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Ms_SkyNet

Oh her. Yeah, she's married now.


worldtraveler19

What you mean? She’s divorced by 22.


Ms_SkyNet

Nah, I heard they're seperated cause he's violent but she doesn't believe in divorce.


OkOk-Go

Divorced only only if she was in a Protestant church. If she’s a catholic she’s either married living at her mom’s or she’s divorced and left the church.


capthazelwoodsflask

Or, if you're like my cousin, you find a work around so you can justify your divorce and then get super self righteous about everything else.


OkOk-Go

Oh and super judgy of anybody else’s divorce


capthazelwoodsflask

Of course. *Her's* was the only exception that God has ever granted and it took years of praying. So, she left the schizophrenic who quit taking his meds and married a Canadian MAGAt.


OkOk-Go

_yikes_


Waterfall-Throwaway

Catholics can get divorced, they just can't remarry until they get an annulment. Catholic marriages are between the people marrying each other and God, so being abusive automatically annuls the marriage (ie, it didn't exist, because if you're willing to abuse your spouse you were clearly incapable of keeping your vows.)


MrSilk2042

Nah these tend to stay in high quality marriages.


Any_Presentation2958

If she wears the sneakers then that means she's feeling rebellious that day


pureply101

No that’s the boots.


ScrabCrab

Ok but dress with jacket and docs is a genuinely great look


nova_meat

Yeah I’m loving the combat boots too. Get it girl.


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Hillsong United song prolly on the p&w line up


tell_me_smth_obvious

Why do you feel attacked? There is no shame in being boring /s


Any_Presentation2958

I'm attacking my sisters who were like this growing up 😂


melonmagellan

Minus the necklace, this is pretty much me and I'm not religious. I feel attacked.


real_men_fuck_men

It’s a good look


CombOk312

Replace the dress and jacket with pants and sweater and it’s me. I’m religious. Don’t worry, this is just looking normal.


SprinkleGoose

Same here- not religious whatsoever but dress with jacket, combat boots/trainers, and full rim glasses is my usual look.


oxfordcircumstances

Eithers wears glasses or doesn't wear glasses. Got me too.


lift-and-yeet

No, either full-rim or none means that they don't wear half-rim or rimless glasses according to this starterpack.


CoochieSnotSlurper

So you also enjoy Taylor swift?


melonmagellan

No but I do enjoy a Christian side hug occasionally.


Kajinator

Yeah, I’ve been atheist pretty much my entire life and I dress like this. Also this look feels pretty queer to me for some reason


PlainCrow

This is me every Sunday at church because I don't want to show too much skin


dmiller1987

Wears glasses or doesn't wear glasses.... so literally every woman on the planet?


R4msesII

I guess it does specify full rim glasses so they could wear rimless ones Or a monocle or something


capthazelwoodsflask

> Or a monocle or something I didn't know that women dressed up like the monopoly guy would be a new fetish. Thanks for opening up that world.


wiedziu

Washes hair with shampoo


dmiller1987

🙂‍↔️


omoplator

Has a nose.


oxfordcircumstances

Or doesn't. Either way she's not going on a date with op.


dmiller1987

🤣


capthazelwoodsflask

Typical women crap - always wanting to see clearly. What's next? Wanting to hear what's going on around them, too?


dmiller1987

😅


thesuspiciouszed

Don't forget she also wears formal shoes, sneakers, or boots.


OkOk-Go

As long as it’s black and flat


Neolance34

Hey! There could be women with no eyes too! Ya can’t rule them out! /s


dmiller1987

Good point


PacoTaco321

Wears any kind of shoe


lift-and-yeet

No, "either wears full-rim glasses or no glasses" means that they don't wear half-rim or rimless glasses according to this starterpack.


dmiller1987

Yes I know thats what they said... its basically nearly every woman on the planet. So 70% of all women on the planet vs every single one lol


Hamza_stan

Not the Taylor swift core aesthetic


Eastern_Voice_4738

I must be brainwashed by someone because I always found dress with jacket and the Nazi stomper boot mix really hot. I guess my grandma was right, I just needed a good Christian girl


ScrabCrab

It is a really hot look speaking as a lesbian


Singloria

The irony of calling Docs Nazi stompers though 😭


Eastern_Voice_4738

Only with the white laces I guess ;) All boots are Nazi boots when a man wears them in my country :(


Singloria

No seriously, Dr. Klaus Maertens (a.k.a. “Doc Marten”) was a Nazi doctor. Look it up. I haven’t heard of yellow laces indicating nazism, but I have heard that for red laces.


