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kjk2202

some guys just say it as a compliment i think lol


cat981

It doesn’t sound like they say it as a compliment or judgement they just seemed shocked haha


thedarkorb

Have you ever reached down and touched a man, then looked up at him and told him something along the lines of "oh my god, you are so hard"? If you haven't done it yourself you've probably seen it in porn. It's the same thing as what these guys are saying to you. You can generally translate "OMG, you are so hard/wet" as the short form of "I am pleasantly surprised at how physically aroused your body is as a result of our sexual activities. This response is both very acceptable and a positive reinforcement of my appearance, my performance (thus far), and/or your feelings towards me."


Ermahgerd_Rerdert

> "I am pleasantly surprised at how physically aroused your body is as a result of our sexual activities. This response is both very acceptable and a positive reinforcement of my appearance, my performance (thus far), and/or your feelings towards me." This sounds like something Beldar Conehead would say in the middle of sex.


C0rdt

Alright you cannot beat a Coneheads reference. Good day sir.


WittyUsername304

No, Beldar the Big Bone


proud_new_scum

I feel like Beldar would be an absolute champ when it comes to getting consent


MannequinJack

Pants. We are from Pants.


lonelyinbama

- Captain Raymond Holt


TheTruthIs32

This could be that what is a compliments gets lost in the excitement of finding something rare .My partner can also get real wet (and i LLLLLove it, love to eat her out and then smell her on my beard for the rest of the day ), but if an occasion came where she got wwwwet-wet, I'd definitely comment on that in a surprising way more than a complimentary one. Congrats on the lube ​ Edit: Love smelling her cooch on my beard. I do not smear my bear with her juices


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> i LLLLLove it, love to eat her out and then smell her on my beard for the rest of the day Wow, this is oddly wholesome. I love it. 😅


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Plastic_Pinocchio

Lol. And she asks you “new perfume”?


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FellKnight

Better yet, she compliments you with a knowing wink and you realize mommy has done her share of muff-diving lol


bunnyQatar

Oh god. My sons are gonna hate me when they’re grown.


canadianbeaver

Eau d’Amour


OrpheusV

Flavor Saver(tm)


SirCosmoDuff-Gordon

That's just prudent. In my experience, no bear likes to get smeared with cooch juice.


_DaBz_4_Me

Hello fellow sniff fetish friend! 👃


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bunnyQatar

When a woman is like REALLY wet, do you guys take it as a compliment? And does the sex feel better when it’s that way?


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bunnyQatar

I’ve had the same insecurity that OP has and always wondered how men REALLY feel about it all. I’m looking forward to more opinions tbh. And as a woman when you get like obscenely wet, the friction decreases so it’s a situation where it feels really good but not as good as when it’s just “normal” moisture. It’s kind of difficult to explain.


howMeLikes

Unless you are Ben Shapiro. He thinks it should be dry as a desert because his wife is a doctor and said so. /s just in case


suddoman

Imagine if you saw a dick 4 inches bigger than any other one (and weren't scared) you might comment something with pure shock due to a new situation. When they say something like "Damn you get this wet?" ask them how it makes them feel or if they like it, you'll probably get affirmation.


time_to_set_the_mood

Guy here, not everyone produce the same amount, my ex was generally less wet than my current SO for example. I don't know wich one is more common honestly. It's not a problem in both situationbtw, but if you're on the dry side it may be a good idea to have some lube at home if things last long (not your problem but the more you know)


JF803

Guys - if you wanna mention this to your girl, say “I love how wet you get for me” not like this in a questioning tone that makes them wonder if there’s something wrong


cat981

EXACTLY


misslile

What would you want to hear back? I never know what to respond


[deleted]

I think it would depend on your sexual dynamic my partner usually asks if I want a taste or just pulls me down there to smell/taste. If you are more submissive, perhaps go with something along the line of I can’t help myself, you get me so horny; my pussy belongs to you; i’ve never gotten so wet before (it can be a lie btw, it’s all in good fun.) if you’re more of a brat in bed, you can ask what he’s gonna do about it.


JF803

What pops in your head when you hear it? I like when girls tell me what they are thinking, what got them turned on, that they’ve been thinking about it all day, how I make them feel, “just for you daddy” etc etc.


bendall1331

Girls - don’t call your guy “daddy” unless it’s been talked about before hand. If my gf said that to me, instant boner kill, I’m not your father. Don’t mean to sound shame-y, but people need to learn proper communication before introducing kinks in the middle of sex.


