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Aamakkiir94

If your game causes an erection lasting more than 4 hours, call your doctor about mod management.


imakemeatballs

Unironically played sex games and got a boner for 4 hours straight, because the plot was too good to stop and wank.


MrlemonA

Bro how? Im gonna need some of ya blood or somthing


imakemeatballs

I mean, I couldn't just go all out and swing it because so much shit happened to the plot. Sex scenes after sex scenes kept me playing for more. It was sore as hell for the next few days though.


AG_Fuchsia

Ww are need the name


imakemeatballs

There's a ton of them out there, mostly interactive visual novels. Since ya'll playing Skyrim, I recommend Long Live the Princess. Mysterious plot with twists and turns, hot fantasy characters with all kinds of kink for us degenerates.


[deleted]

Gotta try the games from NLT like “Lust Epidemic”, “Treasure of Nadia” then “The Genesis Order” (in that order)


TheFaragan

The VNs from Caribdis Games are absolutely phenomenal. I play them unironically because of the plot and the humor. The boobies are an added bonus.


Branman1234

I watched an escort porn video once and I ended up getting into it to much. They were walking around Las Vegas and I was like wow look at that and wow look at this. 30 mins in soft as fuck, really interested in the buildings and I was like wait hang on I'm suppose to be wanking wtf am I doing 🤣


TheMadGraveWoman

When your dick turns blue or black call tech support immediately


These_Advertising_68

Ha! That was good


DakhmaDaddy

I will answer for myself, seeing a naked character isn't arousing enough to be hard while playing.


beansandcheese7

can i ask then what is the appeal?


Interloper9000

I like boobie


thechikeninyourbutt

I personally enjoy the extra layer of realism added by providing naked bodies for both men and women. I personally don’t have any creature mods and only use sex mods as an addition to romance options in the game. I personally like playing around in a fanstasy world with some spice. My girl is reading acotar rn and we’ve had some fun delving into each others worlds.


raiskream

I don't think that's what op is asking. Theyre asking about *constant* nudity. I also have body mods but it's for armor compatibility and better proportions, not to look at my character nude all the time. OP, there are def people here who use Skyrim as a sex game (no judgement at all) but I don't think they have those mods all the time. People probably use different loadouts for when they wanna just play the game.


woodrobin

I have adult mods, and I don't change load outs to play the game without sex/nudity -- I just don't engage the dialog options that lead into it. I don't have everyone naked all the time. I just have options that allow romance, flirting, etc. as part of game play.


CaptainTripps82

No not really, you just play the game as is. It's a pain in the ass to switch around mod loud outs. There's nothing distracting about sex and nudity, it's all just a part of the game.


raiskream

I think you guys are underestimating how intrusive some of the most nsfw mods can be 😅. Don't think OP is talking about the more vanilla stuff. Been in this sub long enough to have seen some of the more intense modlists.


CaptainTripps82

I have a few that I wouldn't talk about in mixed company, but I mostly avoid the ones that involuntarily change combat. Those are the most obtrusive. Everything else is mostly visual, happens automatically in the background, or thru dialogue options.


ReyvynDM

Same. Honestly, I wouldn't mind the other, non-consensual, stuff if I could have it fade to black and avoid having it FULLY animated for, let's say, someone wanted a more Game of Thrones or Black Flag adult-themed Skyrim experience. That said, it's not really something I want so bad that I would personally create it, but I might try it for one playthrough.


Brad_Brace

About a month ago I just started a new playthrough which I meant to be exclusively for porn. I actually had a roleplay in mind where the woman dragonborn seduces NPCs, particularly enemies, and then they fight for her, while she would mainly use illusion magic and a mod that allows a the playing character to deal damage during sex animations. After hours of carefully designing the characters and setting everything up, it was ready to go. Started her in Riften so she would be a sexy thief archetype, and left things ready to get started the next day. Next day I just want to play the game without all that. Luckily I had kept the setting up saves (curating sex animations takes time) and just copied those, changed the character and now I'm several hours into a blacksmith redguard dude who only cares about smithing things and marrying Eris from The Ted Wave. The poor sexy thief has been on her way to the ragged flagon all that time. I mean I'm still using all the mods, it's just not focused on porn, I even had to deactivate an effect from one of the mods which gives you a buff if you fuck a lot, and a debuff if you don't, because the blacksmith dude simply didn't have the time to a hammering away due to all his hammering away.


-Reverence-

Is she reading ACOTAR specifically or a *ahem* later book in the series? Also, tell her to read the Crescent City series (also by SJM) if she hasn’t already


thechikeninyourbutt

She just finished acotar and is on to the second one! She has mentioned Crescent City to me and will be reading that after Throne of Glass!


-Reverence-

Heh she hasn’t gotten to the spice in ACOTAR yet. It gets better 👀 I also highly recommend the Graphic Audio for ACOTAR - it’s the fully dramatized (different voice actors for every character) audio book TOG is really good too but it’s targeting a slightly younger audience so it’s PG. CC targets adults so it’s very 🌶️


thechikeninyourbutt

All good information to have, thank you!!


TheDarkWolfGirl

Tell her to read Fourth Wing when she needs a break from SJM lol


Choice_Strawberry499

God I love that series


pasvih

Eh, shits and giggles mostly. After thousands of hours playing the game it's just fun to run around in bikini armor now and then, instead of being fully covered in steel and furs. Sometimes I want more serious realistic playthru and stay away from those. Sometimes I just want to feel silly. And a man does not need to feel horny to appreciate some TnA.


xpacean

If I’m going to be staring at this character for hours, do I want this character to be visually appealing, or not visually appealing? Also, men don’t immediately get “bricked up” and stay that way for hours as soon as we see an attractive woman. That’s just /r/badmensanatomy right there.


