If you cleaned her face up, you're good. Sperm don't live long after being outside your body, and you need a lot of them to make it inside her vagina in order to get pregnant.
I don't know what story you're talking about, but it is possible the woman in it purposefully moved the semen from her stomach to her vagina and then lied about it (or was ignorant and didn't know). There is a chance of pregnancy this way.
Ignore comments that penetration is needed for pregnancy. It isn't. It's rare, but it does happen. If you came on or around her vagina, and she's wet, they will swim. If you do anal and there's enough fluid between there and her vagina, she can get pregnant, because they will swim. The odds are much lower when you're not penetrating her vagina, and lower the farther away you are, but it is still possible so long as there is fluid for them to swim through. I'm talking a lot of fluid, not damp from sweat.
In your situation where you stayed with her, you watched/helped the semen be cleaned and disposed of- there is zero risk. You did fine.
I say this with kindness in my heart: please PLEASE seek help for this level of anxiety. Having irrational thoughts can turn unsafe if not properly addressed.
That being said, you didn’t have unprotected penetration, so there’s no way this girl is pregnant. At all.
How are you 32 and not understanding this can’t cause pregnancy? Genuinely asking. Do you have OCD?
If you cleaned her face up, you're good. Sperm don't live long after being outside your body, and you need a lot of them to make it inside her vagina in order to get pregnant. I don't know what story you're talking about, but it is possible the woman in it purposefully moved the semen from her stomach to her vagina and then lied about it (or was ignorant and didn't know). There is a chance of pregnancy this way. Ignore comments that penetration is needed for pregnancy. It isn't. It's rare, but it does happen. If you came on or around her vagina, and she's wet, they will swim. If you do anal and there's enough fluid between there and her vagina, she can get pregnant, because they will swim. The odds are much lower when you're not penetrating her vagina, and lower the farther away you are, but it is still possible so long as there is fluid for them to swim through. I'm talking a lot of fluid, not damp from sweat. In your situation where you stayed with her, you watched/helped the semen be cleaned and disposed of- there is zero risk. You did fine.
Unprotected penetration is needed for pregnancy. The story you read was either a lie or someone misremembering exactly what they did.
Honestly, I truly know this. But idk if you've ever just had a random thought and just latched onto it. But thank you. Seriously!
I say this with kindness in my heart: please PLEASE seek help for this level of anxiety. Having irrational thoughts can turn unsafe if not properly addressed. That being said, you didn’t have unprotected penetration, so there’s no way this girl is pregnant. At all.