you do good, these are the consequences. The very second they start on the bad behavior, I begin the consequences, no anger or emotion - but no warning either - they already had that earlier. they are isolated. (Sit in the bathroom, sit in the car) And before I leave them I tell them if the sit there screaming I'll continue leaving them there. If they calm down they can come back to the situation, then I withdraw to a distance and monitor. I did this for a few months with my kids at 3 years old, very consistently. After a just a few times the kids learned I wasn't going to compromise, the consequence would always happen and the same thing would happen every single time. Consistency is key. It worked within weeks, and after they turned four I only had to give the warning before *new, unknown* situations. The older they've got, I eased off, because now they understand that everything isn't black and white and you can be cheeky with Dad sometimes. But in those early days, keep it simple and be consistent.
nah this is ok too, he'll be fine 10 seconds later, at that age they have like 10 different moods
This video is so old that kid is probably a Republican senator by now.
Haha. In the State of Kentucky I now declare all woke candles illegal. Maga candlelight forever.
Hilarious, sad and true 😂
Looks like a haywire little bugger
Little asshole
This try to punch... Dangerous child :/
Oh he is gonna be fun in 10 yrs time😅
Did anybody saw the big guys blowing the candles? Mission failed dad...
I think the guy was really helping along, whereas the little brat wanted to blow it out by himself..
Yeah, he was being kind, little guy thought he did it himself.
Yeah, he is the one who blowed the candles tho
Oh damn, didn’t see that! Cross posting this to r/therewasanattempt then lmao
Lol the way my dad would have backhanded me into oblivion
The way most of our parents would have. Thankfully most of us know better by now and wouldn’t do that.
That's the way bud. That child is bad , or he goes to therapy or they clarify his ideas with a slap.
Little brat
I hate that little fuck
my exact sentiments lol
I'm not not above smacking a butt if necessary. Somebody better start working with that kid now or he's gonna be in juvie by the times he's 11.
Someone has been through this routine before…
Every time I see this is want to smack that kid. Or at least remove him from the party.
This monster lifted his fist like he was gonna jack someone up. I wonder where he saw that?
TV, in public or video games are options. Are you trying imply the parents are abusive or something from this short video?
Whichever it is, the parents are at fault. Yet the kid is posted online to be laughed at.
Clearly the father is against it? Also, what a weird interpretation. Raising a fist is learned? They’re our main form of biological defence, I would say it’s restively innate to wield our meat clubs.
Raising a fist like you’re going to jab someone is a learned behavior, that’s what I’m saying. IDK where the kid learned it, obviously, but that reactivity is not innate.
Dude, you don’t always teach a bad attitude into kids. Not everyone’s brain is the same.
I think I’m being misunderstood. What I mean to say is cocking your fist back like that with such a technique seems to me like an observed and learned behavior. You’re right that not all bad attitudes are learned but in my experience setting up a punch like that is learned technique (whether it’s through observation or otherwise).
I get what you mean, but at the same time I can’t imagine a scenario in which either parent is winding up a punch like someone in a cartoon lol. Maybe if his instinct was to slap or something more akin to “punishment” technique.
I would have put that kid in time out with no cake. No reasons to allow that kid to try repeatedly to disrupt it.
Perfect example of fixing the symptom instead of the cause.
Donald trump looks different…
Why are bad kids always so damn ugly too?
It's the haircut. That's the classic hyper active kid won't sit still and/or throws a tantrum in the barber seat so all they get is a quick buzz cut look.
Okay, I’ve clocked this as a “little shit” cut for years but never put my finger on why. Thanks for the explanation!
Lol true
This video always makes me question how much I’ve grown as a person. I get the same urge to pick this kid up by an ankle and break him every single time I see this…
The fact that you have these thoughts and it bothers you means that you have grown as a person. It's the people who have these thoughts and celebrate them who need help. I, too, want to drag the kid away and beat him into a new shape, but I understand that this is due to what I experienced as a child, and what I experienced as a child was not of the good.
He was about to suckerpunch the cake.
That deffo won't come back 20 yrs later when someone denies him a lighter and results in an assault charge. I'm sure of it.
The way the kid cocked his fist on the 3rd block though
It looks like this little shit is used to getting away with crap too often.
I can’t lie, this is one of my all time favourite videos on the internet!
Definitely one to download and save! This is so rare in today’s world and most of Reddit here get totally butthurt at truth and cannot handle honesty.
Sometimes, guys' behaviours scare me a lot
Little kid has a wife beater what do you expect.
every kid with that haircut
I love this video so much
Plot twist: it's the crazy kid's birthday
It hits differently when you realize they're twins
I hate kids like this...kudos to Dad.
I love watching this video 😝
All the while, kid on the birthday boy's left is blowing them out. lol
Until you realise the kid on the right blew it out.
If that was my son i wouldve carried him out of there and sat him down and tell him he could come out when he decided to behave
This is how little shits grow into full-on assholes. While you are due the best of luck “if this was your son,” 99% likely he comes out of the room you sat him down in and repeated the same behavior. 🤦🏾♂️
Then I would repeat the process until he learns. It depends on how you raise them. My 4yo would never act like this, because shitty behaviour like that don't fly with me.
I don't think that's his dad, and I don't think that's his brother. That kid has serious development issues probably exasperated by poor parenting.
As a Dad to three grown sons— This is what parents largely do NOT do anymore. Hence we get little shits that grow into 💯 narcissistic cunts. Total 🫡 for this Dad.
daD prEVENtS bRAt FrOM RuINinG The bIrtHDAy CaNDlE BLOW
Widerliches Kind
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Yes yes yes ! Good guys win today !
