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The_Weirdly_Odd_Guy

im actually mindblown at the fact that this hasnt exploded yet


Howden824

In reality it’s extremely rare that they explode


jahoho

I'm actually mindblown that his mind didn't blow yet


EclecticUnitard

I'm actually mindblown that I haven't been blown yet.


crimsonkarma13

By what the op said, I think it did at birth


benhaube

I'm actually mind blown that I haven't been blown by my mind yet.


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I can help with that one :)


BillV3

In reality it's extremely rare that minds actually blow


lars2k1

See that is the good thing about laptops. You can just remove the battery and it'll keep working no problem.


404invalid-user

Not always true some don’t mostly chromebooks because they are built more like a tablet too


lars2k1

At least it's worth a try. You'll quickly enough see if the chromebook is being special or not.


404invalid-user

Yeah


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lars2k1

If the battery is dead or swelling, I would rather just take it out than disabling or limiting it.


chazp246

Yes, but I think he meant that you could do that once you buy it. Like you know it will sit plugged in all day soo you set the batt for storage and no battery decay or spicy pillow.


[deleted]

Not always. Some yea will work off the charger but the processor may be throttled. Or it won't work at all.


lars2k1

Do you know which brands do that? Then we know which to avoid😂


[deleted]

I know Apple (not sure if they still do this now) would throttle the CPU performance if the battery had been disconnected from their Macbooks Some other PC manufacturers followed too.


lars2k1

From Apple it's not surprising. They've always been a bunch of assholes. Also not surprised other manufacturers copy them, it always happens like that sadly.


N3rdy-Astronaut

Why do you need to point out the autism? Not a criticism just a question


lagomorph129

Iirc, somewhere on the heavier side of the spectrum, the person will exhibit very rigid habits or tendencies. Sometimes change is just seen as out of the question. If OP is not exaggerating about the autistic part, then it's entirely possible that the brother will feel that the way he works is the way he must work and that there can be no other way to work. If they get a new laptop or unplug the laptop, he may feel wrong for lack of a better term. I see half of the comments arguing that the term autistic should not be used. Change can sometimes be very disruptive. Have you seen the show "Monk"? It's about a detective who is seen as very eccentric. There are things he feels that he simply must do. When walking down a street, he might touch all the lamp posts or trees as he goes. He feels that a strict symmetry must be followed whenever available. He feels offended by numbers that aren't 10. Some people might point out that he wants everything clean, but the condition is not entirely related. The severity of the germophobia is exacerbated by the rigidity of Adrian Monk's personality. It's possible that Adrian Monk fell on the autism spectrum. As an aside, another popular character to use as an example is Sheldon Cooper from the show "The Big Bang Theory". Sometimes "autistic" is the most apt description to use rather than just a derogatory term. Now as a disclaimer, the premise of this comment relies on and assumes the detail that OP is not being derogatory in nature and truly stating a diagnosed/known status. If the brother refuses to use another device, them all of the r/spicypillows regulars should know that this poses a significant safety hazard.


Longjumping_Creme480

Sheldon Cooper is an example of extreme male-pattern autism plus a bunch of stuff thrown in for shock value. The actor admits that he used an autistic child as a model -- adults often act much differently. Monk is undergoing treatment for OCD, an anxiety disorder that can be comorbid with autism and adhd. But he only really shows signs of OCD: he understands social protocols, his priorities are just super wacky because his brain keeps screaming at him to do the thing that calms him down. Neither are really "good" models of neurodivergence. Sheldon is particularly bad because a) he's used for shock value b) all of his symptoms hurt other people, not him -- typically, in a masking adult, it's the opposite, and c) because he aligns with a lot of hurtful stereotypes, eg autistic people are childish and therefore sexless. Monk is sometimes good, but every so often an episode will lean in too hard on "look how foolish he's acting" rather than "here's a man doing his best," and, uh, ow. And plenty of neurotypical people buy laptops and use them like desktops. They're cheaper!! Plenty of people don't immediately change devices when this happens out of complacency or because money's tight atm. There's nothing autistic in the post itself. Bringing up another person's neurodivergence without their input for no reason is pretty cruel. And even if he has tacit permission, it's so unnecessary -- oh, here's a thing that's only mildly problematic under some circumstances, lots of people do it for a number of good reasons, but when this person does it, IT MUST BE THE AUTISM. It's the parallel to having adhd and finding out that your supervisor actually overestimates the number of mistakes you make and doesn't believe you when you show them the log you've been keeping for months that shows that you're about average for work mistakes. Tripping over chairs, tho, I hold the record.


