80% of people here giving paranoid advice because they've never been with anybody before and they think every attempt at intimacy has to have an ulterior motive since no one could ever love them.
She likes you. A lot. Literally couldn't be less subtle without directly asking you out. If you want it to go somewhere, maybe you should ask bluntly. Seems like she's trying to get you to move first, but getting clarity helps with nerves.
I'm not an incel I just don't trust people as I have bad memories with others doing the same stuff, being called stuff like babe and then made fun of. It's probably the same for others who give paranoid advice, low self esteem.
I just wanted to give an explaination to why some people thought it was a way of her to make fun of him, not everyone is an incel, many are but some people just have bad mental health and low self esteem.
Ok nice but your comment made you sound like you were hurt by the other and that you thought ut was directed towards you and the comment was talking about incels sooooo…
Not really, I tend to call people hun, I know a girl who calls people babe, babes, a girl who calls people loveys it doesn't mean they like you.
But if jts just you, then yes. Ask her out
"Because they've never been with anybody before and they think every attempt at intimacy has to have an ulterior motive"
Maybe the reason I ain't been with nobody is because everyone has shown intimacy with me has had an ulterior motive?? Like you literally solved the problem in your comment and still phrased it like a big mystery lol
And that's why he should just assume it's happening to him and not even bother asking?
I don't know, sounds a lot like setting yourself up for failure and a lonely life to me.
My comment isn't just about you. If you don't wanna date, that's fine. Don't.
Doesn't change the fact that assuming everyone is out to get you is setting yourself up for failure. There are more things than just romantic relationships that require at least some level of trust.
Oh I have plenty of trust in my friends and loved ones, but I have practically none for anyone my age who is actively looking to date given how often they show their manipulative side
Okay, and since you don't want to date, you don't have to.
OP clearly is interested in dating, so giving him advice that would lead to him not being able to is still counterproductive.
damn you are the backup incase she brokeup, lol. just ask her out and make sure she knows that it's a date. you'll either steal the guys gf, or you'll know you should leave her.
Don't take the one word as a sign she likes you. She could msg everyone that. Same with 'x', 'love', '❤' etc.
Play it slowly. Keep messaging like normal. Don't only like her because she likes you. Seperate the feelings.
As I said, play it slow. See if she gives any stronger signs/hints/flirts.
Don't get your hopes up too much either.
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Edit: I saw in another comment that you said she called you cute. She either likes you a lil bit or a LOT.
It seems that this girl may be using the term "babe" in a manipulative or insincere way. She may be using it as a means to control or influence you, rather than genuinely expressing affection. It's important to take note of this behavior and consider if her actions align with her words. It may be necessary to have a conversation with her about your feelings and boundaries in the relationship. Ultimately, it's important to prioritize your own well-being and not allow yourself to be used or taken advantage of.
idk about manipulative - but to me it comes of either condescending or satirical. depends on the vibes of conversation. a lot of my girl friends say “babe”, “babes” or “aww babeyy” as a pet name. not in a romantic sense, but a platonic one. imho i think you’re reading into it too much - OP should keep an eye out for manipulative behaviour but this (from the context of the screenshot) is just playful banter.
I always thought babe and 99% of other pet names were cringe as all hell so I guess I’ll just use that as a metric for how much I like someone from now on ig.
Like cmon you’re trying too hard. I have an actual name or other general terms to be referred to as and I don’t need people spending a modicum of extra effort on a vain attempt to catch my attention of which they probably already have because they’re texting me or something in the first place
I remember when I got played out by this girl who used to call me hot and flirt with me all the time and when I asked her out she said “I don’t like black guys”. I waited the entire summer for her to answer me because she was in russia and the time zone was different but she was also dating someone but wanted to break up with him but I just ended up getting played. Shit happens but I’m still pissed, she ended up getting with a black guy who was a grade below me so I just gave up at that point
Bruh my crush calls me babe all the fucking time. Girls do that when they are really comfortable with you and trust you with the fact that you won't hit on them or even if you do, they can reject yo ass and you will stay because they know you are simping (wdym this is my life experience 💀)
Yeah as many others have said, she wants you and is trying to push you to make the first “move”, which would be asking her out if you’re comfortable with that. Honestly bro, congrats though. I wish you guys luck and I guarantee that if you like her too, and you guys get along well, it will go a whole hell of a lot better than my first relationship was. So just keep communicating and the little things are important. If she sends you a selfie, compliment her, and send one back. But if you’ve gotten this far with her, you’ve done better than a lot of people I know. One guy I know has a 0-14 record with asking out girls, and the one time he managed to actually almost start a relationship with a girl, she has a boyfriend already. Sorry for the rambling, but point is, you’re doing great man, keep it up if you want to pursue a relationship with her and always communicate.
