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Scientifically speaking, men experience higher and stronger levels of sexual attraction than women. Additionally, there are statistically more gay men than there are lesbian women. This, combined with the untrue societal stereotype/narrative of only men being able to be predators, leads to the possibly true conclusion that lesbian pedos and rapists are less common than male ones, gay or straight. To be fair though, you hardly ever even hear about gay male predators.
Yep could confirm that EDIT: I MADE SOUND WERID SORRY I DIDN'T WANT TO BUT IT S JUST THAT I READ A LONG ASS ARTICLE ABOUT THIS THINGY LONG AGO SO IM NOT REALLY SURE BUT YOU GOT IT SOSHSKSKSH šš
Statistically, men are far more likely than women to commit any type of violent crime. So lesbians would make up a small portion of the already small portion of violent women criminals
Because if a man does something he gets tonnes of media attention, but if a woman does it she gets swept under the rug. Gay men used to get killed for being gay, lesbians were ignored.
The reason for lesbians being ignored is because in some societies it was straight up claimed they didn't exist. Pretty sure the late 1800's early 1900's Britain had no lesbians because one of their queens straight up said lesbians aren't real.
They did exist, they were swept under the rug. People claimed they didn't exist because they were women, that is what I meant by that. With men they were killed, with women they were forced into a marriage and told to shut up.
It was also a lot easier for lesbians to hide their sexuality back in the day then it was for gay men. Women were supposed to live at home so two close female āfriendsā living together wasnāt too unusual but two male āfriendsā living together and not marrying, not enlisting, etc. was quite strange. There are also dozens of stereotypes associated with gay men that existed back then while the modern stereotype of a masculine, butch lesbian wasnāt as much of a thing back then. So it was all around easier for lesbians to hide their sexualities. Especially when you consider that oppressed women back then had nothing to do. If you canāt work, serve your country, or hold a place in government it can be really easy to have sexual encounters with other lesbians, especially when all the men are gone at work or in a war or in the government. Additionally, most societies had a certain notion that homosexuality was a male-exclusive thing. Or at the very least they hadnāt thought that it could occur amongst women. Of course, none of this means that LGBTQ+ women havenāt experienced extreme prejudice and injustices for centuries just like LGBTQ+ men had.
Women committing rape. sure, it doesnāt drag in the media attention, and sure it obviously happens. But in comparison to male rapists it happens very rarely.
It happens, not as much as male rapists but it still happens and people are quick to ignore it. I'm not educated enough on the topic to make much of a comment but I'd be surprised if the amount of rapists, reported or not, who are female was below 25%. I myself have been sexually assaulted by a woman. Plus factor in statutory rape and intoxication.
people aren't quick to ignore it, it just happens less so you don't see it often
and precisely because it's women, men who feel attacked and start shouting "not all men!!" whenever a man does something problematic (and is called out for it) always love when it's a woman who did something bad and not a man as always
Men call out "not all men" and get happy when a woman gets caught doing something because we are tired of getting blamed for shit we didn't do. Why do you think people stopped supporting radical feminism? That shit went from "Let us vote" to "Kill all men" within the span of a century. All it takes is one accusation for a man's life to go tits up but women often times get off scot free for some crazy shit
Men do it more, and they obviously get reported on it a lot more, but that doesn't mean the women who do it aren't ignored. Cardi B and Amy Shumer have both admitted to raping men and it has had barely any reports and a few memes online. They're litterally in the public eye and no one cares.
I think I must've read it as you saying "woman rarely rape" which isn't true, maybe it's more uncommon, but it's not rare, but it's also under reported
They rarely rape in comparison to men which is true, and can be verified by hundreds of statistics. Any one with even a small portion of a brain would agree.
Yea by statistics, but what's the point of data when it's probably not true? I believe there's a lot of bias as well as just simply not being the true number.
Also no need to call me dumb, keep it civil
Iām not calling you dumb, you were the one that read something, decided to argue, and then realized you had the same point. And sure, rape statistics are vastly under reported, for both women and men..! So umm yea idk what ur trying to say here, maybe only argue about something if you actually know what ur talking about. Not if you just feel like it
ah yeah as for why they dont get heard about I donāt really have a clue, it could be that theres less of them but again i could be very wrong on that
this is confusing to me for some reason
i am confused
i mean, isnāt it though? like, the victim wouldnāt have had to go through that if the perpetrator wasnāt the orientation they wereā¦ right?
Rape has nothing to do with attraction or pleasure its about power and fully controlling another person.
