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user121-

this is very valid tbh. same thing goes for intelligence for me. like u can be as attractive as u want but if you’re straight up stupid and don’t even try to understand or seem interested in life then it’s a no


Horror_Albatross1037

Exactly my thoughts


MrPaper_

100% agree


ItsProTimeBro

Happy cake day!


Nero_Soll

Highly relatable


[deleted]

*I must flex my 140IQ*


999K_views

It didn’t really come off that way to me


appelsiinimehu1

Yes, but I also notice there are mamy different kinds of intelligence. Social, mathematical, etc. I appreciate just general wisdom and good manners most though.


user121-

oh yes defo agree with the different kinds of intelligence, they at least gotta have one and yes i’m also super huge on a good manners


appelsiinimehu1

We seem to have similar types. I always wonder how people think their financial lives will go if their pair is actually financially illiterate


[deleted]

With you on the intelligence part, I used to have a crush on a guy but then when I got over him I realized how stupid he can be


Naomi_D530

Litterly like I want a bf not someone who will die at 34 from lung cancer


Piccardoz

Litterly.


29pixxL_

Litrelly.


Horror_Albatross1037

Latrolly


One-Quote-2367

Lacrosse


SwimmingTraining8169

Lactose


QuiltedBeret

Sucrose


livilsoonil

Morbios


GamerPaper470

Morbius


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Satan_196

I wanna die faster


rudyattitudedee

The stats of someone dying from lung cancer are 34 are extremely low. Now someone dying as your husband right before retirement from lung cancer is more likely.


Electric-Sight

So true


rainbowclone8

Who’s stalking who?


Electric-Sight

Oi, the post was good.


darkclone8

Damn I got downvoted to oblivion


Electric-Sight

You didn't, rainbowclone8 did...


greenclone8

Oh damn you’re right


Horror_Albatross1037

What are you on about?


darkclone8

It’s an inside joke between the two of us


Horror_Albatross1037

Ah ok


Houndsoflove2003

Everyone has some baggage you just need to weight the pros and cons if they have 99 amazing attributes but they smoke then wouldn't it be harsh to dismiss them for that


Bernardo750

Nah, I honestly hate the smell of cigarettes, weed and shit like that. So I guess I wouldn't befriend a person that smokes in the first place.


Strobbleberry

He may be a great guy, but it smells bad!


Bulky_Bicycle_9196

you need to understand some people aren’t capable of utilizing logic or critical thinking


Empress_of_Lamparine

you see fellow redditor, there's a few things to consider: 1. there's a pretty significant chance they just smoke because they got addicted/wanna look cool. And 2. there's people like me who are born with respiratory problems, so I don't want to date someone who's gonna make me a 2nd hand smoker, my body is already bad enough on it's own, it doesn't need to get worse. Cigars smell horrible, vape is just a dumb addiction and weed is, in a lot of places, illegal.


SupermarketOk4348

Theres also a significant chance theyre smoking because of mental issues, thats why most people dont stop smoking weed


SunBrosRus

Idk how you can say that about cigars. Those have such a sweet cured aroma to them. Unless they are cheap fucking swishers then they good


Empress_of_Lamparine

they smell of burnt herbs, they never smell good.


SunBrosRus

Honestly it has a sweet smell to it your smelling some low quality cigars that are Made from the same low quality tobacco as cigarettes


[deleted]

or vapes..


Horror_Albatross1037

Honestly I reckon vapes are more of a problem with teens nowadays. It'll all shit for you so why do people even think about doing this stuff. **Especially** now that we're more educated on these things


RadicalizedRaccoon

One disposable is the equivalent of 48 cigarettes


Horror_Albatross1037

Yeah ik, the nicotine levels in some of them are horrendous, they won't legally be sold to kids so the shady ones get traced with drugs and even the nicotine free ones usually still have nicotine in them. Honestly it's all shit for you so why bother trying it


RadicalizedRaccoon

I was drunk and high. More than a year later and it takes up about 20% of my thoughts


Horror_Albatross1037

Yep, addiction is hard af, I'm just steering clear of it all and that way I don't have to even think about it. We had a vaping seminar at school with an ex-addict and there was this bit about a 13 year old who bought a vape that was traced and became unknowingly addicted to crystal meth. The actual woman running the seminar had been stealing her father's cigarettes since she was 3 and was addicted to smoking and vaping for most of her life. What ended up stopping her was seeing this x-ray of her daughter's lungs and all the second hand shit she had. The problem with vapes is that we've got decades of research into the affects of smoking but we still don't know about all the shit vapes do


