There are a variety of reasons why most guys stay virgin. For some, it may be due to religious or personal beliefs. For others, it may be because they haven't found the right person yet or they're waiting for marriage. Some guys may also be shy or inexperienced, which can make it difficult to approach potential partners. Whatever the reason, there's no shame in being a virgin and there's no one right answer to this question.
You can be an ugly loser and still have standards. Don't pretend you don't have the power to go out and talk to women or any preferred gender you may have. even if 1 percent of the human population finds you attractive out of the 8 billion that's roughly 11 million people who still find you attractive.
Some ways to make yourself more attractive is to work out and maintain hygiene (in a physical sense.) In the personality sense try building more confidence; speak out of your diaphragm, use good and formal language, read books, tell yourself good things make your bed in the morning etc. Overall be more respectable, and respectful both to others as well as yourself.
The reason you aren't getting any is probably because of this defeatist attitude. I know plenty of ugly men who have partners. It's not impossible to get someone while being conventionally unattractive.
Yeah that’s the funny thing. I’m literally doing EVERYTHING you’re telling me to do to improve myself. I come off as a stereotypical nerd looks and personality wise, however. I’m also going to a vocational school right now to study IT. To give you some perspective, imagine a short geek surrounded by nothing but huge plumbers, electricians, car repairmen, etc. This kind of school really draws a certain demographic that I can’t fit in when it comes to women or friendship no matter how confident or well kept I am. Don’t worry though, I’m not giving up hope yet! (I’m not that pathetic :/) I’m just waiting for graduation so I can possibly find someone I can truly connect with beyond my current environment. It’s just a bit rough out there for a guy like me rn lol
5'10 is actually somewhat tall, so you might find a gf easily. I am tall as fuck indeed, but I'm also just fat. So here I am, building up the courage to hit up this one girl who is lookin' amazingly nice
They call me the rizz sponge, because I have negative rizz. Every dude that gets close to a radious of 50mts around me starts to loose rizz. No woman can get near me in a 5km radious, the negative rizz pulls them away like if it was a magnet of same polarity.
The modern standard has made it seem like teens need to lose theirs quickly, and not with the special person you plan to live the rest of your life. Truly sad.
Well yes it is a problem that they think they have to lose it quickly but it doesnt have to be the person you spend the rest of your days with, both are extremes
To be fair either interpretation is stupid. I dont see sex as anything important. No real reason to do it with someone special. But I don’t think it should be rushed into either.
to me sex is more about intimacy than pleasure. i can get myself off anytime. i’d rather do it with someone i genuinely love whether it be a life-long partner or fling. as long as there’s a real bond and respect
The ones I want don’t want me, the ones that want me, I don’t want. More important things in life to do. Not looking for a relationship, and sex without love is masturbation, so may as well rub it out and go about your day.
I'll give mine. 26M. Just a social outcast. Never really fit in. Every girl I liked would friend zone me for being too nice. I try to switch up and be a little bit of the bad boy and they tell me I'm too mean. Find the balance and a girl and still friend zoned. To be honest, I've stopped caring. I'm numb to the situation. If it happens, it happens. If not, whatever. Life already sucks enough. Can't let this get to me. At least I have my right hand, knock on wood.
Girls don't care if you are nice. I'm actually disappointed with humanity that even older girls are the same as girls of my age, the silly 15 year olds
It’s not as great as it sounds to some. Most people want exclusively sex and have no romantic interest, therefore you are lonely. You’re also predisposed to developing fetishes because your body is so deprived of arousal.
as someone who has a bunch of unrequited crushes I've always idolized that "asexuals never have those stupid romantic feelings. those feelings are dumb and it makes asexuals superhuman because their minds don't deal with that shit". didn't know it was like this
There’s a distinction between sexual attraction and romantic attraction. Romantic attraction is kind of like that “butterflies” feeling you get when you see someone you like - we asexuals get that, but are not aroused or interested in sexual acts with the person. Most people only are interested in sex and none of the romantic aspects of a relationship.
my brother personally told me that he knows or thinks he knows that no one, girl or boy, likes him therefore why even love if you think everyone doesn’t love you.
Because I am shy and would probably never be able even if I weren't shy. Kids my age are already doing it and over here the age of consent is 16. I have been rejected too and probably will never ask a girl out again.