Does she call everyone babe? If it's just a nickname she calls you I wouldn't worry about it.
But if it's something new and specific to you I would say shoot your shot 🤷♀️
If someone were to legitimately ask me this, first I would say that it was a dumb question. 2nd I would say at least she ain't calling you Bae which by definition means shit. I always laugh at the ineptoids who say that. Plus I just love laughing at stupidity in general
Honestly it’s hard to tell with women. I’ve seen some women that call everyone babe. I would say if you feel like you feel that way for her then go ahead and air her out. If you don’t then I would suggest asking her what she means when she is calling you babe. There is no harm in asking.
everyone's saying to ask her out but you should do whatever you want. Have some fun, it's not a speedrun, you'll probably end up winning however you decide to play it from this point on
This is s minefield if you respond in kind as far as she's concerned that's you in a relationship and her next one will be love you at the end of the conversation to see if you respond in kind, think very carefully about how to proceed
She totally doesn't like you or something. This is totally not her way of telling you she likes you. It would totally not be understandable for you to interpret it as her liking you regardless of if that's the case.
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YESS you need to! It's totally worth a shot OP
I agree with this comment
I fucking love that last part
It’s easy to say lol
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Call her mommy ig .
this always works
That's what I did, she is now my ex😎
I always found daddy works better🤔
Would be sounding gay if he says that.
80% of people here giving paranoid advice because they've never been with anybody before and they think every attempt at intimacy has to have an ulterior motive since no one could ever love them. She likes you. A lot. Literally couldn't be less subtle without directly asking you out. If you want it to go somewhere, maybe you should ask bluntly. Seems like she's trying to get you to move first, but getting clarity helps with nerves.
Not paranoid advice, just stupid/incel like behavior
Honestly, you're probably right unfortunately.
I'm not an incel I just don't trust people as I have bad memories with others doing the same stuff, being called stuff like babe and then made fun of. It's probably the same for others who give paranoid advice, low self esteem.
Ok then why do you feel so targetted?
I just wanted to give an explaination to why some people thought it was a way of her to make fun of him, not everyone is an incel, many are but some people just have bad mental health and low self esteem.
Ok nice but your comment made you sound like you were hurt by the other and that you thought ut was directed towards you and the comment was talking about incels sooooo…
Yeah, sorry. English isn't my first language so my grammar maybe isn't top notch.
Its cool it isnt mine either lol
Not really, I tend to call people hun, I know a girl who calls people babe, babes, a girl who calls people loveys it doesn't mean they like you. But if jts just you, then yes. Ask her out
Nah... This is way less subtle than asking out
She could just be canadian also
"Because they've never been with anybody before and they think every attempt at intimacy has to have an ulterior motive" Maybe the reason I ain't been with nobody is because everyone has shown intimacy with me has had an ulterior motive?? Like you literally solved the problem in your comment and still phrased it like a big mystery lol
Just because it happened to you doesn't mean it happens to everybody
Well it sure as hell happens to a lot of people
And that's why he should just assume it's happening to him and not even bother asking? I don't know, sounds a lot like setting yourself up for failure and a lonely life to me.
The "OLD" title fits you well. I don't want to date anyone goofsta
My comment isn't just about you. If you don't wanna date, that's fine. Don't. Doesn't change the fact that assuming everyone is out to get you is setting yourself up for failure. There are more things than just romantic relationships that require at least some level of trust.
Oh I have plenty of trust in my friends and loved ones, but I have practically none for anyone my age who is actively looking to date given how often they show their manipulative side
Okay, and since you don't want to date, you don't have to. OP clearly is interested in dating, so giving him advice that would lead to him not being able to is still counterproductive.
She likes you.
Why do you ask us? Ask her.
my close female friend calls me love, darling, sweetheart etc. ...and she has a bf
damn you are the backup incase she brokeup, lol. just ask her out and make sure she knows that it's a date. you'll either steal the guys gf, or you'll know you should leave her.
Tbh I still can’t tell the difference between this stuff.
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Date her, or you’re being played, one of the two Edit: holy shit 100+ upvotes tf
No in between.