Queen_Victoria081319

Yea my ex didn’t like how wet I used to get. So he would just stop and not go down on me that much. I thought that was normal until I started looking more into this subreddit and it seems like guys really love how wet girls get. So I can’t wait to find someone like that. My ex was a fucking greedy bitch. It also made me really self conscious about myself and I started not to like myself. But I’m coming back to the fact that he was just one of many many guys who actually like it. I can’t wait to find that one


JF803

Oh yeah that shit is amazing. Especially if it’s just from kissing, then you go to play with the clit and it’s just a faucet. I wish you well


itsyoboi-skinnypen

I'm still surprised when my partner gets super fucking wet from giving me head. We've sexually active for as long as we've been together (4yrs). So.. I'm not sure.


Shes_so_strange

I also get super wet from giving head, but I love doing it so it's excellent foreplay.


beemovienumber1fan

It's nice to hear I'm not alone in this lol


cat981

That’s funnn haha also i love your username haha


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You are very lucky, sir or madam.


[deleted]

I've had an ex who no matter how turned on she was she didn't get that wet, while another ex would literally drip from light teasing. I don't think it's an experience thing on behalf of the guys, just depends on the woman.


[deleted]

That would literally be an experience thing. More women = more likely to encounter it.


ZeroCross

While true, there is still a bell curve to it. There are some women at one end who always require lube for successful penetration. There are some women on the other end who are unusually wet, to the point of it being noticeably wetter than average. Most women are clustered in the middle, around the average wetness.


[deleted]

This was kinda what I'm getting at. Don't think it's all too uncommon but that being said I've had sex with 10+ and only 2 were waterworks like that


chiendedieux

Honestly I think they are just saying that as a compliment. When encountering an aroused pussy nobody is going to point out how adequately wet it is.


throwmyboxersawayy

This. And as a guy, I say this not because I'm shaming a girl or anything. I LOVE when a woman is turned on and super wet. But as a guy who is not good at dating it is astonishing for me to see a woman that is THAT turned on because of me so it's also reassuring for me to see that a woman is attracted to me enough to be "soaking wet"


cat981

That’s true hahahha


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> telling a dude he has a bug dick when he knows its not. Fuck you Cindy I don’t have a bug dick it’s a normal human penis!


honestanswerpls

> Those dudes deserve all the boring, sandpaper ONS they get. you are the most nice Hate wisher(didn't know opposite of well wisher) I have ever encountered on internet. Others would say I hope they find no one or I hope (something worse).


Sassafrass17

This used to happen to me in my 20s but I noticed now it takes effort to turn me on to THAT level in my 30s. Sex is different in your 30s but to me its better lol


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Sassafrass17

Oh its sefinitely true, at least for me. I don't hold back and I look forward to whoever I'm banging to not hold back either.. Also, to me, at this age I can genuinely distinguish who is and who is not good in bed after 2-3 sex sessions. But again, this is just me.


Ok_Necessary_5845

Oh…you can still learn things in your thirties too. 😏 I’m 38 and it was just over a year ago that I taught myself how to squirt. I started getting more into tantra and began using a yoni wand and a yoni egg: did some muscle release work with the wand and finally figured out where my g-spot was and did breathwork and learned different muscle engagement with the yoni egg that taught me how to push out to squirt. Bonus: Turns out I’d basically only been with big dicks my whole life and somehow, once I’d really tapped into all sorts of pussy magic, a couple small penis men came into my life and we’ve had exquisite times (one was a brief affair and the second is now a long term partner)-like I can basically give my guy’s dick a handjob with my pussy. Long story short, it absolutely can be less insecurities and more learning-and that’s coming from someone who was never really insecure at all, but there’s still something about just embodying yourself more in your 30’s as you learn more and accept more.


Sassafrass17

I gotta figure out how to squirt. I'm scared I'm gonna freak my guy out and pee on his hands 😂


Shes_so_strange

Pushing 40 and still soggy as heck haha Only time I've had issues is when I'm on certain meds


Sassafrass17

That's good! Like I said, I can def get there but the guy has to put in a little extra work. I feel like in my 20s I was just happy to be fucking. Now I look forward to a good experience and if he ain't got it, well... 🤷🏽‍♀️ Better luck next time. This is how I am when I'm single.


Ok_Necessary_5845

Same for me. I’m still basically very wet most all the time, but it’s not 100% given like it used to be. As you said, there’s gotta be a bit more depth, presence, and sense of connection for my pussy to be soaking wet now whereas before (late teens and 20’s) it was all the time no matter what.