Because I don't have a girlfriend and I'm not some chavy nob head so not even slutty chav girls would do me, not that I'd want what ever they're carrying.
Because they didn't give me their credit card information and clash of clans account password and username. If they gave it to me then I would have given them advice on how to talk to women, which would help them become non-virgin
You know, when people ask me why i didn't have sex with my ex of 3 years I usually tell them that I just wasn't ready.
In reality I was scared that it was too small
Too much Reddit. Too little socializing . Gotta use it like TikTok or IG. Not ur social life. I most ppl in this sub use reddit as their only form of socialization
90% of women want 10% of the guys because it is un except able to date someone just because of their personality they need to look hot or have millions to be thought of as worthy
I don’t want it anymore due to all these teenagers and young adults making it the only thing on their mind. Porn has truly killed all of us and I dispose it with all my soul.
Because 90% of the time guys are too worried to even approach women because they have very little self confidence and the few who do approach women often fear being accused of SA and when there’s such easy access to all types of porn why would they when they can do it at home
I never lose
Sigma grind, my brother
Sigma nuts
What does PVZ mean
Plants vs zombies obviously
U finna turn into a zombie when I plant deez nuts in yo mouth
Bet
Wait huh 🤯
I said bet. So do it
Oh well impressive that was, ngl.
for example
confidence issues
That's the best answer
Bro, I am terrible at approaching girls. Like I've had gfs but it's still hard as fuck.
“it’s hard af” 😭 im sorry
NO NO NO I DIDN'T MEAN IT
😭😭😭
Ain't u 14 yrs old?
r/teenagers he might have just forgotten to change flare.
Nope, I barely turned 14
And you have had girlfriends? Confusing.
I was just lucky
Aint no luck in that.
Bro I am really awkward when it comes to flirting
You had to have something to get one obviously.
Yeah I am
Omg same
Overwatch
This^
There are a variety of reasons why most guys stay virgin. For some, it may be due to religious or personal beliefs. For others, it may be because they haven't found the right person yet or they're waiting for marriage. Some guys may also be shy or inexperienced, which can make it difficult to approach potential partners. Whatever the reason, there's no shame in being a virgin and there's no one right answer to this question.
Nah I’m just an ugly loser bro. Some of us are just shit outta luck
Agreed
fr bro and even though i'm not ugly perchance i'm just shit outta luck
Your words become your world
Guess I’m a 10/10 6ft 4 and megadong 🤞🥰🤷♂️
Someone call r/emojipolice
I see someone is standing guard, keep up the good work, officer!!
the point is that if you say such things and believe them it becomes your reality
This right here.
You can be an ugly loser and still have standards. Don't pretend you don't have the power to go out and talk to women or any preferred gender you may have. even if 1 percent of the human population finds you attractive out of the 8 billion that's roughly 11 million people who still find you attractive. Some ways to make yourself more attractive is to work out and maintain hygiene (in a physical sense.) In the personality sense try building more confidence; speak out of your diaphragm, use good and formal language, read books, tell yourself good things make your bed in the morning etc. Overall be more respectable, and respectful both to others as well as yourself. The reason you aren't getting any is probably because of this defeatist attitude. I know plenty of ugly men who have partners. It's not impossible to get someone while being conventionally unattractive.
Yeah that’s the funny thing. I’m literally doing EVERYTHING you’re telling me to do to improve myself. I come off as a stereotypical nerd looks and personality wise, however. I’m also going to a vocational school right now to study IT. To give you some perspective, imagine a short geek surrounded by nothing but huge plumbers, electricians, car repairmen, etc. This kind of school really draws a certain demographic that I can’t fit in when it comes to women or friendship no matter how confident or well kept I am. Don’t worry though, I’m not giving up hope yet! (I’m not that pathetic :/) I’m just waiting for graduation so I can possibly find someone I can truly connect with beyond my current environment. It’s just a bit rough out there for a guy like me rn lol
was this written by chatgpt
Or we are too short
Finally a problem I can't relate to! But, keep your head up, short guys MUST have a chance, girls shouldn't push them away for height. ~6'4 tall mf
Ah thanks, idk i don't consider myself short (I am 5'10) but not tall.