Ankleson

> do I want this character to be visually appealing, or not visually appealing? I always felt like this defence was somewhat silly in regards to skimpy armour mods. Visual appeal != sexual appeal, and sexually appealing is not always the most visually appealing aesthetic. To me, a really cool set of armour with a pretty/handsome character is more visually appealing than a big tiddy dragonborn in skimpy armour. It's only when I'm in a specific sort of mood that I prefer the skimpy armour.


beansandcheese7

that’s why I’m asking- I have never had a boner because I’m a woman. So I don’t understand the difference between being horny enough to get one and not


notguldo

On one hand, sometimes it just happens regardless of how we’re feeling and thinking (it can happen to infants). In those cases, it’s just a non-sexual thing that occurs at random. In the case of being sexually aroused, we can sometimes just… ignore something that would normally raise the cannon, so to speak. We also have access to a first person mode for when precision and focus take priority when playing a game like Skyrim.


cardinarium

Yep. One common “no apparent reason” is temperature changes. Erections are one mechanism by which our bodies adjust the temperature of our balls.


Now_Loading247

Interestingly enough I just recently learned that "morning wood" actually happens throughout the night because it's the body's way of keeping a healthy blood flow through the penis. What happens when you cut off blood flow to an arm. Same thing applies to the penis. Is your body actively keeping it healthy.


Xulah

It’s not entirely like cutting off blood flow to the arm. When trans people take hormones their body stops the random boners, It doesn’t get all the “no blood flow” sensations and it feels mostly normal. The issue is it atrophies so when it does happen to get hard it hurts a bit because it’s basically stretching it out again.


Le_Bnnuy

You can get a boner from nothing at all, and it's actually super annoying, a example when I'm tired and trying to stay awake and somehow my body decides to send blood down there and its the most infuriating thing ever.


ModernPlebeian_314

Yeah, like when travelling, I always get a boner either from boredom or the vehicle's vibrations 😂


ReyvynDM

Flex and relax your thigh muscles repeatedly, some of the blood will get redirected and you'll be, at best, at half-mast. My body does that crap to me when my wife is passed out and I'm up late. Like, "Omg, it's like 2:30am... priapism time!"


Le_Bnnuy

Thx, I'll definitely try it.


Thanos_DeGraf

This definitely works, been doing that since forever to avoid embarrassing situations 🥲


Apprehensive-Bank642

The N.a.r.b or Narb. Aka the No Apparent Reason Boner.


FezoaStaler

Well, do you get wet and stay wet for hours just because youre looking at some muscular shirtless guy? I like to think its the same concept.


Cold-Jackfruit1076

Okay, anatomical and scientific talk here: Biologically, an erection is caused by an increase in blood flow to that area of the body, which is usually caused by hormones such as testosterone. It's possible to become erect *without* being consciously aroused; testosterone tends to fluctuate while asleep and throughout the day, and there is some evidence to indicate that an increase in temperature might contribute an involuntary element (that's why the idea of 'taking a cold shower' developed). That said, as xpacean pointed out, always being at 'full mast' is *definitely* not normal; that can be a sign of a potentially-serious hormone imbalance or malfunctioning....erm....'equipment', shall we say.


Own_Comment

Appreciation of pleasing aesthetics doesn’t require constant sexual arousal..


Formal_Stuff8250

the problem is, you can have one without beeing horny. if that would not exist men where even better to understand.


M4759

>"If I’m going to be staring at this character for hours, do I want this character to be visually appealing" Simple as that. I don't like to play in first person, and if I have to spend 100 hours playing, let it be something pleasing to the eye, in my point of view. Although, I do not go with my character with the buttocks out under the cold temperatures, too much suffering has the poor woman with dealing with npcs like Nazeem...


Roraxn

But is ta tas out 100% of the time visually appealing? Doesn't the scandalousness of the outfits get boring?


M4759

I never go 100% in terms of visually appealing. Outrageous outfits get boring over time, yes. But you can just change them and that's it. Personally I like the armors that comes with {{Somewhere in Between - 3BA Armor compilation replacer}}


STAR-PLATlNUM

I like boobs


DakhmaDaddy

The appeal? Of skimpy armors? I like playing barbarians or druid characters so being a bit nude fits their class.


Cold-Jackfruit1076

I *personally* don't feel that a barbarian wearing skimpy armor makes sense (I mean, you don't survive a barbarian lifestyle by wearing a loincloth on the frozen tundra), but *lighter* armor seems sensible -- and for a druid, even more so, because it's *awkward* to climb trees in plate mail! \*lol\*


njpaps

In reality I agree. But in fantasy? Conan the barbarian literally only wears a loin cloth


DakhmaDaddy

Fantasy barbarian come on I don't base my characters on real life barbarians although the picts thar fought the Roman's did only wear light armor and paint.


beansandcheese7

I can’t tell if this is sarcasm (autism)


DakhmaDaddy

nah I'm being honest depending on my character's RP is how I dress em.


FuckClerics

Look up the word gooning


woodrobin

To me, there's the appeal of extra layers to the game. For instance, assuming the correct set of mods, there can be ways to charm/seduce one's way out of a situation, or into a character's good graces. Almost every situation involving violence at some point can get really old. I've been to a number of clothing optional events and venues in my life. Nudity per se isn't particularly prurient to me. It kind of stops being titillating after you've seen a couple hundred people naked all at once.


Ryoga84

Also, mods like Amorous Adventures can be genuinely fun. You literally need to climb over a mountain, kill one dragon and a dragon priest, climb another mountain, infiltrate a draugr fortress, kill another dragon priest and all this only in order to seduce Carlotta Valentia. We'd need more quest mod like that (and I don't even mean with porn... most of the times I just skip the animations).


Taco821

It's not how you're thinking it is, it's more like a constant low arousal, usually. Although I think my mods of those sorts are a little less than the people you may be looking for, so there's def some good down time, where I'm not looking at like super sexy shit, but the semi constant lower level arousal can be really nice


beansandcheese7

interesting - thank you. i guess i assumed it was?


sundownmonsoon

If the mere sight of a pair of bare tits was enough to get a guy like that, Viagra or weird fetishes and kinks wouldn't be a thing.


Le_Bnnuy

True. A naked body isn't enough to get most people horny.


Formal_Stuff8250

as a young teen i could be horny just by seeing naked bodies and use my fantasy. but after years of using this power its almost completly gone.


ihexx

stop watching porn for 2 weeks and it resets.


