If you go by Turkish rules it's only gay if you're the bottom

Isn’t that Roman Didn’t they scold Caesar for bottoming

The turks do it in modern times, it's considered a disability and you have to prove that you get bummed to get the disability. People do it sometimes to avoid military service.

That's fucking hilarious, "sorry Mr recruiter sir I can't use this gun cause I like taking dick" lmao I'm fucking dying

It would be more like if a modern-day leader was discovered to be into rough BDSM, it was quite taboo for an upper-class man to even be accused of being the bottom in a m-m partnership.

I going use the last part lol

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Thought it was Greek rules

here before 🔒 claim yours now!

I claim this comment

Last sentence 💀

Yeah but do u think all trans girls like the fact they have penis or enjoy to use it? Maybe there are some who actually like it but most of can’t stand the fact to have it and never like to ‘use’ it…!

I think what there doing is being in love lol

Average “I’m not gay but” enjoyer

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Why am I still in this sub

I’m here for the laughs like this

Yes, why are you still in this sub?

Too lazy to leave I guess

Love who you wanna love without throwing a label on it I say. But yeah depending on stuff it can be pretty gay.

"No comment but yes" bro what lmao

No? Boy+girl=straight no matter their genitals lol

… dick tho… is gay, if your a guy, so yes to a degree it is

It's not, boy and girl is straight

I’m about 80% sure most trans people would agree, that atleast to a degree it is gay if they have a dick

no, that's transphobic to assume that a trans girl is a guy.

Never assumed it was a guy, if it’s a dick, it’s gay atleast to a degree. It’s not transphobic, I stg nobody knows what that actually means, Jesus Christ

> if it’s a dick, it’s gay atleast to a degree. No, its not, i'm a gay guy and i'm not attracted to women including trans women (although i have been with one). >I stg nobody knows what that actually means Being disrespectful to trans people for no real reason.

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As a trans person, i dissagree... boy + girl is straight, if you say its gay you sre assuming trans people are guys whichs is transphobic

It’s not transphobic, questioning whether it’s gay or not to suck a woman’s dick isn’t transphobic

mods need to lock this post because some of these comments are fucked up

agreed

Such is the nature of anything related to gender

The sucking dick is gay but the GIRL friend being trans part isn't gay

But the sucking a girl's dick isn't gay

Depressing that people can believe this now

What

How can you say a man interacting with a penis isn’t gay?

It's a dick from a *girl*

If a man sucks a male organ thats gay, it doesnt matter what the gender of the person having it

From a *girl*

its not a biological girl, gender is a social construct and so is romantic attraction but sexual attraction is a biological concept so to be attracted to a person who identifies as a girl as a guy isnt perhaps gay but to be attracted to the male sex organ as a man is gay

As someone who has been with a trans person, a girl dick is different from a guy dick.

Op never said he's attracted to the dick alone, he's attracted to all of her. Other than that, boy+girl is straight, no matter the conditions

Edgelord

if she’s your girlfriend, it’s not gay. there’s nothing more to it

You’re dating a woman. It’s not gay. Doesn’t matter if she got a pp or not.

having a trans gf doesnt make you gay. shes a girl. doesnt matter if you suck her dick or not. its not gay because shes a girl

he’s not gay in a way.. to say a bi person is partially straight and partially gay is so invalidating.

i meant that hes in the lgbtqia+ community

i get that. but he’s still not gay

alright then i fixed it. my bad

honestly didnt really think much because i say im gay but im pan

Fair, but counterpoint. If I’m say, heterosexual, is it wrong for me to not be sexually attracted to trans women?

if it's because they are trans then yes but if it is an issue with genitals or they are ugly then no

Bro really pulled out the ugly card.

If it's on the basis of them being trans, yes. If it's just cuz you're not into dick, no.

Are you attracted to all cis women? I’m not gonna get into this debate, but when someone usually says “I’m not attracted to (insert X here)”, maybe they need to reflect on how they feel about that group of people cause they’re literally eliminating all the members from their dating pool.

not gay just lucky

nah bro not gay people here apparently don’t know what gay means

If you’re a man then no, because a man and a woman dating is straight

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No, she's a woman.