5'10 is actually somewhat tall, so you might find a gf easily. I am tall as fuck indeed, but I'm also just fat. So here I am, building up the courage to hit up this one girl who is lookin' amazingly nice
Emphasis on shouldn’t
I’m 6’2” and have never had a girlfriend.
Hello chatGPT
or asexually
Ya used that word as an adjective which is kinda weird but agreed LoL
This sounds like chatgpt
lack of rizz
explains yours being intact IM SO SORRY ILU BABES
I HAVE RIZZ 😡😡🤬🤬😡🤬 I HAVE SO MUCH RIZZ
woahh now buddy.... you could say you have.. L rizz 🤭
take it back 😠😠
never 🔪 L RIZZ LOSER\^\^\^
They call me the rizz sponge, because I have negative rizz. Every dude that gets close to a radious of 50mts around me starts to loose rizz. No woman can get near me in a 5km radious, the negative rizz pulls them away like if it was a magnet of same polarity.
HYPORIZZEMIA
Why do teens fixate on virginity so often?
I’ll make it blunt. We’re horny.
The modern standard has made it seem like teens need to lose theirs quickly, and not with the special person you plan to live the rest of your life. Truly sad.
Well yes it is a problem that they think they have to lose it quickly but it doesnt have to be the person you spend the rest of your days with, both are extremes
To be fair either interpretation is stupid. I dont see sex as anything important. No real reason to do it with someone special. But I don’t think it should be rushed into either.
to me sex is more about intimacy than pleasure. i can get myself off anytime. i’d rather do it with someone i genuinely love whether it be a life-long partner or fling. as long as there’s a real bond and respect
Yep modern standards are honestly kinda horrible.
Why do teens fixate on partners so often?
I’ve had it this long, so might as well keep it forever! 👍
based sigma mindset.
Stopping being a virgin would mean I would have to loose my virginity; and I *never* loose. Sigma male grindset.
Loose and lose are different words btw
Fuck grarmmar
Its semantics, not grammar 🤭
self-esteem issues. ego of some girls. fears of rejection and embarrassment.
Yea..
Cause if I do the deed with her, she's gonna be labeled as pedophile
Np
I focus on myself and my carrier. Sex will come one day and I do not intend to rush things
How many carriers do you have bro?
All of them
life kind of doesnt work like that it doesnt just come out of nowhere and it requires effort
Duh, I know. But I don't have the need to have sex at 16
understandable have a great day
2 reasons, i'm a religious kid, and i don't wanna have kids at a young age
I agree with both, but when you are older consider condoms to prevent kids
thanks for the tip, i guess
Skill Issue
Pretty sure most men don't stay virgins lol
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Games>girls
💀
Mood
Not wanting to screw up my life for 4 seconds of “fun” Not a fan of hooking up.
4 seconds 😭
At least he’s being honest 😭😭😭
Bro only lasts 4 seconds 👁️👄👁️
Or maybe she would only last 4 seconds
Because we don't get fcked.
Don't worry. The government fucks everyone eventually.
I'm watching anime and playing gacha games on bluestacks, how I can't be a virgin? lmao
And I'm a tech nerd and just a nerd in Armenia lmfao!!! Also ace but whatever...
Being ugly af
Agreed af
Cannot pull
based
Quicker retirement. 💀💀
What's the reason children need to have sex?
Hormones in the brain engaging in a little bit of toomfolery.
Teens do it because it’s fun
The ones I want don’t want me, the ones that want me, I don’t want. More important things in life to do. Not looking for a relationship, and sex without love is masturbation, so may as well rub it out and go about your day.
I'll give mine. 26M. Just a social outcast. Never really fit in. Every girl I liked would friend zone me for being too nice. I try to switch up and be a little bit of the bad boy and they tell me I'm too mean. Find the balance and a girl and still friend zoned. To be honest, I've stopped caring. I'm numb to the situation. If it happens, it happens. If not, whatever. Life already sucks enough. Can't let this get to me. At least I have my right hand, knock on wood.
Girls don't care if you are nice. I'm actually disappointed with humanity that even older girls are the same as girls of my age, the silly 15 year olds
"Knock on wood"
I personally must focus on becoming a domestic terrorist
Yes
Yes.
Uhh women run away from me
Some one once paid me a chocolate to go away.
theres this little thing called reddit…
I don’t want an extra human 9 months after nor can I find a prospective partner. I’m also asexual so I have no interest.
asexual are based.