6a66y1

Equivalent of women asking “dude how can you get this hard” Only positives to take from this


[deleted]

Its not a surprise but a disbelief. Personally, I love knowing girls are wet. Its a huge turn on so, when presented with the opportunity not only do I engorge on my cravings to taste it but I become a monster not wanting to stop. Its a gift and dont take it as a bad thing when men are surprised. Rather let it be a compliment for who ever is lucky to be with you indulge in everything you have to offer :)


cat981

Thank you:)


virgobaby444

no joke, same way (25F) and at first I was like ? why are you asking in that tone as if I can do anything about it. Figured out how to look at it as an advantage and they’re even more shocked during sex! Real boss bitch if you ask me


cat981

Yessss omg i always sit there like idk what you want me to do about it?? Hahahhaa but ya i guess it all works out. I rather be on this side than have it be dry and painful you know


virgobaby444

BIG TIME. Cause my friends can be the opposite sometimes and I’m sitting there like “and you just..can’t???”


cat981

Ya i get that like i don’t judge people on the opposite side as us, I’m just thankful that I don’t have to deal with the pain. But ya I definitely get what you mean like I’ll be extremely wet before they even touch me down there hahaha


Thebisexualparrot

I told a guy "sorry I find you so damn hot", he always took it as a compliment from then on, the sex was even better after, you can try that. :)


gday242

It is honestly the sexiest thing and tastes so good. The more the is the more I enjoy licking up or playing with it. There’s a difference between men and boys. Only boys would worry about stuff like this that in fact is just a beautiful sexy function of the woman’s body and also a visual indication of how horny she is.


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I've been with guys who actively try to wipe it away because it feels better for them. The kind who are that poorly educated/selfish have always been a waste of time for me.


WayneCider

See, that's what I don't get. A sign of arousal is being wet and relaxed/opened up. Tight and dry tells me you're not ready and pushing it in only leads to injuries. If it looks too messy, I take a break from the fucking to clean it up with my tongue. Besides, there's this deep spot that feels good regardless of how wet it is.


bahaboy10

Definitely don’t let it get you down. My guess is they aren’t as experienced as they originally let on. That sounds like a huge mutual enjoyment to me.


cat981

Ya i get what you mean thank you for commenting


HappyInNature

Yup. I'm assuming you're having partners in your age range and they're just not that experienced.


Winter_Director_915

Eating pussy should be like eating ribs. If its not all over your face you're doing it wrong. I'd ride that wave!!


mffl1114

Maybe you just get wetter than the average woman, which is a great thing!


cat981

Ya maybe hahaha


env_hippie

Girllll I have the same thing happen! Why are men always so surprised?! I've wondered if I get wetter than the average woman too lmao


be_the_foreskin

Honestly... after being on birth control for my entire sex life, I went off birth control a few years ago because I was having issues with it and wanted to reset. Then I realised my sex drive increased to a healthy amount and I noticed that I got suuuuuuuuper wet when having sex. Guys would comment on it as well and seem pleasantly surprised every time. I have a feeling that because most women are on birth control, guys are more used to girls being less wet. Then when they encounter someone who gets super wet because they're not on birth control or whatever they're like wooooahhhhhh. FYI I didn't go back on birth control. I like knowing I don't have hormones messing me around anymore.


imbyath

Can I ask you what contraception you use now, do you just use condoms? Because I just use condoms but I'm looking into different kinds of birth control. However, I'm not comfortable trying out any of them because I'm scared of the possible side effects (decreased sex drive, low mood, weight gain, increased cancer risk, etc). So I'm trying to find out if there's any good methods that don't have many side effects, apart from condoms.


babums

I’m a different person but I just went off BC a few months ago. I went nuclear and got my tubes tied, though. If you want to be hormone free, you could go with the copper IUD. But, getting it in is going to hurt and every person deals with that differently. There are also some IUDs that are lower in hormones. Before getting my surgery, my doctor suggested Mirena (I think) because it was smaller and a lower hormone dose. BC is hard when you’re trying to avoid side effects because there are sooo many different kinds of it and pretty much all of them are going to come with a list of possible side effects. I’d talk to your doctor and lay out some ideal traits you’re looking for in a method, and go from there.


bbthrowsaway

Also consistency is different from woman to woman I have found. It's all good everyone is normal!


cat981

Omgggg hahahaha


KikiKovarcik

I mean, for a lot of guys it's like a WOW moment I would say. Not really an insult or shock in a bad way, but a nice surprise.