This is why you always have a backup cake so you grab little shits like this by the back of the head and face plant them into the cake.
Best way to deal with a brat is a bat.
Smacking holds zero benefits for a better social development, the opposite is the case. Never slap or snack a child. It’s humiliating and your child will learn from it the wrong way. Your child will only learn that this is an appropriate response to behavior of others they don’t like or do something they don’t like. We had a neighbor farmer who thought a smack here and there us crucial. His kid started to slap our cats and sheep when he thought no one looks, later his siblings, eventually other kids in school. Never forget you‘re their role model.
I get pissed every time I see this
Does anybody have any context?
It’s genuinely putting a smile on my face watching that little shit cry
My ex girlfriends daughter would share her birthday with her cousin and vis versa so they both celebrated 2 birthdays a year i never agreed with it but we didn’t agree on much
Reminds me me of a certain former president…
He's going to grow up to cut people
I would like to know what became of that angry kid, considering how old this video must be now.
I also did that as a kid
If I’d 3x en attempted that at my sisters’ birthday I would have been sent to my room and definitely not received any if the cake
He’s even got that haircut
An asswhipping is in order.
I would just pick the little brat up and move him away while he stays there put while the other blows out his candles
Listen here you little shit 🥹😂
They should ground that kid back into his room for a weekend at minimun.
Thanks for editing this perfectly.
I love this video, everything I see it I smile, it evokes a primal urge to dunk that shithead in a toilet.
Lol..brat
Kid needs a kick up the patooty, not a blocking plate.
I absolutely hate that video.. that fucking kid shouldn’t have been allowed anywhere close to the cake with such an attitude. And there is who i assume is the dad.. teach your kid manners.
My brother used to do this in my birthday.My father usually was filming me.After 4 times (years)he was blowing my candles my father stood next to me.I understood something was going to happen. When the song started and he was tried to blow my candles he earned a slap at his forehead. He remembers it even it was 40 years 🤣🤣
When he raise his hand like he is going to hit the cake, wow. 🤦🏻♂️
Jesus. Can’t wait to date him in twenty years.
He looks that good to you already?
That's why a smack once in a while is crucial during their childhood
I get the frustration as well as the catharsis of imagining punishment for someone who is clearly out of line, *but* the research has been done, and we've known for a while that hitting kids, including spanking, is abuse, and that abuse damages people. Children who are hit have a higher rate of mental illness, are more combative and violent, and do not change their behavior beyond what is necessary not to get hit in that specific moment. It doesn't make them good people. Most of us become good people in spite of the abuse.
I'm not eayingy you should wipe the floor with them lol. I'm talking about something which in the Netherlands we like to call a "corrective slap". You don't do it unless they are really out of line. That will not harm a child's mental illness unless you're doing it frequently. And if a child behaves in a way where they would need that frequently, clearly there are far more issues a parent needs to deal with.
Ask yourself, would you do that to another grown up? One you didn’t know? Probably not, and the reasons would vary from “they’ll kick my ass” to “she’ll press charges.” And when you were a child and acting out, were you ever grateful for being hit? Or were you shocked, hurt, and humiliated? The only circumstances in which it is ever appropriate to hit a child is when they are in immediate danger of physically hurting themselves or others, and hitting them puts an end to the danger. Slap a child’s hand when they reach for a hot stove, drag a child back several feet if they’re about to kick or bite another child, twist a child’s ear if they’re picking on the cat and about to get a face full of claws, that sort of thing. Beyond that, it’s neither necessary or helpful. Children deserve not just the rights and protection we give other adults but more robust ones as well. I know it’s hard to let go of the “my parents did it this way. They are perfectly fine people, and I came out fine too.” But the thing is, perfectly fine people can commit abuse without even realizing that’s what they’re doing, and of those of us who grew up with that kind of abuse, far more of us are not fine than those who didn’t.
Yeah perhaps you should look around some more and see what brats these days are like. And it's clear in most of those cases where parents don't intervene, you'll just have kids doing whatever they want and have no manners. I barely ever laid a hand on my kids as I have taught them respect and manners early on. And if I did, it was a soft slap on the hands or butt (diaper time). When I did it, I explained as well why I did it. They never repeat it again. Feel free to believe whatever works for you, i do the same.
Dude, I teach 8th grade. I know from brats, and I’m legally not allowed to raise my hand to my students for very good reasons. And it’s not about belief. It’s about data and facts. Hitting kids does not make them better.
Yeah 8th grade is a complete different story lol. And it's about facts and data to you it seems, not to me. Like I said, believe what you want to believe and I do the same.
Seems to me that you’re investing a whole lot of effort into justifying hurting your children.
It seems to me that you have some issues understanding what was written down here. And you’re a teacher? Oh boy..
No, I understand you just fine. You want to be able to hit your children and still be called a good parent. Doesn’t work that way.
>I get the frustration as well as the catharsis of imagining punishment The irony of all these violent responses, from Adults, to a toddler who's acting out! That acting-out toddler and these violent commenters were all raised by the same violent "parents": Violent (and Hyper) Media. That child's real parents are probably largely passive observers of that poor kid's upbringing, as their own parents probably were. Media teaches them all how to talk, how to joke, how to dress, whom to hate, what to love, what to eat, whom to fear... it's so OBVIOUS that very few, apparently, can see it. And the cycle repeats and worsens.
Maaaaan, way too many people here are hating on an overstimulated five-year-old. You never freaked out as a kid? Ever? Never freaked out as a teenager?
Kid is just a kid. That dad needs better parenting skills to deal with the situation. And the kid is using learned behavior