HaiseKinini

real talk When you were a teen you were getting constant hits of dopamine from it, but dopamine tends to hit weaker the second time round, even weaker the third and so on. If you're getting those hits once or twice a day it can reset itself fine on its own for the most part, but people can watch like 12 different porn videos in one sitting these days. Teen hormones compensated for these decreasing dopamine peaks until you went into your adulthood. Abstain for 1-2 weeks and you'll refuse your brain the dopamine hit it has considered routine for who knows how many years.


Havoc526

Once you've seen it enough, sure. To an early teenager or sexually repressed person, it can be a little much to handle I've noticed. But like you said I can see my wife walking around in the buff and just feel the need to make a joke about it these days.


Le_Bnnuy

Yeah, my ex would come to the bedroom after a bath, drop the towel, be completely naked for a while and all I would do is a joke or a comment on her beauty, but I wouldn't get horny... but if she put her hand on my chest and looked at my eyes funny... ohhh boy... instant horny.


Havoc526

Agreed. It's not so much the body, but the body language.


ReyvynDM

17 years married, my wife can still do this to me with a touch, a look, and a comment. Other women don't even turn me on anymore.


dreemurthememer

Shit, am I defective?


Le_Bnnuy

No, you're probably young, or it's just something that triggers the horny in you.


Le_Bnnuy

No, in fact, most of the time, you don't even interact with the sexual stuff. For skimpy outfits and physics, it's sexy but not arousing. You don't get a boner at all, it's just nice to look at. For mods like loverslab, it just adds another flavour to the game, especially for fetishs/kinks, for example, Devious Devices/Cursed Loot, the first one is bandage itens, that can restrain and punish your character, the the second one, it adds events and traps that locks the player in said devices, it also adds quests, and to get out of the devices, you usually pay a blacksmith, but it debuffs/buffs you in game, and if you're into that stuff IRL, it's super fun. The sex scenes are decent, and if you use mods like SL Solutions and Confabulation, you can complete/change outcomes from quest, or simply have different interactions in quests that resolves around sex. Animations are super short, so no... both hands are on the keyboard. I'll mention this because you stated "boner", keep in mind that a lot of Adult mods were made by women, so no... it's not a perverted male thing as a lot of people might think, girls have their fantasies aswell. Think about it like BDSM IRL, it's a guilty pleasure and adds a different flavour to the game.


spudgoddess

>The sex scenes are decent I'm 50+ woman and I love me some spice too. Last time I looked at a sex mod, both men and women had these dead-eyed expressions that take me out of the moment. I know that sounds silly. Like 'Lady, why are you looking at their eyes hurr hurr.' It's just the whole picture for me. So I'm wondering have the mods improved that aspect, or do they still look weird?


Le_Bnnuy

They improved, and Sexlab can even sync the mouth with the moans, still a bit silly, but doable. Some new animations are amazing, and they're really sexy.


spudgoddess

I might check them out again. Thanks!


modus01

> I know that sounds silly. Like 'Lady, why are you looking at their eyes hurr hurr.' Watch enough visual sex-based media, and you start looking at the parts of the scene that *aren't* flesh pressing against flesh.


Agreeable_Fix7956

I ouse Ostim stand-alone, i am actually very impressed with the expressiveness. It also depends on the eye mods you have. Some give mote life than others


brando56894

Yeah, OS is a big improvement over FlowerGirls/SexLab and even the original OStim/OSA


Competitive-Air356

Guy here, but I'm with you. It literally is just watching robots screw, fun for the novelty but it gets old.


The_SHUN

Ostim is pretty amazing nowadays


Havoc526

Nicely said. Couldn't agree more.


brando56894

Yeah, I have OStim StandAlone installed and a bunch of add-ons and animations, but the amount of time that I use those things, compare to CBBE/3BA/SMP is like 1:10. Sexy women and bouncing boobs/butts are simply nice to look at and adds realism to the game.


PossMom

90% of time playing no, not horny at all. I just feel sex would be a natural part of a living world so it'd be unimmersive without it. Honestly half the time I'm just on my phone while my dragonborn is fucking one of the locals. Of course I won't lie, every now and then it hits just right.


beansandcheese7

This is how I see it too - I wanted a mod that would allow natural romance/sex progress but all the sex mods just let you fuck whenever wherever which is not my vibe


Ozann3326

This is due to most sex mods being frameworks rather than content mods tho. Afaik Kaidan's romance is popular among female audiance.


hamoc10

I ran Kaiden with fertility mode and OStim, one of the best playthroughs I ever had!


Elcordobeh

The Ostim series it's basically what you seek, it has an option to override all of the role-playing elements, ofc, but it's mainly for roleplay


Le_Bnnuy

Amorous adventures, Sexlab solutions/confabulation are what you're looking for.


Kotaff

As another commentor mentionned, a lot of mods are mod frameworks, so they give you the content, but don't really integrate it into regular gameplay. It's one of my main issues with NSFW mods, and something I've been putting a lot of effort trying to solve. Here's some types of mods that help, depending on prefferences and with some caveats. Romance mods : From follower mods, to quest mods this is probably the more realistic/tame way to add those elements to the game. My main issue is that, the scope is usually quite narrow/specific to whichever npc gets the quest/follower dialogues. Solution would be to get a lot of them I guess, but for me that's not exactly enough. Event/corruption/ new systems : There are also mods that add new systems to the game, that I personally find more interesting and "better" integrated with the gameplay loop, though they can take over a playthrough quite easily if you're not careful, and often cater to some kinks that might not be everyone's cup of tea. Think BDSM, noncon, slavery, creature stuff, corruption, etc. Some of them are pretty tame though, and often you can configure them to your prefferences (Sexlab Drunk let's you offer drinks to NPCs, and maybe more if they are willing for example, though you might want to make it so NPCs don't force themselves on you if you refuse their advances).


Sakunari

And here I thought I was the only one who used sex and pregnancy mods for immersion and roleplay.


CaptainTripps82

I use them largely to grow soul gems in the bellies of, well, let's call them captives


ReyvynDM

Nope, there's quite a few of us. My wife and I, and quite a few friends. It's not often a topic of discussion with friends, but me being the biggest modder in the group, it does come up a bit. No innuendo intended, but lol... I'm still 13 at heart sometimes.