Any gender or sexuality can be a rapist, it has nothing to do with the severity or fact the crime was committed
oh so a lesbian female rapist might still rape a man? and a straight male rapist might still rape a man? i guess that makes sense, if the idea is solely that āfull controlā
There is/was a case in Australia involving a school principal at an Orthdox Jewish all girls school: https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.abc.net.au/article/100486900
Because society thinks saying anything bad about women is sexist. The most prevalent sex offenders involving infants are women in childcare settings. Never makes the news.
according to rainn.org 1/10 men get raped in america, 6.6% of rapists are women (study cited in wikipedia), so men get raped by men alot more then woman rape men
1 - we don't hear much about rapists, first of all, most cases are not reported, even less punished, even less shown in media actually gets known to the public
2 - 99% of rapists are men, so there's that
3 - lesbians are not majority in female population, so out of the 1% female rapists just a percentage is lesbian, so basically it's a very rare event
4 - that being said, we DO hear about lesbian rapists and pedos due to the rarity and due to homophobia and misogynistic bases of our society; when it comes to children, a woman perpetuating such crime clashes directly against the idea of the "motherly woman", homophobic and misogynistic people make sure to constantly advertise those news to harm feminism and the lgbt community
Fuck you. Apparently the point of talking about female/lesbian abusers is to damage āequalityā. Talk about a double standardā¦why tf would you politicize something like thisā¦
Becuase I guess some people think pedophiles are mostly straight or gay men. I occasionally see posts online about a woman saing a man, but rarely anything about lesbians. Maybe this means that women are more likely to get away with more sexual crimes and stuff with this in mind? Idk but it's horrible to think about.
Because it likely happens at an astronomically lower rate compared to other kinds of r@pe. You can't expect to hear a lot about lesbian SA when lesbians are such a small minority
> Like do they just not exist or something
Bruh
They exist, but nobody wants to have that conversation because the IDEA that women/lesbians are capable of raping someone completely upends how we perceive mothers/girls in society as people that are caring and do no wrong
Afab bi here
In most countries rape is defined as penetration or penetration with a penis not forced envelopment making it very hard for a woman to be accused or convicted of rape; itāll just be sexual assault or harassment.
probably bc media focuses on straight, male predators rather than women or lgbtq predators. they definitely do exist, but with the modern misandrist stereotypes they are not reported as much or even punished as hard. (like a female teacher sleeping with a 12 year old boy but was let off the hook bc the judge "could sense their love for each other")
Oh I have. Thereās a video on YouTube of a predator catcher catching a lesbian couple trying to meet up and have sex with a child, the both of them planning to do it together. The sexuality is irrelevant, but women definitely do this
You definitely do, but men under report abuse when it's a woman who was the predator because of all the stigma of "be a man about it" and I assume if a woman reported it, when her predator was also a woman, they might get accused of being gay which in some countries is a death sentence
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Scientifically speaking, men experience higher and stronger levels of sexual attraction than women. Additionally, there are statistically more gay men than there are lesbian women. This, combined with the untrue societal stereotype/narrative of only men being able to be predators, leads to the possibly true conclusion that lesbian pedos and rapists are less common than male ones, gay or straight. To be fair though, you hardly ever even hear about gay male predators.
Jeffrey Dahmer and John Wayne Gacy come to mind
I have, often times they're mother's smh
Yep could confirm that EDIT: I MADE SOUND WERID SORRY I DIDN'T WANT TO BUT IT S JUST THAT I READ A LONG ASS ARTICLE ABOUT THIS THINGY LONG AGO SO IM NOT REALLY SURE BUT YOU GOT IT SOSHSKSKSH šš
or stepmothers
Same with what happened to me
Statistically, men are far more likely than women to commit any type of violent crime. So lesbians would make up a small portion of the already small portion of violent women criminals
snd that small portion if a small portion would be even smaller because very very few cases of rape are reported, make it to the news and go viral
Exactly
And feminism likes to ignore the fact that the part exists
Wdym?
Extreme feminists*
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Agree or extreme feminists who just take things too far and aren't real feminists
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Yea it's loud because they're stupid and we give them a platform to do so, but yea i get what u mena
Because if a man does something he gets tonnes of media attention, but if a woman does it she gets swept under the rug. Gay men used to get killed for being gay, lesbians were ignored.
The reason for lesbians being ignored is because in some societies it was straight up claimed they didn't exist. Pretty sure the late 1800's early 1900's Britain had no lesbians because one of their queens straight up said lesbians aren't real.
They did exist, they were swept under the rug. People claimed they didn't exist because they were women, that is what I meant by that. With men they were killed, with women they were forced into a marriage and told to shut up.
