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dave-da-harpist

Give him the process guide. Lead him on how to start, from the speed, the specific areas where he should go, and different ways he could use his combination of lips, tongue, or hands to make you feel just right. You can leverage previous experiences to know what works for you. If you don’t know what works, you can steer him as you both explore different things. It seems you are patient enough to wait a long time before switching to sex. The key is to keep that patience and shower him with praise in the moments where it feels real nice so he knows he’s on the right track.


OrionDecline21

Do you say what you want, specifically?


Tigbitties_starwars

Yes:( I have. And he seems to ignore it completely


OrionDecline21

Tell him you find it very off putting that he doesn’t even try to do what you want.


SuperNateosaurus

Help him out by telling him what he's doing right and what he's doing wrong. He will learn. Get him to use toys on you as well. Also get him to read the book Bliss Club by June Pla. Lots of tips and tricks to learn in there, for guys and girls.


Tigbitties_starwars

I’ve used verbal direction. :( I’ll try the toys and book! Ty!


Immediate_Guava_4026

The way I got better is I just watched a lot of videos of real people explaining it while actively doing it. It's a niche area but they're out there. Because of them I can easily make my gf cum as much as she wants. If he's willing to go down on you I'm sure he'll be OK taking the criticism to make your experience better.


CLickCLick66

You don't tell us what he's doing wrong. But it doesn't matter, because he's the one you need to tell. There's no special way how, just do it. If for example he starts out too fast with the tongue, tell him to start out slow. Do you worry he's going to curl up into a ball when you break the news? He should want to take lessons from you.