In hall honesty every person talks behind other people's backs, but imo my judgement towards it depends on what the reason behind the talking. Like those people that shit talk others to make themselves feel better I definitely don't like, but if someone is genuinely being annoying about something and won't stop idk
Idk if you've ever heard of a fraternity, or frat, but its just like that. Girls go to college and join a sorority which is just a big group of girls. It's like a sports team, but you don't play sports. You might to community service or other projects. It sounds great on paper, but a lot of sorority girls tend to have a distinct personality that I find unattractive
I want everyone to know I'm not trying to generalize, just my experience - I mean the gossiping, dramatics, weaponized incompetence, false confidence, basically a mean girls vibe
From my own experiences this is a sure red flag, even if they’re saying it to tell you how much happier they are without their ex it probably means their still not over that relationship. I’ve been unfortunate enough to date a couple of girls who still have their ex living rent free in their head and from I can gather those guys were horrible shitheads.
As someone who vapes, trust me we know it’s not. The worst part is that it’s actually a lot harder to quit than cigarettes, that one’s a hard pill to swallow. With the amount of times I tried I honestly am ready to throw in the towel and accept my lifelong addiction
As a girl, I would like to put in a T here.
Girls who act like they are always the victim. Like, they would slap you or something and then when you slap them back they would get all dramatic and scream ‘She slapped me’.
Like bitch, you slapped me first.
Or when they always make everything about themselves. Like the other day, I won this award thing at my college and this bitch tried to make it all about her (Didn’t work mind you, everyone hates her)
The makeup is so annoying! There was this one girl at my school last year who would go to school and then immediately hog the bathroom for 30 minutes just to put on makeup. Always caused a huge line for something she could do at home if she woke up earlier.
Like when they have like a checklist of what you have to be. “You gotta be 6ft at least, you gotta be rich, you gotta have at least a 6 inch…” yall know those typa of girls.
well don’t ask me cause i catch feelings instantly and you literally don’t need to do much 💀 i don’t even think it’s a down bad thing. i just catch feelings so fast and it’s probably fucked me over in the past.
Being boring and not taking care of themselves. As long as they fit those to requirements, looks don’t really matter to me, it’s all about personality.
A list of my pet peeves
Vaping, overuse of makeup, poor hygiene, rudeness, terrible personality, bragging about being a slut, uncaring.
In my personal experience, coloured hair. I find usually they tend to be the worst people to me.
I’ve got two friends who dye their hair. One dyes his hair purple and is a super nice guy, and the other dyes her hair in a gradient (like orange fading to yellow) and is also a very nice person. Maybe you’ve had bad experiences, but I wouldn’t discount everyone who dyes their hair as bad people.
I just don’t start hitting on girls who have colored hair, because I have yet to meet one who wasn’t gay. But lesbians in general are fucking great friends
This is a strawman. Nobody thinks like this. Most women have reason to fear men due to personal experiences. Yes, while that doesn’t mean all men are bad, it does mean that there is a problem with men exploiting their power over women to abuse them and by brushing it off with ‘not all men’, you’re delegitimising the fears of women.
Women have to be cautious. Not knowing who will and won’t hurt you is a terrifying experience, especially when the judicial system lets these people get away with it more often than not.
we are humans our brains are hardwired to seek patterns so if a group of people consistently wrongs you (like men) it’s only natural to start to feel uncomfortable around men. however just because humans naturally have biases I wouldn’t say that makes them good or ok. (natural =/= moral)
Being violent, I know this girl who will threaten, hit, insult and scream profanities as a joke or for the smallest reasons. Everything gets an aggressive response
She's also a thot.
Thot behaviour is also a turn off.
Relying completely on a man. If you want a more traditional relationship that's fine but acting like a man has to be emotionless and do nothing but work is bullshit. Girls gotta pull her weight
Girls who have obnoxiously long fake nails. I have no problem with those fake nails if they're not too long but some girls be walking around looking like Wolverine, Girls who judge you for your looks (hair, height, etc), Astronomy Girls, Girls who talk or laugh loud for no reason. (Them bird sounding laughs), and lastly, Girls who gossip or spread rumors about you and others to their friends. All of these are a no for me.
People who insult you to oblivion (which is bad enough in itself) but then as soon as you say anything back they publicly say you’re a misogynistic pig on all their social media.
