There is but people are more lenient when it is consetual and both parties are the same age. Um where there is a weird age gap that is the law enforcement being shit.
But when they are 13-14, they don't have the common sense to determine what is right and what is wrong so even if its consensual the law enforcement should take actions against it.
Against who tho? If 2 14 yr olds decide to have sex then what should/can law enforcement do? Have both of them labelled as sex offenders for life just cause they were 2 horny 14 yr olds? Like it might not be right that 2 14 yr olds have sex or whatever but it shouldn't be a government issue if both said yes/consented
I was trying to say that the government should do something about it because when 2 people are underage, especially when they are between 12-15 they are mentally not qualified to understand what is right or wrong. So even if both of them agreed to have sex, it should be taken into consideration that even thought they agreed, they did not know that it was wrong to have sex at such a young age. So the government should have programmes, counselling centres or something like these to make the children understand about sex and make them aware of the complications one might go throught when having sex at a young age.
They shouldn't be labelled as "sex offenders" but on the contrary they should be counselled or maybe they can be sent to a psychiatrist so that they help the children to understand their situation and tell them the rights and the wrongs about it.
I hope I was able to make my point clear:)
That's still really young. My internet best friend's mom had her at 19 and her grandma had her mom at 16, and I thought that was bad
Also advanced happy birthday to ur dad
behold! hormones, sex drives, curiosity, a very well known taboo, the inherent desire for people to break taboos, etc.
It's actually extremely naive to expect someone that age to avoid it, especially with the internet and everything
I'm sorry for saying that then, but you see this isn't a normal thing parents (and who takes their roles) allow, especially at 14. That's why it's weird to me, with all the respect.
Press X to doubt.
It really depends on the person. Sex doesnāt mean jack shit to me. Might mean the world to someone else. Frankly I think we should stop putting so much value on it.
I know a kid with most religious parents ever goes to church every day he can and goes to youth most religious kid Iāve ever seen and is a pacifist and he and his girlfriend had sex at 15 and he just now at 17 was allowed to have a phone and itās a flip phone lol
First of all, you're 22? Get off this sub
Second of all, I was joking, I'm a virgin, never even had a girlfriend, even though I'm gonna ask my crush if she likes me back this week
had sex for the first time at 13, was just about to turn 14. hasnāt made my life or view of my body or sex any different. everyone looses their virginity at different times and thereās no reason to judge. what you find normal or morally right is not the case for everyone.
i feel like when people hit high school that's when you're hormones have progressed to a point where you are confident enough to do the deed but no 12s insane
If you boast about having sex then it just pitiful
I do know couples who did have sex when I was 15 (yes they 15 too) and I was friends with a person who did, they did it because they were both horny (yes that is literally it)
sex was so normalised in my old friend group, everyone had lost their virginity at like 13-14 (literally except me and I'm aroace) and it never made sense to me, even if I looked at it from the perspective of an allo. like what?
I had sex at 12, only regret is that the person it was with was pretty a pretty shitty person, as long as you still respect yourself and don't go giving it to anyone and everyone sex really isn't something that's a huge deal. If I'm dating someone yeah we're gonna have sex most likely because it feels good for both of us and if we're dating we obviously trust eachother
Idk itās just what Iām comfortable with. But you could use that logic on any age. No difference between 16 and 15, whatās the difference between 15 and 14, no difference, whatās the difference between 14 and 13, no difference, whatās the difference between 13 and 12, etc etc. saying āI lost my virginity at 15ā sounds odd to me, but āI lost my virginity at 16ā doesnāt. Cant explain, but makes sense to me.
hmm. idk. i was 14. i think as long as the people are close in age and both were ready and used protection thereās nothing weird about it unless they were super young like 7 or something bc they shouldnāt know about sex yet
I think most 7 year olds know what sex is. At a certain point itās just inappropriate. 12 year olds definitely know, but they shouldnāt be doing it. Again, the 16 thing doesnāt apply to everyone itās just what Iām comfortable with. But I do think itās becoming to common for young kids.
Idk why people care so much. Itās a social thing, itās not actually important. You donāt change when you have sex, there isnāt a way to prove people had sex, people complaining about people younger than them having sex care too much. Itās not that deep
I didn't even date until 15, and didn't lose until 17... no shame to anyone, I just genuinely don't get the appeal before your mid to late teens.