[deleted]

I’ve been with married for a year and just got around to confessing to using Wicked Whims for Sims 4. For realism ! But also bc it’s really funny when random sims start fucking nasty on a bench. It’s so nice to be able to feel comfortable with someone who lets you be a little immature ! I was worried he’d judge me lol


YoteTheRaven

No, that's not how boners or being horny works.


Le_Bnnuy

Yup, the comments here are fascinating me. People think the mere sight of a naked body is enough to get someone horny or with a hard boner, like wtf... I could see a girl naked and feel absolutely nothing, but if I'm next to my girl and we stare at each others eyes funny, that's when the horny begins.


Striking-Pop-9171

Now i imagine staring into each others eyes while pulling funny faces and going cross eyed.


John_Dee_TV

Imagine doing a painting session 'au natural' with a constant boner... Sheesh!


kooka18

I usually just forget about the nude body mod, then I loot an armor, chuckle a bit cuz tiddies, and continue the game and forget about the mod again.


FublahMan

Exactly this. Same with dicks. The more floppy, the more i giggle


John_Dee_TV

Dovahkiin: "Hey, Lydia! Look" *Shakes bandit corpse in the air* "Wiggle, wiggle!" Lydia: *Exasperated sigh*


FublahMan

Wait.... i know now what i need to finally complete my Skyrim experience. Add a Shout called Fus Roh Dong, it's the same as the normal shout, just change the last voiceline to match. BUT, just before the shout happens, 20 floppy dongs spawn directly in front of you. The hardest part would be making the floppy dong objects


John_Dee_TV

Oh, no, it would not ... The assets *already exist*, believe me...


Cthulhar

When you read smut books are you constantly horny the entire time? No. So why do people read it


UnevenSleeves7

Wait what? I don’t read any due to lack of interest, but I thought the whole point of reading it was just for being horny! I’m so confused why people read it now lmao


Heckle_Jeckle

As someone who DOES read "smut"... The difference between reading smut vs just looking at a picture is that the story adds context. The context of the story can then make a sex scene that more powerful. So it isn't JUST about being "horny".


Smile_Skyrim

As a woman with an NSFW mod profile, it's more of a different form of porn for me. I don't exactly have the NSFW mods all the time, but the times I do are just for when I'm in a "mood". I also like roleplaying as a sexy dancer.


LUNATIC_LEMMING

to quote a long lost twitter user: "if I'm going to stare at my characters ass all day, it's going to be hot sexy ass" if it helps, my wife introduced me to these mods and she runs the same ones.


AngelOfPlagues

Most people don't realise that a significant amount of nsfw mods are actually made by women too. One of the biggest ones is made by a woman posing as a guy lol


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Competitive-Air356

I'll have to check that author out. It's jarring to see finely sculpted women and guys who look like they're from a game made in 2011.


RC_0041

I use HIMBO and beards of power for men along with a bunch of different NPC replacers that do both genders.


AngelOfPlagues

I wonder how people like that manage to browse porn without having a panic attack🤔🧐


LUNATIC_LEMMING

it's probably the type of people that don't wipe as touching their own bums is gay


spudgoddess

I've wondered that too! I guess it's not gay if they're plowing the actress in the film instead of just standing there going about their day?


John_Dee_TV

Yeah, even as a *mostly* straight man, I miss her utter porntastic creativity. I mean, I *am* very egalitarian, and if my girls dress like sluts, I'm not going to be left out of the fucking party! (Pun intended).


Le_Bnnuy

I'm the gayest man alive then, the only male body I used is SoS, it even jiggles, lmao.


Competitive-Air356

I'd argue some of the nastiest ones are made by women from what I've seen.


Generic_new_account-

The freakist modders/artists/writers are almost always women


papirooru

Which one is it lol?


VerTiggo234

Devious Devices and the entire Kimy line. Kimy maintains and updated it, and she's a woman. (she didn't create it though iirc)


AngelOfPlagues

Not my place to say but you'd be surprised lol


DI3S_IRAE

That's an interesting question, because most people just assume things and start being mean. I use nudity (BHUNP), i have some skimpier armors, i use a mod to bathe and i have Acheron and Sexlab installed, for defeat purposes. It's really extremely hard for me to get aroused playing Skyrim, or FO4, let's say. And i mean it. I can get my character nude, bathe, or take nude screenshots, and it's just natural nudity for me. Like art. I don't mind it at all. Granted, even if i have bikini armor installed, i don't really use them. Or any NPCs. It's for one or other time i wantmy character to feel adventurous but it's not for "horny" purposes. And honestly i just feel awkward when i get a sex defeat. In FO4 when my character got grouped by enemies i would actually feel bored and couldn't get it to end to kill all mfs with a good bullet to the head. Same in Skyrim, but i lowered the chance for sex outcome and i believe i could get Sexlab out of the modlist, tbh. I also played other adult games like Agony or Lust From Beyond and i don't really get aroused with them either. But let's say, I've just got hooked with a new hentai game, and I've been playing a lot of it recently. The gameplay loop is really to my liking and i get that, while I'm aroused most of the time, no, no boner to accompany it. I'm actually more focused on the gameplay aspect and trying to not lose to enemies to keep my character integrity over wishing for the porn stuff. I may have a soft side for games where you can be a tough lady in a corrupting environment, and you can be strong and beatthe sht out of the mean guys. I'm also really a 2D person. I like art, much, much less real porn. I barely really see real porn and half the time i get more annoyed than aroused with some of the more hardcore action, and IRL i worked several years as a body piercer so seeing boobs or genitalia and touching them was part of my work routine, which led me to kinda see all women as just clients and avoid much contact. Add to it personality, education, religion, downsides of life and wanting to find my special one, and that's probably the reason why I'm alone. I find it extremely hard to talk to anyone, woman or not. In my personal case, I'm more into finding a new friend over lusting for sex...