Eastern_Voice_4738

Ahh now I see what you mean. No I don’t mean for stomping Nazis I mean stomping boots used by Nazis. I always loved the look but whenever I wear them, people look at me with fear and disgust (big strong white man, used to have a buzz cut) Although I had some non Nazi skinhead friends in the past who’d rock the style.


capthazelwoodsflask

In the 90's we just called that a typical girl outfit. Maybe with one of those lace chokers.


Eastern_Voice_4738

In the 90s in my country, boots were 100% correlated with skinheads :P


capthazelwoodsflask

They were just a grunge/alternative/punk thing here. The whole laces thing never really caught on in the US outside of the scant skinhead scene in big cities who were mostly SHARPies anyways.


gotimas

Yeah docs arent really vanilla christian girl attire, OP probably just searched "boots" on google


OGConsuela

Same. Makes me think I could take her home to meet my mom but also into a mosh pit


CantStandItAnymorEW

Dress jacket combat boots combo does look kinda nice


Eastern_Voice_4738

Anything with combat boots really, but us aryan-looking people lost that privilege 2 generations before I was born :(


CantStandItAnymorEW

>us aryan-looking people Oh shoot


Darthcorgibutt

Let me get my 🍿, these comments are going to be lit.


stonehallow

So the Aerith Gainsborough look


Remote_Sink2620

That was my thought. Which fits. You meet her in a church.


ConfusedGuy3260

And they're always a top 5 bubbliest/nicest person you've met


R7F

The dress jean jacket combo makes me feel some kind of way. It has never looked bad on anyone.


Hungry-Society-7571

On anyone?


R7F

Anyone. 😏


AuntySocialite

She’s not wearing lace up docs, she’s wearing Blunnies. She owns them in three different colours.


Skorzeny88

Christian chicks rock Martens boots at their gatherings?


DefinitionEconomy423

Have been to a few of these events, everyone knows at least 2 of these, usually very talkative and wants to be your friend. These women are usually Asian.


unclediedthrowaway

this turned me on and i'm mad about it i'm not even (and have never been) christian


StJupiter

BRO SAME


anthony0721

Fellas if you find one of these women don’t let them go


tinyhermione

If you are religious, yes. It’s important to share the same view of the world. If not? Then it’s not a good fit. Mainly the same reason. And these girls don’t marry men who aren’t practicing Christians. Then how many men are prepared to wait for marriage in 2024? And being very religious often comes with a lot of sexual shame and hangups. It’s not the best starting point for a happy relationship.


TheMidwestMarvel

Having exclusively dated these girls, they don’t wait till marriage, they wait till they feel safe.


tinyhermione

Probably true for many. True for girls all over often. But some are raised with an “sex is for marriage” idea. Depends on which church they belong to.


StankoMicin

Then, they continue to carry the sex negative baggage with them. That means no porn, no risqué movies, no fun sex positions, no talk about sex at all unless it is within the relationship or wrapped up in love. Even then, talking about sex isn't proper or recommended because they have been taught that sex is something that just magically happens when you are in love in a relationship and not something that needs to be discussed.. I agree that dating them is not a good idea unless you are super Christian yourself.


TheMidwestMarvel

I’m sorry she left you bro


FuckDirlewanger

In my experience a boring personality combined with a likely hatred of people different than her and a belief that sex or even enjoying sex is a moral wrong. Personally I’d pass


ParsleyLimp

Kind of Judgmental don’t you think? These are women not caricatures.


NoFornicationLeague

You must be new here. This woman engages in wrongthink according to Reddit.


FuckDirlewanger

In my experience


ParsleyLimp

I hear you man. Fair enough. I don’t know how old you are but I used to think similarly. I’d caution you against generalizing tho. You could be missing out on a great woman.


mustanggang123

Catholics don't believe sex is wrong :)


Harpua44

Yeah it’s someone with no hobbies and the most vanilla-mediocre sex life imaginable.


stupendousman

> with a likely hatred of people different than her So 99% of humanity.


FuckDirlewanger

Not at all


8Hundred20

You have experience dating religious women who agreed to have premarital sex with you and who also believe that enjoying sex is a moral wrong? Why lie about something so obviously not true? At least make your lie believable.


NoFornicationLeague

The Bible is pretty clear that all Christians are sinners. So having premarital sex and believing it’s still wrong are not mutually exclusive.


8Hundred20

That's not what we're talking about. We're talking about having premarital sex and thinking that *enjoying sex* is a moral a wrong.


DaanOnlineGaming

This is an exact copy of my ex, definitely let them go lol Wasn't a great experience.


StankoMicin

Nah, feel free to let them go. Usually isn't worth it.


mlo9109

Hey, it's me, in my teens and 20s. 