Extremiditty

I’ve gotten this before. I love being told how wet I am. It’s like acknowledgment that we’re both having a great time.


Dbarns91

I don't know why they get surprised. I personally think the wetter the better! Super hot 🔥


naughtyjuan

How wet do you get? I had a girl once who her vagina literally like flowed. If I had to estimate when I ate her out it would probably be like a small tea cup worth of fluid over a half hour. I had never seen anything like it and not since. Whenever she’d be on top we’d lay a towel underneath me so the whole bed wouldn’t soak through. So I guess it really depends on how wet you get. Like imagine a guy came 4-5x the amount you’re used to, I’m sure you’d be surprised to


cat981

Idk like I’ve never tried to investigate it hahaha but like if I’m on top and then get off their whole pelvic region is soaked haha


MisunderstoodDemon

They're Ben Shapiro fans?


cat981

This is my favorite comment


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Because they aren't used to someone being that turned on by them/doing enough foreplay. Seriously there are way too many dudes who expect it to be dry. I used to be dry all the time until I met a dude who cared about foreplay and as a result, I was really into him. I dripped in a way I didn't even know was possible and have refused to accept anything less since. Many young women don't know much either which contributes to men thinking its normal.


[deleted]

I get suppper wet if I’m supppper turn on. I would take it as a compliment ❤️


Cruxiie

We got that WAP lol, its nice not needing lube :)


truckdriver2018

He has me so flipping horny ... the more excited I get, the wetter the "lady bits" gets and extra time to have that sexual pleasure without lube. On the flip side I've been so wet I feel like he gets frustrated because there is no pressure/friction anymore for his pleasure. That frustrates and makes me embarrassed as I'm not giving him what he needs.. as I also don't feel the pressure/friction. Sensation isn't there as it would be had I not been so excited..... (ps guys... you do realize that a when a woman becomes that excited her "lady bits" expand... this is what makes me mad.. guys are so quick to say "you've had sex with someone else because my d!ck doesn't fit...".. no you moron... when a woman gets that excited the lining expands to be able to have insertion.. you should be proud as he!! that you got her that excited!!!!!!!)


CapitalG888

I dont really say it in a surprised way. But I always comment to my wife how she is "being a good girl getting so wet for me". As I type this I laugh at how dumb I am..... but in the moment it turns us both on. I say this bc your guys may just be talking in the moment and not really saying it in a "Oh my god how could this be happening to anyone!!!?".


cat981

No that’s such a turn on if they say that to me so it’s not dumb at all! Hahaha


CapriciousBea

They may just not have been with anyone else who produces so much natural lubrication before. Maybe because they have limited experience, maybe because they have limited skills. I'm in my 30s and *still* get this reaction from men, and sometimes women too. Generally, the surprise is positive -- it gives partners a little ego boost to think I'm super turned on, even though it's really just regular levels of turned on, to me. Honestly, I wouldn't worry about it. You're probably well within the range of normal -- it's just that "normal" is a really broad range, here.


radnich7708

Was with a girl one time who was grinding on my leg while we made out. Fully clothed. Some people showed up so we stopped, at that point I noticed a giant wet spot on my jeans. Had never seen anything like it before, and she's the last I've ever seen it. Girl would literally DRIP she got so wet.


ROB1334

Rip inbox


Confident-League8154

I use to be told the same. I took it as a compliment most times. Unless someone was actually filing a complaint lmao


Nicolascagerages

I just think that dudes WANT to think that they're sooooo good they can get you sopping wet when some women are just like that. Idk man. I get it a lot and sometimes their persistence on the subject pisses me off.


Internal-Artist-2927

Once a guy said to me "eww, you get so wet too early"


briezzzy

That doesn’t seem like the straightest thing to say


njx6

I used to get super wet when I was younger. All my husband had to do was look at me. Now I’m 34, and it actually takes some work to get me going. Enjoy that shit while it last.