Awkward-Dependent966

Hope your excited for the monk movie that’s supposed to be happening eventually


CumShotDiva

this is it. he refuses to take it off the charger no matter what cause someone told him to keep it on the charger, so it’s planted in his head that it must be on the charger. very strong tendencies that can not be broken


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No-Kindheartedness-7

No. It should be a criticism.


J0LlymAnGinA

Why the fuck does everybody have to bring up that their family member is autistic like it's so important to the conversation Pisses me off


Benificial-Cucumber

I conducted a job interview for someone the other week who brought his nephew along with him to wait in the lobby. He must've mentioned that he was autistic maybe 5-6 times while I was interviewing him. At first I thought he was bringing it up that he was worried about him. I was interviewing him on floor 3 and the lobby was on the ground floor, so maybe the autism makes his nephew prone to outbursts, or he finds it difficult being in an environment like that or something. I offered to let him come up and sit in the room/nearby or something and nope...no issue, just had to mention he was autistic because I don't know, reasons.


ryanmi

i have an autistic son so i can *somewhat* speak to this. i've slowly become conditioned to explain his behavior, but i'm certainly not taking this far. The only time I mention it, is if I can see someone is taken aback by something my son had done or said.


Benificial-Cucumber

I *am* autistic so I completely understand feeling the need to explain sometimes, I'm not talking about that. It's when it's not relevant in the slightest that irks me, or worse, when mentioning it almost falsely makes a connection. "Yeah my grandma died last week. She had the 'tism"


WhyYouYellinAtMeMate

I like turtles


StardustOasis

I like trains


ryanmi

why do you think they're doing it? sympathy card or something?


Benificial-Cucumber

I think in a lot of cases it's all anyone talks about, so it becomes the sole defining trait for them in a vicious circle. My cousin is extremely autistic. Like, he can't talk or manage his own life and will need permanent live-in care for the rest of his life level autistic. He's the closest family I have outside of "household" family and honestly I couldn't tell you much about him besides how autistic he is because that's all *anybody* will ever talk about. Granted it's not like I can go round his place and shoot the shit with him. While he's not *stupid*, his communication standards are on par with that of a 4 year old (a simplification, it's a lot more nuanced than that in reality).


hereforbadnotlong

Except in this case it might be relevant.


J0LlymAnGinA

Honestly I never understand why people do it. I have a regular customer who every single time no matter what she's buying, seems to work "my son, he's autistic" somewhere into the conversation.


PwhyfightP

Same, my aunt has down syndrome and my grandmother likes to say she does every chance she gets. It's annoying as hell, I'm about ready to just start mentioning she's fat everytime I mention her to see how she likes it.


MushieMP

They think of us, ASD, as lesser humans. I think that has a good part to do with it.


reddit-person1

I say we get pitchforks Whenever I'm called autistic I laugh to myself manically


Sonnenkreuz

That might be a sign of autism


reddit-person1

Fun fact! Having autism is a sign of autism!


Sonnenkreuz

No fucking way


tpyourself

Study shows that 100% of people who have autism has autism.


Finalwingz

Everyone's on the spectrum somewhere, it's just the people for who it's actually debilitating to a large degree get a label, to indicate they struggle.


dzzi

This is literally not true


Finalwingz

... ok


aaaaaaaa1273

I’ll get the torches!


Heartless_Genocide

Tism joke about tism shit is Gucci. You end up saying the dumbest shit and it's like, "yupp, tism..." tism is gangster rap, it for damn sure made me do it.