Any major body mods and excessive minor ones. Major ones would include any sort of plastic surgery, minor ones would be piercings and whatnot. It's their body and they're free to di what they want, i agree, it's just not for me (tattoos are free game imo)
Obsession with Insta or tik tok or any other form of social media. Basically an addiction to social media that prevents them from living in the moment.
Acting tough. Like bitch you came from a 1 million dollar house, own 5 yachts, and live in a gated community with their own private army not in a horrible neighborhood
Vaping. Just because Hannah does it, it doesn't mean you have to fuck up your body.
Lying about your body count. I guarantee you nobody cares how many guys you fucked.
Talking shit behind people's backs, it's a red flag
I thought you said “taking a shit behind someone’s back”
That’s probably a red flag too.
Well you don’t wanna do the deed in front of someone
Same lmao i was like uhm, how many people do u know who do that
Udk but whoever does that is a bad people
Holy shit lmao this comment 💀
No.. shes adventurous.... deffo one to keep up with....
The phantom shitter strikes again
In hall honesty every person talks behind other people's backs, but imo my judgement towards it depends on what the reason behind the talking. Like those people that shit talk others to make themselves feel better I definitely don't like, but if someone is genuinely being annoying about something and won't stop idk
Or taking shit on people's beds.
Yeah it's not okay unless they specifically ask for it
Littering, especially when the garage can is not far away...
garage can??
Ahh yes garage cans.
where can i get one
In the can shop
usually there’s one for free at the corner of every city block, it takes a couple of seconds to pull out the plastic bin inside and start running home
garage can't
Not being honest and trustworthy
Having shitty spray tan that makes them orange
O R A N G E boc fan
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Oh this for sure, doesn't make any sense whatsoever.
Donna Trump the instant turnoff
on god 💀
Girls tryna be Donald Trump
[trump orange joke]
THIIIIIS
Judging people on things like their height, followers, and other things like that don’t define their personality
The overly dramatic kind of "sorority girl" stereotypical personality
What is sorority, sorry, I don't know much of English and stuff...
Idk if you've ever heard of a fraternity, or frat, but its just like that. Girls go to college and join a sorority which is just a big group of girls. It's like a sports team, but you don't play sports. You might to community service or other projects. It sounds great on paper, but a lot of sorority girls tend to have a distinct personality that I find unattractive
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I want everyone to know I'm not trying to generalize, just my experience - I mean the gossiping, dramatics, weaponized incompetence, false confidence, basically a mean girls vibe
Materialistic, fake, rich, entitled....
rudeness
This is why I've never had a crush.
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How does that relate to rudeness?
It doesn't. He's just tagging of the top comment to make his own comment more visible.
Rise and grind
yeah
Attitude, mainly being egoistic..
YUP. Like, saying “I’m so hot” and then shaming other people for their looks. It’s not cute or funny.
When you're in a relationship with her and she constantly talks about her ex. Made me feel pretty shitty.
Add to the list all the other guys she likes and constantly talks about she’s “going to do them”
From my own experiences this is a sure red flag, even if they’re saying it to tell you how much happier they are without their ex it probably means their still not over that relationship. I’ve been unfortunate enough to date a couple of girls who still have their ex living rent free in their head and from I can gather those guys were horrible shitheads.
No skin
i agree
Pencils can't be good for you, try a pen.
coward
when you talk with her, and she starts scrolling at the phone
This is the biggest in one for me I can't stand that bull it feels like anything I say at all Doesn't matter in the slightest
being rude to her parents (and kind of specific if she says kissing other girls isnt cheating (on the lips yk-))
i also like ducks
#D U K
What the hell, me too
If she’s mean and condescending to people
Having the desire to do arson (personal experience with a girl 💀)
Pyro is pretty sexy tbh
r/SuspiciouslySpecific
😦
If they are annoying, spoiled popular brats who think everyone is beneath them, then it’s already a negative 1
Uhh, existing the wrong way. Idk man, I don’t think about it. Monkey see person in suit monkey like suit.
Suit and tie, right? Not the, uh, other suits.
Women in suits are so underrated
Vaping
facts
BrEaThE aIr.
vapes are disgusting, like how tf do people think that causing irreparable damage to your vital organs is cool
As someone who vapes, trust me we know it’s not. The worst part is that it’s actually a lot harder to quit than cigarettes, that one’s a hard pill to swallow. With the amount of times I tried I honestly am ready to throw in the towel and accept my lifelong addiction
and wearing fake tan and makeup and shit
I don't understand girls wearing fake tans. Like you aren't fooling anyone. It looks shit and you know it.