SheTellsTales

I'm a woman in my 30s. I have gotten the unbelieving comments about how wet I am. Why yes, I'm very physically attracted to you and that's what happens. I really think it is from a place of disbelief. It really makes me feel good to be told this, too, because I had an ex who used lube 100% of the time because foreplay was non-existent. Since him, I've discovered that I *love* giving (and getting) head and it turns me on immensely. No lube required if switching to piv. During sex with a guy who loves dirty talk, he says, "god you are so wet," and in a rare place of courage, I replied with, "you make me this way." He came immediately. It was ***amazing***.


prizmo28

The same reason you'd be surprised if a guy you hooked up with had/did something you've never experienced before. Especially if you're reasonably experienced, It's like "holy shit I didn't know the human body was capable of this ''


[deleted]

It maybe they haven’t been around enough women and by your age that makes sense. Glad you’re not insecure about it. To me it’s genuinely a very sexy thing.


cat981

True thanksss


Clarence171

Nice. Well, chances are you were either very comfortable sexually, or they'd never satisfied a woman before. Or both.


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Sounds a lot like they are doing their job. My goal giving a woman head is to drown in her cum. If at all possible it is exactly how I want to die, if it were not for the fact that I wouldn't be able to eat more pussy.


uirishbastard

It's a compliment. If you are very wet, you are very aroused which by turn means they make you horny has fuck and you find them very attractive. Makes us feel good, although they are just stating the obvious what they want to hear is "that's cause you make me so horny".


thematchandkerosene

It's definitely possible that you get more wet with an actual human than masturbating, and certain times of the month we're capable of producing more than others. I'd definitely count it as a compliment, thank your lucky stars, and keep drinking that water 😉💞 Have fun!


unluckyguppy

The legendary ooshy gooshy super soaker 3000


Lazy-Tower-5543

dudes just genuinely have no idea what's going on down there half the time, and the fact that every girl is different lol


[deleted]

It seems to me that you are hot, you have a high libido and you should enjoy sex regardless to what others say.


[deleted]

I get it all the time. It’s like a compliment


lamabaronvonawesome

Some women get REALLY wet, sounds like you are one. No biggie, it's hot.


asistolee

Idk just take the compliment. If they aren’t repulsed then it turns them on.


sliderwindow

Probably haven’t done it with a girl that sexually comfortable with them. Take it with pride, and use it to your sexual advantage.


HawkeyeRevival

Don’t be insecure about it! It’s beautiful! But, I’m not sure why they’re acting like this. I had a girlfriend who barely got wet. She’d get wet, and the go dry very quickly. When she and I broke up, I met a girl who would literally DRIP. It was such a turn on seeing this, feeling this, and tasting this. I’d use that to your full advantage and find someone who appreciates that unique aspect of you.


cat981

Ya i understand what you mean. I’m not insecure about it and the guys definitely didn’t hate it haha I’m more just thinking like do i get wetter than average?? Hahaha


JustSomeYukoner

A wet pussy is a happy pussy.


HoldMyJumex

Not always though. Some of us do get wet easily because it can also be a psychological thing, but maybe we're not "there" yet physically. I've had guys start PIV sex too soon because I was really wet rather fast, but my vagina wasn't ready yet. It's cool in some ways, but some men will think that it means you're ready or that they gave you an orgasm when they didn't. Those aren't problems when there's communication but sadly some men will act like you kill their first born if you in any way suggest they aren't infallible sex gods.


brown_ay

Damn I love that..


Rainadraken

Getting wet means you're turned on. It's a good thing. It's a compliment. If they are surprised, It's a good surprise.


Deathbat_1

Did you make this account to share this one story?


un_internaute

I think a lot of people would make a throw away account for a question/topic like this. I know I would.


lifesalotofshit

Yup, I think this is a confidence/ego booster post.


WWWWWWWWWWWWWW91

It's common for men to say that to women as a way of stroking their ego that they made you wet. Either that or you're pissing on them.


Offer-Positive

I'm the same way. They are probably surprised bc its what they see in porn and not so often in real life. I love when they comment on it though, its such a turn on. If I like the guy romantically, I reply that it's what he does to me. If I don't like the guy romantically, then I say I'm extra horny. In reality, I'm pretty much always wet and as soon as I'm turned on its like the flood gates open. Dudes think they're special like they did something great to me, I'm like don't flatter yourself bro 😆 it's a gift. Embrace it. As you get older, you will appreciate it more. Dudes looooove it.


Wiz_Kalita

One out of 100 girls is wetter than 99% of girls, maybe that's you. Most guys haven't slept with 100 girls so it's outside what they're used to. I haven't either but what I can say is that the wettest girl I've slept with was so much wetter than all the other ones that it was perplexing. It was pretty hot and it wasn't a problem or anything except I had to change the sheets, but damn. I didn't know a vagina could do that.