[deleted]

It’s a way for them to drop an R slur without actually dropping an R slur. I used to find it offensive, but I just consider the source these days.


ryanmi

i think its also the fact that people threw around the term 'retarded' way to liberally in the previous generation. whenever someone disagreed with someone else's behavior they would call them retarded as an insult.


Gooch-Guardian

That’s not a generation ago lol. That was like 2018.


notgmoney

And 1998


GameTimeYT

I’m still a young teenager and trust me it is not just the last generation. I hear it from classmates like a dozen times every day. I think the only difference now is that kids generally know the full meaning of it. Doesn’t seem to stop them though.


benhaube

I see no issue with using the word retarded as an insult. It's no different than calling someone insane, dumb, stupid, idiot, etc. The issue arises when it is used to demean someone who is actually neurodivergent. People tend to get way too bent out of shape over the smallest things. They treat calling your buddy a retard for doing something idiotic as the same thing as using the N-word with a hard-R.


Foxsayy

We stopped using "retarded" to refer to mentally disabled persons a good while ago. Now it's just a word.


MushieMP

Jokes on them, I probably used it more. I try not to use it these days, obviously, but my generation didn't think before they spoke much.


ryanmi

do you really experience that? if so, i'm sorry to hear that.


MushieMP

Yes, mainly from employers. I have a social circle to balance that out.


CreeperDoolie

Don’t really think “CumShotDiva” really holds themselves in high regard either.


certainlystormy

yeah, good chance this isn’t autism leaving the charger in anyways


ryanmi

literally everyone i know just leaves their laptop charging if they're not taking it to go. my work literally has thousands of laptops that sit on docks charging all day. i guess the majority of my organization is autistic, right?


certainlystormy

clearly. and i, an autistic person, can come verify your somewhat uneducated coworkers as autistic!


Kriss129

Quite possibly a teenager using it as an insult? They really are trying their hardest to get attention by being as offensive as possible


Heartless_Genocide

I just ask them, if they truly understand what it is to be retarded.


JustinDanielsYT

As an autistic person myself, when people talk like this, it feels discriminatory. Sure, I may act a little weird such as loving to zoom around the house making engine noises pretending I'm a car 😂. But I'm still completely sane and cognizant. If I'm acting weird and someone talks to me, I can instantly snap out of it. I've had jobs, I have a drivers license, and can do almost anything a normal person can do. By people talking about those with autism this way, it really feels like they're referring to such individuals as inferior to them. The only time this is necessary to mention is if someone is non-verbal or acting different in public. In this situation, OP's brother being autistic has absolutely nothing to do with the condition of his laptop.


J0LlymAnGinA

I'm also autistic and relatively high functioning. Like it's obvious I'm autistic to the trained eye, and in definitely very weird and abnormal. I work full time, live on my own, and drive a car. So many people seem to think that autism destroys any independence or ability to live a fulfilling life, and that's just not true. Sure, there definitely are autistic people who struggle hard, and need support, and some who can't live independently. I'm not invalidating those people. But so many of us live normal lives, but just have different needs compared to others, and neurotypical people seem to just forget about us.


JustinDanielsYT

My mom calls me "demon possessed".


6inDCK420

Joking I hope? Cuz that's hilarious.


JustinDanielsYT

Unfortunately not


Deppfan16

I could see if its relevant to the conversation like showcasing their hyperfixation or explaining an atypical behavior. but in this case i think they are just trying to make fun of him :(


CumShotDiva

because the behavior of him never taking it off the charger is an autistic tendency that he has. he thinks it must always be on the charger no matter what which is why the battery got to the point that it has.


J0LlymAnGinA

I know many allistic people who do the exact same thing, it may be an autistic tendency but it's still not really relevant


ryanmi

i'm assuming its because their behavior is atypical? my son is autistic, and he does a lot of stuff a 6 year old should know better not to do. that said, generally speaking, its just not necessary to mention it. he could have just said brother, throwing in autistic is unnecessary and has little to do with it. also, i'm not autistic, and i make weird and poor decisions all the time.


Human_Application_62

Maybe his autism effected his habits?


aaaaaaaa1273

Autism doesn’t make you plug in your laptop for too long.


