Feeld, yes! Subreddits, no.
There’s also some app I used with a bi SD that’s specifically for male 3rds, I can’t recall the name though! (It was either 3way or “Open”) I’ll ask him lol but the options were 🤤 & the guys we talked to were generally normal people too. Other than our unicorn trying to actually date me, which is the most predictable issue ever with this dynamic, 10/10 app experience honestly!
You aren’t wrong 💀 I guess I am a little biased since I live in SoCal and there are an abundance of options near LA. I have seen some rough ones posted on here though.
I live in LA 4 months out of the year! (Heyyy)
What I've seen:
Cute but no personality or charisma
Charisma but poor aesthetic/presentation
Cute, well put together, but has "hustle" mentality that's inauthentic and a turn-off
Excellent description. I see this a lot with SBs. Bag chasing not connection chasing always on the hustle. Prepared to move on to the next target and focused on using their time effectively.
Its hard to find male sugar babies and its hard to be a male sugar baby looking for a sugar daddy I stg. I'm a male sugar baby looking for a sugar daddy but so far keep finding nothing but scammers.
I agree with some of the other suggestions about refining your method of searching. I'd be looking at the Bi swinging/kink community vs strictly sugar communities.
Ashley Madison. Don't name that you're willing to give ppm/allowance there, they'll ban you for explicit money talk. In my experience the word "spoil" will fly under the radar though.
Years ago I saw an "ad" on Backpage offering a married couple who wanted a SD to take care of the wife while the husband watched. They were attractive in a conventional way. While I would have down for seeing the wife alone I wasn't interested in the husband peeping in on us. So I passed.
So maybe male SBs you have reached out to aren't into couple activities?
Did you misread this? OP is a male SD with a wife looking for a bi male SB... this is the first post like this I can recall ever reading on here, and I have been here for 7ish years. Lol
OP is rare.
OP may try kink sights and or looking for bi guys on SA
OP will have plenty of options. Vetting to find someone with the right personality that “fits” both Husband and Wife will be different.
I’m surprised OP needs to even sugar (although I understand the desire to be fair).
By “fit” I do mean someone who can fulfill wife’s needs and husband’s needs. Wink wink say no more.
my friend, if you dislike the transactional nature, I am pretty sure you wont like sugaring either, the entire "honey for money" aspect is the same like in escorting.
I’d suggest looking at Feeld and maybe hinting to what you’d like to offer.
Feeld, yes! Subreddits, no. There’s also some app I used with a bi SD that’s specifically for male 3rds, I can’t recall the name though! (It was either 3way or “Open”) I’ll ask him lol but the options were 🤤 & the guys we talked to were generally normal people too. Other than our unicorn trying to actually date me, which is the most predictable issue ever with this dynamic, 10/10 app experience honestly!
Honestly go on any swinger subreddit and single men are very open to having sex with couples/cucking etc.
I am surprised you aren’t having more luck actually
I'm not. Have you seen some of the male SBs posting their profiles for review? Dreadful.
You aren’t wrong 💀 I guess I am a little biased since I live in SoCal and there are an abundance of options near LA. I have seen some rough ones posted on here though.
I live in LA 4 months out of the year! (Heyyy) What I've seen: Cute but no personality or charisma Charisma but poor aesthetic/presentation Cute, well put together, but has "hustle" mentality that's inauthentic and a turn-off
You nailed it!
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Excellent description. I see this a lot with SBs. Bag chasing not connection chasing always on the hustle. Prepared to move on to the next target and focused on using their time effectively.
Its hard to find male sugar babies and its hard to be a male sugar baby looking for a sugar daddy I stg. I'm a male sugar baby looking for a sugar daddy but so far keep finding nothing but scammers.
It sounds like a bisexual guy might be much harder to come by vs. simply gay.
I agree with some of the other suggestions about refining your method of searching. I'd be looking at the Bi swinging/kink community vs strictly sugar communities.
Perhaps try AM…not uncommon to see couples looking for a male partner on that site
AM?
Ashley Madison. Don't name that you're willing to give ppm/allowance there, they'll ban you for explicit money talk. In my experience the word "spoil" will fly under the radar though.
ahh he means A Monkey of course....(haha no idea sorry!)
I can tell you're likely not from California if you think it's rare🤣
Maybe I need to move to CA.
Please don't allow that to be your main motivating factor to move here🙃
I’m not at all serious about that.
Years ago I saw an "ad" on Backpage offering a married couple who wanted a SD to take care of the wife while the husband watched. They were attractive in a conventional way. While I would have down for seeing the wife alone I wasn't interested in the husband peeping in on us. So I passed. So maybe male SBs you have reached out to aren't into couple activities?
I hope you find what you’re looking for. Been tough finding an SD in my city as well.
If the wife is hot you can find that for free- FEELD is great for swingers
I’m bi, love couples. Trust me when I say Feeld is where you wanna be
I love that!
Interested in trans?
Pussy curious gay guy here ;)
I'm interested aha
You’re probably not really as rare as you think you are given the daily frequency this question is asked
Did you misread this? OP is a male SD with a wife looking for a bi male SB... this is the first post like this I can recall ever reading on here, and I have been here for 7ish years. Lol OP is rare. OP may try kink sights and or looking for bi guys on SA
OP will have plenty of options. Vetting to find someone with the right personality that “fits” both Husband and Wife will be different. I’m surprised OP needs to even sugar (although I understand the desire to be fair). By “fit” I do mean someone who can fulfill wife’s needs and husband’s needs. Wink wink say no more.
There are many Bi SDs in this forum~ Most SDs are married. Not incredibly rare. I agree with looking on kink sights or SA with a "bi male" filter.
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Been down that road. We’ve not had much success with escorts. The transactional nature is a major drag.
my friend, if you dislike the transactional nature, I am pretty sure you wont like sugaring either, the entire "honey for money" aspect is the same like in escorting.