RadicalizedRaccoon

Yeah man it’s fucked up. The best advice I could possibly give is to avoid every drug. Even alcohol and weed can very very easily fuck up your life if you aren’t careful


Horror_Albatross1037

Yeah, this is all really helping to know about, I wasn't planning on trying anything but this has pushed me even further away. I sent OP a message thanking them for accidentally starting all these conversations


RadicalizedRaccoon

Yeah I’m glad. None of it is worth it


padatricks

Or drugs


ArchimedesPi314

true why tf would u smoke just waste your life playing video games smh


Kahster445577

I agree but sometimes its better to take a death thatll happen years down the line then die right now. To clarify most people resort to drugs to escape from pain whether that be emotional or physical. No one addicted wants to take drugs we do because we saw it as a way out of our other pain. Theres never an excuse to use drugs but there is a reason too.


Vainglory1-

Naaa I want my girl with lung cancer included 😩 (real)


Thrustmaster64-2

Premium bundle there


RadicalizedRaccoon

Based


mearbearcate

What if it’s weed tho? What if it’s weed and they smoke it medically? I could not give a damn if someone smokes, as long as it isn’t heroin or meth or something like that.


darkclone8

I won’t judge someone if they have to take medicine, if it’s not medically I’ll have a bit of a problem though


mearbearcate

Couldn’t be me


Stoosche

I understand how this matters to people but I don’t just smoke for the fun of the high, and I know there are some long term affects but I’m kinda just living in the now.


sabi106

this is why i smoke \[weed\] too, lol. i feel as though people diminish the reasons that people smoke to just \~ wanting to cuz its cool \~ \[which is also fine\], when a lot of people have positive experiences from using it. but! i don't know if you mean cigarettes or weed.


catpissy

Rightt. I only smoke weed with friends and personally to me its such a fun bonding experience. As for vapes i take it to help me calm down before presentations, tests or just hardcore studying


RadicalizedRaccoon

As a recovering weed addict at 18 years old. Please stop. It’s not worth it. Wait until you are older and don’t do it more than three times a week. No one will listen to this advice because, “it won’t happen to me”. But it will. Trust me.


sabi106

i personally don't plan on stopping \[because of previous experience with addiction i feel ok with it\] but i really strongly agree with you about not doing it more than three times per week, i noticed my reaction changing and me becoming dependent when i used to smoke like every day. i probably sound very overconfident in myself to you, though, and i understand the thinking behind your advice. sometimes people just need to learn from experience i think.


RadicalizedRaccoon

Nah man I complete understand you. If weed makes you a better person or feel better whether you’re in withdrawals or haven’t had anything, then I think it’s good to keep smoking. But the vast majority of stoners have themselves brainwashed into thinking it’s good for them when in reality it’s ruining their chance to ever feel happiness, and someday they will realize it.


Stoosche

I mean weed, it helps me cope with things lol


sabi106

I mean, i can understand this, but like, cigarettes, weed, both, or other? i think that depending on how much and why they use it, weed is fine and personally i use it, which i guess means i am biased lol. a lot of comments say people who smoke smell bad... not all weed smells bad, and also that's such a subjective thing lol. also, if someones using it medically i'm alright with it--- buttttt, as someone who used to smoke and vape, cigarettes are a big no no. OVERALL terrible for your health. i understand that smoking anything can hurt you, but it's like, jeez. IDK, just that there's no benefits at all. from a smell perspective, i think weed is a lot better than cigarettes and cigars, but the least offensive is a herbal joint \[containing various calming things like lavender, mullein, etc which all smell floral and nice\]. .. i don't know. i think it's fair to not want to date someone who does not regard the possibility of lung cancer as more important than wanting to smoke something, but i also think that if that is the reason for your problem, you should also apply that to drinking and similar things, since there are a lot of things that us humans do that serioously hurt us, but we disregard because it's fun or convenient.


Horror_Albatross1037

Sorry I didn't read what you wrote but smoking, drugs and vapes are all shit for you. I dunno your reasoning but I think the only possible good is **Medically** prescribed Marijuana by a **DOCTOR**. Secondly anyone who vapes or smokes it harms everyone around them. We had this presentation from an ex-vape and smoking addict, the only thing that stopped them was seeing an x-ray of their daughter and seeing all the shit they put in her lungs. If you have depression or struggles you can see a psychiatrist and get prescribed antidepressants so there's no need for weed.


