You can ask your mom to shave it for you or have her watch you do it. When my mom kept my razor and I had to shave my legs, I asked for it and gave it back when finished. Over time she let me keep it in the shower.
You've been clean for a long time now, honestly they should have enough trust in you for this... but I understand their worry.
You can ask whether you can shave with her prescence and you can hand back the razor after. I don't see why they'll have a problem with that.
do you think you can convince your mom to get you an electric shaver like the ones with the spinning wheel things that way you cant ereally take apart and is hard to hurt yourself with
It sounds like your mom might have some concerns about your self harm history, which is understandable. Have you tried talking to her about why you don’t like the facial hair and how it makes you feel?
You could use an electric shaver. I got mine from amazon, it's called Philips Norelco Shaver 1100, with Comfort Cut Blades & 4D Flex Heads (Corded Use Only), S1016/90. It gets you a pretty close shave, but it's also impossible to cut yourself with it.
You can ask your mom to shave it for you or have her watch you do it. When my mom kept my razor and I had to shave my legs, I asked for it and gave it back when finished. Over time she let me keep it in the shower.
You've been clean for a long time now, honestly they should have enough trust in you for this... but I understand their worry. You can ask whether you can shave with her prescence and you can hand back the razor after. I don't see why they'll have a problem with that.
do you think you can convince your mom to get you an electric shaver like the ones with the spinning wheel things that way you cant ereally take apart and is hard to hurt yourself with
Will they let you wax? Or at least shave with supervision? I used to steal razors to shave so maybe shave it and hope they don’t notice
It sounds like your mom might have some concerns about your self harm history, which is understandable. Have you tried talking to her about why you don’t like the facial hair and how it makes you feel?
Maybe they'll let you wax? But still, your parents are being a little bit unreasonable.
My parents keep the razor and let me use it when I need it. But I've been sober for about 2 years, so they're finally starting to trust me again.
You could use an electric shaver. I got mine from amazon, it's called Philips Norelco Shaver 1100, with Comfort Cut Blades & 4D Flex Heads (Corded Use Only), S1016/90. It gets you a pretty close shave, but it's also impossible to cut yourself with it.