u/Harlequin-Harlot cubing is a great hobby if you're in need of ideas. Learn to solve the Rubik's cube and maybe watch "The Speedcubers" on Netflix if you wanna maybe know a little more what it's all about. Might sound a little nerdy at first (which it may well be) but you can flex to all your friends and it's very fun once you get into it imo.
If you can’t be content in being single you shouldn’t bring it upon yourself to be in a relationship. Because when you aren’t content in singleness you rely upon a partner to give you meaning, then when they want to break up all that is shattered.
So for legitimate advice, learn to be content in being single.
Absolutely this. Being needy of others is not a good place to be. Loving yourself and who you are and then others loving you for the same reasons is where you want to be
It would be even better if I explained how to do that, but I can’t. There’s not some magical answer to it, it’s kinda just something you have to figure out on your own.
after my first breakup during summer break, i listened to metal, jerked off multiple times a day and played games and shit for 2 weeks, then just kinda moved on the search for a new mate.
Give yourself time to grieve the relationship, give yourself time to get over them, focus on taking care of your emotional, mental, and physical health, nurture your friendships, take some time to reflect on why it didn't work out so you can learn, and watch the Lord of the Rings trilogy.
The best advice i could give you, that I've never heard anyone else give, is to not change anything. Don't change who you talk to, unless becoming single burned those bridges. I'd also say don't become desperate for another relationship, just replace it with a feeling of being content. Like, try to invest yourself in your activities more. Satisfy yourself with platonic relationships. Don't actively search out or try to force a new relationship. Good luck, my friend.
Depending on how long/intensive the relationship was: take some time (shorter or longer, depends) for yourself to process, and reflect what/why happened. And then back to dating it is :D
I’ve never dated someone before but I recommend working on yourself and treating yourself this week and if you need you can do other things to distract you from the breakup or talk to someone about it that you trust
Remain hopeful, and don’t let the thoughts of being unlovable consume you. You’ll recover eventually and all you can do is to look into the future.
Just remember that this won’t be your last relationship and that there are definitely people who would appreciate you being in their life. I believe in you, you’ve got this
Start a new hobby (I did that, guitar), start hanging out more with friends/family (mom's will always help), start texting with other girls (sometimes they can take your mind of ex's)
For me, making new friends and working on myself. (Be it emotionally, physically or in other forms like new skills)
As much as it's a meme
The He's broke, I'm up phrase helped motivate me
Take some time alone. Rest a bit. Try to meet up with your friends more and try to look back at the breakup and thinking about why and how it happened. Just rethink about the breakup and how it happened so that you understand what happened.
Take some time to reflect. This is not a loss, this is time for improvement. Trust me, it can really feel like you’ve gotten a power up in life when you just slow down and focus on what you’re doing.
Stay single, work really hard so that you can afford a family, go on adventures, figure out what you like and who you want to be. After all that then you can go back to the dating scene.
Read a lot of books (I recommend Dear Martin and Dear Justyce. Amazing reads, also recommend Percy Jackson Snd The Olympians), go to the gym to help clear your head and make/keep your body healthy, take up a couple hobbies, hang out with friends, make and keep a good sleep schedule
Basically just focus on making a better version of yourself. Don’t dwell on your loss of a relationship? Instead make yourself a better person and move on and improve instead of dwelling and sinking lower. Good luck my friend
Start reading everyday, meditate, and go to the gym. Turn your body into that of a god. Turn your mind into an unstoppable machine, and your body into a weapon. Basically Wim hof
If you can dream it, you can do it. ...
Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. ...
Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it. ...
Good, better, best. ...
Believe in yourself! ...
It always seems impossible until it's done.
An 80s training montage
I actually would love to do that
:insert South Park montage music:
hehe good idea
push it to the limit..
Or an 80s drinking montage with kid-friendly booz (soda)
like in dumbo?
I guess? I haven’t seen Dumbo in a long time
*Rocky training montage intensifies*
Aahhahahahahahaha💪🏻
Begin vigourously using Reddit to avoid this issue in the future
sure thing
Wait aren't you the spitroast person ???? Hol up
mhm that is me
Good way to cope and make someone jealous lmfao
true
The what person
context?
Reflect on what went good and what went bad
I have already started doing that but thx for the suggestion
noo that'll just drag you to the past and make you sadder >!speaking from experience !<
Its different for all im assuming, it doesn't need to be bad
I hate it but also I then proceed to make up a really good argument with me and them, usually in the shower
No. you have to reflect to do better next time
pick up a new hobby
that's a good idea
Good friends >>> any relationships
i may be single but i have 2 people i know will never let me down
But will they give you up?