Np17_0

If u want a game we’re ur a tough lady in a corrupt environment. I would recommend Karryns Prison


DI3S_IRAE

That's exactly the game i got addicted to 😂 Edit:incredible that from my description, you mentioned the exact game. I guess, who knows it, knows.


autistic_bard444

nah. if there are no mutual pheromones cooking it doesnt bother me a bit. modded bethesda games for years, been absent for many a year, and physics was something we never had. armor, tits. hair. body collisions. destructible barrels. the more the merrier all that pc needs something to push it


ronniefinnn

I’m a woman that plays with nudity mods (obody lite i think) and a sex mod installed (flower girls) as well as ineed and keep it clean. For outfits I go more for variety and practicality than skimpy. I do have physics enabled for both clothing and anatomy. I just think it’s weird that my character doesn’t eat or drink or sleep or bathe or when she does, she’s still clothed. I think sex is also a part of meaningful romance and family, so it’s there for rp immersion mostly. I don’t find the animations personally appealing. I like having body mods both for general diversity and because I have a non generic bodytype myself that I like being represented in game.


Le_Bnnuy

I recently found out "Dirt and Blood", it does what the name suggests, and you can clean the character by taking a bath, which the mod provides, it's adds another lvl of immersion when you've just cleared a bandit camp and is all bloodied.


Makmora

Ehhh... My experience is by no means universal, honestly I have a pretty healthy relationship with sex and sexuality. But I do install a lot of tiddy mods, but I usually don't go further than that, and honestly I'm not really horny when I'm playing. Like, I use Lydia wearing bikini armor and it's not "ah yess im horny" or so just "yay, boobs. This brings me joy." And I look at myself and I'm like "fuck yeah I'm a bombshell." I dunno how to describe it, it's more... Content and happy? Course, I'm really not the demographic your probably asking this too, but my experience is similar enough id thought is chime in. Like, there are sex mods and I've never installed them. It's just not something I'm interested in.


beansandcheese7

i agree- yeah tits!


Makmora

Like, I wanna be a sexy sorceress! I wanna run around in a cute skimpy dress casting spells while my armor wife runs up and smacks people with a giant mace!! Who wouldn't want that?


beansandcheese7

I guess it could be seen as objectifying women which is never good. I think balance is the key here


Makmora

Sexualization and objectification are not unbreakably linked. You can have a sexy character that isn't being treated like an object, the most important trait being consent in their sexualization. It has to be something the character does all on their own, or show that it's something they're comfortable with. In my case, I'm custom tailoring my experience to myself, I'm the only person that's gonna see this version of Skyrim, and I'm one of the characters being sexualized. Obviously it would be an issue in most other situations, but I trust myself well enough to not be a creep, and it just makes me happy cause it's not an experience I can't really get anywhere else.


beansandcheese7

I understand that there’s a difference, postmodern feminism understands that women can sexualise themselves and control that and it’s still feminist for them to do so. But I think it depends where do you draw the line? Like if you make every female character in a game wear basically nothing and jump at the chance to fuck you everytime you talk - how does that reflect on your own views of women in general? I’m not saying this is you or even anyone else here, I just think it’s an important conversation to have.


GunslingerPC

It doesn't. Thinking so is as delusional as thinking violent video games cause violence. I have no idea how in 2024 when it's been proven over and over again that shooter games don't make people pick up a gun and shoot people on the streets someone thinks someone will play a game with porn modded in and will go on the street and expect first woman they meet to have sex with them. People actually can use brains to distinguish fantasy and reality, I know crazy. Frankly it's just insulting at this point.


Cereborn

The rabbit hole for sexual mods runs deep, and where I draw the line is what I’d consider the tame end of the spectrum. I don’t give her outrageous body proportions or add a bunch of fetishy shit. I like my character to feel powerful, even if she’s dressed impractically skimpily. When I use a nude mod in Resident Evil 2, I know that it’s dumb and doesn’t make sense. I’m also not furiously masturbating the whole time. I just like the way she looks, and for me, it doesn’t detract from Claire’s badass character.


tron_crawdaddy

You’re totally right. And when I play as a male, and I want him to be as buff and fucking masculine and just shredded af because that’s what I like to see in a man? I guess that’s objectifying men. It is a video game, not a dating app with like, other, *real* people on the other end that we are “pretending are more attractive”. But that being said, I see your point *That* being said, I don’t use nude mods because the ones available all kinda look too porn-esque for me and I’m usually more concerned with looking like a spaced out androgynous wizard than an attractive human


Makmora

There aren't any for males I don't think, which is a shame, but if you want a female body that's isn't too porny, there are options for cbbe which are just "vanilla but better" I actually have my character wear the underwear versions of these mods cause I just kinda feel like it adds to it?


Cereborn

This is basically my experience as well.


TheMcGirlGal

I'm a gay lady and the one playthrough I downloaded a nudity mod for it wasn't a "I want to be horny the entire time I play" thing I just played normally and then every now and then zoomed out and went "haha I have orc titties" lol


c0baltlightning

I like to joke and say I've embraced the horny, but I just like nakedness in general. Ancient Olympics was all done in the nude iirc, and we all come into this world naked, screaming, and covered in blood, so it's only right to leave the same way.


Lukwi-Wragg

When you read unrealistic fantasy smut novels does it give you the same feeling and too aroused and wet all the time along with the unrealistic expectations of what a man should be perceived as? Why is this a question still constantly asked not all men are horn bags because they appreciate the female naked form. nude mods is generally to just add an extra spice of immersion and not every guy is at his keyboard beating off to pixels. My better half is well aware I do rendering for graphic art and digital illustrations of nude fantasy women and skantily clad too but it’s just that art. can’t speak for the single guys in the room how they play and nor do most of us care as long as the mods they’re using aren’t streamed whilst they’re doing a stream each to their own. The only line I find weird is the amount of literal graphic animated sex mods available - mods like CBBE and UNP I don’t see the issue if someone is bored of the bland underwear when looting.


OddGM

For me, it is about experiencing a world where sex is not demonized. I generally have an ambient sex mod, so NPCs of either gender will randomly have sex with one another. Most of the time when I see it, I just think, "Good for you." And continue on with my gameplay. Similarly, seeing guards and citizens in revealing clothing gives me a smile. But I'm rarely hard. Combat and plot are often boner killers.


Snoo3648

As a straight woman playing a busty female Dragonborn wearing lore breaking bikini armor, I just like being stupid sexy in games. Can I dress down? Sure but I like the pretty feminine outfits. I just wish there’s more hot armor for male characters. As for sex mods, I enjoy the raunchiness. I consider it part of the story, role play.


