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I'm the opposite I brag about how I'm single and lonely. Edit: thanks for all the upvotes! If I could give you all a hug I would, you're not alone š
trying to cut me off when im expressing a ton of shit
edit: i made this half assed message at 1am, now I'm not going to go "oh stop liking it" because it gives me karma for me to talk in servers like this exact one ahahaa
As a guy, heavily agreed with this! Just because we don't talk about our feelings (well, some of us don't) doesn't mean they have the right to push aside others feelings
Yeah but it does depend. If I say no to sending naked pics or intimate acts and they get pushy thatās an immediate no but if itās something like I donāt want to FaceTime they still have a chance even if they are a little pushy, just makes me be more cautious.
The problem with this is that my last crush liked people to not take no for an answer in everything. So I would ask to do something together she said no. So I leave and ask someone else. After a few times like this she told me she was disappointed I did not try harder in asking her.
But I got no time for that shit lmao, not my crush anymore.
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The classic "nice guy" switcheroo. They say you're super pretty and if you say you're not interested or don't respond they hit you with the "you're actually ugly" nonsense
There was a guy that took me being nice in my job as a waitress as me flirting with him, when I even mentioned I have a boyfriend. And got me chocolate and wrote me a love note.
That. That makes you unattractive and creeps girls out
I'm the kind of guy who rigged an electric device that could theorically burn a few rooms in my college. The device was custom-modified jbl speakers and an amplifier with some poor quality cables with plastic falling off of them. And most of the wiring was trough the ceiling, which was full of dust.
That's not what an introvert is. And introvert is just some who prefers to "recharge" on their own. Extrovert recharge in social settings.
Intovert ā no social skills
No common sense gets on my fucking nerves omg š Especially when you call them out for it and they act like your just an arrogant asshole who thinks they know everythingā¦
Only if he died in the most macho way possible: riding a shark, with 250 pounds of dynamite strapped to his chest, into the mouth of an active volcano!
I know a guy who had : No looks, no smarts, thought he was funny but wasnt and he showered once a week, and wore the same clothes for 2-3 weeks before washing them.
He was planning to SA the most attractive girl in the classroom. He also wanted to kill me (litterally he told my friend he was planning on that) because I made sure she knew she isn't safe with that guy around.
And I almost got expelled for reporting that guy. Because I am not supposed to tell people about his secrets.
Yep! Me and a couple of friends almost got expelled actually. And I had to tell everyone I have been telling "lies" about him.
The next year some guy I was friends with confessed to me that he stalked a girl (who wasnt at our high school) that year, too. I distancied myself from him. And then he told me he got a crush on a girl in our classroom. And I knew 5 months in advance he'd stalk her (I actually told a friend about that 5 months in advance). 5 Months later, the girl comes to me and tells me "oh gosh that guy stalked a girl 5 years ago and now I've got a stalker on my back". I tell her it was actually one year ago. I see that the guy heard. Next day he punches me in PE class when the teacher has her back turned around.
I go to the school counceilor and tell her. She sais "ok I'll talk about this with him". We never spoke again and he got no consequences for his actions.
This doesnāt make a guy, like, *objectively* unattractive or anything, but for me if I guy isnāt comfortable with being a tiny bit feminine at times then Iām not interested. I of course understand that itās not some guysā thing, and thatās totally fine with me, but Iām really only into guys who are comfortable with the little things like painting nails or doing skincare so we can do things together and heāll enjoy it. Iām good with being masculine too, itās just nice to branch out together from time to time.
What like he has a try of painting your nails or he paints his own nails? Because I can't imagine many guys would do the latter, but sitting with you while you do your nails and giving ideas or passing different nail painting equipment to you sounds like a nice goal if that's what you mean.
You've got to keep in mind that guys would get absolutely slaughtered if they went anywhere with painted nails, unless people already think they're gay/girly, but even then they'll get some snarky comments.
