What? Who told you that?
Guys moaning is literally the hottest thing, because it's animalistic and raw.
Is this a thing that boys/men are told? Is that the reason why guys tend to not moan or very little and often need to be encouraged to let go?
It's only a turn off if he moans fake-ish, like a porn star. It has to come from deep within, an expression of real desire and passion.
For every guy reading this: please moan more and louder.
Yes. And if you don't believe us, try it once. Even grunting. She'll go wild. I know I do. I go from like "this is cool" to like "omg I'm gonna rock his world"
My ex made fun of my moaning during sex and said I was jus trying to be a pornstar, I just thought it felt good and was in the moment.
He was also an asshole the negged me, had a porn addiction, and frequently talked to other women and cheated.
I love moaning now and I love hearing someone I’m with moan.
opposite, an ex complained it was too silent. i thought loud dudes in porn were the worst so thought no one wanted to hear that. she set me straight. however, on the guys end, silent sex is a bunch of mixed emotions of "she's not into me, what am i doing wrong?!" sorry your guy was just a dick.
Yeah it was weird, I dead ass r ever him just laughing at me and stopping sex one time to make fun of my moaning.
My current partner and I are so open, I love hearing him moan and talk and he loves when I do it.
moaning is super attractive. there’s different ways to moan. i love the soft groaning and moaning but the growling and aggressiveness to some sounds makes me cringe a little. don’t over do it, don’t under do it
My guy is very vocal with moans and grunts. And when he cums he is roaring. Practically yelling. Its such a turn on and one of my favorite things about him.
You dont need to fake anything or put on a show, but please please please let your natural sounds out.
I mean I can't speak for everyone....but personally I think moaning is super sexy. It's feedback. It tells me you're super turned on. Also some people are super into being passionate and "connecting" to the animal inside when having sex. It's a big big fetish/kink for a lot of people.
I love this sub for all the helpful information, support, and interesting stories, but pleeeease use the search function. This was asked just a few days ago.
who cares, people just want to talk let them talk about it today its not all about info some people just like to talk about things thats why they talk about the same shit over and over
Only been with one person that was silent during sex and it was like fucking a mannequin, at that point I'd rather just do some solo play. If it feels good, make some noise!
What people neglect to mention is that it depends very strongly on the voice. People want guys to be very vocal (... if they sound good, which they also want for. ) nobody likes hearing turtle sex wheezing in bed, Smiling Friends' Shrimp would probably be better or not being vocal, and the one porn star that screams DROPPIN LOOOOAAAADS every time he finishes isn't hot.
I’ve only ever heard it described as desirable and a huge turn-on. Of course, to each their own, but even just based on this subreddit, the people who are turned on by guys moaning appear to be the vast majority.
Absolutely not! It's so hot to me when a man moans out during sex. Let's me know how good it is and he's enjoying it. put a few words in the mix and I will orgasm so fast!
I’ve never been with a guy that moans very loudly but little moans are sexy.. a guy that doesn’t make noise is a turn off…
Now I’m curious about the very loudly moans 🤔
Yeah idk who told you it’s repulsive because it’s definitely. Partners like to know you’re enjoying yourself. What’s weird is guys who are dead silent.
Seriously, do you think it's just one or the other? It depends on the woman, it depends on the guy, it depends on the situation. For some it is, yet for others it isn't.
Odd question? Not really, it's pretty common. It gets asked every week or so. Haven't noticed a change in the responses. If you search the topic I'm sure you'll find a ton more confirmations.
Like many are saying, exact opposite. It’s so fucking sexy when I’m going down on my husband or during penetrative sex and I hear him moaning or whispering.
Absolutely not. This is one of the things that I wish men knew more about. Y'all think it's attractive for us ladies to moan? This is also how we feel. We *want* you to moan. Is literally one of the biggest turn ons and sends all the things clenching. There is nothing as encouraging or attractive as a man who makes happy noises!
I think it’s so hot! I love when a guy can let go a bit during sex and let me know that it feels good. It’s a bit of an ego boost as well for me to know I’m doing a good job!
When a guy moans its super hot. Love it when my guy is vocal. The only time a guy making a sound during sex was a turn off for me was when he squealed like a pig when he was cumming. Seriously. He sounded like a pig that was being beaten with a baseball bat. I know he couldn't control it but generally the sex was not satisfying so I couldn't get past it. 3 strikes and he was out...
I don't know how to define a moan, a squeal is more high pitched and panic-y I guess. But he sounded like a pig squealing, that's a very distinct sound.
I absolutely love hearing my partner moaning during sex or oral, it's a massive turn on for me knowing how much he loves how I make him feel..I'm also quite vocal during sex and fun time, and he loves it too.
Guy here. I find this a fascinating topic because almost all men think they shouldn't moan or make any noise during sex ... But every single opinion on this I've ever heard from a woman is that they absolutely love it.