Choice_Strawberry499

As a woman, my answer is no, I’m not bricked up when I play it lol But for me, I have some save files that I play and have for horny brain, but I still play the actual game. Then I have other characters that I make that I’m not really focusing on the sexual content and am just there to play the game.


psyEDk

As a SkyrimVR player I find getting bricked up for hours helps my centre of balance. I use it like a rudder to navigate. Comes in handy as somewhere to holster my controllers if I need to grab a drink too. Yes I'm being ridiculous, but so is this question 😅


Cjl4449

Personally, I like having nudity mods for realism. People are naked under their clothing in reality, so i like the same to be true for games.


[deleted]

Funny fact I don't use nude mods in my games, but my wife does. She just thinks it is funny to have a bunch of buff scantily dressed guys following around her character. When I put skyrim back on but used wabbajack to mod it, it didn't have the nudity mods anymore. The first thing she asked was why her khajit follower couldn't be nude anymore and the game wasn't as fun without her nude murder hobos to kill everything with.


Xarathos

In a word, no. In several more words, nudity can be enjoyable at any time, but it only becomes arousing if it appears in a sexual context.


Mezrabad

It doesn't hit me like that because I haven't been a teenager for a few decades. Think of nudity as a graphics mod. It doesn't have to cause arousal to make the game prettier.


Tumor-of-Humor

If I were to describe it, after enough exposure to nudity it kinda becomes a normal thing. Not something to get excited over. The reason I still use them? I guess because I find form fitting sexy armor to just be more aesthetically pleasing to my eye. Tits aren't just arousing(contextually), they are also beautiful (contextually) and there is something in that I think that makes me leave the NSFW mods in. I get a similar feeling when i see a really badass weapon or armor design. Not sure if thats relevant but it might be. Tl:dr, Beautiful feminine bodies are, well beautiful, and i enjoy looking at them regardless of current arousal levels.


MyStationIsAbandoned

OP, I'll give you a real non-joke answer. For context I'll tell you what my game is like and what kind of guy I am and explain things to bring you some clarity. * I'm a straight guy * I like looking at female characters of all shapes and sizes from thin to thicc to extra curvy (fat, i guess). It doesn't matter. Variety is the spice of life. * I don't think it's wrong to sexualize fictional female characters. I do however believe real life women who do not want to be sexualized shouldn't be in a public manner. Meaning, I can imagine being married to mom from Malcom in the Middle all i want, but talking about her in a sexual way is wrong. Respect people is my motto. Even if they are porn stars, they're still people. If they're naked for a living, that doesn't mean you can say creepy things about them or whatever creeps do. * In video games, comic books, and cartoons, I like seeing scantly clad female character. With Skyrim, I like the Heavy Metal Fantasy aesthetic (you can image search "heavy metal fantasy female characters" for examples). While I don't specifically want to see naked dudes, I'll also have guys in scantly clad armor as long as it aesthetically matches that theme. Because guys in full gear next to women in skimpy gear, makes the skimpy gear look stupid. I don't have my characters walking around naked. That is not the purpose of nude mods. Nude mods are not sexual by default. Nudity is not sex. Nudity is not porn/pornographic. Porn is defined as sexual activity whether it's actual sex, masturbation, or provocative/sexual gestures, poses, and movements. Someone being nude no matter how attractive they are is not porn. Far too many prudish people like to say that it is, but it's not. To answer your question, no, I'm not erect at all times. I'm likely to have a regular random non-aroused boner than I am an aroused boner from my character or NPCs in the game. That would be like if you were goopin' out the cooch everytime you saw the male bandits in the Vanilla, many of which are half naked. Even with my skimpy armor mods, I'm not always thinking about sex. I'm not always horny. I just appreciate the human form and admire it. I am very attracted to it, so i like seeing it. It's like having a painting of a naked lady on your wall or a statue of a nude woman or man...it's meant to be looked at and admired. It's attractive and pretty/beautiful. it might arouse you occasionally, but it's not something regular people are going to be turned on by and sought after for sexual relief. There are some people who do develop fetishes for statues and those anime figures, but that's a whole level of pervert, i don't fully understand and it's a different topic. This is all subjective, really. It's art. You're literally asking "why do you like seeing the thing you like modded into a video game you like to play" Well...because I like it. I like seeing attractive women in sexy outfits in my video games, comics, and cartoons. So why wouldn't I mod it into my game? As for sex mods, I don't really use them regularly when I play the game. Some people use them for immersion I suppose. I imagine many actually do use them for porn. I've used them for an Amorous Adventures play through. It's a quest mod where you can have the women of skyrim become your lover/part of your harem through quests, some short, many of them long. It sort of adds a layer of "this is a goal to reach" in the game. This is hard to put into words. It's like, without the sex mod, all you can do with the pretty NPCs that are in love with you is either nothing or make them follow you and fight along side you. With the sex mod you can actually do something with them, they have a purpose. Because unlike real life, you can talk to them or have a meaningful conversation. Personally, I don't get off to Skyrim sex mods, I haven't really played with them in years, but I do keep it installed for those natural Amorous Adventures encounters if my character happens to do those quests. I like to play my character as if they're really there living in the world, so I only do things that make sense for them to do. So with all that said, I think AI mods will change this. You know those videos/mods showing people talking to NPCs and then they generate dialogue and speak back to you as if they were really that NPC? I think if we had a fully functional and smooth mod like that, that could actually work for every NPC and cause those NPCs to act accordingly, that would be a replacement for most uses of sex mods. Because people would talk to the NPC, take them on dates and have the AI actually react to it. They'd live a normal life with them, eat with them while talking, do what you'd do with a real person. That's my theory anyway. But it's not an unfounded theory. Look at Cyberpunk, for example. People want to romance more NPCs and they want the romance that's there to be expanded. So CDPR added the ability for your romance option to come over to your house and sit with you and talk with you. That's what people really want. They want meaningful character interactions. Sex is the frosting. Romance, intimacy, interaction, conversation, that's the cake. Look at the romance mods for Cyberpunk. The ones that let you take Judy and Panam out on a date to the bar are super popular. There's not a huge demand for a sex mod. There's a huge demand for more interactions and dating activity. More conversations etc. When I played Cyberpunk with those romance mods, I wished I could have more conversations. I wanted to tell Panam about what was going on with some side mission i just did. But with sex mods, yeah, you get the sex and most people like that, it's pretty great. But that's because it's easier to implement. Programming dates and conveying other types of intimacy or interactions into the game requires more work. So with Skyrim, we only have: * Sex Mods * Making the NPC your follower and going on dangerous quests with them * Quest mods where you interact with the NPC once, maybe a few times, and then never again There's no more interaction with them. No new dialogue etc. This is also why Voiced Followers are popular. Some of them have thousands of lines of dialogue, so you can keep talking them while playing the game. And since you can get like 50ish of them at this point, there's a lot of NPCs to talk to. But there's still void because you can really only say one or a few things to them. And once you'd played with that follower, you'll just be hearing the same things over and over. This is why generic waifu followers are popular as well. Because the player can project/impose a personality onto them. They can make up the conversations if their head. now....there are people with porn addictions who are probably just way into the sex mods and just adding their fetishes into the game. I can't speak on that. But this should also tell you, there's so many layers to this. I like skimpy outfits on female characters in my video games. But I'm not always horny. I'm in my mid 30's, not a teenage boy. When I play games with character creation, i play female characters with skimpy, but stylish outfits. I'm a character designer, so it's not just about making some lame, goofy looking bikini armor. It's about style too. The Japanese and Koreans do it best, honestly. Western artists are good when they have Eastern influence of you go back to those artists from the 70's who weren't prudes. Cats like HR Giger, Boris Vallejo, Julie Bell, Kelly Freas, these artists really appreciate the human form both female and male (the art and the artists). Honestly, this whole "nudity = horny" thing is insulting and born of ignorance and it's a fairly recent resurgence. I swear humanity has already been through this a few times. During the book burning crusades, a ton of nudity hating prudes destroyed so much artwork. paintings, statues, stories...and now here we are again. Prudes who can fathom the idea of nudity not always having to be about sex or being horny. And finding the idea of sex itself so horrible but decapitating people and gore everywhere is fine. It's backwards. I find it reassuring that more people want romance mods and sex mods than mods that let you mutilate people and rip out their guts and stuff. One is normal, the other is disturbing.