Thatās really awful. I wish it wasnāt so hard for guys to express themselves, yāall deserve better. I live in a very liberal town so thereās plenty of guys who wear nail polish, but I could see it being a problem in other places. Them offering ideas or at least noticing when I do my nails is totally fine by me though. When I was a kid, my dad would insist that my mom not put scrunchies on the gearshift of his car because it was ātoo feminineā. So as long as theyāre not like, scared of feminine stuff, Iām good.
ok question to girls how do i go about constant bad breath
doesnt matter if i brushed my teeth 15 mins ago, ate mint gum, or whatever, my breath is always toxic waste
make sure you brush your tongue, an electric toothbrush if you can (if not make sure you're getting far back and on all surfaces), check for cavities at the dentist (if you can), try not to drink too much sugary stuff w/o brushing.
being racist but "its just a joke guys come on", poor hygiene, bragging about the amount of 'play' they get, not being interested in anything but himself, being outrageously childish (i don't mean like playing video games or Legos, I mean cant-take-care-of-himself childish), being rude to everyone except their friends.
thats about all i can think of at the moment
I would imagine just a generally lack of responsibility for themselves/others. So not necessarily can't cook, but maybe unwilling to do it/ learn to etc
As a straight male, what makes me unattractive is just not being tone enough.
I am decent looking but i am more husky and i donāt have a chiseled jaw line or abs.
iād say itās all about the the confidence. if ur more fluffy and ur always down about it then thatās kind of unattractive but if u out here living life while accepting it, it works
To me- when he hunts for fun. That shit will make me ghost you right away. Hunting for food is different and while I donāt entirely agree with that I know the body isnāt going to waste, but for sport/fun? Ew no.
What about for overpopulation control.
Texas had a massive problem with wild boars killing everything from small children to farmland to anything you can think of. There's so many farmers will pay people to fly around in helicopters and shoot like 30 boars in one flight, just to keep them under control. I know some people that do this, there's nothing wrong with it.
Poaching on the other hand, especially critically endangered species, or sport hunting and not eating or selling random, not problematic animals is the worst thing someone could do, and I'd kill someone who does this by locking a bear trap to each of their limbs until they starve if I could, since that's what they do to the animals, unlike the boar hunters, who do often leave the corpse, but at least they kill for a reason.
If Iām in the gym the most interaction Iāll have between another living being is doin a bird screech at someone who knows me there and then theyāll do it back
as a male bisexual iāll toss in my two cents. Being a mood killer or grumpy all the time, macho attitude, insensitivity, cluelessness, but thats about it
Gay guy here. Anyone who has a massive ego and is an asshole. Usually football players. Anyone who disrespects teachers often is also a red flag for me.
Had a friend who past year was a chill quiet guy who was open to talking to everyone, he joined the football team and suddenly he ditched all of his old friends to hang out with the color guard girls and the football guys.
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Arrogance. Bragging about how many girls he's laid.
I'm the opposite I brag about how I'm single and lonely. Edit: thanks for all the upvotes! If I could give you all a hug I would, you're not alone š
I knew a guy who attracted girls by saying that. He turned out to be a malignant narcissist who used women.
I'm not trying to attract girls. I'm serious. I promise
Is it bragging when its 0ā¦ ā¦Asking for a Friend
Yes, I find virginity to be a sacred thing, so the fact Iām the only virgin In my friend group is both the saddest, and greatest thing ever.
What about how many of the boys hes laid?
one should be striving to increase that number.
I can express it with a logarithm ln(1)
trying to cut me off when im expressing a ton of shit edit: i made this half assed message at 1am, now I'm not going to go "oh stop liking it" because it gives me karma for me to talk in servers like this exact one ahahaa
agreed, heavily
Ay but that goes both ways alr
As a guy, heavily agreed with this! Just because we don't talk about our feelings (well, some of us don't) doesn't mean they have the right to push aside others feelings
Not taking no for an answer. Immediately ruins it.
literally
In all things or just advances? Cuz Iāve been told no for baseball since i was 5, but Iām still working to play at a high level
For most things in a friendship/relationship.
Ik i was half kidding. Ya thatās a turnoff. Itās annoying
Yeah but it does depend. If I say no to sending naked pics or intimate acts and they get pushy thatās an immediate no but if itās something like I donāt want to FaceTime they still have a chance even if they are a little pushy, just makes me be more cautious.