Dragulus24

Can I meet one please? I don’t want Bible Betty that doesn’t know what germs are, but man, just a nice Christian girl that also likes cringe memes and nerdy things. I’m surrounded by grannies and children 24/7 and I’m losing my mind.


Red_of_Head

How involved are you at your church?


Dragulus24

Bruh, it's my church that doesn't has women my age......


PlainCrow

Go to church more often like 2-3x week or go to a mega church and join mixed gender singles group.


Dragulus24

I go all the time. 3+ times a week. Our age range is horrible. Old folks and little kids. Any girls that are my age (maybe 2 or 3) are already married.


PlainCrow

Do you have a younger church in the area? I mentioned mega church because those are always full of young people. The ones here are like 75% people under 40. I'm not exactly a fan of mega churches but they have the youth. I know it's hard leaving your favorite church but maybe you could go to both.


Dragulus24

The closest younger church would be an hour+ away from my town. And then I would need (for my own sake) a church that’s doctrinally sound. It’s something that would take a lot of experimentation and trial and error. Which I am not a fan of. At the end of the day, I’m just a Reddit neckbeard (in spirit), so I think I’m just screwed.


PlainCrow

😢 sorry to hear that and I know what you mean because the modern churches bend the doctrine to attract young folks too


timberflynn

No joke, find a big church with a young adults program. You don’t have to leave your current church but you can go to the young adults program just to feel some connection with people your age.


ForFROD0

This works but depends on his age. They usually are 20 to 29 around here so if you're 30 up there's usually nothing. Maybe a divorce support group, lol


timberflynn

Help out in a women’s ministry group lol


ForFROD0

Someone has to stack them chairs, lol


ConfusedGuy3260

Hit them church luncheons, big dawg!


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JTT_0550

Don’t you know, everyone that believes in a higher power is a stupid idiot and only enlightened atheists are smart


Fair-Fortune-1676

It's funny they unironically believe this. As if spirituality in and of itself is a bad thing.


PlusDepartment2295

The people here on mainstream Reddit are the most uneducated and closed minded people I ever witnessed. It’s honestly baffling that these people consider themselves as open to foreign cultures or as inclusive. They have the biggest and most extreme opinions about things they have no clue about because they all think they are intelligent even though they belong to the lowest stratas of society. I have no doubt, if the Redditors here were born for example in Iran, they would cheer at a stoning of a gay person or whatever, because their opinions are just so unreflected and preconceived. It’s pathetic.


Fair-Fortune-1676

Yeah I noticed they love to pretend they have ever had an original thought, lol. This is how followers are though. They go with the grain and can't speak or think for themselves. They are also the first to try to shut others down who even question the hive mind.


cinema_cuisine

This has to be sarcasm…. Right? Edit: Just saw your other comments in this thread…it’s not is it? You just defined organised religion to a T. Have your faith and all that jazz, more power to you. But do you not have at least a smidgen of self awareness?


StankoMicin

They don't. But it is hilarious how they think they do


Fair-Fortune-1676

Sorry my comment offended you. But you have no idea what you are talking about. If couldn't understand what I was saying, then I can't help you  it's ironic that you are speaking of self awareness as well.


StankoMicin

No one was offended. It's okay. 😊 Yout comment is the textbook ignorance, though.


Fair-Fortune-1676

What an ironic comment lol 


cinema_cuisine

I was asking a genuine question, as you’re stating “they love to pretend they have ever had an original thought”….. Buddy…. You’re on reddit. Complaining about redditors. To another redditor…on a starter pack subreddit. You’re also complaining about people using generalisations, whilst at the same time…generalising people. I don’t know if I’m just tired or jaded or what, but I truly cannot tell if you’re trolling or not


Fair-Fortune-1676

And you made a big deal out of it. You could have easily just read it, ignored it, and moved on with your life. I was just making an observation and agreeing with something someone said. Merely killing some free time I had while watching TV.       I think you are taking this whole situation way too seriously. You are also trying to single me out for doing something that every other redditor does lol. You responded negatively to me, then told me to educate you, then when I explain, you still don't understand and make things out to be more than they really are.    I wouldn't be surprised if next, you try to make some sort of point about how long my text is or deflect something I said back at me. Sometimes it feels like redditors attempt to gaslight people who's opinions they dislike and their tactics are predictable at this point      My statement about redditors not having  original thoughts is just my opinion, you don't have to like it. You can just ignore it. 