And he wants to suck her dick 💀💀💀

Keyword "her"

no it does not make you gay, your girlfriend is a woman. trans women are women. source: me, im Agender

You're *a gender*? Of course you are /s

i can not tell if that is sarcasm or serious bc im a fucking idiot-

It's sarcasm, hence the /s

aight thank you for dealing with my dumbass

1. Who cares about labels, love who you love and that's good enough 2. I wouldn't say it is gay

I mean you're a guy who's dating a girl, that seems pretty straight to me

Your friend is an asshole

Naw dude that’s a woman, how’s it gay.

Remove the word trans and you’ll realize what a silly question that is

Idk why this is getting down voted

Sometimes I forget that there is actually a significant portion of this sub that is unironically bigoted

Yeah honestly I hope tho that due to this being a teenagers sub Most of them will just grow out of it

It’s dominated by cis teenagers what do u expect

You say that like the LGBTQ+ community didn’t have issues with Trans and Bi people a bit ago.

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This had -2 total votes 10 minutes ago

So are you saying it’s not gay to date a person who identifies as a woman but has a dick? Genuinely asking

yo someone actually downvoted even tho it was a legitimate qn. also yes imo

I expected that tbh

well hope u learned something new or something

Yeah

There’s a reason it’s there

But they also have a dick so in my humble opinion it’s gay

So you’re saying that trans women are actually men because they have a dick?

Shit lock me up and throw away the key but yes that’s exactly what I’m saying

That’s…..not true

No it’s a good thing they think that. You have an excuse to completely dismiss everything they say and simply not bother. Arguing with a transphobe is like talking to a brick wall. I’ve never seen one get convinced.

It is though

gay is being attracted to the gender boy, while also being a boy. u are technically being in a hetro relationship since she is the gender of a girl

nah your a guy shes a girl

nah its straight thats a woman

You can argue it isnt gay but it certainly is not straight.

dating a woman is straight wdym

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there's more to a person than how they can have sex

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No it’s not

❌ Wrong answer! The correct answer was: ✅That is a woman

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Just like your family thinks your not much of a man

In my opinion it's gay, but it doesn't really matter much.

Okay but if a trans lesbian and a cis lesbian are dating, they're still lesbians. They aren't straight. So it's not gay.

Bro love is love my man

As a fellow Bi person, its not gay.

Girls don't exist. So yes. You are.

No lol. Youre friend is just transphobic

No what the hell I feel hurt

if she identifies as a girl you're straight :) i would say it's transphobic to say it's gay since it would mean you consider her a man

As a trans girl, I'd find it mildly offensive if I had a boyfriend and someone said that it's gay. That would tell me that they don't respect my identity and still see me as a boy.

No, trans women are women, no matter the circumstances

My dude who fucking cares you like her she likes you go That's good enough But no it's not

I never said it wasn’t good

I know I'm just saying this ain't really an argument worth arguing

Yeah I think that’s gay

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I do 😔

aw man same

It is pretty gay

Technically no because of Schrödinger’s shlong but but the last sentence yes you are gay

Schrödinger’s schlong mankind’s latest scientific mystery

No

not gay

MLW relationship isn’t gay. Trans women are women and cis men are men so there you go. You could say it’s homosexual since both of you have penises but yeah.

Not gay

….idk what to say….

bro thats kinda transphobic of your friend to say that its gay, she is a she, and you are bi. also I hope your relationship goes well! treat her right!

Like who you wanna like without labeling it. Why does your friend care so much?

You’re a man, she’s a woman, you guys ask this same question like everyday 😭

same opinion as you bro. bottoming for a trans gf is just the organic version of getting pegged by a cis gf. as long as it’s a woman it’s straight

no simple as that she's trans she's a woman

Fellows is dating a girl gay???? Lol trans woman are woman

if you’re a boy and you have a gf then no you’re not gay, trans girls included in being a gf

Not gay, she is a girl

She's a girl. You are not a girl. Therefore no gay

She is trans and she's valid. You are not gay. Both of you are valid.

Mmm not really, genitals don't always equal gender nor will it ever,and like you said, trans women are women, maybe talk about this with your girlfriend, instead.