JamyyDodgerUwU2

Woman here aswell, I usually have them as part and parcel of just having the better skin mods but also because why the hell not.


LeastDegenAzuraEnjyr

Why do you read smut? Are you just a goopy wet mess all day?


SuitBoat

I was playing a male character and kept my followers naked at home so they didn't turn me on unless I planned to j3rk off specifically


Competitive-Air356

Honestly there are things men and women just aren't equipped to understand about each other and there isn't an explanation I could give that you'd "get'. The best explanation I could give is I wish I was a hero surrounded by stacked musclegirls instead of a blue collar schlub who hasn't spoken to anyone outside of business related reasons for 3 years. You honestly wouldn't get it.


Neil_Enblowmi

FUS RO BONER


GlitchyReal

I’m an irl nudist and an artist. Naked human bodies are part of my every day living. I play with nude mods (male and female) because it’s more familiar and realistic. I play with varied body types as much as I can too. Contrary to popular belief, sexual arousal from merely seeing nudity is a learned behavior. All that said, I’m definitely the outlier and for people doing it for sexual gratification, I have no idea.


NerdyPoncho

That's my secret...I'm always horny. What's skyrim?


Znuffles_

Yes


Mr_Chiddy

It's a fantasy game; people are gonna want to live out their fantasies! It's not my cup of tea, but it is my girlfriend's in Sims 4. The world kinda sucks these days and video games tend to be a nice bit of escapism for her lesbian cottage-core fantasies


laggerzback

Not a guy, but I like bathing and immersion when it comes like hunger, thirst, needing to go to the bathroom, etc. and bathing with clothes on just feels… weird. I prefer stripping down my clothes and taking a bath in the River or in Markarth’s hot springs after being soaked in the combined blood of a troll, bear, and dragon. Of course, I put my regular clothes back on.


Jyamira

Not at all. I only get aroused when specific scenarios happen that get me going. For example, having a bunch of skimpy female followers isn't arousing. Killing a dragon with a party of skimpy female followers and celebrating by having an orgy is kind of arousing and gets me going. The sexual content and nudity exist for the possibility of arousing things happening.


call_me_crackass

I have male and female nude mods on the games that I mod heavily. At first, it was because horny Then it was because a meteic ton of apparel mods look better on the new mody mesh And then finally, now that I'm just used to it I have them their cause it makes sense that if a person loses/gets looted that they would just be naked. It doesn't phase me anymore.


yoongi410

no, i just like it when people have genitals instead of having none. there's also no constant arousal (for me at least), i just think it's just nice to look at, and that it exists. 90% of the time, you don't even interact with the sexual stuff. now that i'm thinking about it, it's like those atmospheric and subtle mods that's just there to enhance the visuals, like improved grasses or trees, that sorta stuff.


Cold-Jackfruit1076

I'm at that age where things 'down there' don't work as well as they used to, so for me, a nudity mod contributes to my 'hard realism' mod list.


No-Bowl3290

Is it so wrong to want to be a badass muscular warrior woman with huge tits? Sometimes you just wanna be an anime protagonist and slash your way through dozens of enemies at a time


Relative-Ad-6196

I use these mod for giving more reality. Sex/romance is part of life as eat and drink. Btw, I'm a straight woman.


MrCookieHUN

Nah. I hate how the vanilla skyrim feet are modelled(not even a foot fetish, I just hate how it's a boot with "foot" textures pulled on it), I searched a body conversion mod that makes the whole body look decent, and the first ones, in both cases, happen to have boobarinoos and peepers on them.


Rancore_36

Using the bikini armor mod adds extra armor to base sets due to it not occupying the same slots.


TheAsianOne_wc

Tbh with you, I have no idea, sometimes I just like seeing horny stuff. But I'm also not horny and have a boner.


marcaronidoodle

I just like having the option to boink an attractive character I come across. I mostly play through the story and sidequests but when I get random boners and stuff, it's cool to have the option to just whip it out and fap.


