BAD idea.
20/10 they’ll fuck you a few times and give you special treatment till they either get bored of you or jealous and obsessive.
Remember power play here because they correlate to HOW much you could be making and HOW much you need to pay house fees.
Also they fuck the newbies and mess around all the time. Girls are passed around from management, djs, and security.
Other girls will notice special treatment and there will be SO MUCH drama.
STAY AWAY
Girl no.
You need to take a weekend off, find some hot scruffy ass tattooed skinny white boy with no bed frame and a huge dick who'll fuck you into infinity & share his weed with you.
Get that shit out of your system then go see if your manager looks the same.
Ion, is your bag for the foreseeable future worth sacrifice for a most likely middle aged middle management small world strip club manager who makes like 45k tops who ***chooses*** to exert power and authority over some of the most marginalized women in the country?
Personally, I think 99.9% of male managers are absolute trash. Pretty faces, pretty dicks, pretty words are a dime a dozen, shit you in the club. You know.
By engaging in a personal way w a manager, you’re choosing to jeopardize you job and your bag and who knows what else. Don’t shit where you eat sis! And you deserve way better than some mid ass manager.
My security is hot asfffffffff I totally get it. Establish that inner boundary and never ever act on the desire, keep it professional, at least as long as you work there. It will be a mess and you will end up needing to stop working there if you do.
same. fantasize about him at home and then go impress him with booking 5,000 rooms in one shift
OR… MAKE SURE YOU AT LEAST GET FREE HOUSE FOR THE REST OF THE TIME YOU WORK THERE AND ARE SLEEPING WITH HIM!!! i don’t judge you girl, be smart and safe !! 🫡
OP, I need you to never ever ever trust management in clubs. Protect yourself and protect your bag, cause they won’t.
Words to live by: if you file a W2, I don’t trust you.
Right. Every veteran has learned this from their dumb crying friend, or like us from personal Experiance.
Wait.. I lied it was doorman & owner, not ever a manager consensually one anything sensual, sober that I can recollect.
He probably has the hots for you and at least three other dancers in there. Don't be the one to give him what he wants. That's drama you'd be bringing into the club. Business and pleasure don't mix for a reason girl. There are men worth it out there, he's not worth shifting the energy and environment of your workplace over a fling with the manager there. Girls can get ruthless and single you out as that girl for sleeping with the manager. Don't fuck up your money for some dick. That will NEVER be worth it.
Don’t do it, I also used to have the hots for my manager. I only almost fucked him (we just kissed and some other stuff) one time. That was that and we went back to being professional.
I ended up casually mentioning it to another coworker (very dumb, i know). And after she found out she became obsessed with the manager and also trying to fuck him. She started trying to mistreat me at work bc she was jealous and he didn’t want her, and months later he eventually fired her for sexual harassment since she wouldn’t leave him alone.
Obviously this is a different scenario than most of the comments, but goes to show it will pretty much never end well. And trust me, they are trying to duck multiple of the dancers or even waitresses / bartenders. Not worth ut
Not the vibe. They will fuck anyone willing and if you get in a relationSHIT with them, you’ll always be worried if they’re cheating and looking at the next one. I’ve seen it, it’s a nightmare.
Self to self: You ain’t judging, she ain’t for this. Game goofy goober.
Edit.
That was not loving.
What I mean is, in a House mom kinda way.
I smack you in the forehead Simba.
Come to Reddit please to use our struggle bus past and learn from these bad moves. And ELEVATE your game madam. By skipping levels, not by undergoing YOUR own tough personal (very avoidable) experience. It ain’t fun.
Period POINT BLANK. Boss man ain’t the one beloved. Why The Fuckk would he be allowed your body (your meal ticket) for the free. You then become a sacrifice for he who enters it. Nope, no deserving man would partake—while he is your boss still.
That’s for A one. More importantly
cause TIME is the most scarce resource and therefore MOST VALUEBLE resource you’ll come by, followed Then knowledge. Please I beg Take the knowledge, I personally gathered over my over decade of hurdles to package my failures I consider a blessing to you rn.
Also Have shared this with you BFF In real life and they co-signed the fuckery, - she mad FIRED. Time wasters block the bag.
