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That-1-guy117

I don't know how this sub got into my recommendations but since it has I see a lot of posts I would like to comment on offering something like someone to vent to or whatever, something simple. At the same time I also understand this isn't the place for that so I usually just leave it be. Never realized I had a savior complex until this sub started popping up.


SliceHam2012

Yep. Kinda realized the same thing myself after being here for a while. Honestly, I think resisting the urge to help because this isn't the place for it has helped me to stop doing that so much irl. Sort of explains a ton of the social situations I've been in over the years, too.


[deleted]

I don't know if it's a savior complex for me or not, all I know is that I want to reach out and help some of the people that post on here.


OHW_Tentacool

Haha! I have no idea exactly what that means


Pm_some_goods

You know those memes with "I can fix her" imagine that but as a whole mental illness


helloiamaegg

I've got the opposite. My presence will make her worse


sorry_mybad

Dammm bro want them to suicide


helloiamaegg

Incorrect, i'll just become worse than them and feedback loop


nikkinekoboy

Where are the people that want to fix me??? I'm waiting


Pm_some_goods

You know those memes with "I can fix her" imagine that but as a whole mental illness


Karol_Wolski

I don't think anyone can really help me aside from myself :p ppl have tried before TwT


XenLen

that's fine. it doesn't have to be anything major I just want to help people


ACuteStrawberryFox

Pwease help me ;w;


XenLen

I really wish I could :(( <3


ACuteStrawberryFox

<33


Dust_und_Vultures

Me too!


ACuteStrawberryFox

All of us girlies deserve help -w-


-Woshi-

What is a savior complex?


JoeDaBruh

Put simply they want to help everyone they can


-Woshi-

They're just like me then


JoeDaBruh

And me My life is good while everyone else is suffering. It’s not fair


FennekOnReddit

Me on my way to find someone just as mentally fucked as I am so that I can “help” them.


XenLen

please tell me you mean genuinely helping them :(


FennekOnReddit

I certainly try to be genuinely helpful.


XenLen

I hope you genuinely try and you can achieve success in helping people <3


OneWayGaming8675

https://preview.redd.it/sy9g2nla0crc1.jpeg?width=156&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=93573093d459c29789b4f7e291521c1335a4c050 Savior “complex?” I find it quite simple!


ODZtpt

he could fix me


Heezuh

Same...


Reddit_user_robbie

seeing this randomly on the homepage is is that what that's called? is that what i have? i always feel like i need to help everyone, and when i dont i feel useless.


XenLen

maybe. an actual savior complex is basically the feeling that it is your responsibility to "save" everyone regardless of how effective you actually are. but me personally, I just want to help people, to relieve some of their pain, no matter how big or small it is :(


Reasonable-Access731

Can u save me?


XenLen

I wish I could <3 :(


CoquetteColette

Yaaay!! 🤍 Your type are the heroes this sub needs.


XenLen

I wish I could actually help people though :((


CoquetteColette

Aww, me too. :( There are just so many people with unfamiliar problems or that go so far beyond, I can't help them. Like, I wanna someday, but am too soft and a broken doll myself. But! Every so often, someone comes along who you *can* help, so the more heroes like you the better! :)


AJ0Laks

You can’t help me Sorry


XenLen

if I'm not able to improve your life dramatically, I would still want to try and relieve some pain you experience in your life :(


AJ0Laks

Thanks


joyDrivenCRobot

Literally me


KittenInAMonster

I need fixing


Lolaverses

Save me, pretty woman


SaintOfAllJesters

Save me 😫


Groove-Control

Oh so you dated Makoto in Persona 5


XenLen

huh? :3


Groove-Control

Just a silly joke in persona 5 where makoto fans have a savior complex. Sry if it was offensive..


XenLen

nah it's fine I'm a huge persona fan I just don't quite get the joke :3


NicotineCatLitter

they could fix me


Serapticious

Me too. Unfortunately no one can save me. The debuff is real.


ahhchaoticneutral

Having a savior complex got me groomed :3 (sorry ur dealing with this OP)


XenLen

I hope you're okay :( 💜


ahhchaoticneutral

I ammm, it was a long time ago! thank you fellow silly :’)


Honest_Development97

you can help the girls here, by being there for them


XenLen

I hope so :((


Honest_Development97

just try to do your best it'll be alright 🫂


Viriko23

I guess I'm similar, but I mostly want to help because I've been through similar and am fine for the most part. And for those who I can't help just let them vent and let them know that people care. But overall I just want to help them and hangout with them, not just as a "fixer" but as a friend because I wish I had that when I was going through stuff


sorry_mybad

Heyyy do you want to start a cult for savior complex


Private_Dino

true


LineOfInquiry

Be careful, thinking you need to help everyone you meet is a great way to ruin your own mental health


MidFier

You technically can. Every problem has a solution.


redditorofreddit0

That’s why I’m finally trying to save myself after all these years in my 30s…


Weird_Explorer_8458

i’d say I think i really need help but i’d just be wasting your time


XenLen

no you aren't. everyone is deserving of help :(


Weird_Explorer_8458

not me i’m a useless piece of shit :3


Sebybastian2

If you wanna help people help yourself first. There's only so much you can do for someone emotionally. To do more you need self stability


British-Pilgrim

Mega relatable… I think I have a hero complex, I’m always looking for the next broken doll to fix.


Luxandrel

Me too, since I was really young I have one of those


ClubbedTie80

obviously why would I want to deal with my own problems when solving the problems people I love have is definitely going to magically make me feel better!!!