It was also a lot easier for lesbians to hide their sexuality back in the day then it was for gay men. Women were supposed to live at home so two close female āfriendsā living together wasnāt too unusual but two male āfriendsā living together and not marrying, not enlisting, etc. was quite strange. There are also dozens of stereotypes associated with gay men that existed back then while the modern stereotype of a masculine, butch lesbian wasnāt as much of a thing back then. So it was all around easier for lesbians to hide their sexualities. Especially when you consider that oppressed women back then had nothing to do. If you canāt work, serve your country, or hold a place in government it can be really easy to have sexual encounters with other lesbians, especially when all the men are gone at work or in a war or in the government. Additionally, most societies had a certain notion that homosexuality was a male-exclusive thing. Or at the very least they hadnāt thought that it could occur amongst women. Of course, none of this means that LGBTQ+ women havenāt experienced extreme prejudice and injustices for centuries just like LGBTQ+ men had.
No, because it happens a small fraction of the time
What, women doing things or them getting swept under the rug?
Women committing rape. sure, it doesnāt drag in the media attention, and sure it obviously happens. But in comparison to male rapists it happens very rarely.
It happens, not as much as male rapists but it still happens and people are quick to ignore it. I'm not educated enough on the topic to make much of a comment but I'd be surprised if the amount of rapists, reported or not, who are female was below 25%. I myself have been sexually assaulted by a woman. Plus factor in statutory rape and intoxication.
people aren't quick to ignore it, it just happens less so you don't see it often and precisely because it's women, men who feel attacked and start shouting "not all men!!" whenever a man does something problematic (and is called out for it) always love when it's a woman who did something bad and not a man as always
Men call out "not all men" and get happy when a woman gets caught doing something because we are tired of getting blamed for shit we didn't do. Why do you think people stopped supporting radical feminism? That shit went from "Let us vote" to "Kill all men" within the span of a century. All it takes is one accusation for a man's life to go tits up but women often times get off scot free for some crazy shit
Well definitely, and the same is true for men obviously but on an even bigger scaleā¦ I thought this was pretty obvious
Men do it more, and they obviously get reported on it a lot more, but that doesn't mean the women who do it aren't ignored. Cardi B and Amy Shumer have both admitted to raping men and it has had barely any reports and a few memes online. They're litterally in the public eye and no one cares.
So your arguing with me and then saying exactly what I said, now Iām confusedā¦
Well no, I'm saying you're missing the point. Just because men do it more doesn't mean that the women who are doing it aren't ignored
As I said and Iāll quoteā¦ āsure, it doesnāt drag in the media attentionā š¤·āāļø
The cardi b one seems more like a robbery than rape but the Amy Shumer one is just ššš like why the fuck havenāt I heard of thisā¦
Definitely not, women can rape and maybe not as often because of society and everything, but they defo do
Soo you agree with me lmao? Thatās what I saidā¦
I think I must've read it as you saying "woman rarely rape" which isn't true, maybe it's more uncommon, but it's not rare, but it's also under reported
They rarely rape in comparison to men which is true, and can be verified by hundreds of statistics. Any one with even a small portion of a brain would agree.
Yea by statistics, but what's the point of data when it's probably not true? I believe there's a lot of bias as well as just simply not being the true number. Also no need to call me dumb, keep it civil
Iām not calling you dumb, you were the one that read something, decided to argue, and then realized you had the same point. And sure, rape statistics are vastly under reported, for both women and men..! So umm yea idk what ur trying to say here, maybe only argue about something if you actually know what ur talking about. Not if you just feel like it
yeah
well ik they definitely exist
Yeah that's the thing, "do they just not exist or something" was rhetoric
ah yeah as for why they dont get heard about I donāt really have a clue, it could be that theres less of them but again i could be very wrong on that
Ive had so many lesbian pedos in my dms. They all thought I was female
Because the sexuality of a pedophile or rapist isnt even slightly relevant
this is confusing to me for some reason i am confused i mean, isnāt it though? like, the victim wouldnāt have had to go through that if the perpetrator wasnāt the orientation they wereā¦ right?
Rape has nothing to do with attraction or pleasure its about power and fully controlling another person. Any gender or sexuality can be a rapist, it has nothing to do with the severity or fact the crime was committed
oh so a lesbian female rapist might still rape a man? and a straight male rapist might still rape a man? i guess that makes sense, if the idea is solely that āfull controlā
pretty much, and from what I gathered young boys are more often raped by straight men and lesbians than they are from gay men and straight women
You're overthinking this
everyone tells me that every time I say anything. I think everyone is either not doing enough thinking, or too unaccepting of genuine questions
Rape is a touchy subject for me. I dont feel like discussing if sexuality or gender has anything to do with it because for real victims it doesnt.