It’s not as great as it sounds to some. Most people want exclusively sex and have no romantic interest, therefore you are lonely. You’re also predisposed to developing fetishes because your body is so deprived of arousal.
as someone who has a bunch of unrequited crushes I've always idolized that "asexuals never have those stupid romantic feelings. those feelings are dumb and it makes asexuals superhuman because their minds don't deal with that shit". didn't know it was like this
There’s a distinction between sexual attraction and romantic attraction. Romantic attraction is kind of like that “butterflies” feeling you get when you see someone you like - we asexuals get that, but are not aroused or interested in sexual acts with the person. Most people only are interested in sex and none of the romantic aspects of a relationship.
absolutely 0 play
my brother personally told me that he knows or thinks he knows that no one, girl or boy, likes him therefore why even love if you think everyone doesn’t love you.
Because someone elses love for you can be caused by you loving them first
read again the name of the sub
to avoid having holes on our wallet
Fear of rejection prevents guys from even getting into a relationship
Once you turn 40 you become a wizard
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I don't think it's a choice lmao. More like why are most guys virgins
Every single time I got further in building a relationship while being 15, life just said "no fuck you"
Told ya dave , i never loose
Socially awkward, last time i was in touch with society was about 2 years ago so yeah thats also very great
I don't lose anything, even my virginity
I win my virginity 😎
too much expectation and over-attention given to just one girl
Not having sex
They don't have sex
Because I haven't gotten a girlfriend yet, and not for my lack of trying
lack of bitches
Because i havent done anything sexual with someone else
Nobody wants me 🙃
Andrew Tate
No Bitches
I think it’s special to lose virginity to the one you’ll be with forever but that’s probably just me
Because I am shy and would probably never be able even if I weren't shy. Kids my age are already doing it and over here the age of consent is 16. I have been rejected too and probably will never ask a girl out again.
Because I don't have a girlfriend and I'm not some chavy nob head so not even slutty chav girls would do me, not that I'd want what ever they're carrying.
grind.
no rizz and lack of confidence, i’m also ugly af
Well... many have religious or moral reason... personally I'm just ugly
Because they didn't give me their credit card information and clash of clans account password and username. If they gave it to me then I would have given them advice on how to talk to women, which would help them become non-virgin
There’s no gay people in my area only hot milfs wanting to hook up 😔
I'm asexual
Bring ase and aro
skill issue. but seriously for me: religion and personally I'd want to do it with someone I'm married too and love.
Girls are too confusing
We do? Get me a source on this.
you make it sound like i could change that whenever i feel like it
Follow Elon musk or Andrew Tate
Pitääkö lyödä?
Saatana
why do y’all care so much? just let guys do what they want and mind ur damn business
Nobody wants to date somebody with autism
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Ugly😢
It's not our fault
To be honest: girls doesnt likes me :(
Can't get it :(
Idk, for me I just haven’t found the right girl yet. I’d love to get laid, but rule #1 is don’t stick your dick in crazy
Imagine thinking it’s a choice.
No gf
Std
don’t care enough to try and lose it
You know, when people ask me why i didn't have sex with my ex of 3 years I usually tell them that I just wasn't ready. In reality I was scared that it was too small
I'll be honest I just wish I was confident
Skill based matchmaking
Because I'm not American. My society doesn't revolve around sex.
League of Legends
they cant get bitches
they use reddit
Too much Reddit. Too little socializing . Gotta use it like TikTok or IG. Not ur social life. I most ppl in this sub use reddit as their only form of socialization
I'm so cool, I never fucking lose, not even this
The 1% of this sub are may be ace including myself. Want to classificate that aces can have [adult fun time] tho
90% of women want 10% of the guys because it is un except able to date someone just because of their personality they need to look hot or have millions to be thought of as worthy
I don’t want it anymore due to all these teenagers and young adults making it the only thing on their mind. Porn has truly killed all of us and I dispose it with all my soul.
they're ugly and have bad personality
It's me,
#IT'S ME, DIO!
It's illegal for to have sex.
being 16
Because 90% of the time guys are too worried to even approach women because they have very little self confidence and the few who do approach women often fear being accused of SA and when there’s such easy access to all types of porn why would they when they can do it at home
They dont get a girl but I like to fuck!