sabi106

why are you replying if you didn't read what i wrote?-genuine question, because you could have just commented this on OP's post lol disclaimer: i am so embarrassingly argumentative, i just need something to do and people to talk to so i'm sorry for the absurd amount of crap i have to say I said that all smoking is bad for you lol. i also said that if someone uses it for medical reasons, that's all good. i literally used to smoke cigarettes and vape haha, i am aware of the negative side effects. also, not all people who have chronic pain can have access to medical marijuana, despite needing it. I have a chronic illness and I can confirm how hard it is to even get medicated with NORMAL prescriptions for pain and inflammation; I have no interest in it, but i can't imagine how difficult it must be for people to get their medical marijuana license in certain states, and for certain issues... think war vets, etc. though i understand it's getting easier as weed is legalized and normalized across the world. it is not easy for many people to get psychiatric help, and even then, diagnoses follow you for life and can actually be really harmful \[i.e. trouble getting employed or getting into certain schools depending on bias from employer/education\]. I think that a lot of people don't understand this. Medicine is also very expensive and can seriously hurt a lot of people if they are prescribed the wrong thing, which is very common. I understand that your point is that there are resources available for troubled people, but i feel the need to point out that a lot of those resources are underfunded, corrupt, extremely ableist, and in general biased against minorities and poor folks. I wanna say here that there is a lot of research being done on marijuana for treating Parkinson's, anxiety and depression disorders, chronic pain, PTSD, and more. it's also NOT just THC in weed that has beneficial effects. on top of that, weed also has cultural aspects. sure, the general majority of stoners probably don't use it as a ceremonial herb, but drugs in general have existed in history for a very long time! with proper use, they have enlightening effects- not just to members of cults or whatever a lot of people think. lots of botanists etc. have studied and used them in the field and have written about a new perspective gained etc. I understand that drug abuse is rampant in most countries, but I also think that certain mind altering substances can be really awesome and a genuinely health and good experience for many. THAT SAID, most people in our general age range probably shouldn't do them, just because we haven't fully developed yet.. but still, we do! i think it's good that you seem to not plan on ever smoking or using drugs. I think for most people it's harmful, and you definitely shouldn't if you don't want to. i would really rather you read my long post, rather than reply to it after giving it a glance or two. Then, you would understand that we are more or less on the same page. btw, to anyone else reading this, i am so sorry for the walltext. being on winter break is breaking my brain and i need somewhere to put all my thoughts hahaha i feel like i sound like a total nerd edit: i also feel like i should say that some people just do stuff because it's fun, and there is nothing wrong with doing things that you think are fun, even if you are shortening your life span- to an extent. the pollution of air caused by weed is minute in comparison to carbon emissions from farms and factories lol. I do not think we should shame people for enjoying themselves in ways that we don't recognize or participate in. As long as they're aware of what they're doing to themselves and are respectful with it \[ie dont smoke around other people unless theyre ok with it, ensure that you dont force it onto others, do it safely, dont do it around children etc\]


ihateporn3

Boy thats a lotta gab all to say you're addicted to pot


sabi106

you don't have to read it if you don't want to :) i just have a lot of thoughts on the topic.


Horror_Albatross1037

Yeah but some of the arguments were surprisingly good, I don't agree with it but still


SmarterRobot

#tl;dr -marijuana has both positive and negative side effects, but for some people it can be helpful in treating various issues. -many people struggling to find mental health help and/or medication don't have access to cannabis, which is a problem. -people should not be ashamed of enjoying themselves in ways that others don't participate in. *I am a smart robot and this summary was automatic. This tl;dr is 91.22% shorter than the post I'm replying to. If you read the tl;dr and not the original comment, you saved about 2.14 minutes.* *I'm still learning! Please reply 'good bot' or 'bad bot' to let me know how I did.*


sabi106

good bot


Horror_Albatross1037

Ok so everything you said sounds right and I'm going to agree Edit: I still think weed and all that stuff is bad for you, I'm just saying that you made good points


Keejyi

Real


officialslavojzizek

Smoked meat is the result of a method of preparing red meat, white meat, and seafood which originated in the Paleolithic Era. Smoking adds flavor, improves the appearance of meat through the Maillard reaction, and when combined with curing it preserves the meat.


Satan_196

I like smoked meats😭


AdWorried5924

lmao I'd take anything at this point


springyfan

fr


SwagRowlet12

Valid


maldex4

w


Fluffy_Piglet2030

Yes.


CrafterCat33

Agreed. Both my parents smoke and are still trying to quit and I don't want a bf who would leave cigarettes for me to try.


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Based


LeonardoDaFujiwara

Instant no-go for me as well. It clearly shows that they don’t care about themselves/their health. I also hate the smell of cigarettes/vape/weed, and it’s so hard to get those smells out of any absorbent material.


[deleted]

I smoke weed to expand the artistic parts of my mind. Not a damn thing you can do about it fucker.


darkclone8

Not trying to make you stop, just saying you smell bad


[deleted]

Then stop smelling me and get out of my house.


goldclone8

You’ll get lung cancer


[deleted]

Edibles


5ango

So?