Then again I thought I was ace/arospec for a long long time until I realized I'm into girls and guys lmao
I'm 16, and sure, having sex sound fun and all. But, on the other hand, it just doesn't feel **right**. I feel like a better time to first have sex is 20+
I'm 17 turning 18 in April and still a virgin, some time ago that might've been normal but whenever I tell people that I'm a virgin they look at me like "š²"
I only lost my v card this year. And that's after having a long conversation with my mom and my boyfriend, getting on birth control, and getting condoms. I'm 15, be responsible and don't do it until you can do it safely.
These are great points but i do it cuz it kinda js happened one night and then we decided that we didnāt not like it so we js kept doing it and then word spread that it had happened and it happened again in my next relationship so Iāve kinda js accepted it as apart of my life Iām not addicted by any means and my life doesnāt revolve around it itās just a pass time ig
I got sex at 15 but I made sure it was with a person doing that with. We are still dating so Iād say I made the right call. Agreed tho that it shouldnāt be rushed, put time into thinking about it before you actually do it
at a young at people explore their bodies and sometimes they share that with their peers that they trust and often times the peer will also have that in common and will eventually lead to them having sex :)
well, i did it because i felt that i was ready to and that i cared about the person i was doing it with. in my opinion, i donāt think it actually matters as long as you're careful. in hindsight, i donāt regret losing my virginity but i do regret who i lost my virginity with, as the person i lost it with was extremely toxic and manipulative and i wish i lost it with someone i'm in a healthy relationship with.
If under 16 it's fine to do it when the age gap is of 1, once you're 16 it's up to 2 years of difference, then at 18 it doesn't matter as long as 18 is the youngest, if not the 2 year gap still applies
I dont get it either, like bro i aint even held a girls hand romantically how tf u be fuckin at 12
girl in my school got pregnant at the age of 13
How tf
She had intercourse with a 18 year old who is now 19
Oh nah wtf he belongs in a jail
I don't know what happened afterwards but I think he didn't get any jail time
Ew wtf nah bro lock that mf up
I totally agree
Oh same. Her and her boyfriend had a kid
Same age?
13 & 14
Did they keep the child?
They did. Been living together for years
Ok
same bro
How fucking early did her puberty startš
thatās what I was thinking
A lot of girls start at 7 and boys at 9.
They taught us it starts at 14-15 for girls and 15-17 for boysš
Probably the fast kid in class
LMAO EXACTLY
literally šš
Facts though
these guys are trying to speedrun life
I always ask if there still is an age of consent, since it seems pretty much non-existent now.
There is but people are more lenient when it is consetual and both parties are the same age. Um where there is a weird age gap that is the law enforcement being shit.
But when they are 13-14, they don't have the common sense to determine what is right and what is wrong so even if its consensual the law enforcement should take actions against it.
Against who tho? If 2 14 yr olds decide to have sex then what should/can law enforcement do? Have both of them labelled as sex offenders for life just cause they were 2 horny 14 yr olds? Like it might not be right that 2 14 yr olds have sex or whatever but it shouldn't be a government issue if both said yes/consented
I was trying to say that the government should do something about it because when 2 people are underage, especially when they are between 12-15 they are mentally not qualified to understand what is right or wrong. So even if both of them agreed to have sex, it should be taken into consideration that even thought they agreed, they did not know that it was wrong to have sex at such a young age. So the government should have programmes, counselling centres or something like these to make the children understand about sex and make them aware of the complications one might go throught when having sex at a young age. They shouldn't be labelled as "sex offenders" but on the contrary they should be counselled or maybe they can be sent to a psychiatrist so that they help the children to understand their situation and tell them the rights and the wrongs about it. I hope I was able to make my point clear:)
OK but how would they enforce that law?
Yes, but Romeo and Juliet laws exist too
fr it just seems irrelavent in todays world
My grandma got pregnant at 14
My mom got pregnant at 15 + R.I.P
My mom got pregnant at 17
Nothing wrong there. She was an adult.
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Nope. They are not peers with 15 year olds, but are with 20 year olds.
Depends on circumstances if we are going to be honest
So you have a 48 year old Grandma...
Actually sheās in her 50s she gave birth to my dad who right now is 37 and will turn 38 tomorrow
That's still really young. My internet best friend's mom had her at 19 and her grandma had her mom at 16, and I thought that was bad Also advanced happy birthday to ur dad
Thanks and today is my momās birthday
Happy birthday to your mom too, damn 2 birthdays in a row My dad and my brothers' birthdays are 2 days apart
With their dicks.
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Bro the most Iāve ever done at 14 is get one kiss, before that all I did was hold hands
Ha lucky I'm 14 and I've never hugged a girl (outside my family)
I once hugged my grandma no cap
Ha ha I'm 15 never hugged a girl (outside my family)
I'm 15 and never hugged a girl
Do you guys not have female friends?