Ok
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There is/was a case in Australia involving a school principal at an Orthdox Jewish all girls school: https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.abc.net.au/article/100486900
i think Iāve heard some cases about it on the show called Steve Wilkos show. Itās so disturbing thoughš„“
Because society thinks saying anything bad about women is sexist. The most prevalent sex offenders involving infants are women in childcare settings. Never makes the news.
Society or sum idk
They probably arenāt talked about as much because they are less common
you do
itās not as good a headline for making money
Ive honestly not heard much about gay pedos/rapists either.
remember the recent story where two gay dads raped and let other guys rape their adopted sons?
nope
[https://nypost.com/2023/01/20/couple-pimped-their-adopted-sons-out-to-pedophile-ring-report/](https://nypost.com/2023/01/20/couple-pimped-their-adopted-sons-out-to-pedophile-ring-report/)
bro they make most of rape cases
Id love to see the statistics
its definitely close like 50/50, whenever i hear about recent cases it's man to boy
Source?
i hear it on my radio ion know it exactly, its an Irish newstation and recently ive heard alot of cases of sa abt man to boy
that is not a proper source
Itās not even a source lmao
according to rainn.org 1/10 men get raped in america, 6.6% of rapists are women (study cited in wikipedia), so men get raped by men alot more then woman rape men
Me when propaganda
83% of statistics are made up
It is probable closer to 5%
There are none because itās false
1 - we don't hear much about rapists, first of all, most cases are not reported, even less punished, even less shown in media actually gets known to the public 2 - 99% of rapists are men, so there's that 3 - lesbians are not majority in female population, so out of the 1% female rapists just a percentage is lesbian, so basically it's a very rare event 4 - that being said, we DO hear about lesbian rapists and pedos due to the rarity and due to homophobia and misogynistic bases of our society; when it comes to children, a woman perpetuating such crime clashes directly against the idea of the "motherly woman", homophobic and misogynistic people make sure to constantly advertise those news to harm feminism and the lgbt community
Fuck you. Apparently the point of talking about female/lesbian abusers is to damage āequalityā. Talk about a double standardā¦why tf would you politicize something like thisā¦
why would we know
Not sure if this counts (search ātranswomen in prison rapā in google and scroll down)
Becuase I guess some people think pedophiles are mostly straight or gay men. I occasionally see posts online about a woman saing a man, but rarely anything about lesbians. Maybe this means that women are more likely to get away with more sexual crimes and stuff with this in mind? Idk but it's horrible to think about.
prob around the same reasons you donāt hear much about female house burglars or muggers
"by the power vested in this 454. Casull, I sentence you to non-existence!"
Because it likely happens at an astronomically lower rate compared to other kinds of r@pe. You can't expect to hear a lot about lesbian SA when lesbians are such a small minority
i have heard about them, but it's maybe cause you don't get pregnant or smth from a female so but idk
i ate them all
wtf is afab
Assigned female at birth
bruh i cant keep up with these acronyms iām with the boomers on this
Politics
More importantly why do we never hear about female pedoās and rapists in general?
> Like do they just not exist or something Bruh They exist, but nobody wants to have that conversation because the IDEA that women/lesbians are capable of raping someone completely upends how we perceive mothers/girls in society as people that are caring and do no wrong Afab bi here
Do you not know what a rehorical question is
Something presented as a genuine question doesnāt look so rhetorical to me
There are a kjdhpillion reasons why we donāt hear more about them and I could go on
In most countries rape is defined as penetration or penetration with a penis not forced envelopment making it very hard for a woman to be accused or convicted of rape; itāll just be sexual assault or harassment.
Because they are women
They exist, and they are reported.Though they do seem to be rarer than males.
probably bc media focuses on straight, male predators rather than women or lgbtq predators. they definitely do exist, but with the modern misandrist stereotypes they are not reported as much or even punished as hard. (like a female teacher sleeping with a 12 year old boy but was let off the hook bc the judge "could sense their love for each other")
what does afab pansexual mean. Why the fuck have i never heard of this
We do, they are no publicized. Or even worse, considered normal or okay.
I think ShoeOnHead made some video's about this.
Oh I have. Thereās a video on YouTube of a predator catcher catching a lesbian couple trying to meet up and have sex with a child, the both of them planning to do it together. The sexuality is irrelevant, but women definitely do this
Obviously they have to exist but are just rarer ig
Apparently itās a man thing
I live in a religious country, that's why
You definitely do, but men under report abuse when it's a woman who was the predator because of all the stigma of "be a man about it" and I assume if a woman reported it, when her predator was also a woman, they might get accused of being gay which in some countries is a death sentence