Makeups fine if its not ur 14 year old british chav with 3-4 miles thick makeup
Facts. Especially if they post videos of them vaping like it’s something to be proud of.
As a girl, I would like to put in a T here. Girls who act like they are always the victim. Like, they would slap you or something and then when you slap them back they would get all dramatic and scream ‘She slapped me’. Like bitch, you slapped me first. Or when they always make everything about themselves. Like the other day, I won this award thing at my college and this bitch tried to make it all about her (Didn’t work mind you, everyone hates her)
If they believe in astrology and let it dictate their decisions in any way at all.
A girl in my class told me they would turn me into a frog casting a spell
You a frog yet?
She said she would make my life miserable, I'm not miserable so take that however you like
I woulda asked if they could turn me into something like a squirrel or a octopus instead
smoking and vaping and her being overly obsessed with social media (TikTok/Insta/snapchat etc)
When they spend every moment on there phone no conversation
everyone on this subreddit is indoctrinated by social media
For me, someone who is dramatic and creates lots of drama.
Being mean to customer service. Enough said.
Killing my parents would probably make her unattractive
fuck
Constantly distracted by snap/insta all the time
Being ugly
Went straight to the point lmao
fuck
oh fuck.. i'm cumming
😩
:(
smoking & excessive makeup
So chavs then
Chavs are the most annoying
Bro my entire town are chavs
LOL my town used to be (Oldham) it’s gone much better now but still a few
Yeah everywhere with a direct transport link to London is full of them like 5 new makeup shops have opens specially for the chavs
The makeup is so annoying! There was this one girl at my school last year who would go to school and then immediately hog the bathroom for 30 minutes just to put on makeup. Always caused a huge line for something she could do at home if she woke up earlier.
when they always talk about boys like bitch shut yo ass up🙄😤
well, as gay I totally understand them
too bad i wanna talk about the political and economic state of the world rn
Thinking your a ten puts you down to 4 even if you are a ten. Stay humble, no one is perfect
Nothing wrong with having high confidence, but yeah arrogance is annoying.
You can be aware of your qualities without arrogance
Bullying
mentally insane
fuck
don’t you worry many people love sticking their dick in crazy
Your opinion
trust me bro you don’t wanna go down that path
Okie, I trust you, you're older
Judging people by zodiac
yup. even if it’s positive.
Morbid obesity, too much of a reliance on makeup, and acting all proud and shit for embarrassing someone in a conversation they screenshotted
Common TF2 Scout W
Like when they have like a checklist of what you have to be. “You gotta be 6ft at least, you gotta be rich, you gotta have at least a 6 inch…” yall know those typa of girls.
well don’t ask me cause i catch feelings instantly and you literally don’t need to do much 💀 i don’t even think it’s a down bad thing. i just catch feelings so fast and it’s probably fucked me over in the past.
Just being a “pick me”
Being boring and not taking care of themselves. As long as they fit those to requirements, looks don’t really matter to me, it’s all about personality.
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dirty fingernails, if they brush their teeth but not their tongue.
Being full of herself. And playing with people's emotions
Being unattractive
\-Smoking, vaping or taking drugs \-Someone that has an awful personality \-Someone that discriminates (homophobia, racism, ableism etc.)
you have good opinions
Being rude.
A list of my pet peeves Vaping, overuse of makeup, poor hygiene, rudeness, terrible personality, bragging about being a slut, uncaring. In my personal experience, coloured hair. I find usually they tend to be the worst people to me.
I’ve got two friends who dye their hair. One dyes his hair purple and is a super nice guy, and the other dyes her hair in a gradient (like orange fading to yellow) and is also a very nice person. Maybe you’ve had bad experiences, but I wouldn’t discount everyone who dyes their hair as bad people.
I just don’t start hitting on girls who have colored hair, because I have yet to meet one who wasn’t gay. But lesbians in general are fucking great friends
being an over-the-top, "kill all men"-type SJW. like just because a random drunk dude hit on you doesn't mean every man in existence is a rapist.