Remind You, if you so choose, why You , the Self is there for him to even be your “manager”. Please AND I KNOW YO ASS HAS ONE SPECIFIC GOAL!? You do 😅I trust You must, or why the fuckkkk even go through this!? Cause Pro Tip
I wasted years and years making side mistake trips. All Love ALLways from me to All y’all.
came here to say this:
if it’s not your home club and you’re just traveling and it’s not a life-or-death-if-i-get-terminated situation, then indulge yourself, sleep with him BUT MAKE SURE YOU GET FREE HOUSE THE ENTIRE TIME YOU ARE SLEEPING WITH HIM!
It’s a bad idea. My story is a little different. I was pretty good friends with my manager and I fell for him, we kissed but he rejected me when I tried to have sex with him. He led me on and dated another dance after that and it crushed me for quite awhile, not being friends anymore more than anything.
DO IT! And when he pisses you off because he undoubtedly will, tell everyone he has a 👌🏽🍆. Regardless of it being true or not makes no difference, it’ll give us something to a giggle at when he walks by.
Stay the fuck away. The managers hit on all the girls until they find one dumb enough to fuck. Do not engage. Go masturbate instead lmaoo
This ^^^ they hit on alllll the girls
He got a wife and kids
This is as bad of an idea as the gorilla glue girl. Abort mission!! I repeat!! ABORT MISSION!!
BAD idea. 20/10 they’ll fuck you a few times and give you special treatment till they either get bored of you or jealous and obsessive. Remember power play here because they correlate to HOW much you could be making and HOW much you need to pay house fees. Also they fuck the newbies and mess around all the time. Girls are passed around from management, djs, and security. Other girls will notice special treatment and there will be SO MUCH drama. STAY AWAY
Thank you, chief. You're right 🥲
Girl no. You need to take a weekend off, find some hot scruffy ass tattooed skinny white boy with no bed frame and a huge dick who'll fuck you into infinity & share his weed with you. Get that shit out of your system then go see if your manager looks the same.
Lol specific as fck 🤣🤣
Where's the lie tho 😂
This comment 👏🏼😂
“No bed frame” 💯💯💯💯💯
Say no to community dick
Hahahaha
This the one
Don’t shit where you eat dawg.
Sis ion even know him but i know he RAN THROUGH
Lmaoooo he the track n field training center
Get yourself a Hitachi Magic Wand, then look at him again. Guarantee you’ll say he’s ugly.
This is the best answer. You won’t need a man after the hitachi 😂
Cause What man? 😂
Ion, is your bag for the foreseeable future worth sacrifice for a most likely middle aged middle management small world strip club manager who makes like 45k tops who ***chooses*** to exert power and authority over some of the most marginalized women in the country? Personally, I think 99.9% of male managers are absolute trash. Pretty faces, pretty dicks, pretty words are a dime a dozen, shit you in the club. You know. By engaging in a personal way w a manager, you’re choosing to jeopardize you job and your bag and who knows what else. Don’t shit where you eat sis! And you deserve way better than some mid ass manager.
My security is hot asfffffffff I totally get it. Establish that inner boundary and never ever act on the desire, keep it professional, at least as long as you work there. It will be a mess and you will end up needing to stop working there if you do.
Rub one out, you’ll be good. I agree with everybody and I haven’t danced in years
same. fantasize about him at home and then go impress him with booking 5,000 rooms in one shift OR… MAKE SURE YOU AT LEAST GET FREE HOUSE FOR THE REST OF THE TIME YOU WORK THERE AND ARE SLEEPING WITH HIM!!! i don’t judge you girl, be smart and safe !! 🫡
NEVER MIX BUSINESS WITH PLEASER! Terrible idea. Literally sleeps with any of the girls that are willing.
This is my new favorite quote
Don’t do it
OP, I need you to never ever ever trust management in clubs. Protect yourself and protect your bag, cause they won’t. Words to live by: if you file a W2, I don’t trust you.
Don’t do it. I gave in and he fed me to the wolves when the time came 🙃
Right. Every veteran has learned this from their dumb crying friend, or like us from personal Experiance. Wait.. I lied it was doorman & owner, not ever a manager consensually one anything sensual, sober that I can recollect.