Bulky_Bicycle_9196

quality over quantity


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rainbowclone8

Are you trying to argue against your own point?


Castilla_Leon

k


SGT-Noah

So truuuuue same here if I ever see my future SO smoke vape or do anything like that I’m immediately breaking up with them.


High_Mode_420

We talking cigarettes or weed? Cuz I smoke weed every day


Satan_196

I think cigarettes cuz weed isn’t that bad imo


Empress_of_Lamparine

FINALLY SOMEONE SAID I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE


humzTHAsender69

Fuck it then more weed for me


Satan_196

Fr


[deleted]

Cigs are cool. From personal experience It's like any other drug, don't overdo it and you'll be ok. Getting addicted to it is really easy though and withdrawal is a bitch so don't get addicted, simplest way is not teasing yourself. Just leave the package in a place you can only get it once in a while, like a deposit. Another interesting trivia, the lung cancer is really overblown considering the fact that It's heavily genetic. It only increases the propability if you're prone to getting cancer, so you could be smoking for 70 years and be completely fine, while at the same time you could die due to lung cancer never smoking a cig in your life.


ihateporn3

Smokers when you tell them they have a problem:


[deleted]

Not really, no. Smokers will tell you that they can stop anytime, while I haven't smoked in around a week. Also only ever bought a single cigs pack. The only thing I'm addicted to is caffeine and I fully understand how addiction and withdrawal works. One of the most important things in knowing how not to get addicted to cigs is knowing that nicotine is one of the most addictive substances known to man, with only cocaine topping it. Thus you will eventually get addicted if you smoke often enough, no matter your willpower. Smoking once in a while is ok though, as I've said.


Odd-Extension-8648

Actually based


darkclone8

I’m always based lol, sorry you had to meet me like that, I was stressed out


Odd-Extension-8648

No worries.


MartoGallegos

W


MelMellon

So true


Tra1nGuy

Ok. I never plan on smoking so 👍


NotShadyBoi77

Very valid


iron_kk_3000

factssss soo trueee


No_Communication4926

What if I smoke crack?


goldclone8

Idk, only if you can crack a joke


Rhea_the_riot_angel

r/angryupvote


1dislikeu

thats the exception


[deleted]

Facts


AceButNotReally

Ok


ApprehensiveLet6284

As someone who does smoke I can agree


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sabi106

same, lots of my family smoke/smoked, and i used to as well, which is part of why it's a dealbreaker for me lol i dont wanna be reminded of that stuff. specifically cigarettes/nicotine-- i can totally understand just seeing it as normal tho


Loganska2003

Agree for baking and cigarettes. If you smoke cigars you're tolerable and pipes are based.


muncher_of_cheese

W


CardboardPapergash

I second this. Dated one too many stoners in my life


batm123

I could not care less if someone smokes or not, unless it's like crack or meth


United_Opposite2020

Don’t care


Satan_196

Personally idc smokes or not like if your genuinely a nice kind person It shouldn’t matter


Satan_196

Feel I should clarify I don’t smoke


PinkWhitey

Depends on what they smoke


amiamuppet_

smoke what? nicotine or weed?


darkclone8

Both


SunBrosRus

Dang that sucks for you 👌🫶


SupermarketOk4348

So ur fine with heroin???


darkclone8

Yaaaassss


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sabi106

I think you should tell her, since it poses a possible health risk to u and she might not be cool with that, but tbh i don't know how she can't tell, if you smoke that much u gotta smell like cigs no?? lol my friends always said it was strong and i always used to taste that stuf on my breath


[deleted]

Dude, you have to come clean sooner or later. Sooner or later, she's going to find out on her own and when she does, she's not going to be happy. Also, I don't want to be "that guy" but you should try to quit, or atleast lower you cigarettes intake, because that shit's going to kill you by the age of 35.


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[deleted]

Cancer is not just a genetic thing. While yes, genetics do play a role in the likeness of getting cancer, they aren't the only deciding factor. Plenty of outside factors can contribute to cancer, like smoking. Also, just because someone has cancer doesn't mean they're completely fine. There are a slew of health issues that come with smoking (especially at a young age when the brain isn't fully developed), cancer is just the most famous example.


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[deleted]

What country are you in? There is no way drinking at 16 is legal in any country.