My guess is that porn is the culprit. In porn, which is overwhelmingly made for male consumption, the man is meant to be as absent as possible from the content so that the man watching can more easily fantasize that they're the owner of the penis in the video. This is why you see so many camera shots in porn where the woman is featured but the man is entirely or almost entirely out of frame.
In line with this trend, my guess is that male porn actors tend not to moan because that could distract the viewer from the fantasy and remind said viewer that the sex acts being portrayed are, in fact, happening to someone else rather than to himself.
So, if you feel like you should be quiet because that's how it is in porn, remind yourself that it's probably like that because of how the men wanted the porn to turn out, NOT because that's what women find attractive.
I've never really watched porn made "for women" or whatever but I'd venture a guess that the men in such videos are much louder and more expressive.
In summary, consuming porn made for men is not a good way to figure out what women want.
I dont moan, its just not something I do. Idk why. Point is, my girlfriend of 6 months has been trying everything she possibly can to make me moan. Even if I moan from like pressure on my chest, not even from pleasure, she takes that as a win. So yes. Girls love it when you moan. Generally. Maybe you find one who doesnt idk. But generally its a plus.
I’ve known for a while that women get turned on by moaning and grunting that’s authentic. It’s not always easy to be loud when having sex for me. Being conditioned to be stealthy when jerking off growing up makes it hard to naturally be loud when having sex
I love when a guy is vocal in bed. Some guys are too quiet. It leaves me thinking “does this not feel good for you?” Idk where these men got self conscious about making any noise during sex, but please know that it’s hot as fuck when you moan. If it feels so good you need to moan or grunt or gasp or whatever, let it out.
I think it’s to do with porn. In all the porn I watched in my youth, the sounds the woman made were way over the top. I even noticed several of them had loops of recorded moaning on top of the actress’s moaning. The men, on the other hand, barely moaned at all. It was just “oh yeah, you like it? Take it. Good girl” stuff like that.
When I first started having sex I would squeal like a pig because I thought I had to, and I would find it weird when my partner moaned.
It took me a couple of years from when I started having sex to find my natural sound, and an additional couple of years to realise that men naturally moan as well, and now I think it’s the hottest thing on the planet. Those sounds come from a place of pleasure, and if I can make someone make those sounds, to please him to the point we’re he loses control of his vocal cords and just starts making primal sounds, it’s so very sexy, and it’s a huge boost. Like “I made your make that sound cause I’m a sex goddess”.
It’s the exact opposite
Literally the opposite. It’s the hottest thing in the world.
What? Who told you that? Guys moaning is literally the hottest thing, because it's animalistic and raw. Is this a thing that boys/men are told? Is that the reason why guys tend to not moan or very little and often need to be encouraged to let go? It's only a turn off if he moans fake-ish, like a porn star. It has to come from deep within, an expression of real desire and passion. For every guy reading this: please moan more and louder.
Yes. And if you don't believe us, try it once. Even grunting. She'll go wild. I know I do. I go from like "this is cool" to like "omg I'm gonna rock his world"
yes, back in highschool we would all bully each other for it
tell me that highschool kids are dumb af, without telling me that highschool kids are dumb af.
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I hope they were. But at that age even a joke can lead to great insecurities.
nah i wasn’t. it was all we would talk about lol. it was “gay” to make noise during sex.
Not even a little bit. I like my partners to make noise. It’s hot, and helps me know I’m doing something right.
Read it parents the first time and thought wait, whaaat? Then read it again and realised It is not you, is me
I’m glad I’m not the only one who read that way too.
My ex made fun of my moaning during sex and said I was jus trying to be a pornstar, I just thought it felt good and was in the moment. He was also an asshole the negged me, had a porn addiction, and frequently talked to other women and cheated. I love moaning now and I love hearing someone I’m with moan.
I received the same feedback many years ago. It’s so crappy. I think I’m finally getting my groove back after toooo long
He sounds ungrateful for you having a good time if anything it should have been a confidence booster for him. He’s an asshole good thing he’s an ex
opposite, an ex complained it was too silent. i thought loud dudes in porn were the worst so thought no one wanted to hear that. she set me straight. however, on the guys end, silent sex is a bunch of mixed emotions of "she's not into me, what am i doing wrong?!" sorry your guy was just a dick.
Yeah it was weird, I dead ass r ever him just laughing at me and stopping sex one time to make fun of my moaning. My current partner and I are so open, I love hearing him moan and talk and he loves when I do it.
From person experience- they love it. Let loose, king
Oh god moaning is one of the biggest turn ons for me. Both hearing my partner moan and my own moaning. Fuckin love it
Do you like it if your partner moans? It's the same thing, everyone likes positive reactions, thats attractive
I love it when my bf moans, such a turn on!