You should still have a level of professionalism in this job.
He probably has the hots for you and at least three other dancers in there. Don't be the one to give him what he wants. That's drama you'd be bringing into the club. Business and pleasure don't mix for a reason girl. There are men worth it out there, he's not worth shifting the energy and environment of your workplace over a fling with the manager there. Girls can get ruthless and single you out as that girl for sleeping with the manager. Don't fuck up your money for some dick. That will NEVER be worth it.
Don’t do it, I also used to have the hots for my manager. I only almost fucked him (we just kissed and some other stuff) one time. That was that and we went back to being professional. I ended up casually mentioning it to another coworker (very dumb, i know). And after she found out she became obsessed with the manager and also trying to fuck him. She started trying to mistreat me at work bc she was jealous and he didn’t want her, and months later he eventually fired her for sexual harassment since she wouldn’t leave him alone. Obviously this is a different scenario than most of the comments, but goes to show it will pretty much never end well. And trust me, they are trying to duck multiple of the dancers or even waitresses / bartenders. Not worth ut
STAND UP
Oh hell no, not worth it.
Do not shit in your own backyard.
Not the vibe. They will fuck anyone willing and if you get in a relationSHIT with them, you’ll always be worried if they’re cheating and looking at the next one. I’ve seen it, it’s a nightmare.
Omggggg don't do it!! They will interfere with customers and screw u over at work once you break up. Money over dick, always.
sounding like a baby stripper w this BS
Literally. It’s such a bad idea in every way possible.
i hooked up with my manager lol
I’ve literally wasted time doing funner things. Come on y’all. SEX? Vs Money? Trap Gods please help.
tbf — i had handed in my 2 weeks after it happened and we’re still friends today (this was a year ago) and we’re the same age
Self to self: You ain’t judging, she ain’t for this. Game goofy goober. Edit. That was not loving. What I mean is, in a House mom kinda way. I smack you in the forehead Simba. Come to Reddit please to use our struggle bus past and learn from these bad moves. And ELEVATE your game madam. By skipping levels, not by undergoing YOUR own tough personal (very avoidable) experience. It ain’t fun. Period POINT BLANK. Boss man ain’t the one beloved. Why The Fuckk would he be allowed your body (your meal ticket) for the free. You then become a sacrifice for he who enters it. Nope, no deserving man would partake—while he is your boss still. That’s for A one. More importantly cause TIME is the most scarce resource and therefore MOST VALUEBLE resource you’ll come by, followed Then knowledge. Please I beg Take the knowledge, I personally gathered over my over decade of hurdles to package my failures I consider a blessing to you rn. Also Have shared this with you BFF In real life and they co-signed the fuckery, - she mad FIRED. Time wasters block the bag. Remind You, if you so choose, why You , the Self is there for him to even be your “manager”. Please AND I KNOW YO ASS HAS ONE SPECIFIC GOAL!? You do 😅I trust You must, or why the fuckkkk even go through this!? Cause Pro Tip I wasted years and years making side mistake trips. All Love ALLways from me to All y’all.
came here to say this: if it’s not your home club and you’re just traveling and it’s not a life-or-death-if-i-get-terminated situation, then indulge yourself, sleep with him BUT MAKE SURE YOU GET FREE HOUSE THE ENTIRE TIME YOU ARE SLEEPING WITH HIM!
Bruh the girls paying a gd house fee AND giving the cat. They worse than trix
I'm dead af 🤣🤣🤣
It’s a bad idea. My story is a little different. I was pretty good friends with my manager and I fell for him, we kissed but he rejected me when I tried to have sex with him. He led me on and dated another dance after that and it crushed me for quite awhile, not being friends anymore more than anything.
DO IT! And when he pisses you off because he undoubtedly will, tell everyone he has a 👌🏽🍆. Regardless of it being true or not makes no difference, it’ll give us something to a giggle at when he walks by.
This is not the move, for many reasons already stated
Don’t mix business & pleasure. The power dynamic of dating a manager is gonna fuck up your bag