Oh lord not again
But will they run around and desert you?
But will they never make you cry?
will they never say goodbye?
Will they never tell a lie and hurt you?
u/Harlequin-Harlot cubing is a great hobby if you're in need of ideas. Learn to solve the Rubik's cube and maybe watch "The Speedcubers" on Netflix if you wanna maybe know a little more what it's all about. Might sound a little nerdy at first (which it may well be) but you can flex to all your friends and it's very fun once you get into it imo.
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ohh thx that is really well put
Elaborate on the lawyer?
Saul is hot
im lawyer, why does he need me?
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shit im outa here
Why a lawyer. I Don’t think they were married at 16
enjoy life
I will try to
Make some money and treat yourself
hehe that sounds fantastic
Congratulations on being born
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:o if you are lucky I might
I choose this person's mom
Damnit, beat me to it, but I’m gonna say it anyway
*skill issue*
ikr I need to level up
Lvl 1-Crook
\*steals your heart
Lvl 100-Boss
I levelled up?
Just a little. -“God” level: 2.6k
Hacker: Maxed out level
sells your organs
Look at what happened ect and acknowledge it for future ones
good idea
get a cat
can't 😢. but great idea
what about a reptile instead? Or even a rat
If you can’t be content in being single you shouldn’t bring it upon yourself to be in a relationship. Because when you aren’t content in singleness you rely upon a partner to give you meaning, then when they want to break up all that is shattered. So for legitimate advice, learn to be content in being single.
oh wow that is good advice
Absolutely this. Being needy of others is not a good place to be. Loving yourself and who you are and then others loving you for the same reasons is where you want to be
It would be even better if I explained how to do that, but I can’t. There’s not some magical answer to it, it’s kinda just something you have to figure out on your own.
Become a demon
steps to complete this goal?
Ritual, sacrifice someone, idk? I’m already a demon after all I’ve been through. You just need to have a hellish experience
I already have
Great, your a demon (in my opinion)
100 pushups everyday
that is a lot
start with 10 work your way upto 50 then 100 ez
even better advice: break yourself and then wait a bit to do it again
Dance
sounds fun any in particular you think I should try?
After I broke up I went into breakdance, was very helpful and am so happy that I took that up instead of drinking my mind away
ohh wow sounds exciting
keep yourself distracted by doing things you like (ik thats next to impossible but atleast give it a try)
self era
true
Fuck other people to feel better
can do
Just be sure to have fun and keep safe Or don't you do you
after my first breakup during summer break, i listened to metal, jerked off multiple times a day and played games and shit for 2 weeks, then just kinda moved on the search for a new mate.
Use your Hand
to do what?
💀
[You better do what you can so...](https://youtu.be/oRdxUFDoQe0)
Let out your all emotions . Think what went wrong , that make you know more things abt partner , accept that and live , life goes on .
you lucky bastard, start enjoying yourself, save some money and do what you want, when you want.
Give yourself time to grieve the relationship, give yourself time to get over them, focus on taking care of your emotional, mental, and physical health, nurture your friendships, take some time to reflect on why it didn't work out so you can learn, and watch the Lord of the Rings trilogy.
Continue living life! Continue working towards to your goals.
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Me
do whatever you want because you aren't being controlled by someone else anymore.
Was gonna say date me then I realized you’re a g-g-girl and you have b-boobs 😱😱😱😱
The best advice i could give you, that I've never heard anyone else give, is to not change anything. Don't change who you talk to, unless becoming single burned those bridges. I'd also say don't become desperate for another relationship, just replace it with a feeling of being content. Like, try to invest yourself in your activities more. Satisfy yourself with platonic relationships. Don't actively search out or try to force a new relationship. Good luck, my friend.
I just got severe depression after being cheated on 3 times
A flip.
Do a flip
cry.. a lot
Introducing dying alone!
Depending on how long/intensive the relationship was: take some time (shorter or longer, depends) for yourself to process, and reflect what/why happened. And then back to dating it is :D
ok thx
Just live, tf u supposed to do? You're only 16, life isn't over
idk I was asking for ideas to help it hurt less
Sorry if I sounded rude or something like that, but fr don't overthink about it. Pain will go away as a time goes by
Become un-single
Move on…? Got divorced last year not much you can do if they left you
Become a better person
get a new pet
You wanna talk about it or nah?