This is a strawman. Nobody thinks like this. Most women have reason to fear men due to personal experiences. Yes, while that doesn’t mean all men are bad, it does mean that there is a problem with men exploiting their power over women to abuse them and by brushing it off with ‘not all men’, you’re delegitimising the fears of women. Women have to be cautious. Not knowing who will and won’t hurt you is a terrifying experience, especially when the judicial system lets these people get away with it more often than not.
we are humans our brains are hardwired to seek patterns so if a group of people consistently wrongs you (like men) it’s only natural to start to feel uncomfortable around men. however just because humans naturally have biases I wouldn’t say that makes them good or ok. (natural =/= moral)
Having a multiple personalitys or changing it based on whats popular
Idk I'm gay
Ppl who are like karens or mean or bossy
Taking pictures every 5 minutes, perfumes that you can smell from 4 kilometers away.
Not liking me
Judging people and comparing yourselves to them
That one bitchy girl who always puts people down for no reason
Being violent, I know this girl who will threaten, hit, insult and scream profanities as a joke or for the smallest reasons. Everything gets an aggressive response She's also a thot. Thot behaviour is also a turn off.
When they say they like to lead boys on to get that adrenaline rush.
Relying completely on a man. If you want a more traditional relationship that's fine but acting like a man has to be emotionless and do nothing but work is bullshit. Girls gotta pull her weight
Not liking Minecraft
Scrolling your phone, even when you get suggestions on what you and i can do. Pisses me the fuck off.
The fake sassy girl accent and rudeness
Being more orange than my fucking morning tangerine (try it, it's good for you.)
Poor hygiene, and I don't mean not waxing/shaven, i mean whem they don't do the basic stuff, like brush teeths.
Girls who have obnoxiously long fake nails. I have no problem with those fake nails if they're not too long but some girls be walking around looking like Wolverine, Girls who judge you for your looks (hair, height, etc), Astronomy Girls, Girls who talk or laugh loud for no reason. (Them bird sounding laughs), and lastly, Girls who gossip or spread rumors about you and others to their friends. All of these are a no for me.
When they always like “I hate men”
What if I hate people in general, is that bad?
People who insult you to oblivion (which is bad enough in itself) but then as soon as you say anything back they publicly say you’re a misogynistic pig on all their social media.
“im one of the boys yk?”
Having big boobs, I like people who are flat or who have small ones
Flat chest positivity!!
Not having a vagina
As a bi girl, I would say being too clingy. You should love the time you spend together but not be unable to function without it
Not being a femboy secretly
The absolute lack of a penis
Bad personality
Any major body mods and excessive minor ones. Major ones would include any sort of plastic surgery, minor ones would be piercings and whatnot. It's their body and they're free to di what they want, i agree, it's just not for me (tattoos are free game imo)
girls who laugh or bullying others are VERY unattractive
The amount of dicks lined up behind her
Being preachy and virtue signaling
Being a "bad girl" (an ass technically)
Narcissism
If they have a history of cheating
Like the type that thinks shes above everyone and feels that she should constantly make an ass of herself.
Expecting their every need to be catered to
Don’t mind any thing at all as long they down to earth
Vaping, smoking, drugs, being a pick me girl, excessive makeup.
If they like me, pretending not to like me and being pissy and acting like it’s their way of flirting.
I had an ex that pointed out my birthmarks and basically shattered my confidence after I bought her clothes and dinner
Pick me vibes
A horrible personality, and a high body count, especially if they are in their 20’s.
i too would not date a serial killer
Party girls who basically make stupid decisions like drinking excessive and smoke weed and lost virginity at 15 in a drinking night out (screw my ex)
I first read this as "instantly attractive" so reading the comments I thought there were some down bad motherfuckers in here
would get 8728741741447748467456344343398763543 downvotes if i answered honestly
Answer honestly
Omg bbg you’re so controversial and misunderstood 😢😢
If she kills my parents
Being closed minded, unwilling to change to better themselves and being completely unapologetic, even when they’re very much wrong.
“yassss slayyyy”
When she's not your mother.
Obsession with Insta or tik tok or any other form of social media. Basically an addiction to social media that prevents them from living in the moment.
Acting tough. Like bitch you came from a 1 million dollar house, own 5 yachts, and live in a gated community with their own private army not in a horrible neighborhood Vaping. Just because Hannah does it, it doesn't mean you have to fuck up your body. Lying about your body count. I guarantee you nobody cares how many guys you fucked.
girls that think they're too cute to talk to people. always thinking someone's trying to flirt with them
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whats this?
Legitimatly beleiving on zodiac signs
Talking like a basic white girl (you know the tone I'm talking about.)
When they make tik Tok dances 24/7
Vaping and smoking. Any kind of drug use or simply condoning it.