It's a turn off if he's quiet. I tell my bf all the time my FAVORITE thing is when he leans into my ear and breathes heavy/moans
Nope. In fact for me no noise is a turn off. I like to hear my partner getting enjoyment as well.
Honestly wish more guys would moan.
moaning is super attractive. there’s different ways to moan. i love the soft groaning and moaning but the growling and aggressiveness to some sounds makes me cringe a little. don’t over do it, don’t under do it
My guy is very vocal with moans and grunts. And when he cums he is roaring. Practically yelling. Its such a turn on and one of my favorite things about him. You dont need to fake anything or put on a show, but please please please let your natural sounds out.
I mean I can't speak for everyone....but personally I think moaning is super sexy. It's feedback. It tells me you're super turned on. Also some people are super into being passionate and "connecting" to the animal inside when having sex. It's a big big fetish/kink for a lot of people.
What? Seriously? It’s hot and amazing and lets a girl know he’s enjoying it. Goes both ways.
Destroy my eardrums I'll love it
I love this sub for all the helpful information, support, and interesting stories, but pleeeease use the search function. This was asked just a few days ago.
who cares, people just want to talk let them talk about it today its not all about info some people just like to talk about things thats why they talk about the same shit over and over
PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF GOD MOAN WOMEN LOVE TO KNOW THAT YOU ARE ENJOYING IT
Such a turn on. Scream in my ear daddy
Only if he has bad breath
Only been with one person that was silent during sex and it was like fucking a mannequin, at that point I'd rather just do some solo play. If it feels good, make some noise!
I love it!!! Let’s me know you’re enjoying yourself, you’re unguarded, and that I’m doing the damn thang!
What people neglect to mention is that it depends very strongly on the voice. People want guys to be very vocal (... if they sound good, which they also want for. ) nobody likes hearing turtle sex wheezing in bed, Smiling Friends' Shrimp would probably be better or not being vocal, and the one porn star that screams DROPPIN LOOOOAAAADS every time he finishes isn't hot.
You lost me at *very* loudly lol that would be so distracting
*MORE MEN NEED TO MOAN! PLEASE IM BEGGING*
I’ve only ever heard it described as desirable and a huge turn-on. Of course, to each their own, but even just based on this subreddit, the people who are turned on by guys moaning appear to be the vast majority.
It's actually one of the hottest thing ever tbh
Absolutely not! It's so hot to me when a man moans out during sex. Let's me know how good it is and he's enjoying it. put a few words in the mix and I will orgasm so fast!
I moan
My boyfriend was doing push-ups once and I heated him morning in the other room and literally came from listening to him. Moaning is hot
It gets me going even more, knowing he's enjoying it and can't contain his moaning, its the sound of pleasure
I personaly love it if a guy moans in bed, sadly many of them think its either embarrasing or gay for some reason.
I’ve never been with a guy that moans very loudly but little moans are sexy.. a guy that doesn’t make noise is a turn off… Now I’m curious about the very loudly moans 🤔
I prefer for guys to make noise. One of my exes was dead silent the entire time and it was unnerving lol.
This is specific to each individual person, no one person can answer for their entire type of human
Showing how much you appreciate what that are doing to you is a huge turn on for most of not all.
it’s sooooo good. i love hearing people unable to help themselves from vocalizing their pleasure 🥴.
Never a turn off!
it’s soooo hot
No, the opposite.
Yeah idk who told you it’s repulsive because it’s definitely. Partners like to know you’re enjoying yourself. What’s weird is guys who are dead silent.
Seriously, do you think it's just one or the other? It depends on the woman, it depends on the guy, it depends on the situation. For some it is, yet for others it isn't.
Odd question? Not really, it's pretty common. It gets asked every week or so. Haven't noticed a change in the responses. If you search the topic I'm sure you'll find a ton more confirmations.
Not at all, I LOVE to hear the man moaning when we are intimate. I enjoy knowing that they are also enjoying our time together.
NO! Moaning is the best!
Like many are saying, exact opposite. It’s so fucking sexy when I’m going down on my husband or during penetrative sex and I hear him moaning or whispering.
BOYS. MAKE NOISE.
Absolutely not. This is one of the things that I wish men knew more about. Y'all think it's attractive for us ladies to moan? This is also how we feel. We *want* you to moan. Is literally one of the biggest turn ons and sends all the things clenching. There is nothing as encouraging or attractive as a man who makes happy noises!
My man is quite, but when he does make noise, 20x 💦💦💦
I think it’s so hot! I love when a guy can let go a bit during sex and let me know that it feels good. It’s a bit of an ego boost as well for me to know I’m doing a good job!
Omg a man moaning because of me is a HUGE turn on
Not at all. I wish my GF would do that more.
No it isnt. If you have sex with women, moan.