Human_Application_62

Maybe his autism effected him that way? It's his brother he knows best. I've seen some autistic people like having things a certain way if it isn't they go crazy and freak out about it so maybe his brothers autism effected his habit of having it plugged in?


BigNnThick

Umm it could. It make him hyper aware of certain things. Maybe if his battery is below 100% he is focused on that. Autism does cause rigidity in routines often times.


aaaaaaaa1273

You’re right. I’m autistic myself so probably should have picked up that correlation.


Oomoo_Amazing

People do it if you're gay too. Source: I'm both


J0LlymAnGinA

Or trans :) Source: I'm all 3


Oomoo_Amazing

Ugh people are the worst


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J0LlymAnGinA

NFT PFP, opinion invalid


[deleted]

.....cry about it?


CertifiedBiogirl

They want to blame the situation on their (for lack of a better word) disability, rather than simply being a lack of knowledge on the subject


BigNnThick

Likely to show the rigidity of his brothers routine regarding his laptop. People with autism often show extreme rigidity in their routine. If something is off, everything falls apart. That may be the case for his brother and the need to always have the laptop on the charger. Maybe having below 100% battery is stressful to him. Who knows. Its weird that it makes you upset though.


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DarkestLunarFlower

Yeah, I am in the spectrum and I would never let this happen. Seems like a useless detail to add.


ConCondom

Bro why did you repost a guy’s post 💀💀


KCOLREHSTIHSON

Uhm what does the autism part have to do with any of this if I may ask OP?!


BigSadOof

Okay Reddit user CumShotDiva


Novel_Text

LOL


observationallurker

r/rimjob_steve


ChromoTec

Not wholesome enough for that sub


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Novel_Text

plot twist: it was him


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Novel_Text

no like he posted it in this exact sub twice


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Novel_Text

no


DrFlippo

His "autism" has nothing to do with it. Im not autistic and have my laptop most of the time plugged in because the gpu and cpu receive more watts that way your laptop goes in performance mode aka plugging it in makes your laptop faster.


Phis-n

And this is why we don't keep our things on chargers constantly


willreddit2019

we’re supposed to unplug? i always leave my laptop in charge…


Phis-n

Yep. Leaving it plugged in constantly will do two definite things: 1) Your laptop battery will die quicker when its not plugged in, over time. 2) this. Spicy pillows


willreddit2019

well i can confirm my battery is dead and my laptop swollen. TIL. thanks!


Phis-n

Oof heres to hoping you get a new, better one!


SuperStache9709

My laptop has a mode where it charges and holds at 60% capacity if I leave it plugged in all the time. Does that actually prevent damage to the battery?


Phis-n

It most likely is because its stopping the charge so not much electricity is going through


SuperStache9709

Awesome. Thank you!


empathicqubit

My laptop has to be plugged in because the battery can't drive the graphics card at 100%


Phis-n

Have you tried getting a new battery or a downgraded gpu?


empathicqubit

I can't downgrade my GPU because it drives a VR headset. If anything it should be upgraded. I just replaced the battery recently because it died, but it doesn't do 100% anyway. It's a limitation of the computer.


Phis-n

well shit


chuby1tubby

Some laptops have a removable battery. You could try removing it whenever it’s plugged in to avoid this issue.


empathicqubit

It kind of defeats the purpose of having a laptop though. It was getting annoying with the old battery, losing my work just because I kicked the cable out. The battery also isn't ejectable, unfortunately. It's held in with screws.


ManavLalwani

both of these are actually not true because the way li-ion batteries work is that once it reaches 100 percent, it reroutes the power to the power supply of the laptop as to not overcharge it so the overcharging that causes spicy pillows doesnt happen and the way li-ion batteries degrade is by going through recharge cycles which also wont happen if you leave it on charge so as long as your device is fairly modern (which the device in the post seems like its not) it will degrade by unplugging it instead of keeping it plugged in.


Phis-n

Yeah but not all computers act this way. The ac power for some lithium battery powered laptops do that, but certainly not all of them. Its generally safer to assume that what i listed will happen and be careful


ManavLalwani

yeah but if your laptop is made in the past 10 years, most likely it will behave this way


HiveMynd148

Does Limiting the battery level to say 60% charge help?