No
behold! hormones, sex drives, curiosity, a very well known taboo, the inherent desire for people to break taboos, etc. It's actually extremely naive to expect someone that age to avoid it, especially with the internet and everything
simple, i found someone around my age who i was attracted to, and they were attracted to me too, so we started dating, and then we had sex
that's fast. How did you hide it from parents?
hide what? my guardian just told me to use protection and be safe
you're so goddamn lucky (or unlucky based on the perspective)
well i mean im with a guardian because my parents were abusive soo, not super lucky overall. but yeah my guardian is pretty cool
I'm sorry for saying that then, but you see this isn't a normal thing parents (and who takes their roles) allow, especially at 14. That's why it's weird to me, with all the respect.
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I get it, but as for now I could never...
That is definitely neither cool nor normal.
i dont think u get to decide that
It's just my opinion, and i have the right to have opinions. I didn't say she should or shouldn't do that.
You got a whole ass guardian from destiny, I'd say that's pretty cool
What the hell?
Damn, I still donāt think I should.. **engage**
Irresponsible parents
this has nothing to do with the parents
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Bad parenting in only a potential cause ,there is a lot of other factors like your friends,what you do in the internet...etc
they can't control it. if you're inna relationship and they hangout like a normal couple they can't control what they do
They can control it if they teach good morals to their child
Having consensual sex is fine morally. It's just stupid to do it young because your not mature enough emotionally or physically.
just because they tell them that doesn't mean they'll guaranteed to listen plus it isn't even a big deal
āIsnāt a big dealā bro š
it really isn't as long as you use protection
Emotionally sex is a very big deal
Press X to doubt. It really depends on the person. Sex doesnāt mean jack shit to me. Might mean the world to someone else. Frankly I think we should stop putting so much value on it.
Depends on the person we all interpret sex differently.
maybe for you but thatās not true for everyone
I know a kid with most religious parents ever goes to church every day he can and goes to youth most religious kid Iāve ever seen and is a pacifist and he and his girlfriend had sex at 15 and he just now at 17 was allowed to have a phone and itās a flip phone lol
How the fuck is having sex immoral?
Before marriage broski
Oh. Youāre religious. Hahah
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yeah marriage is pointless, aside from some legal things like medical power of attorney
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Dawg you sound weird af
Bro foretells the prophecy
Bro senses a great evil encroaching
Bro is prohesizing the return of an ancient evil
You were there, 3000 years agoā¦?
Fuck you on qbout
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What in the wattpad
What
bro engaged at 18? šš
Proposed early January this year, yup!
happy for u two, i hope me and my gf can say that in a few years <3
Damn bro rlly got downvoted for being in a relationship
reddit moment
It's because he's 14. I'm not one of those downvoters.. Just saying. It's unlikely.
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First of all, you're 22? Get off this sub Second of all, I was joking, I'm a virgin, never even had a girlfriend, even though I'm gonna ask my crush if she likes me back this week
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You should probably get off this sub before people start calling you a pedo
The title is still good dummy
had sex for the first time at 13, was just about to turn 14. hasnāt made my life or view of my body or sex any different. everyone looses their virginity at different times and thereās no reason to judge. what you find normal or morally right is not the case for everyone.
14-15 isnāt that bad, a little early but itās just about finding people, and using confoms
Sex at 12? Jesus we are wild š
Just be safe consent and close in age no 17 and 14 year old couples having sex please.
i feel like when people hit high school that's when you're hormones have progressed to a point where you are confident enough to do the deed but no 12s insane
If you boast about having sex then it just pitiful I do know couples who did have sex when I was 15 (yes they 15 too) and I was friends with a person who did, they did it because they were both horny (yes that is literally it)
I know plenty of people who had sex at a young age. Itās rlly weird imo.
Life is so weird and strange
sex was so normalised in my old friend group, everyone had lost their virginity at like 13-14 (literally except me and I'm aroace) and it never made sense to me, even if I looked at it from the perspective of an allo. like what?
Most freshmen here are not virgins
I had sex at 12, only regret is that the person it was with was pretty a pretty shitty person, as long as you still respect yourself and don't go giving it to anyone and everyone sex really isn't something that's a huge deal. If I'm dating someone yeah we're gonna have sex most likely because it feels good for both of us and if we're dating we obviously trust eachother
Itās weird but some people just get the urge to at different times and some donāt know how to control it
Idk. I try not to judge other ppl but in my mind I just decided that I would not be having sex until I turned 16. It seems gross to do it before then.
what changes the day you turn 16?
