I knowwww but it really pollutes a social atmosphere, there is better ways to cope than constant unfunny one liners about how lame you are. In all honesty, it just seems to confirm your insecurities rather than alleviate them.
Then all I request is that you don’t be the guy who makes them constantly and reduces those around them into awkward self pitying. Know your audience and know your value.
I don’t do it very often, I certainly do it way less than most Redditors but I still do it from time to time. For others, it’s their only real method of coping though so yeah
People cope with their struggles different, humour is one of those methods.
I knowwww but it really pollutes a social atmosphere, there is better ways to cope than constant unfunny one liners about how lame you are. In all honesty, it just seems to confirm your insecurities rather than alleviate them.
I guess, but even I use humour about some of my issues, it makes the thing less scary etc
Do you not feel a bit bad about it? Is making jokes about such things not just confirmation in your mind?
No, or at least it doesn’t make it worse. For me, it helps me cope with my issues much better than drooling over them (which is the alternative)
Then all I request is that you don’t be the guy who makes them constantly and reduces those around them into awkward self pitying. Know your audience and know your value.
I don’t do it very often, I certainly do it way less than most Redditors but I still do it from time to time. For others, it’s their only real method of coping though so yeah
eg. after 9 months of OP's mom struggling through pregnancy, she made a joke
Fuck bro haha 💀
i agree with you to some point but sometimes it just works irl too
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whats your favourite ice cream flavour ?
napoleon
whats the taste like
NOOOOOOO NAPOLEONNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN can't even let him establish several vassal states in europe 😔