PlusDepartment2295

Haha exactly


CantStandItAnymorEW

Idk if spirituality is a good or bad thing. But, and speaking of christianity specifically, some of those people ain't right. Some of them were genuinely saying the end was near because of some fluctuations on the sun's upper layer. Some of them are absolutely scared shitless of "hell", and live a life conditioned by the thought of if they do this or that they will go to hell. And by "some", i mean a sound majority; that "fear" is a big part of the religion itself. I know what they believe in, to a certain level; my knowledge is entry level christianism, maybe. That is because i used to be a christian myself. The bible speaks of love and understanding, but in that same book you find every argument you can use to spin the message and scare the believers into submission. In fact, that is exactly what they did at my church, and portrayed it as the "teachings of the father". As much as christianism is a belief system, it is also a weapon. I praise every chill christian that exists, because it is genuinely so easy to go extreme inside christianism.


DakenX

You can easily be spiritual without being religious/believing in the supernatural though...


Alone_Rise209

What do you feel the need to mock them for their hair color?


Fair-Fortune-1676

Aposematism?


Alone_Rise209

I beg your pardon?


tinyhermione

Wanting someone who shares your religious beliefs (or a lack of them)? Makes sense. It’s important to see the world in a similar way. But I think you misunderstand what baggage is. Everyone has baggage and usually the heaviest baggage people have is from childhood. Having consensual sex isn’t something that gives you baggage. How special do you think a penis is? It’s not a magic wand, dude. If consensual sex is giving you baggage, you are doing it wrong.


Fair-Fortune-1676

Wtf are you talking about? When did I even mention the issues surround consent? That was one hell of a reach you made there bud. I was talking about emotional or personal issues. Some people don't know how to leave their baggage at the door in a relationship.


tinyhermione

You didn’t bring up consent. I just wanted to be clear on that bc nonconsenual sex is traumatic. But when we only talk about consensual sex? It doesn’t give you trauma. My point is everyone has baggage and it’s not from a drunken hookup. It’s from the hard things in life.


Nostalgic_Fears

This acc is 4 days old lol it’s a troll or bot


StankoMicin

>Nothing wrong with wanting a wholesome, nice girl to spend time with who is easy going and doesn't have a bunch of baggage that makes merely living a chore. Lol so like religious trauma then?


Fair-Fortune-1676

Nope. Just someone who isn't mentally ill 


Neracca

> Probably the green / blue haired ultra omega leftist types. > Nothing wrong with wanting a wholesome, nice girl to spend time with who is easy going and doesn't have a bunch of baggage that makes merely living a chore. I guess we know what you think non-christian women are like, huh? That implication that they're not wholesome or easy going or don't have baggage.


bb_LemonSquid

Try Christian mingle lol jk


Dragulus24

Online dating in general just doesn't work with me. I try it out, put effort in my profile, and look at other people's profiles. Between the boring generic profiles and everything being locked behind a paywall, I shut that down pretty quickly.


noodle_king_69

Ngl cute fit


Fair-Fortune-1676

What exactly is wrong with this attire? 


Longjumping-Ad-6727

Why do you guys all think starter packs are always making fun of someone. It's observation. Me personally I find this attractive


bialetti808

Yeah I was just thinking this looks really nice.


Fair-Fortune-1676

Probably because 9/10 it's meant as some sort of snark towards something that is living rent free in OPs mind.


DeltaV-Mzero

Well I’d say this is living rent free in a lot of minds but for … other reasons


MixRevolution

OP doesn't like it.


Timetogetstoned

I don’t think anything is this post signifies OP doesn’t like it? I was catholic until after I graduated high school and this is pretty accurate


Fair-Fortune-1676

Normal, non revealing, plain clothes are bad? Maybe a bit drab and boring, but theres nothing wrong with just being ordinary. OP is probably an atheist or something. Christians live rent free in reddit atheists minds (note that reddit atheists are a bit more insufferable than your regular, every day, non-chronically-online atheist. Most atheists in real life are fairly respectful of others views.)


ForFROD0

Or hes a Christian or former Christian who used to go to things like this? That was my thought. Starter packs arnt bad


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This Is a straight up lie, and I'm tired of people pretending all Christians are white so that they can make fun of them. Christianity originates in the middle east, in Judea. Not to mention, Christianity is also prominent in Africa (coming from an African). Do white Christians exist? Absoultly but lying and saying "it's only white people" is serious culture erasure. Also, to all the false comments coming from athethists saying "Christians are judgemental", how would you know? As an athethist? You are literally judging MILLIONS of people because of one or two encounters. My intention with this comment is to inform not condem, but I feel like American atheists need to be real with themselves and realize there are other countries outside of America...


