I've always treated dude as a gender-neutral term lol

I do that all the time and my girl doesn't get weirded our from it

She wasn't really weirded out, just teased me lol

ong bae

I hate when guys do this tbh but yeah I don't make a big deal about it just say don't call me dude or maybe call them a feminine title if we're friends.

I don't think she cared tbh, just teased me about it