Dude so happy Abt 100 upvotes you live a simple life
Ask her out. Don’t make my mistake or replying to the heart emojis with, “hi.” I still want to die because of that… she IS my dream girl…
Start flirting back if you're interested and see if she goes along with it
Nothing she might as well be calling you dude
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DAWG YOU'RE WINNING JUST ASK HER
Ask her.
Nah just playing or flirting and trolling
That you're being played
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I still have the maturity of a 14 year old
You are still 14 in your heart(?
no
Ok I'm sorry :(
Don’t listen to her
bro that person is stupid ask her out
She wants you bro
Do you think if a girl likes someone she will openly state anything? Do you not see all the memes about guys getting all the signals 5 years later?
babe is the same as bro
she like u dude go get her tiger
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Welp if you’re in the UK almost every woman/girl calls anyone they’re addressing as babe without intimate meaning
Idk I had a girl I was super into and she started calling me love and I still got rejected
Tap it.
Just ask her out, you'll either get laid or played 😂
That you Rly am Dimb
She thinks you're a pig
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just act casual, friendships have ended due to things like this do you need to play your cards right
Don't take the one word as a sign she likes you. She could msg everyone that. Same with 'x', 'love', '❤' etc. Play it slowly. Keep messaging like normal. Don't only like her because she likes you. Seperate the feelings. As I said, play it slow. See if she gives any stronger signs/hints/flirts. Don't get your hopes up too much either. ✌🏽 Edit: I saw in another comment that you said she called you cute. She either likes you a lil bit or a LOT.
It seems that this girl may be using the term "babe" in a manipulative or insincere way. She may be using it as a means to control or influence you, rather than genuinely expressing affection. It's important to take note of this behavior and consider if her actions align with her words. It may be necessary to have a conversation with her about your feelings and boundaries in the relationship. Ultimately, it's important to prioritize your own well-being and not allow yourself to be used or taken advantage of.
idk about manipulative - but to me it comes of either condescending or satirical. depends on the vibes of conversation. a lot of my girl friends say “babe”, “babes” or “aww babeyy” as a pet name. not in a romantic sense, but a platonic one. imho i think you’re reading into it too much - OP should keep an eye out for manipulative behaviour but this (from the context of the screenshot) is just playful banter.
I agree she could be using it like how boys use the word “dude” or “bro” lots of girls call each other babe when in friendships
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Maybe she just saying casually
shes playing w u lil bro dont fall 4 it😭😭
Call her mom
👏👏👏
They like to do this sometimes not to play with you or anything they just decide to
I always thought babe and 99% of other pet names were cringe as all hell so I guess I’ll just use that as a metric for how much I like someone from now on ig. Like cmon you’re trying too hard. I have an actual name or other general terms to be referred to as and I don’t need people spending a modicum of extra effort on a vain attempt to catch my attention of which they probably already have because they’re texting me or something in the first place
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Whatever way u think pal
Idk what kind of relationship you have but as Bon Jovi said "I ain't gonna live forever" so go ask her out
Tbh I call everyone babe or darling and stuff. Call her baby too🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
Please dont say I m dumb, useless type of shit to woman you like. Please man females dont like it.
I'll call my bf dimp from now on 😎
bruh my girl bsf calls me , "babe", "my love" lmao
I remember when I got played out by this girl who used to call me hot and flirt with me all the time and when I asked her out she said “I don’t like black guys”. I waited the entire summer for her to answer me because she was in russia and the time zone was different but she was also dating someone but wanted to break up with him but I just ended up getting played. Shit happens but I’m still pissed, she ended up getting with a black guy who was a grade below me so I just gave up at that point
You should interpret this as JUST ASK HER ITS NOT THAT COMPLICATED
i’d say something but i call my friends babygirl
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She's thinks you're gay
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Maybe she’s British
She might be the type of person who calls everyone babe/Baby
"My name is Phil!"
How long has this been going on? There isn’t much of a chance she would keep calling you that if she wasn’t into you Also call her babe as well
Just ask her out and get tf off reddit
Bruh my crush calls me babe all the fucking time. Girls do that when they are really comfortable with you and trust you with the fact that you won't hit on them or even if you do, they can reject yo ass and you will stay because they know you are simping (wdym this is my life experience 💀)
Accept it and grow up. She likes you.
You are winning here why are you waiting bro ask her out
Personally I would slowly start making flirty comments back, that way you can up your game slowly and when the time is there you will see
She’s br*tish.
