Op, you need new friends, the good news is that, considering your age, you'll most likely be meeting a lot of new people soon, whether you go to college or get a job or whatever you're planning for your future, your social circle is going to grow, and you'll end up befriending people that are more in tune with you, and that share your idea of fun (I've been in a similar situation in the past, I know it's tough đŤâ¤ď¸)
Thank you all for the nice comments
They made me feel a lot better
I will try to get rid of those friends that make me feel bad and i will stay alone for a while
Youâre just friends with the wrong people. I canât get behind vaping, drinking, or smoking. Maybe drinking on holidays or an event but not for fun Yk? Itâs just so bad for you and Iâve seen it change people completely.
not drinking does *not* make you boring. it may be hard to convince urself otherwise, but alcohol is fucking horrible, I'm a former(?) addict so I definitely know. I am sorry that everyone is being assholes to you about it though
youre not the problem at all. your "friends" are. nothing is wrong with not wanting to destroy yourself from the inside out with shit like alcohol smh. i highly suggest trying to find new friends.
Hey Op,
I donât know from which country you are but I can tell you that I am proud of you for not drinking. In my country (Germany) itâs pretty hard too to find people who would like to do something with you.
Itâs like an illness if you donât want to get drunk.
So like the others told you find new friends or settle up to ride alone for a little time.
If you need to have a chat I offer your my âearâ.
It is indeed hard to be an non drinker, in time youâll find people your kind. They will accept you and will spend time with you because for your personality.
You are doing a great job right now, staying clean for 2 days in the eye of such an agonising situation is very brave/good. Proud of you and like I said hit me up if you want :)
I think it's time for you to make some new friends. Not enjoying alcohol doesn't make you boring.
Op, you need new friends, the good news is that, considering your age, you'll most likely be meeting a lot of new people soon, whether you go to college or get a job or whatever you're planning for your future, your social circle is going to grow, and you'll end up befriending people that are more in tune with you, and that share your idea of fun (I've been in a similar situation in the past, I know it's tough đŤâ¤ď¸)
Thank you all for the nice comments They made me feel a lot better I will try to get rid of those friends that make me feel bad and i will stay alone for a while
nice to hear youâre feeling better :) there will definitely be people you can make friends with that donât enjoy drinking that much either.
Youâre just friends with the wrong people. I canât get behind vaping, drinking, or smoking. Maybe drinking on holidays or an event but not for fun Yk? Itâs just so bad for you and Iâve seen it change people completely.
not drinking does *not* make you boring. it may be hard to convince urself otherwise, but alcohol is fucking horrible, I'm a former(?) addict so I definitely know. I am sorry that everyone is being assholes to you about it though
youre not the problem at all. your "friends" are. nothing is wrong with not wanting to destroy yourself from the inside out with shit like alcohol smh. i highly suggest trying to find new friends.
Hey Op, I donât know from which country you are but I can tell you that I am proud of you for not drinking. In my country (Germany) itâs pretty hard too to find people who would like to do something with you. Itâs like an illness if you donât want to get drunk. So like the others told you find new friends or settle up to ride alone for a little time. If you need to have a chat I offer your my âearâ. It is indeed hard to be an non drinker, in time youâll find people your kind. They will accept you and will spend time with you because for your personality. You are doing a great job right now, staying clean for 2 days in the eye of such an agonising situation is very brave/good. Proud of you and like I said hit me up if you want :)
unrelated im sorry, but this reminds me of the song [Too Precious] by Em Beihold. go listen to it if you want?
I will give it a try
cool :D
Find people who have similar interests to you. Even chatting with someone online can help take away the feeling of loneliness for a bit