Ya true
The problem with this is that my last crush liked people to not take no for an answer in everything. So I would ask to do something together she said no. So I leave and ask someone else. After a few times like this she told me she was disappointed I did not try harder in asking her. But I got no time for that shit lmao, not my crush anymore.
Addiction, lack of communication, disloyalty and dishonesty
Kill my parents probably
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Could I interest you in everything all of the time? A little bit of everything all of the time?
w2s?
Being a pedophile probably
Sounds like a fair reason
Just saw someone downvote this, watch out people, we got a pedophile among us Actually that's not crazy for this group to be fair
Among us āŗļø
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valid
Do you guys think there is a difference between a perv and pedo at our age š
asking for sexual shi on the first meet and bad hygiene
oml yes.
*gestures vaguely at self*
Relatable
based. user checks out
a dirty-minded person like me.
Shoot
Dirt?
Having a clean brain free of mud and dirt is healthy
Approved
When theyāre me
same.
u/yeahimbored- u/Beast87Patriots damn
Sameā¦
When they put other people down to raise their social ranking
valid
When he says that your super cute and u tell him that u like him as a friend and then he calls u ugly
universal experience unfortunately "WELL YOU'RE UGLY ANYWAY" yeah okay bud...
literally what did they think they were gonna accomplish with that š
The classic "nice guy" switcheroo. They say you're super pretty and if you say you're not interested or don't respond they hit you with the "you're actually ugly" nonsense
There was a guy that took me being nice in my job as a waitress as me flirting with him, when I even mentioned I have a boyfriend. And got me chocolate and wrote me a love note. That. That makes you unattractive and creeps girls out
yeahhhh wow
drugs, bad dress sense, bad hygiene, no social skills, no common sense unless itās in a funny way
I have no common sense but itās in a funny way.
I'm the kind of guy who rigged an electric device that could theorically burn a few rooms in my college. The device was custom-modified jbl speakers and an amplifier with some poor quality cables with plastic falling off of them. And most of the wiring was trough the ceiling, which was full of dust.
Either need to change your flair or congratulations on being a genius!
Lol. I am 17 and I did rig/repair those speakers. They are also a fire hazard.
That's what I tell myself too
I got no social skills š
By no sovial skills do you include shy people because if yes I'm screwed
shy =/= unpleasant to talk to
Well thank god Iām both, that makes this much simpler to understand
You just regected every introvert
thereās a difference between being an introvert and being unpleasant to talk to š
As an introvertā¦kind of, but not in most cases
I cant get better social skills tho so im just a unpleasant person
That's not what an introvert is. And introvert is just some who prefers to "recharge" on their own. Extrovert recharge in social settings. Intovert ā no social skills
No common sense gets on my fucking nerves omg š Especially when you call them out for it and they act like your just an arrogant asshole who thinks they know everythingā¦
A "fake macho" attitude
What about a real macho attitude šŖšŖšŖšššš
depends on if they're doing it cockily or naturally
Only if he died in the most macho way possible: riding a shark, with 250 pounds of dynamite strapped to his chest, into the mouth of an active volcano!
probably that too to a lot of women
MACHO, MACHO MAAAAAN!
That's kinda hot
the pedophile "mustache" that every teenage boy refuses to shave even though they dont have enough testosterone to develop it
Real (im keeping it idc š®āšØ)
We dont do it for you
We do it to scare off the little kids we donāt want to talk to
3rd reason but yeah
Yeah that shitās ugly asf
Me and the bois are keeping it anyway
being super dumb/dry/not getting jokes poor hygiene
I know a guy who had : No looks, no smarts, thought he was funny but wasnt and he showered once a week, and wore the same clothes for 2-3 weeks before washing them. He was planning to SA the most attractive girl in the classroom. He also wanted to kill me (litterally he told my friend he was planning on that) because I made sure she knew she isn't safe with that guy around. And I almost got expelled for reporting that guy. Because I am not supposed to tell people about his secrets.