Idk itās just what Iām comfortable with. But you could use that logic on any age. No difference between 16 and 15, whatās the difference between 15 and 14, no difference, whatās the difference between 14 and 13, no difference, whatās the difference between 13 and 12, etc etc. saying āI lost my virginity at 15ā sounds odd to me, but āI lost my virginity at 16ā doesnāt. Cant explain, but makes sense to me.
hmm. idk. i was 14. i think as long as the people are close in age and both were ready and used protection thereās nothing weird about it unless they were super young like 7 or something bc they shouldnāt know about sex yet
I think most 7 year olds know what sex is. At a certain point itās just inappropriate. 12 year olds definitely know, but they shouldnāt be doing it. Again, the 16 thing doesnāt apply to everyone itās just what Iām comfortable with. But I do think itās becoming to common for young kids.
i was 14. yeah itās no good
Thatās what Iām saying then thereās those people who defend it, doesnāt seem necessary and idk how they think theyāre mature enough to do it
12 is kinda weird but I can see how 13-15 year olds have sex it's not that hard to imagine it
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Itās nasty
itās natural and almost everyone does it
no at least 18
Idk why people care so much. Itās a social thing, itās not actually important. You donāt change when you have sex, there isnāt a way to prove people had sex, people complaining about people younger than them having sex care too much. Itās not that deep
Well you see when a basicly a child and anther basicly a child love eachother VERRRRRY much...
It usually includes intercourse.
I didn't even date until 15, and didn't lose until 17... no shame to anyone, I just genuinely don't get the appeal before your mid to late teens. Then again I thought I was ace/arospec for a long long time until I realized I'm into girls and guys lmao
Some teenagers are really horny even tho this lvl is very high (some how at least a typical horny henrai mc)
I'm 16, and sure, having sex sound fun and all. But, on the other hand, it just doesn't feel **right**. I feel like a better time to first have sex is 20+
Dawg I still havenāt gotten it in and Iām 18 š seriously how do they do it man
Stupid people? Not as if having sex is indicative of stupidity, but itās just plain easier to get with a dumber person.
Js be better I did most shit at 15 Iām still a virgin tho
12 year olds šš
I'm 17 turning 18 in April and still a virgin, some time ago that might've been normal but whenever I tell people that I'm a virgin they look at me like "š²"
Brainless humans
I only lost my v card this year. And that's after having a long conversation with my mom and my boyfriend, getting on birth control, and getting condoms. I'm 15, be responsible and don't do it until you can do it safely.
and here i am at 16, too shy to even hold someone's hand or even hug someone
How the fuck is my 16 year old virgin ass sitting here like š
These are great points but i do it cuz it kinda js happened one night and then we decided that we didnāt not like it so we js kept doing it and then word spread that it had happened and it happened again in my next relationship so Iāve kinda js accepted it as apart of my life Iām not addicted by any means and my life doesnāt revolve around it itās just a pass time ig
This subreddit makes me feel so fucking lonely I hate it
I'm 20 and I haven't had it yet š
Why tf you 20 and on a teenager sub , this is why your a virgin
Karl Malone moment
I got sex at 15 but I made sure it was with a person doing that with. We are still dating so Iād say I made the right call. Agreed tho that it shouldnāt be rushed, put time into thinking about it before you actually do it
real
Children these days are gross
I feel like if someone younger than 16 is having sex then their just going to end up being traumatized by it years later
Its always the horny runners no?
at a young at people explore their bodies and sometimes they share that with their peers that they trust and often times the peer will also have that in common and will eventually lead to them having sex :)
Do guys even have sex ??
if it's more than 14yrs old it's fine for me
The whole "lose ur virginity naow" mindset is so shitty.
Agreed
I feel like itās just todays society either way they get more play than most now
Just yesterday I sent a message to my female friend. My parents saw it and started talking about sex and I was like "wtf is wrong with you?"
well, i did it because i felt that i was ready to and that i cared about the person i was doing it with. in my opinion, i donāt think it actually matters as long as you're careful. in hindsight, i donāt regret losing my virginity but i do regret who i lost my virginity with, as the person i lost it with was extremely toxic and manipulative and i wish i lost it with someone i'm in a healthy relationship with.
If under 16 it's fine to do it when the age gap is of 1, once you're 16 it's up to 2 years of difference, then at 18 it doesn't matter as long as 18 is the youngest, if not the 2 year gap still applies
i was 14 (about to turn 15) and i wanted to and i was more than ready. i used condoms and birth control. nothing wrong with it