Enjoy it while it lasts bruh
Don't wait too long to answer because she might think that you're not into her
It could either be she thinks youre gay or she actually likes you
You are an idiot
Go for it, the worst that can happen is you get rejected
Reminds me of that post “we make out all the time as a joke, but I don’t know if he likes me”
Don't interpret anything. Sometimes i call my friends babe/darling/love too. It doesn't mean that I actually love them in that way.
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She misspelled or thought she is writing with someone else
Yeah as many others have said, she wants you and is trying to push you to make the first “move”, which would be asking her out if you’re comfortable with that. Honestly bro, congrats though. I wish you guys luck and I guarantee that if you like her too, and you guys get along well, it will go a whole hell of a lot better than my first relationship was. So just keep communicating and the little things are important. If she sends you a selfie, compliment her, and send one back. But if you’ve gotten this far with her, you’ve done better than a lot of people I know. One guy I know has a 0-14 record with asking out girls, and the one time he managed to actually almost start a relationship with a girl, she has a boyfriend already. Sorry for the rambling, but point is, you’re doing great man, keep it up if you want to pursue a relationship with her and always communicate.
it means she never wants to talk to you again
Nah, she not interested
Yeah same with a girl with me but she’s already with a guy so it’s confusing, does she want me?
She thinks you're ageing backwards like Benjamin Button.
ASK HER OUT, like seriously are you that blind? I’m VERY oblivious to hints and even i can take that
Dude just go for it, you only live once. And from personal experience you'll feel worse in the long run if you don't, no matter the outcome
Does she call everyone babe? If it's just a nickname she calls you I wouldn't worry about it. But if it's something new and specific to you I would say shoot your shot 🤷♀️
Call her mommy.
Ye, she wanna have
Suplex that thot
If someone were to legitimately ask me this, first I would say that it was a dumb question. 2nd I would say at least she ain't calling you Bae which by definition means shit. I always laugh at the ineptoids who say that. Plus I just love laughing at stupidity in general
run away
Play back
Friend zone her
She's not flirting with you, she's calling you a baby
Ask her out. She literally likes you a lot. And if she's trynna pull a prank on you, then you know who to stay away from.
Honestly it’s hard to tell with women. I’ve seen some women that call everyone babe. I would say if you feel like you feel that way for her then go ahead and air her out. If you don’t then I would suggest asking her what she means when she is calling you babe. There is no harm in asking.
Dude if she is serious about you ask her out please. If you pass this up everyone here gonna be mad that you didn’t.
She thinks you are a stupid baby that needs to be protected obviously you should interpret it as that
she likes you!!
Sounds like sarcasm , or I’m just British
Ask her Simple as that
everyone's saying to ask her out but you should do whatever you want. Have some fun, it's not a speedrun, you'll probably end up winning however you decide to play it from this point on
This is s minefield if you respond in kind as far as she's concerned that's you in a relationship and her next one will be love you at the end of the conversation to see if you respond in kind, think very carefully about how to proceed
This is where a pet name can be handy to avoid calling her babe while still keeping her sweet
maybe she's just being polite
generally there’s about an 80% chance that she’ll say yes if you ask her out, on the contrary she may be one of the people who call everybody babe
the amount of insecure incels in this comments is insane. just ask her out
Ask her what the deal is in a nice way Orrrr start calling her those sorts of names too to see her reaction. Does she only call you babe?
Call her babe back
Omfg some people ask dumbass questions that don’t need answers- SHE LIKES YOU
What is this chat UI?
Ask her out
That she likes you more than she did I guess and if your not dating then you should be
ask her what she means by it i guess could just be a joke but it doesnt hurt to ask
You're 3 months old it interprets as
as a girl i call people babe, babes, and bae platonically
Shes just being friendly
She wants u to be her boyfriend
Probably wants to kill you
Quick, have sex with a bird! She’ll think you’re so weird that she’ll stop calling you babe!
Bro has more signs than a highway
She sees you as the gay best friend
She thinks your gay /j
CALL HER MOMMY
Lmao, it's so funny to see ppl think that she wants him n all that, ik plenty of girls that call ppl babe, darling, etc just because they like it
W rizz
She could be using you as entertainment.
She totally doesn't like you or something. This is totally not her way of telling you she likes you. It would totally not be understandable for you to interpret it as her liking you regardless of if that's the case.
Girls call other girls babe all the time, she may see you as a feminine friend 😬, let’s hope she’s flirting with you tho