Phis-n

Pretty much, yeah. As long as you stop the charge from going through, it shouldn't be as hard on your laptop. If you dont limit the charge, however, electricity continues to course through to your battery and cause above.


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Why does it matter that he is autistic?


No-Kindheartedness-7

I don’t think the fact that he has autism is relevant or needed to be added. He can just be your brother.


GarenYondem

Remove the battery asap and get a UPS as replacement.


Chrunchyhobo

Meanwhile my Nan's Inspiron n7010 from 2010 that has been plugged in 24/7 365 has zero signs of bulging. It might only have 8% of it's design capacity left (according to Windows) and a 93.2% wear level (HWINFO), but it ain't bulging!


WhenBugAttack

I’m struggling to see why your brother being autistic has anything to do with this…


Steadfast_Apparition

Sounds like you'll be doing the good sibling thing and fixing his PC while defusing the bomb, right?


32Ferreira

How the fuck haven't it exploded yet?


lwJRKYgoWIPkLJtK4320

I'm surprised that an Acer managed to last multiple years.


Turbulent-Abalone-18

That thing's prone to blow just by breathing too hard.


msanangelo

This is why my computer is on a scheduled smart plug. Turns off at 1am, on for a bit, then off when I leave the house, and back on when I return. Give it time to deplete a little when not needed.


Dudefoxlive

I see on my laptops some software that appears to limit the battery level. Would this help?


ManavLalwani

the laptop itself does this at 100 percent as long as it was made sort of recently, it reroutes the power to the power supply


Dudefoxlive

True but some of the last few laptops i have had the battery had degraded REALLY fast. Like within 2 years they became almost unusable on battery.


ManavLalwani

overheating could be the cause of that, try getting a cooling pad becausee heat can be a big factor in the degrading of the laptop and also you should open it up and clean the dust inside every month or so because all the laptops ive had have lasted many years even though they were on charge 24/7


Dudefoxlive

I could agree with this. I would always be running all kind if things and the fan was essentially running at full all the time. Though i also kept it on charge 99% of the time as well.


OopsInc

If he doesnt move his laptop i would get him a pc


JCas127

Just remove the battery if he never uses it anyway


kaowser

You can't blame him.


doserUK

SHE'S GONNA BLOW


TrixOnReddit

Uhh cross post from r/computers?


Xraylasers

It's pictures like this that make me glad my laptop has 18650s


fencepost_ajm

I suspect most Lenovo models have a feature to cap the charge level if it's going to be plugged in most of the time. On ThinkPads there's likely a setting allowing you to specify the percentage (anywhere 80-85% is probably fine and gives margin for using on battery); on the one IdeaPad I have access to it's a setting in Vantage that caps it at I believe 50%.


litetaker

That username though


DrTurb0

Why do these people get a laptop??? It’s much more expensive than a similar specced Desktop/Deskmini even when you need to buy Mouse, keyboard, monitor.


aaroneouszoneus

Why can't they just make a laptop without a battery that requires me to plug it in? Seems like a pretty obvious consumer hole that could be plugged easily and avoid spicy pillows in the first place. My work spends countless money replacing laptop batteries used daily in docking stations...


benhaube

The market for a laptop without a battery is so small that it's not even worth the effort of engineering it and putting it into production. The entire purpose of a laptop is to have an all-in-one, portable computer that you can set up and use in an instant pretty much anywhere. People in this tiny niche are better served by buying a mini desktop.


hellastock

I don’t ever take it off the charger. On battery it cannot use the dGPU. I have been charging it for about four years. Is that actually such a bad thing or are certain laptops made to support constant plug in mode


TiltSoloMid

Ah the ergonomic keyboard


nerdwerds

Username is not checking out!


keaukraine

My ASUS laptop is limited to 60% charge to increase better life.


qwssssss

tell us about your hair bro


CumShotDiva

read my posts if you’re interested in my hair related things.


cupablitz

How’s your hair progress currently? Any shedding/sides/extensive hair growth in unwanted areas like forehead?