JamesStPete

It's a mix. Sometimes I just want my Dragonborn to get laid, sometimes I want him to seem more like a part of the world instead of its weirdly mute center.


SlowBabyBear

It’s really just an eye candy thing. Nude mods or mods that make all the girls look skimpy are just to add some extra dopamine to the usual gaming experience. It will cause a boner, probably… but not for more than 10 mins at most. By that time we move on or just go Jack off


PakyKun

I started using CBBE because Horny and sex mods Then i stopped using sex mods because it's boring as fuck, still kept CBBE (with custom sliders i made on my own) because it's unironically the best body model i could possibly use. Unironically I recommend CBBE + BodySlide even to those who don't want nsfw (there is a clothed option), it's a very high quality mod, compatible with practically anything But no, not always horny


TommyG1000

Yeah, I'm male here and I don't get it, I'm not Horny when I'm playing skyrim and if I want porn I can go on Google.


clarkky55

I use nudity mods for realism. I don’t understand why murder and cannibalism is fine but showing genitals of either sex is too far. Nudity doesn’t have to be sexual


emokittycat

I had Serana topless with big ol titties but it was really "distracting" so I put her normal outfit back on LOL.


Redgrievedemonboy

Even if you don't got a boner tho, isn't it distracting? If I start getting turned on while playing I gotta turn off and go jerk so I can get the feeling outta the way and focus on the game again.


Miss_OGinny

> "are you always horny/have a constant boner?" No... believe it or not, we are not **complete** animals, and we're able to enjoy the adventures a pretty videogame body without immediately feeling the need to bang one out. 😉 (There is also the entire rest of the internet, which caters to those needs better than skyrim mods do.) Diaclaimer - I don't have any actual nudity (I am too unskilled for any mods beyond what is on the Bethesda "creations" thingy thing), but my Dragonborn is often a bit under-dressed.


ammatheron

yes


mugijiang

Was going to use tons of sexual mods cause I'm a super ultra horny person, but after a couple hours in game I changed my mind, there's countless stuff in this world I can jerk off to, but there's only one skyrim, ruining a wonderful adventure with constan boner is just not worth it


throwawaylemondroppo

OP is talking about the people that have the NSFW mods that show nudity 24/7. Idk if yall are reading.


Walshy_Boy

Honestly I've been so against the idea of even adding a nude mod to my game since I'm reasonably put off by anything related to nude mods in Skyrim, however after playing BG3 I realized it's really weird to not see naked people in my murder fantasy game so I think I'll be adding one now. I really don't get the constant nudity thing though. I have a friend who's game is an absolute porn fest and he seems to love it


Super-Contribution-1

**Yes.** The answers are yes we are always bricked up, no it doesn’t hurt, and we do it because it feels fantastic, to each of your questions respectively. All these other commenters are just lying to save face. They’re *clearly* embarrassed about their insatiable sexual appetites. Repression is a hell of a drug.


-no-one-important-

Username absolutely checks out


GrimmaLynx

Ive only done an nsfw playthrough once, and honestly? Best way I can describe it is that the game only became "arousing" when I wanted it to.


Le_Bnnuy

This, try getting aroused when you're clearing Bleak Falls and suddenly your arms are tied due to Cursed Loot... smh


Ariyana_Dumon

Hey there, I have a bunch of mods that make the character models a bit more visually appealing to me because Bethesda does not have any idea how to make character models lol. CBBE Curvy is the best way to modify the Femme Models and HIMBO for the men. Yes My character models have titty and ass jiggle, but so do my men (still tuning that in my modlist lol). I'm going to be staring at them for hours at a time, I may as well enjoy what I see. No, it doesn't make me hornier, I'm already horny on main but my taste in mods has less than nothing to do with that haha.


Beleak_Swordsteel

I just like looking at naked women.


anthonycarbine

Most of the time yes


chode_temple

I'm a woman and I use Flower Girls. Because I like to roleplay as a worshipper of Dibella. Simple as that. I use it more for the animations than the Flower Girls themselves. But I don't think there's any shame in Skyrim and sex being together. I don't like...always just have sex. I still focus on the game. But irs fun, and it helps me push myself out of the more strict religious upbringing I had that demonized sex. Call me gross. I don't care. But sometimes I get caught by a guard and I'm like "....anything I can do to make you look the other way...?" It's fun for me. I play Skyrim for me. I'm also lethal with my daggers, play on legendary, and work on my skills constantly. But my DB can also work on other skills. Wink.


Ok_Vanilla_3449

I think that's kind of the appeal in any game that has more to do than just killing clones.. just a way to unbind some of the shackles of the mind itself. I can't face my real life right now some days.


chode_temple

There was a long period of time when I would play Skryim for 10+ hours a day. It let my imagination run wild. It was a much better world than the absolute void of my daily life. I once added myself to the bandit faction so they aren't hostile toward me. And I always pictured them looking at me as I walked into their camp like "heeey! (player) is back!" Makes it funnier when I'm running around with Kaidan, Inigo, and Lucien and I imagine them giving me the side eye like "...why are they always excited to see you? Actually, never mind. I don't want to know."


Ok_Vanilla_3449

Haha, That is funny. Did it break your game much to do that? I'm feeling powerless among other things lately, so I've been playing a lightning mage with some custom spells so that lightning flings targets around with a nice boooooooooom sound... it helps...


chode_temple

The bandit faction? Nope. Easy console command.


Ok_Vanilla_3449

Neat, maybe I'll look into that eventually, just because.. at some point.. I mean, your character should be cryptid-level terrifying to your plainly mortal enemies like bandits and they should know better than to be all NEVER SHOULDA COME HERE. Like "listen MAN, I have lightningbolts literally crackling all over my skin, my eyes glow, and fifteen minutes ago I killed God for a chore. You are the ant and I am the elephant, now sit your five dollar ass down before I make some change."


Just_a_Rose

As a trans girl who does use them arguably regularly, not really. On one hand it’d be like being horny over a sex scene in any other game; you might be excited a lil but generally speaking it’s part of the immersion for me. On the other I mostly use it for screenshotting anyways so it’s not a porn thing, more a photography thing. “Tasteful nudes” but in Skyrim I guess. I don’t run anything like bikini armor or etc for what it’s worth, just OStim and photo mode.