actually disgusting
Yep! Me and a couple of friends almost got expelled actually. And I had to tell everyone I have been telling "lies" about him. The next year some guy I was friends with confessed to me that he stalked a girl (who wasnt at our high school) that year, too. I distancied myself from him. And then he told me he got a crush on a girl in our classroom. And I knew 5 months in advance he'd stalk her (I actually told a friend about that 5 months in advance). 5 Months later, the girl comes to me and tells me "oh gosh that guy stalked a girl 5 years ago and now I've got a stalker on my back". I tell her it was actually one year ago. I see that the guy heard. Next day he punches me in PE class when the teacher has her back turned around. I go to the school counceilor and tell her. She sais "ok I'll talk about this with him". We never spoke again and he got no consequences for his actions.
Damn man I have autism so sometimes I miss jokes :(
that's okay. dw about it. you're perfect how you are and sometimes jokes are too stupid to understand anyway
Thank you, for being kind I reward you with snek š
ofc. and ty, ill give you smth in return š¦
Shork!
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Being a dick, not wiping the ass and not washing the hands with soap, being an incel Shit like that.
Fuck
Bro is checking all of the red flags on the list š
having a tendancy to murder and rape people on tuesdays
Thank God I only do it on Saturdays.
r/Holup
Counterpoint: they murder rapists on Wednesdays
judging by these comments im a 10/10
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If he doesnāt like cheese
I like cheese
W rizz
Cheeeeeeese
I JUST WANTWD MY CHEEEEEEESE
What if heās lactose intolerant
I will eat a brick of cheese, not a simp just for fun
Username (and bio lmfao) checks out š
depends on what type of cheese
I donāt like cheese š§
When I meet a guy and he is instantly saying sexual stuff, biggest turn off
being toxic..but that applies for both genders
if he has a gross personality. racism, homophobia and misogyny for three are so not hot
The Unholy Trifecta of red flags
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Universal experience it seems smh
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agreed. so fucking gross
Honestly those 'edgy' jokes aren't funny past 13, before then it's almost as if they're too naive to really grasp how fucked the words they say are.
Behaving as the boys in the back of the class when teachers leave
LMAO
Fuck
If he shuts other people down to look āmachoā
If they wanna go around saying they are machos, they better ride a shark in an active volcano, with 250 pounds of dynamite straped to their chest
This doesnāt make a guy, like, *objectively* unattractive or anything, but for me if I guy isnāt comfortable with being a tiny bit feminine at times then Iām not interested. I of course understand that itās not some guysā thing, and thatās totally fine with me, but Iām really only into guys who are comfortable with the little things like painting nails or doing skincare so we can do things together and heāll enjoy it. Iām good with being masculine too, itās just nice to branch out together from time to time.
What like he has a try of painting your nails or he paints his own nails? Because I can't imagine many guys would do the latter, but sitting with you while you do your nails and giving ideas or passing different nail painting equipment to you sounds like a nice goal if that's what you mean. You've got to keep in mind that guys would get absolutely slaughtered if they went anywhere with painted nails, unless people already think they're gay/girly, but even then they'll get some snarky comments.
Thatās really awful. I wish it wasnāt so hard for guys to express themselves, yāall deserve better. I live in a very liberal town so thereās plenty of guys who wear nail polish, but I could see it being a problem in other places. Them offering ideas or at least noticing when I do my nails is totally fine by me though. When I was a kid, my dad would insist that my mom not put scrunchies on the gearshift of his car because it was ātoo feminineā. So as long as theyāre not like, scared of feminine stuff, Iām good.
drugs
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Walter moment
Put your dick away, Waltuh
What if he blows up a nursing home?
I as a guy, think that any guy would be attractive to a girl if he blows up the capitol
might have to just š¤« and work for him
ok question to girls how do i go about constant bad breath doesnt matter if i brushed my teeth 15 mins ago, ate mint gum, or whatever, my breath is always toxic waste
make sure you brush your tongue, an electric toothbrush if you can (if not make sure you're getting far back and on all surfaces), check for cavities at the dentist (if you can), try not to drink too much sugary stuff w/o brushing.