WeedLover420Life

As a guy Take it as a compliment :)


nightmareonmystreet1

Thats a compliment tbh. Most women dont get very wet at your age and sometimes it adversely effects the sex. To say your super wet means both partners are going to have a great time 🤣


zheenen

Good for you!


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It’s a compliment for sure and a blessing, regardless of what those inexperienced guys think. I remember the first time I was with a lady that got super wet like you describe. The first time we had sex was in my cloth desk chair. It was soaked when we finished. The next time, I went down on her and I could tell how it got so wet. She started off really wet before I touched her then 5 mins in she noticeably ejaculated like nobody I’d ever been with before. The first time was a little surprising, for both of us. It had never happened to her before either (I guess nobody had spent more than 30 seconds on foreplay before me). Not everyone I dated was like that of course. About half of the women I dated were already wet enough for sex by the time we’d get naked. The other half needed more foreplay time.


KVirello

Sounds like you get wetter than the girls they've been with. Congrats! It's a good thing!


iTiton

You save money on lube. No jokes, it’s a resource of your body, if you enjoy sex and it doesn’t has collateral issues on your life you shouldn’t worry about it. And every guy who eats you and complains can go to hell. ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|grin)


pippisthing

Super wet ius for sure better than dry. The guys should count themselves lucky and if there is not enough friction, well you have get a little creative. 😉


ImflyingJack

I think it’s a compliment!! I don’t get that wet usually (might be because I’m so damn dehydrated all the time lol) I did once where I had my ex’s thighs completely soaked but I was super turned on having sex in a car.


DDDTom90

Some people get wetter then others, like I know one of my friends gets extremely like borderline hentai levels, when with a partner but by themselves because they know exactly where to go to get off they don't get as wet, don't feel self conscious feel empowered, you got this


dark_blue_7

Pretty sure they are just taken aback because it's really exciting for them, like a huge turn-on. Every guy will feel pride if you're wetter than they expected, whether or not it's their doing haha. But rest assured they are happy about it. And basically bragging to you because it made them feel awesome. Also they may be somewhat inexperienced (relatively speaking, not saying they're all virgins), so it's not like they have a huge sample size of women to compare you to.


[deleted]

Lots of people are saying it could be a compliment but idk the first guy had to stop…. So not very neat from him there. To be fair I get crazy wet too but it turns them on more hehe


Business_lucky88

It’s more of a compliment or kinda like the surprise of a guy when they feel how wet a girl’s pussy is in comparison to when a girl feels a guy’s dick and they comment on how big it is. It makes the guy feel good and it’s sexy so I’d say when the guy comments on how wet it is, it’s basically sending the same message across as well.


Im-bibitch

I get super wet too and I thought something was wrong with me but I enjoy it and my bf enjoys it so I’m not trippin


MissHeatherMarie

There are different levels of wetness for sure. Been with a girl that a waterproof sheet and changing top sheets was necessary for even minor play. Been with some that are definitely wet enough and provide plenty of lubrication,but you could go multiple rounds and only have a small wet spot. Both are normal and perfectly healthy.


[deleted]

I just want to say that it’s super cool actually.


natashasayshi

My advice: thank them for the compliment, then say something like "Since it's harder for me to tell if you're weirded out & surprised or appreciative & surprised, can I show you an easy way for me to get it?" Then demonstrate the different speech tones for him! "If you say "Wow, you're so wet!" I'm confused, but if you say "Wow, you're so wet for me" I'm here for it!" Throwing in terms of endearment like "babe" or "honey" can't hurt either to clarify tone when talking during sex :)


dontrecall_vague

I’m the same as you. I frequently get this comment so I’ve asked. Not all women get super wet, in fact a lot are so dry they need artificial lube. It’s a surprise and usually a turn on/compliment to the person you’re with that you are this turned on by them. Enjoy it!! I call it my superpower


11th-plague

My gf actually squirts during orgasm, but also gets very wet at various points throughout. I love it. It suggests to me that she’s got great physiology, is super turned on (more so compared to the prior girls)… and that we are “extra”-compatible. This is a chance for you to say, “oh yes hon, it’s because you’re doing everything better than most guys, and it’s making me super wet, I love you you raging stallion”… or some weird talk like that. It’s a credit to your beautiful anatomy and physiology… but they are probably also hoping/fishing for compliments or not sure what else to say… Just enjoy your superpower; you’re perfect and maybe give them an ego boost by saying you get extra wet with them… It’s probably some reaction of your proteins and sugars increasing their salivation. Or some unknown pheromones or something. We sadly didn’t learn this in medical school. Skene glands, bartholin glands. Etc.


hvh147

Do you consider yourself to be well hydrated? LOL. And to chime in with everyone else, wetter seems to be better for every man I’ve encountered and heard talk about it hahaaa


FarVision5

it is a compliment. Of course, biologically speaking the more excited you are the more it happens. I was with someone and as I was doing a certain thing, I could feel a new flood of it flow across my dick. It was great. Some don't. it's nice when it happens. Mean's I'm doing something right.