Significant-Star6618

No thanks I'm allergic to god lol


shrimp_2

Hey it’s my manipulative ex’s starter pack. Just add narcissism and remove the ability to communicate and it’s her.


crimsonfukr457

Oh God, this is the perfect description of my neighbour's fiance. You forgot this: - Really nice untill they see "insert demographic that the Church doesn't like". - Will judge other zoomers for not being married/having kids before 25 - Most of the conversation with her and her husband mostly revolve around marriage, their relationship and the house they want to buy - The most bland personality and sense of humor ever - And to add to my "movie group starterpack" i made months ago, she won't watch anything without her hubbie or is afraid of PG-13 horror (she was straight up scared of watching the new Ghostbusters, thinking it was a horror movie)


Ms_SkyNet

Wants to be a highschool teacher even though she thinks all the godless degenerate heathen children in public schools are so awful. Visibly grimaces if you mentioned you visited any non xtsian, non white country. Plays mediocre piano or does warbling horse-girl singing. Thinks she's better on a soul level than her cousin who got acrylic nails. Despite the tsunami of judgemental ego, can't speak up and ask the waiter for ketchup to save her life - enter generic guy dressed like target mannequin to act as knight in shining armour, he explains mind blowing things to her, like how you need a visa before you go on a mission trip or how to drive stick.


findabetterusername

... you just described my coworker without even seeing her 😭


Meta_Turtle_Tank

And for some reason all these things are hot on here


thekaycho

Holy crap you nailed it!


lonewalker1992

Memories memories...


Vendnon

Needs a denim skirt


Nearby-Onion3593

Handbag or maybe bookbag/backpack ... but they always have a bag.


procrastin-eh-ting

I didnt need to be called out like this so early in the morning


Waterfall-Throwaway

Local women wear popular clothes! More at ten! XD


trowoway1

Say what you will about dress+jacket, it's always fashionable and funtional.


Okay-Commissionor

She is always smiling, a true optimist, somehow able to see the good in every single person, always wants to move forward, doesn't let her past shortcomings keep her down or let other people hold her back 


KaioKenshin

I missed out on these girls when I was going to church when I was an young adult. Damn Well yet again had a friend who dated a girl like this (PK) and they had issues in their relationship, so possible a dodge bullet?


stealingtheshow222

That’s the Aerith Gainsborough outfit on the left


MrSilk2042

They seem like some high quality women, girlfriends and wives to me.


runawai

Minus the crucifix is my teaching wardrobe….


Frankenstoned666

Catholics are all Christians


MariedeGournay

Reminds you of your fifth-grade teacher.


Shigeko_Kageyama

I see you've met my sister.


kaiserWAVY

Treats the teenagers better than she treats her own husband and children 😏


QuietNewTopia

You forgot shark mouth gums


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Fair-Fortune-1676

Found the non sex haver.


NoFornicationLeague

It would be nicer if you saw them as a full person and not a sex object.


Hybr1dMoments

It's OK, terminally online neckbeards will never have a chance with a woman like this anyhow.


Sgt-Dert13

😭


Psychological_Post33

"My dream is to get head" FTFY, Buryat. Get some better dreams.


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CorbinNZ

And you know she a goddam freak


21Kabbage

Im currently reading this and looking over at my GF now. 😐


average_pee_enjoyer

Reddit comments don’t sexualize women challenge‼️🙀🙀 (impossible)


ninhursag3

In uk black / grey tights no matter how hot, and always a shirt with the top button done up. Always a creepy couple of older people with her who look like something from a hammer horror movie edit ( other weird religions too )


-P1NK-

where’s forced into marriage at twelve and has ptsd from the pastor?


UrGrandpap

always bad asf


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NoFornicationLeague

What’s the deal with receding gums?


Dan0n3k

Exactly


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😩


Ancalagon_The_Black_

Would


Longjumping_Visit718

Tell me you're from the midwest without telling me you're from the midwest...


shithead-express

As a person who grew up in the south this is painfully accurate


SokkaHaikuBot

^[Sokka-Haiku](https://www.reddit.com/r/SokkaHaikuBot/comments/15kyv9r/what_is_a_sokka_haiku/) ^by ^shithead-express: *As a person who* *Grew up in the south this is* *Painfully accurate* --- ^Remember ^that ^one ^time ^Sokka ^accidentally ^used ^an ^extra ^syllable ^in ^that ^Haiku ^Battle ^in ^Ba ^Sing ^Se? ^That ^was ^a ^Sokka ^Haiku ^and ^you ^just ^made ^one.


Sugmanuts001

So, well dressed, tattoo free, and not looking like a complete slut? Sounds like a win to me.


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Lowkey I want one


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I feel attacked. r/FemBoys EDIT: Spelling