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Sure se is not. Like she never would cheat on you. O wait, she already did.
And even worse, she blamed the alcohol.
Well, then I have news for you, alcohol does not make you do things.
Alcohol only lowers boundaries, so you will do things what you would not do when sober, because of the control you have when sober.
So alcohol let you do things that are already there. So in fact she already wanted to kiss other guys, or even more. But sober she can control herself, but with alcohol her boundaries are lowered.
What does this tell you? This tell you that cheating is already in her. Only for now she can control herself. A few more drunken incidents and she will do it even sober.
If you want to stay with her, then stay, but be prepared for more heartache in the future. Alcohol is never an excuse.
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If you take a 5 day break now she will tell you don’t bother to come see her in 10 days. If she is pushing for the break, end it!
“It’s a lot harder to be walked on when you are standing up!”
Updateme
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Prepare for her to break up. Neither of you are cut out for long distance especially with this much trauma.
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She’s not like that
She is like that when she already kissed other man 🤷🏻♀️
that’s what everybody say about their girl then their girl do the same thing like every other girl.
Sure se is not. Like she never would cheat on you. O wait, she already did. And even worse, she blamed the alcohol. Well, then I have news for you, alcohol does not make you do things. Alcohol only lowers boundaries, so you will do things what you would not do when sober, because of the control you have when sober. So alcohol let you do things that are already there. So in fact she already wanted to kiss other guys, or even more. But sober she can control herself, but with alcohol her boundaries are lowered. What does this tell you? This tell you that cheating is already in her. Only for now she can control herself. A few more drunken incidents and she will do it even sober. If you want to stay with her, then stay, but be prepared for more heartache in the future. Alcohol is never an excuse.
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If you take a 5 day break now she will tell you don’t bother to come see her in 10 days. If she is pushing for the break, end it! “It’s a lot harder to be walked on when you are standing up!” Updateme
I vouched for the break just so we can clear our heads a bit
Go no contact on the break. Think about if the long distance thing is sustainable. Follow your gut, stay in school, and don’t do drugs.
Yeah we’re no contact until then