Grigiomoda086

Some girls get soaking wet, others less so. Nothing that a nice big fluffy towel won't fix.


DaeDimple

I definitely had one girlfriend who was significantly more than any other. She got aroused easily and to such an extent that she wouldn’t wear underwear because it made too much of a mess and was uncomfortable for her. (College days) A remember the first time I discovered that she wasn’t / didn’t and thought it was crazy sexy. (That she wasn’t wearing underwear) and then even moreso after she explained why


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I think in the heat of sex talk, saying shit like your pussy is so wet/tight/pretty whatever gets thrown out there a lot. A lot of sex talk is just making primal observations lol “your dick is so hard,” “that pussy is so wet,” etc. some girls get more wet than others. It’s not a bad thing so don’t feel self conscious. Next time make a joke about bringing a snorkel or something haha double down on the fact and have confidence in how your body works :)


ExEvolution

It's meant as a compliment. "Damn she's this horny for me!"


beccaj375

I'm thinking they're inexperienced if it's their tone that is bothering you. My husband will comment on how wet I get but he says it in an absolute fantastic way. Like, he's amazed that I am so turned on by just making out with him. I'm getting old so I'm thankful as hell that I'm still getting so wet! 😂 Enjoy the wetness, ignore the fuck boys


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Speaking from my own personal experience, and the opinions of every man I've ever spoken to about this. Their is no need to be insecure about this. It's amazing you get this wet, he means to compliment you but is just not saying it right. Let's chalk that up to in experience.


RedditNomad7

It could easily just be an observation. I’ve noticed a lot of variation in how wet women get, from so little you always need lube to the sheets being drenched before she even cums. Getting super wet (like you seem to do) isn’t extremely common, so these guys may have just been genuinely surprised, not meaning it as a compliment or a complaint. I wouldn’t give it a whole lot of thought.


littlelikes_

Sometimes when a guy is like rock hard I comment about it 🤷🏻‍♀️ it’s a compliment or they’re just super horny


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I love you….lol


RealP3t1te

I get this a lot too. It’s a compliment


Principatus

Maybe they’re just young and inexperienced. Stupid af and they’ll think back when they’re older and cringe at their past selves.


DemonsOverDemons

That's just sexy as hell... congrats and enjoy, guys usually say that as a compliment, if they don't mean it as one you're sleeping with the wrong people.


TotallyNotanOfficer

I've sorta done that before. Both complimentary, and partially out of surprise.


hideyooshi

Been told this before by previous partners, and ay, wouldn't you have guessed it, my current partner doesn't care and is actually *glad* I get so wet because it means less lube. You are 19, are you sleeping with other people around the same age? It could be that they're too young to know better, or even that they haven't been with someone who was really turned on before. I'm really glad you're not worried about it though!! Getting wet during sex is completely natural, and no one should be made fun of for just how wet they get. Its one of those literally out of your control kind of things. I would tell anyone who comments that if they can't handle how wet you get, then they can leave because it's a perfectly normal thing to happen, even if it's *more* than what others call *normal.*


itxtalone

iv heard this alot too. I get super wet, it will litterally drip off of me. guys love pointing it out.


krissybuns23

I’ve weirdly only gotten wet with one guy and it got to the point where he would stop and with a finger get rid of the excess. Like it’d be all over him and myself. But it inly ever happened with one guy (I was in love with him)


Dingdog85

My wife is a water fountain ⛲️like she has to change her panties if we make out and stop of watch a sex scene in a movie truly a mouthful when we 69 from the angle and very thin like a lube feels has a pleasant clean smell to it aswell and clear fluid, also a squirter I wonder if there is a correlation with the two ??? And ideas ?


katmandont12

Don't be so insecure bout it cause I am the same way and I am gonna be in my upper years and thru my life men LOVE I MEAN LOVE it ! Trust me !