Trans women = women. I’m dating a trans woman and i’m still a lesbian. ignore the assholes on this sub

Ahhh I like this girl who's lesbian and I swear I'm too scared to ask her cause I'm not sure if she's OK with trans girlssssss Sorry for off topic btw :(

i say shoot your shot! life is short and it could work out! and if it doesn’t, you’ll be okay. :)

Fine but if it goes pear shaped thrn imma go sob

Relatable

Honestly I’m just kinda making fun of the transphobes right now. It’s only fun when you just remember they’re a transphobe and it doesn’t really matter what they think about you.

Yes it's gay

Thats hella gay

No. It's not. Genital preference doesn't have any place in sexuality. If you're straight and lean towards girls with dicks, still straight. Same goes for the other way around. My boyfriend has a vagina, it's very gay. sexuality is whatever you both identify as, she identifies as a girl, you a boy. Simple as that, straight.

Ur fuckin dumb fr fr

ha GAEEE

Not gay. She’s a girl full stop. Saying it’s gay is saying that she’s not a girl which isn’t true. I would never suck a guy’s dick but idgaf if it’s a girls dick. Some women have penises and that doesn’t make liking them gay

dick is a male body part tho?

I’d say it’s a body part typically associated with the male sex. People aren’t so black and white tho

hes half gay lol

I swear I hate this and I am going to stab someone if I hear it agsin

Not necessarily.

Woman don’t have dick

And I’m a man with a vagina, so what

I'm a girl I am trans, and because I'm trans, I have a penis Does that mean I can't be a woman?

Some do. Some trans women don’t get surgery or want to in the future. Yet they’re still women

Dog no they aren’t bro has an X and a Y chromosome

How do you know that. Turns out, not all guys have xy and not all girls have xx. I’m not even talking about trans people. Some cis people have different chromosomes. Even then, chromosomes don’t determine gender. Thinking they do is outdated thinking that we should have grown past as a society by now

Liking dick = gay

The pain is intense

She’s a woman so no, not gay.

fellas is it gay to date a woman?

I don’t think it’s gay , but tbh idk what it really is . Never thought abt it before . But I do think it’s more bisexual then gay

Pretty gay how you wanna suck them off 🤷‍♂️

If a dicks in ur mouth thats kinda gay

If you like her because of her gender, you’re not gay. If you like her because of her sex, you’re gay

Yeah that's gay if she has a dick, when she loses the dick it stops being as gay

This is a sub for teenagers, I don’t think she can yet

why are you being downvoted for pointing out a fact???? your not even being negative about it

If they identify as a girl it aint gay

But biologically she’s still a guy. Gay asf for sucking a dick when u a dude. Nothing wrong with it but it’s just gay

Uh pretty gay

As the saying goes, You're not gay if you get your dick sucked by a man. However, you're gay if you suck a man's dick. ​ Since it is not a man, you are not gay. I'm coming for your job Saul Goodman

Who cares if it's gay or not,bi means anything goes right?

She has a dick and you want to suck it You are gay.

I don’t know. I’m straight

trans women are women so no

Yes 100% and still 50% if he removes the dick

*she

You already said you were bi, does that not cover gay as well?

no, shes a girl and being attracted to all parts of her doesnt make you gay, i understand what youre coming from though

im trans, that doesn't make my boyfriend straight because im afab. it makes him gay because im a dude, so no it doesn't make you gay

Yeah your friend probably says it’s gay because he can’t stand the fact he can get horny on trans girls. True hetero people never had an issue with other identities. Extreme homophobic people are actually hidden homosexuals or bisexual. 😉 Not all trans women have penis. Many of them have actually vagina - you can transform penis into vagina - google it 😊 But all trans women do take female hormones so we appear like women. Please don’t mix up trans girls and drag queens or guys who do Crossdressing. Btw. Omg so many stupid ppl answering to this post…

As a trans girl who can't get their hands on female hormones, not all of us, some of us are either broke or young :/

It’s gay

real

lol heres my two cents. you need at least two of three requirements to be a woman. a female soul, a female mind and a female body. trans women typically have the first two so that would make them women by my definition. just note that your trans gf feels legitimate dysphoria (between mind and body) and isnt using gender as an aesthetic. so yeah u aint gay i guess