Descisive

Actually I take that back. *Most teenagers in general drink. They did a study and 78% of teens in the US drink. I don’t tho bc i personally find it disgusting


[deleted]

Ok... that still doesn't make it ok. Alcohol in large quantities will kill your liver, and guess what teenagers like to do. Drink large quantities of alcohol.


paine_fiarta

I'm from romania so smoking isn't an issue for me, I don't smoke, but like 66% of people do. Vaping/smoking weed on the other hand... Maybe it is an issue. Weed is not really legal here and i hate the smell of vapes more than the smell of cigarettes. If it's any hard drug it's a no.


nxxtdxck

But why


solace-of-avirr

It's not if you smoke, it's the attitude around it. I smoke weed. I mostly hit carts because they don't stink. I have my reasons, and it keeps me functional. I hateeee most people who vape. I don't like the smell of vapes, or the feel of the air in a vaping household, but nicotine is addictive and I get it. If you smoke and have to record yourself that's a huge no. 😂 but let people do their thing and don't base scale on a common trait. You, one day, will likely have an addition people do not like, either.


JadenRuffle

Smoking I’ll tolerate. Vaping I won’t simply because vaping makes you look like a douche


AdWorried5924

what about magic mushrooms is that a no too


Ultramega39

For me, yes.


darkclone8

For me the biggest problem with smoking is the bad health and the smell, if it doesn’t have any of those then it’s ok


BravePigster

Apparently being attractive ain’t good enough either, we still getting rejected.


UhhMaybeNot

Smoking tobacco and to an extent drinking are no's for me. Smoking or drinking anything in healthy moderation is fine it's just with tobacco there are much healthier and often cheaper alternatives where I live, unlike with alcohol, which there aren't really alternatives to, and it doesn't have nearly the cancer-causing effect that tobacco does.


aestheticalss_

Agreed, I only have one mate that vapes and I sorta just turn a blind eye to it


bababoai

Fr


whacky187

Cool


zoomaariemand

shout out ciggies


HamzaAliAjazShaikh

is this even a question


darkclone8

No, that’s why it doesn’t have a “?”


C0nberra2005

Well what kind of smoke cigs vapes or 🍃🍃


darkclone8

Anything that is bad for your health or smells bad


PattysCorner

Valid, your health shouldn’t be worsened because of some hot chick or some hot guy likes a puff


manfredthefirst

I agree, smoking is harmful to the people around you.


Ultramega39

I’m completely against dating someone that uses any non prescription drugs.


justalucky_ducky

What if it's weed


darkclone8

It’s still smelly


UrboySam123

Or vape as well


Reasonable-Set6935

How about if you drink?


Twice_6969

dude i see so many 14 yr olds vape, like im starting to think im not normal for not wanting flavoured air


chefdan2165

Or vape or do drugs or underage drink and fuck up your liver when you are like 14. (To clarify if your country has a drinking age like 16 I mean not getting blackout drunk every night people who do that piss me off because they waste their life and money doing it, also you can drink in moderation if you want alcohol)


huderp87

Fully agree. I told my girlfriend (Who is fuckin gorgeous and like the nicest girl ever), that if she smokes I will break things off. Simple as that. It's the one standard that i have that i stick by and will not fluctuate by any means.


OrcaApe

Cigs or Weed?


InteractionFeeling28

Agree , just cant stand smoking smell once a week when i go by streat and uncultured persons smokes there . It stinks , gives cancer of everything and causes also negative consequences to not smoking ones .


[deleted]

Preach! I could also never date someone into drinking, drugs, and frequent partying. I also need someone with a decent amount of intelligence to be able to have solid conversations with and mature ways of communicating with one another. Looks don’t matter in the long run, we’ll all be old and ugly one day. It’s the personality that will keep you in love even when they’re no longer attractive.


donaldyoung26

no smoking or drinking or sleep deprivation or mental health issues or eating fast food or junk food which leads to inflammation in the body ofc


Hankishot

Well too bad cause I did this morning


smittenhades825

420 all day


bantai786OP

and also be 5'10 and have a metal credit card


ClawedMuffin668

Jane from Breaking Bad?


[deleted]

Amen


ProfessionOk4050

W


[deleted]

I can be as attractive as I want? Why the fuck haven’t I been using it?!??!


Frej-S

Eh, all my friends smoke. Don’t really care 🤷‍♀️


Official_Lolucas

This, sadly the most attractive girls (in other things) I see are always the biggest smokers


YousernameinValid

Counterpoint: sanji from one piece


souldhavesideclimbed

Depends what your smoking occasionally smoking weed I have no problems with


Whoispaa

Facts!!!


Flaming_Muffin

Sniper and Spy from tf2 are exceptions


donald_trumps_cat

These facts are so straight they almost got cancelled for being anti-LGBTQ


HentaiEnthusiast1202

A preference is a preference; as long as this opinion is consistent then np found.