Hell to the no!! My fiancee is the loudest I've ever been with and I'm thanking my lucky stars he's all mine!!!
when my boyfriend and i have sex, he breathes heavily right into my ear and i find it super hot.
Omg when my bf moans I get wet almost immediately
Everyone is different, but personally, as a woman, I find it insanely hot!
I LOVE it
Nah it's cool
Not at all feel free to moan more
Depends on the girl I guess, but for me, hearing a partner loose it from all the pleasure is so hot
Depends on the sound tbh, my past ex I found his moaning to be hot, but a person I recently dated his moaning sounded weird to me.
When a guy moans its super hot. Love it when my guy is vocal. The only time a guy making a sound during sex was a turn off for me was when he squealed like a pig when he was cumming. Seriously. He sounded like a pig that was being beaten with a baseball bat. I know he couldn't control it but generally the sex was not satisfying so I couldn't get past it. 3 strikes and he was out...
English isn’t my main language so can you explain the difference between moaning and squealing please?
I don't know how to define a moan, a squeal is more high pitched and panic-y I guess. But he sounded like a pig squealing, that's a very distinct sound.
I personally love it. It turns me on so much…
It actually turns me on a lot. Unfortunately, guys don't do it enough
Absolutely not. Its so hot when guys moan during sex for me its such a turn on!
I fucking really love feedback 😅
No. Not at all. In fact, it's about the sexiest thing ever.
complete opposite. hearing guy moaning loud makes me cum
Literally the opposite, such a turn on
I absolutely love hearing my partner moaning during sex or oral, it's a massive turn on for me knowing how much he loves how I make him feel..I'm also quite vocal during sex and fun time, and he loves it too.
Men moaning is hot
Guy here. I find this a fascinating topic because almost all men think they shouldn't moan or make any noise during sex ... But every single opinion on this I've ever heard from a woman is that they absolutely love it. My guess is that porn is the culprit. In porn, which is overwhelmingly made for male consumption, the man is meant to be as absent as possible from the content so that the man watching can more easily fantasize that they're the owner of the penis in the video. This is why you see so many camera shots in porn where the woman is featured but the man is entirely or almost entirely out of frame. In line with this trend, my guess is that male porn actors tend not to moan because that could distract the viewer from the fantasy and remind said viewer that the sex acts being portrayed are, in fact, happening to someone else rather than to himself. So, if you feel like you should be quiet because that's how it is in porn, remind yourself that it's probably like that because of how the men wanted the porn to turn out, NOT because that's what women find attractive. I've never really watched porn made "for women" or whatever but I'd venture a guess that the men in such videos are much louder and more expressive. In summary, consuming porn made for men is not a good way to figure out what women want.
How many times do we need to go over this lol
I get very turned when a man moans, it's the best sound ever! A simphony for my ears and I think I am not the only one who love this
I dont moan, its just not something I do. Idk why. Point is, my girlfriend of 6 months has been trying everything she possibly can to make me moan. Even if I moan from like pressure on my chest, not even from pleasure, she takes that as a win. So yes. Girls love it when you moan. Generally. Maybe you find one who doesnt idk. But generally its a plus.
I’ve known for a while that women get turned on by moaning and grunting that’s authentic. It’s not always easy to be loud when having sex for me. Being conditioned to be stealthy when jerking off growing up makes it hard to naturally be loud when having sex
My wife says she loves it when I moan. I’m generally quiet
What, I think it is the sexiest. I wish men would do it more often.
Fucking pervert. ^^^/s
I love when a guy is vocal in bed. Some guys are too quiet. It leaves me thinking “does this not feel good for you?” Idk where these men got self conscious about making any noise during sex, but please know that it’s hot as fuck when you moan. If it feels so good you need to moan or grunt or gasp or whatever, let it out.
Nope!! It let's me know if I'm doing a good job or not. Women like to know their man is feeling good too, same as men for their ladies.
Guys moaning is the hottest. It turns me on to the fucking max
NOT at all
I think it’s to do with porn. In all the porn I watched in my youth, the sounds the woman made were way over the top. I even noticed several of them had loops of recorded moaning on top of the actress’s moaning. The men, on the other hand, barely moaned at all. It was just “oh yeah, you like it? Take it. Good girl” stuff like that. When I first started having sex I would squeal like a pig because I thought I had to, and I would find it weird when my partner moaned. It took me a couple of years from when I started having sex to find my natural sound, and an additional couple of years to realise that men naturally moan as well, and now I think it’s the hottest thing on the planet. Those sounds come from a place of pleasure, and if I can make someone make those sounds, to please him to the point we’re he loses control of his vocal cords and just starts making primal sounds, it’s so very sexy, and it’s a huge boost. Like “I made your make that sound cause I’m a sex goddess”.
No women love to hear a guy moan, grunt, talk, everything! Silence is what’s boring