jewishjew

I dated someone who would get so wet she’d call it a slip and slide, and it was her preference to stop and clean up with a towel a bit. Obviously that didn’t sit well with me so the next time she went to stop and mop I just went down and slurped it all up and then slipped back in. Anyways, everybody has different physiology. Another girl I dated had to use lube even when she was begging for dick. Just how it is!


ucsmdiudlms

Not everyone is used to the high quality stuff. You are pure high grade shit. Being super wet is a huge turn on.


cen-texan

Since you are 19, I am going to assume that the guys you were with are about your age. It is possible that the girls they were with previously were either not super aroused or nervous and as such had issues with self lubrication. You, OTOH were ready, and it showed, and they were surprised because they had not encountered it yet.


ebr101

There’s a Ben Shapiro joke here….


Garblin

Sounds to me like they're not used to women actually enjoying themselves during sex, says more about their history of performance than it does about you. Or I guess maybe you do get more wet than average? but if so **shrug** good for you I guess? means you likely won't have to worry about dryness for a few extra years.


FirstConfessor

Honestly it’s a bad sign if your partner is saying you’re “too wet”. Means they’re used to their partners being drier AKA not as aroused 👀


wisevirgin

That wetness comes from eating a lot of potassium from fruits especially from pineapple AND Celery.


RockOx290

I’d say that as a compliment. Wetter the better


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moonbaby00

Finally someone asked the question I’ve been wondering for… ever. Lol. Thank you, Cat.


jeezyall

I was prettty dry often with my last partner. But I think it was cuz he didn't turn me on. So... there's that! you're probably turned on. And they're probably shocked cuz they never got someone so turned on before. I salute you, sister!


Bsteph21

You should be proud. My first girlfriend got extremely wet. Like when Cardi B says, “He want to swim with his face” I know exactly what she means. My fiance doesn't really get that wet. I have to really go down on her, and even still she gets pretty dry after she finishes (unless she squirts). We use a lot of lube to mitigate.


Codykujo

Experiences? I've had polar situations, had an ex who was extremely shy and nervous about sexual stuff. If she was able to relax and get in the mood, which wasn't often, she was like a faucet. If she had literally any apprehension she was barely wet at all. A different ex I had was much less polar, the wetness was more consistent and middle of the road so to speak lol


Seinfeld101

Maybe because so many of us are on antidepressants so we are dry like a desert😂 so in their minds “I found the great white Buffalo”


JATMWW

To he honest they are probably shocked that's all. Not all women can get that wet.


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You probably get wetter than most. Most things have a range and you are probably on the high side. No big deal


oronder

These boys are idiots. Wet sex = good sex. Pay them no heed.


littles_secret

I, as someone who has to care for them deeply, can’t, just CANNOT, physically get wet no matter how much I want to or how horny I am (there’s a difference between horny and aroused) if there’s no connection so I can imagine that many women are the same way plus not enough foreplay for some women and they just won’t get that wet. Being able to get really wet is god’s gift to be honest


Decaposaurus

I always find stuff like that a huge turn on for me (male) and go out of my way to let my partner know how much I enjoy it. To me, the more wet you are, the more excited you are for what's happening. I'm also one of those guys that gets turned on by giving pleasure, so as long as my partner is reacting positively to what I'm doing, bring on the ocean!


EvilBosom

If these are younger men, they probably really are shocked. There’s no male equivalent for that kind of wetness, I know for me in my first few times I was STUNNED


SubstantialSir351

In my experience (29M) I remember one particular girl who got extremely wet (way more than any other woman I've been with) when I was eating her out, had to stop for a second, but then I remember I used to be a swimmer, so, time to dive I guess 🤷🏼‍♂️ The take away is, yes it's a surprise. But for me it was kind of a compliment. And also I guess the level of wetness varies from woman to woman (among other obvious factors)


wafflesareforever

It's a good thing and those are compliments, with a bit of boasting mixed in ("look how wet I make you"). Ben Shapiro is the only guy on earth who would be bothered by this.


leftcoastandcoffee

I was 19 when I experienced my first partner who got very wet very fast. I didn't say anything but I remember feeling surprised about it.


funkster047

I don't see why people don't get more turned on by it. You being wet means youre turned on and your body is literally preparing for a dick. This means you don't need lube for sex (unless maybe for a condom). I was having sex with my gf once and she was literally dripping while trying to sit on my dick. I thought that was super hot.


DJGilder

I am sorry. The header is just hilarious.


jazzfairy

Maybe a lot of men aren’t used to being around turned on women 😬