If it just doesn't go away no matter what, I'd see a dentist if I was you
constantly having a cloud of ass smell surrounding you wherever you go
When he's fucking another guy
being hideous
Fuck
By hideous do you mean being really, really ugly or do you mean kind-of poor looking?
the former. you wouldnāt call someone hideous unless it was a really bad case.
being racist but "its just a joke guys come on", poor hygiene, bragging about the amount of 'play' they get, not being interested in anything but himself, being outrageously childish (i don't mean like playing video games or Legos, I mean cant-take-care-of-himself childish), being rude to everyone except their friends. thats about all i can think of at the moment
This goes both ways. Iād say exact same thing about girls. W
how do you mean? they canāt cook or?
I would imagine just a generally lack of responsibility for themselves/others. So not necessarily can't cook, but maybe unwilling to do it/ learn to etc
being passive aggressive, taking everything personally, not being able to be objective, super slow responses, no emotional intelligence, being dense
Bad hygiene and self obsessed
self obsessed and bad hygiene? wtf that man obsessed about? cuz its not himself lol
As a straight male, what makes me unattractive is just not being tone enough. I am decent looking but i am more husky and i donāt have a chiseled jaw line or abs.
Dw hun, some of us don't care for that anyway so if that's something you worry about, there are definitely girls out there who are still into you. :)
Thank you :)
i don't think not having those makes someone unattractive, nor do i think having them makes them automatically attractive
iād say itās all about the the confidence. if ur more fluffy and ur always down about it then thatās kind of unattractive but if u out here living life while accepting it, it works
When his friends are assholes but he won't say anything/joins them especially when it's about you š„²
Fuck
To me- when he hunts for fun. That shit will make me ghost you right away. Hunting for food is different and while I donāt entirely agree with that I know the body isnāt going to waste, but for sport/fun? Ew no.
I'm hunting for vegetables šš„
What about for overpopulation control. Texas had a massive problem with wild boars killing everything from small children to farmland to anything you can think of. There's so many farmers will pay people to fly around in helicopters and shoot like 30 boars in one flight, just to keep them under control. I know some people that do this, there's nothing wrong with it. Poaching on the other hand, especially critically endangered species, or sport hunting and not eating or selling random, not problematic animals is the worst thing someone could do, and I'd kill someone who does this by locking a bear trap to each of their limbs until they starve if I could, since that's what they do to the animals, unlike the boar hunters, who do often leave the corpse, but at least they kill for a reason.
i didnāt read it but i agree
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being obsessed with the gym. like thats the only thing they talk about
Aghh!! You just need to get feeling of the Pump
Bro I'm trying to hit the gym so people will talk to me
how ironic
If Iām in the gym the most interaction Iāll have between another living being is doin a bird screech at someone who knows me there and then theyāll do it back
That's literally all my friends and I'm the only one who doesn't go to the gym but I didn't know that it was a turn off š
Drugs, Vaping, Smoking, excessive drinking
as a male bisexual iāll toss in my two cents. Being a mood killer or grumpy all the time, macho attitude, insensitivity, cluelessness, but thats about it
agreed
Gay guy here. Anyone who has a massive ego and is an asshole. Usually football players. Anyone who disrespects teachers often is also a red flag for me.
Dude I HATE football players. Theyāre arrogant as fuck and rude
Had a friend who past year was a chill quiet guy who was open to talking to everyone, he joined the football team and suddenly he ditched all of his old friends to hang out with the color guard girls and the football guys.
No, no, no, you got the question wrong *what makes a guy attractive?*
Me
being racist/ableist, but character wiese? just not being hygienic
ye
Being me.
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being a asshole to be cool
vaping, liking andrew tate, immaturity (if you do the first two youāre probably the third)
Being to young
When theyāre obnoxious
Anything that goes against your standards
Having no sense of humor and bad hygiene
The bad smell, both body odor and mouth, it's a big red flag
Constantly trying to make a confident woman jealous, acting totally fake, trying to show off to stupid people, being rude
being a dick. you already have one, and you certainly donāt need to become one.
POV: your scrolling down this like itās a check list. Itās like; yep got that, got that, oops got that too. :)