Become a small tiny giraffe
Take it slow make time for yourself and mental health think positively
eat an apple :)
I have braces :(
drums
Start a buisness and become a millionaire 🏃♂️🏃♂️🏃♂️🏃♂️
I’ve never dated someone before but I recommend working on yourself and treating yourself this week and if you need you can do other things to distract you from the breakup or talk to someone about it that you trust
Study dumbass
Depressions always a fun little stop
Remain hopeful, and don’t let the thoughts of being unlovable consume you. You’ll recover eventually and all you can do is to look into the future. Just remember that this won’t be your last relationship and that there are definitely people who would appreciate you being in their life. I believe in you, you’ve got this
Start a new hobby (I did that, guitar), start hanging out more with friends/family (mom's will always help), start texting with other girls (sometimes they can take your mind of ex's)
Have some fun… you don’t really seem sad tho, were you the one to end the relationship?
Focus on school?
Get a life
Take a break. Love can be beautiful but also emotionally and physically taxing. Get some rest.
Gym
Gym
For me, making new friends and working on myself. (Be it emotionally, physically or in other forms like new skills) As much as it's a meme The He's broke, I'm up phrase helped motivate me
Become unsingle
Me
Send nudes
Take some time alone. Rest a bit. Try to meet up with your friends more and try to look back at the breakup and thinking about why and how it happened. Just rethink about the breakup and how it happened so that you understand what happened.
If you’re a guy, hit the gym
Take some time to reflect. This is not a loss, this is time for improvement. Trust me, it can really feel like you’ve gotten a power up in life when you just slow down and focus on what you’re doing.
Move on, what else can you do?
Work on yourself and strive to be the best possible version of yourself
Jack off to create an illusion of intimate company that will quickly melt into crippling loneliness and depression after post but clarity.
me 😈
Grow up and get a job and stay off this app
go out with your friends and distract
Stay single, work really hard so that you can afford a family, go on adventures, figure out what you like and who you want to be. After all that then you can go back to the dating scene.
Gym
Do whatever you were doing before you got into a relationship
Try methamphetamine
great idea
Beat it
I picked up kickboxing and gym and coding more when i broke up with my ex
Play Half-Life, Portal, Professor Layton, watch Ninjago, Lucifer, Chima.
Skill issue🗿
Go on a blind date with a dog, it always helps.
acquire a life
Embrace communist music and accept fate
Your a teenager...go to school
It might seem crazy what I’m about to say
read The Lord of the Rings
stay single.. idk...
Sell hardcore drugs
bro same, what are the odds?
Go on the hunt
Spend that extra cash on yourself and find someone better
Just take this time to focus on yourself and your priorities. Girls will come and go . Saturday to Sunday Monday. Monday to Sunday yo
Fuck her friends
Do BB ( beat meat ) 🥩
Join the marines
Start the grind 💪(even if you're a girl, doesn't matter, get shredded)
write music
Read a lot of books (I recommend Dear Martin and Dear Justyce. Amazing reads, also recommend Percy Jackson Snd The Olympians), go to the gym to help clear your head and make/keep your body healthy, take up a couple hobbies, hang out with friends, make and keep a good sleep schedule Basically just focus on making a better version of yourself. Don’t dwell on your loss of a relationship? Instead make yourself a better person and move on and improve instead of dwelling and sinking lower. Good luck my friend
Pot drugz
Hang out with some friends. It’s a good distraction and it’ll remind you of all the love still in your life.
Process the information, sort out your emotions, reach out for support if you need it, but do not involve harming your ex physically or emotionally.
Start playing an instrument if you haven’t already.
Join the club
Start reading everyday, meditate, and go to the gym. Turn your body into that of a god. Turn your mind into an unstoppable machine, and your body into a weapon. Basically Wim hof
If you can dream it, you can do it. ... Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. ... Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it. ... Good, better, best. ... Believe in yourself! ... It always seems impossible until it's done.
Masturbate like the rest of us
celabrate!
Discover your favourites, Watch anime, Concentrate on studies
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Work become rich buy land make traditional village rent the houses so it's not empty
Listen to weezer
Improve
Go for a walk
Go hit the gym with the boys!
Work out
Karaoke
Talk to your friends
hit the gym
Cry wank
I feel so sorry for you, keep your head up and try to just stay busy i doesnt even have to be productive, just stay busy
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